0KNM:
Why should I stop chasing women when I’m not gay?

Any boy that lacks skills and self esteem to woo a woman always writes ten thousand reasons why women are trash or women don't worth chasing after. Some of them are broke ass gays.

What a loser?

0KNM:
Why should I stop chasing women when I’m not gay?

Obodo999:


You are right. Women can be useful for many things other than sex

Am yet to prove this or maybe I have been meeting the wrong people.

There's certain degree of truth to this write-up but it is not feasible in some cases.Some ladies are already in love with men even before men make advances towards them yet they keep pretending as if they are not while some are not,they want a case whereby men will prove that they really love them by giving them hot Chase.The more men chase after them the more they fall in love inwardly without showing it outwardly.Sometimes they show some green light and signs of acceptance but before you know it they switch it off again until they eventually give in to men's advances.So we cannot completely rule out chasing,it is the part of the game that makes it interesting.

Jordanbelfort07:


bro that's just the honest truth.
It's so unfortunate the kind of world we live in now.
If you don't have a mafia mindset, women will abuse your niceness to a fault

WORD!!!

OlawaleBammie:


Festus ko, Kayemo ni.


Oga mada Ori mi ru jare, wat are u typing?? pls express urself in a more comprehendible ways joo.

Never mind bro

Toks2008:


It's better than cutting her off...not all relationship must be a romantic one.

man, you do not need any kinda relationship with women...
It is always PARASITIC.

Their friendship, love, marriage, even friends with benefits ghan! PARASITIC!

Uncle tok many men are weaklings

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But some women play hard to get game which make them not to say YES on time even if they may still say yes.
How do one know those ones?
And what do one need to do in that case?

0taPiaPia:



Am yet to prove this or maybe I have been meeting the wrong people.

you are not wrong.
No need for further research. You have the answer already.

Women are to men, what remora is to sharks

Toks2008:


Bro make I try this last time...when you woo a lady and she tells you "let's be friends first" she is actually saying I like you but I want to know you more but there is a NO that suggests NO WAY...I NO DO..when faced with such just don't push it...if that is proving difficult in the lady's world then she needs to grow up.

You assume too much bro.... most women would tell you let's be friends FIRST (important word is 1st), if they don't know you OR if you are going too fast OR if she is unsure of what you are bringing to the table (attributes/characters etc) OR if your A game is lame and she is polite and don't want to simply tell you directly that:"you suck, you are lame and you ain't got no chance"

But most importantly, Wouldn't you then think that if a babe tells you "let's be friends 1st" then OBVIOUSLY you are doing something wrong.... because no woman has to tell you this, if you are seducing someone... and maybe just maybe, you simply didn't read the obvious signs.

When you meet someone then you guys get together and get to know one another....and you would NATURALLY either get closer to one another or get apart from one another. You just have to read her body language (as you wrote earlier) and you would understand whether to continue or GIVE UP (so she doesn't have to tell you to do so).

Now on the other hand, If the vibe is right and you guys discover one another passionately...then all the RIGHT signs would be there for you to continue thus some mutual desire for one another would surface then a bond will create and you will NATURALLY get attracted to one another in a physical level...next minute she is in your arms passionately kissing you.

SEDUCTION is all about showing your best attribute/character in order for someone to be attracted to you, and unless they are, you have no biz expecting to be with them.

LoveStreet:
simple psychology. scarcity creates value. don't be too available ,not only to females but to anyone at all. most humans are ungrateful and take the familiar for granted .
give yourself value by being disciplined and take care of yourself , keep yourself busy with your goals

This is so true. I wish I understood this earlier in life.

Guest007:
Women take time to warm up to a man... It's not chasing it's courting.

Women are slow cookers and men are microwaves. This means it takes a woman time to get comfortable and to observe the man, before choosing him and if you don't want to give them that time then...

If you run from every woman who doesn't jump at the chance of dating you then you're setting yourself up for...

Women are not like men and if this granddad knew anything about women and relationships then...

FP doesn't pay

I totally agree with this oh. Women need a wee more time to warm up to men, and once that transitional period is over, even the guy would be tired. You can't keep jumping from one girl to another girl now every month. Sometimes you need to understand what she's thinking, what mKes her tick etc

OlawaleBammie:


U dont get me, lemme explain wat am trying to say with examples.

