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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by airminem(f): 3:16pm On Oct 07, 2019
We hardly give a fvck about your truth
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by BarrElChapo(m): 3:19pm On Oct 07, 2019
Haaaa Oluwa shocked shocked this your mouth hei cheesy
Colonelswitz101:

Funbact A done wipe the bobi thinking say na pimples
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by dave4rella(m): 3:19pm On Oct 07, 2019
Pharaoh4rin:


Thanks.
I once confessed to a new girl I gat, that d breakup I had before I found her was my fault; that I cheated on d said girl couple of times and when she found out, it was a red card. The new girl asked if there was no 2nd chance and I said I messed d whole chances up. Do u know that it was d turned point? My raw honesty was what won d new girl for me. She told me that that means I've learnt my lesson. She is a daughter of a strong politician, though they relocated to U.S when this administration came in.

grin
So that was how you lost her?
You're not a sharp guy, you would have gotten her pregnant and you will be brushed up and forced to marry her

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by tunary(m): 3:21pm On Oct 07, 2019
So what are the things a girl must never tell her boyfriend?

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Darevofpeace(m): 3:21pm On Oct 07, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
So many insecure people in this world...why pretending?! Be fully honest with your woman, ALL THE TIME...



If your family doesn't like her then there is nothing wrong with it....they must have a genuine reason and that's OK...you cannot force others to like your wifey, but you certainly shouldn't pretend they love her either. Tell her exactly why they feel this way, and most importantly, how their views won't change ONE BIT how you feel about her.


So that she can get more fat?
So that you can lie to her that she doesn't look fat in her dresses?!?!
Be honest with your woman ALL THE TIME, so that she can do something about it. If she is indeed getting fat then never lie to her about it because guess what? She probably already know about it herself.



If her best is not good enough then you should encourage her to try harder or do better... and certainly not celebrate her for her mediocre action.
This is your other half and you shouldn't be afraid to be FULLY HONEST with her, without being afraid to hurt her feelings. She knows that you only want the best for your family.



If you can't be FULLY HONEST with this woman about any of your past that can affect her in anyway whatsoever, then you have NO business being married to this woman.



How can a football match be more important that your woman?! Get real now... but as much as a football match can never be more important than your woman/Family...if wifey wants you to go shopping with her while there is the champions league final or important WC matches, then I am sorry but shopping will have to wait.


You are the real MVP.

Your diplomatic tactics are on point.

You are a day walker(wesley snipes)

You are so real with every issues of life.

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by enshi(m): 3:24pm On Oct 07, 2019
missjo:

Thank you dear, yoga does a lot for me.

I love fitness.. Can we chat . I already DM
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by King44(m): 3:24pm On Oct 07, 2019
meetmeonline:

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You did very best move, you have a million in one pair of balls!...When you hammer, please do not be humble, wave the cash on her face and propose to her even if you want to, but jilt her!...Don't mind Africa Magic people, no swear ever works from a mugu than followed a bait.
He could even play her a bit like you said date her again, let her sense of entitlement grow higher, give her all the fake love you can give, promise her marriage even give her fake engagement ring then when you are ready to marry that lady you value remind her what she did, then jilt her and ensure she never crosses your part again, if she wan die make she die na she kill herself nor be you

seriously I hate when one is in a relationship n ones girl doesn't appreciate ones effort funny enough those girls are leaches and don't have anything going on for them but they would be ready to call a guy broke

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by drezzyx(m): 3:24pm On Oct 07, 2019
enshi:


If that dp is really you... You've got a magic body.. That is how a woman should be structured.. Keep keeping fit baby doll
U JUST SAID MY MIND I LOVE LADIES WITH CUP -SIZED BOOBS NOT ALL DIS ONE WITH ONE BIG BALLOON D OR SIZE THAT WILL BE IRRITATING .

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by meetmeonline: 3:28pm On Oct 07, 2019
King44:
He could even play her a bit like you said date her again, let her sense of entitlement grow higher, give her all the fake love you can give, promise her marriage even give her fake engagement ring then when you are ready to marry that lady you value remind her what she did, then jilt her and ensure she never crosses your part again, if she wan die make she die na she kill herself nor be you

seriously I hate when one is in a relationship n ones girl doesn't appreciate ones effort funny enough those girls are leaches and don't have anything going on for them but they would be ready to call a guy broke
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Khai! . . .Yia wicked no be small!. grin grin grin

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by sammyonal: 3:30pm On Oct 07, 2019
airminem:
We hardly give a fvck about your truth
thats why we will continue to lie to u gals and bleep y'all no matter what, its our work oooooo
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by ejimsis: 3:30pm On Oct 07, 2019
why wont i tell her about the bad things i have done? that will also prove if she truly loves u no matter ur past
u tried but some points are funny tho
it doesnt work in all relationships
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by enshi(m): 3:30pm On Oct 07, 2019
drezzyx:
U JUST SAID MY MIND I LOVE LADIES WITH CUP -SIZED BOOBS NOT ALL DIS ONE WITH ONE BIG BALLOON D OR SIZE THAT WILL BE IRRITATING .

