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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by soberdrunk(m): 10:52am On Sep 27, 2019
angry
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by THUNDER4real(m): 10:52am On Sep 27, 2019
tell her to dress with hijab overall...let only the eyes be the only opening.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by hopevalley: 10:52am On Sep 27, 2019
The bottom line is that she does not love the person toasting her in that office possibly, because the guy is not rich. Let me ask you, will she even wait for someone like Flavour to harass her before trying to seduce him? Forget about ladies and their pranks. We know them very well. Click on the link on my signature to master how to make a staggering amount of money from export business.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by anonymuz(m): 10:52am On Sep 27, 2019
J111333:
Believe me, customer related sexual advance(I don't wanna use abuse) only affect weak ladies. If your friend is a no nonsense lady, no man will dare make sure silly pass on her except a situation where her job is on the line like bankers and their high profile deposit customers.

Tell your friend to be decisive and professional in her job.
i tell you, probably she has a has this look like an olosho

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by deco22(m): 10:52am On Sep 27, 2019
brodalikeme:
She should get married or quit the job. At the meantime she should stop being emotionally available for the customers or colleagues.

I like Kate Henshaw very very well, but I couldnt jump and start kissing her when she walk pass me at the airport even when we waved and smiled at each other.
Get married or quit the job, those are your two solutions? She is the one getting harassed yet she should be the one to quit, it's sad the way the world thinks.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Judybash93(m): 10:54am On Sep 27, 2019
Jokerman:
She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it

And how did you come to your egregious conclusion?

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Nobody: 10:55am On Sep 27, 2019
Jokerman:
She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it
Delusion

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Obascoetubi: 10:56am On Sep 27, 2019
apexJ:
i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error
WETIN CONCERN
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 10:56am On Sep 27, 2019
Tina26:
quit the job. 90% of married men have sexual relations with their junior colleagues. i experienced same in a bank. the contract staff used to give in freely to the managers. nonsense
90% ? Haba!
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by lizdammy: 10:57am On Sep 27, 2019
So true, you will be addressed by the way you dress. Simple.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Nobody: 10:57am On Sep 27, 2019
You go wear bumpshot and expect no sexual harassment. Abeg next topic
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Nobody: 10:59am On Sep 27, 2019
VeeVeeMyLuv:

90% ? Haba!
there is no nigerian single lady without at least 2 married toaster/lover. even the ugly ones

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Ceejayink: 10:59am On Sep 27, 2019
apexJ:
i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error
first of all.. Has she reported to anyone??
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Noblefreeman(m): 11:01am On Sep 27, 2019
from experience, if a lady calls you on the phone crying that someone tried molesting her, the person has actually molested her.


She has been raped. Its too bad the police will ask her why she went there to meet him and forget that rape is a crime.

Na so we see this our Nigeria.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by alphaNomega: 11:01am On Sep 27, 2019
simple250:
Tell her to dress properly..

These SARS people have come again angry

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Jayslicky: 11:01am On Sep 27, 2019
Abeg make your female friend go rest, men get harrassed everyday but we don't shout like mad dogs, when a man is in a bus and a woman keeps pressing her breast on his back what is that called if not sexual harrassment? When a woman and a man are discussing and she is always bending her chest down so the man can see her breast the more, what is that if not sexual harrassment? When a woman hits a guy's chest, what is that if not sexual harrassment?

If your friend knows she can't cope then she should resign, very simple.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by alphaNomega: 11:02am On Sep 27, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
She should stop dressing like a hoe( sexual provocative dresses)

You too? I'm disappointed. Seriously, why do people assume the woman's dress is a problem when it comes to sexual harassment? Grow up!

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Ceejayink: 11:03am On Sep 27, 2019
lizdammy:
So true, you will be addressed by the way you dress. Simple.
guy dont talk like u don't know what's happening... Some men will still make advances at a lady fully covered in a coverall with a helmet on.... Sometimes it's not about how the lady dresses.. Its about the terrible behaviour the guy has.. Some men don't allow anything on skirt pass them by..