Month of May this year i became single, dis gav me a mental block due to inability to bear the loss of my relationship, i just manage the situation with rough emotions and all, like two months later i saw another girl, which is almost replica of my ex in statue, reasoning, complexion, height and religiosity, i like her and notin more as of dat period, i dont knw how to love at first sight, infact its insane to me.

i moved closer to dis lady and only asked to b friend, we exchanged pleasantries and numbers, i would later call dis lady just to say hi and have little chat but i noticed dat of all move i took notin was reciprocated, ok, and me self i like myself, i would never ever burge ur with incessant calls and all, the highest i would do in a week is twice provided u re nt putting any efot, and d reason i would make two calls in a week is cus of d mentality dat lady would do lik a lady and need to b chased. ok

wat am i sayin sir, dis lady only remembered me weneva i called, if i dont call in a month she wouldnt bother to knw how am fairing, ok na.
I would call this lady and we would b talking on fone, a minute into the call she may tell me she want to atend to someone, fine, but etiquette demand u beep me bak wen u re tru at least to show ur intent of remaining in d friendship but she wouldnt call to tell u she's tru.

Dis kept happening for a month and some weeks sha, nobody told me to chill out jejely, in dis scenario u dont need any super pointer to knw ur magnitude and direction unless u re a scalar quantity.


in a more contrasting scenario, i saw this lady on my way from Benin to Lagos, after some hours of gluing my earpiece to my ears, i finally responded to her greetings and gesture, i swear i didn't even knw wen we exchanged numbers and we hav bn very good friends, tho no intention of dating her cus am afraid but at least she gave me the pointer if i ever wanted a more serious affair.

Bro that's different...you are talking about someone who is NOT interested in you and send you Negative signs from the get go.... there is a time when you have to accept defeat and back off.

Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out there that she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny preferences that attract them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them.

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

Subconsciously, I know this, I no dey waste my time where woman dey

her dream man with 16 packs would propose someday, let her keep waiting, who chases ladies these days? is she money? she gives you demeaning attitude, bro jappa, even delete the number sef, obirin yappa wey go even take you on vacation, this life is too sweet to be begging for attention of who you won't even gain anything from.

Very gross
But that use of "unconscious" requires sitting down and thinking over his statement

Toks2008:


Gross.

Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out there that she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny preferences that attract them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them.

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

men are chasing the bag and you are here dishing out advice on how to dig hoes. Guys like you end up playing husband role too early girls in their relationships.

Just hope they won't do what you just said now to your sister, niece, cousins or daughter

Jordanbelfort07:
the only way to enjoy a woman is to Bleep and dump her.
That way you won't have any regrets.
Cause unconsciously most women are just out to use you.

If u like write 80 books on that Boiz way go chase women go read am continue the chase anything for punna

Toks2008:


And he is not like one zealot mod i know wey im blood dey hot..make i no mention name cos e fit ban me for 100 years.

We all know who

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
carry your grantrtopic thread away from romance section to the dustbin section women are suppose to be chase by men.. is it chicken you want to chase? or are you gay?

The guy is right how il a man keep chasing a woman and she il even end up not being his or he might end up regretting that he had a relationship with the lady cus she il always rub in his face that he was the one chasing her. Now some women il tell u that when a woman says no, it means no. So you should a man kill himself going through the trouble of chasing her? A woman knows what she wants, if she wants to ve a relationship with him then she knows what to say or do.

Bleep Nigerian girls and keep chasing the bag. Only a very few are still good. Don't toast or woo any girl. If you see a girl you like just tell her and let her know you just wanna fucck. Don't play the role of husband too early in your youthful life or mere fuckerelationship or hoeinship. I am about to pay for a cup of coffee for a girl sitting next to me and ask her if we can bleep. I phone 11 is out. Be wise ma brothers.

Chase a woman
That's kiddies stuff ala Secondary School and year 1 boys tinz
Mke your bar,relax and watch them chase you..then choose the most sensible outta them and again this is key...relax

MrBrownJay1:


Bro that's different...you are talking about someone who is NOT interested in you and send you Negative signs from the get go.... there is a time when you have to accept defeat and back off.

And wat is d assurance dat if i choose to kill myself der, chase her for three years, buys all d sophisticated items in dis world for her she wont agree later on?? but inside of me i knw dat her agreement to date me is nt intentional and free will, rather its mere presure of which she crumbled under. and wen she's done with me....VOOOOM..

I knw sum guys wil be shouting who dey chase girls but they wil stil cum here and start posting.....i create dis act 2 hide my indentity, am popular on dis forum, it started 2 years ago, there is this girl blah blah blah

ashewoboy:
nice guys eats the remnants of pvssies. bad guys eats the pvssy when it is at its freshest.

e nor pass like that.........

Toks2008:


And he is not like one zealot mod i know wey im blood dey hot..make i no mention name cos e fit ban me for 100 years.

. Abeg o

womenareapes:
chasing a NAIJA WOMEN is like chasing a monkey in a tree!

When you catch that monkey, (naija women) the monkey will bite you or even injured you!

Never you chasing women, there are foolish set of creature who think of nothing but to manipulate you!

lwkmddd

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
so you tryna say that 0knm should chase you instead of coming back to type? bro are you gay?

Disgusting.