You have s sense of fashion .. Ladies don't know that cup size is the bomb.. How many miss world or real models have heavy boobs.. Cup size rarely falls even after child birth

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Colb461: 3:31pm On Oct 07, 2019
Hope u guys are still together...
Pharaoh4rin:


Thanks.
I once confessed to a new girl I gat, that d breakup I had before I found her was my fault; that I cheated on d said girl couple of times and when she found out, it was a red card. The new girl asked if there was no 2nd chance and I said I messed d whole chances up. Do u know that it was d turned point? My raw honesty was what won d new girl for me. She told me that that means I've learnt my lesson. She is a daughter of a strong politician, though they relocated to U.S when this administration came in.

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by MusaDanladi1: 3:33pm On Oct 07, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes. But people keep telling me bad stuffs they've done in the past. Don't know if they see me as a therapist
You might have the skills or qualities of a therapist but you haven't fully harnessed that potential of your life yet cos this is not the first time you made this comment grin
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by bizhop01: 3:33pm On Oct 07, 2019
Good for fake relationship's
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by King44(m): 3:34pm On Oct 07, 2019
missjo:
Lol,you some of you are so serious.
My papa bear has told me some of those things while we were in a playful moment. Sometimes,not even when i am in a good mood but the way he says it jokingly makes me tease him with something similar in return.

I take exception to his mother jokes and his ex jokes tho, those ones are a NO GO, don't even tell me none of them playfully angry
if that is you on you dp you have one of the nicest shapes ones gf/wifey should have keep it up

n for guy screaming where is your boobs? if you are not pleased go and hang yourselves
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by saintkeppy(m): 3:34pm On Oct 07, 2019
drezzyx:
U JUST SAID MY MIND I LOVE LADIES WITH CUP -SIZED BOOBS NOT ALL DIS ONE WITH ONE BIG BALLOON D OR SIZE THAT WILL BE IRRITATING .
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Like this one?

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by MusaDanladi1: 3:36pm On Oct 07, 2019
Colonelswitz101:

Funbact A done wipe the bobi thinking say na pimples
Guy why are you wicked in this life like this na grin grin

Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Wealthoptulent(m): 3:36pm On Oct 07, 2019
Fejos:
where are your boobs? @dp

Another crossdresser spotted

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by meetmeonline: 3:36pm On Oct 07, 2019
...and the very first time I accept all points of a post of this nature. Some too strong, while some may be weak or a little insignificant on some girls that take live easy. Like my woman, telling her she's getting fat is your own problem, especially if she wants to eat suya that night... grin...She doesn't care about her statistics to me (but dresses well and so clean) and says she loves herself no matter the picture anyone (me) sees and she acts just that way.

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by SIMEONMPEE(m): 3:38pm On Oct 07, 2019
A big lesson for those that want to learn ...becus some will still Bleep up after reading this .


Someone here may need the info on my signature, kindly check it out...
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Divit(m): 3:39pm On Oct 07, 2019
unitee2011:
To be in loved with a girl and start a relationship is a wonderful thing. Long term relationships are usually based on love, trust and honesty. Even if honesty is very important in a relationship, sometimes may be hurtful. There are some things you shouldn’t tell your partner because it may hurt her or make her change the opinion about you.

Even if you love her very much and you are getting close, these things can affect your relationship and should be kept in secret. Sometimes you can best show her your love by keeping your mouth shut. So, before you start telling her somethings, you should look at these things that may destroy your relationship.

Never tell her if your family doesn’t like her
Even if your family dislike her, it is better to not tell her because she will get angry and insecure. This will create future problems and tension between her and your family. If you truly love her, all you can do is to let your family know that she is the one you have chosen, and they have to respect your decision. Try to make them change their minds about her.

Never tell her she is getting fat
Even if this is true, please don’t tell her this. It will make her feel very bad and she will think that you don’t like her anymore. Think about how she would feel, and you can say: ” honey, let try to lose a little weight ”. Let her decide when is the time to lose weight because she will do it without you hurting her.

Don’t criticize her when she is trying to do her best
This is the worst thing you can do. If she sees that she is trying hard to do the things fine and you begin criticizing her, she would feel disappointed that you don’t know to appreciate her for the fact that she is trying her best. So, you should get over it, and you can help her in doing that job. Maybe next time she’ll be doing better.