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by tonyhoney: 11:03am On Sep 27, 2019
Your friend or YOU grin grin grin

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Starz825(m): 11:04am On Sep 27, 2019
Did u know sometimes...I feel being too pretty, heavily endowed or handsome na wahala/trouble/headache than fun ooo...
Because u need to go through alot emotionally and psychologically esp if u want keep ur body...

And if u want to useless ur body because men admire ur face and figure..u are also prone to alot... disease, body odor..destiny Killers, .. ritualist, heartbreaks

So I tell you in life it's either the pain of discipline or a pain of regret....

If u want to keep your body u definitely get a pain of discipline....that's what the lady is going through now.....
And if she decides to fall to pressure...she is Definitely going to feel the pain of regret with time

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by macanthony25(m): 11:04am On Sep 27, 2019
apexJ:
i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error


she didn't tell you the whole gist bro. she gave them that impression. when the whole thing started she didn't manage it well.
Let her tie all the lose ends and have peace.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Lexusgs430: 11:04am On Sep 27, 2019
apexJ:
i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error


How close is this friend to you? What i am trying to ask is.......

Are you sexually involved with her?

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Valcanorayo(m): 11:06am On Sep 27, 2019
There is nothing wrong with that
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Starz825(m): 11:07am On Sep 27, 2019
Jokerman:
She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it
Not all ladies are useless

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by alphaNomega: 11:08am On Sep 27, 2019
ApexJ

There is nothing you can do about this except encouraging her to keep warding off the unwanted attention. She will find a way to sort it out.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Ginaz(f): 11:08am On Sep 27, 2019
She relates too much with the said men cos I don’t see how it is possible for that man to wanna kiss her if she have not been feeling too free in his presence.

Tell her to work on her character. She looks like the type that chats too much, laugh here and there and makes unnecessary friendship.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by rabiudon: 11:10am On Sep 27, 2019
Let's see her pishure
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by tintingz(m): 11:11am On Sep 27, 2019
ikaboy:
The way you dress is how you are address... Make she de de wear provocative dresses and opening teeth upandan.


Nothing de sweet me like a lady that knows her worth

As someone attending to customers you must smile and dress well.

Even if she dress corporate, some men will still make sexual advancement.

Go and ask bank marketers.

She has two options, quite the job or act professional.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by godofuck231: 11:11am On Sep 27, 2019
brodalikeme:
She should get married or quit the job. At the meantime she should stop being emotionally available for the customers or colleagues.

I like Kate Henshaw very very well, but I couldnt jump and start kissing her when she walk pass me at the airport even when we waved and smiled at each other.
so you knew the solution and you didn't help her earlier, very correct
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by africandollar: 11:11am On Sep 27, 2019
skultrick:
Your girlfriend you mean.

Anyway, this the world we live in where women are meant to be chased, I won't be chasing a guy since am not gay.

As for your girlfriend, the probability is 9/10 that she'll eventually get laid, that's if she hasn't already.

1. Your best bet is, she finds another job that limits too personal interaction with the male folks.

2. You put a ring on that finger. Although, that won't stop her from being sexually harassed, afterall married women get bleeped too. But it'll reduce the frequency significantly.

Just have it at the back of your mind, women will be chased, and the probability is very high that your wife, girlfriend will get bleeped.

So also are the male folks, we're just a downward 1/3 of the world population, who will then oil the engine of the billions of women who make up about 2/3 of the world's population.

Man must be shared, if you choose not to share, others will share, so that peace can rain in the world.

The reality is in front of you.

Where did you get this your nonsense statistics from?!

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by tintingz(m): 11:11am On Sep 27, 2019
Ginaz:
She relates too much with the said men cos I don’t see how it is possible for that man to wanna kiss her if she have not been feeling too free in his presence.

Tell her to work on her character. She looks like the type that chats too much, laugh here and there and makes unnecessary friendship.

What's customer relations?

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