Don’t tell her how your mother would have done things
I know that for men their mothers always represent a model in life, but we must admit that all the families are different. So, we have been raised by different kinds of parents and in different ways of life. Everyone is taught to do things in their ways and that’s why you can’t ask your girlfriend to do things or to live like your mother. A woman can have her views and opinions, and all you can do about this is to tell her stories about how you were raised and how things have been done in your family. You should adapt at this new way of life, without comparing her with your mom.

Don’t remind her about your ex in a special moment
Never ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with the ones you have done with your ex, don’t remind her that. It is a hurtful thing for her to see that you are still thinking about the other.

Don’t tell her some bad things you have done in the past
If she doesn’t find out already, you better keep your mouth shut; it is in your favor. If you tell her that you have cheated your past girlfriends, for example, she will have a totally bad opinion about you, and fell disappointed. So, these things you shouldn’t disclose.

Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her.
Even if is an important game, don’t tell her to let you alone in that moment because you are busy and don’t have time for her. You better smile and pretend that you are listening to her too and try to catch the key words. She might ask you one or two things to test you.

Don’t ask her to relax when she is very angry
When she is very upset, scared, or very angry the worst thing you can do is to ask her to relax. This will make her angrier because she will think that you don’t take her serious. If you upset her by doing some bad things, and you just tell her to relax, she will fell that you are denying that there is a reason to be upset.
Don’t tell her that you are insecure

In a relationship or dating woman is looking after a strong and confident man. So, if you are insecure, or you are jealous on her because, for example, she has a better salary than yours, you have to keep this aspect just for yourself.

Don’t declare your love during a fight
The words ‘‘I love you ‘‘mean a lot for a woman that’s why it should be said at the right moment. But most of guys say this during a fight. She doesn’t believe a word in what you say because she considers that if you really loved her you wouldn’t upset her. You may say you love her but only after your fight is over.

Do not tell her that you like her girlfriend[b][/b]
Maybe one of her girlfriends is very beautiful and you like her so much, please your partner shouldn’t find out this. If you say that her best friends look very good and you like her, she will feel hurt, angry and will never trust you around her friends. So, keep it to yourself.

If you want to have a long and strong relationship you shouldn’t permit or say some things that can destroy it to your partner. Don’t be completely honest about the things which should not be told.

https://daybydaylifelessons.com/10-things-you-should-never-tell-your-partner/

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by EZENDIZUOGU(m): 3:43pm On Oct 07, 2019
[b]Don’t tell her some bad things you have done in the past[/b]

this depends on ur partiner understand about life,some will preffer you let them know than finding out from an outsider .

though at times they may likly use it against you in the future more ecpecially when there is misunderstanding but its better to open up in the biggining unless you are ready to defend yourself in the future because the question why didnt you tell me will always come up.

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by bizhop01: 3:48pm On Oct 07, 2019
Don't tell her that her vagina is too wide
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Nobody: 3:50pm On Oct 07, 2019
MusaDanladi1:

You might have the skills or qualities of a therapist but you haven't fully harnessed that potential of your life yet cos this is not the first time you made this comment grin
I don't want it
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by khalids: 3:57pm On Oct 07, 2019
I'm sure na woman or one woman wrapper compile this nonsense........Women should get a life jooo.........Guys no get time for their nonsense...make dem waka pass........

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Dagger111(m): 3:58pm On Oct 07, 2019
Fejos:
where are your boobs? @dp

They yaff been killed in South Africa Xenophobic attack. Na pimples remain there.

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Dagger111(m): 4:01pm On Oct 07, 2019
Divit:


Nice write up OP.
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You may visit this link to see your article. smiley


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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by abbey621(m): 4:03pm On Oct 07, 2019
Listen to this advice at your own peril. If you are dating someone or married and you feel there's a need to tippy toe around the relationship then be prepared for cardiac arrest when your relationship/marriage hits a rough patch. People who give advice such as never do this, never do that keep forgetting one simple fundamental clause, every person is DIFFERENT! Relationship/marriage advice is not a one size fits all kind of thing, each one should be treated according to its circumstance!
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by mayorofyentown(m): 4:03pm On Oct 07, 2019
i see thats nice sha
Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by MusaDanladi1: 4:08pm On Oct 07, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I don't want it

Lol! Ok o! It's not fight abeg.

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Re: Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend Or Wife by Magnoliaa(f): 4:08pm On Oct 07, 2019
Pharaoh4rin:
Is it wise to tell how u broke up with ur ex?
Just like in a job interview where you'd be asked why u quit ur last job...


It is, to me.

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