Anthos:

and you as a lady ..you don't deserve to work?....stupid humans ...go to US ,Canada your mates are working its only in Nigeria you will find one broiler with this stupid mentality you spewed here

Yea that’s why you created a whole thread to call me out, when I didn’t respond, you quoted a comment I made since June. I responded, and we both agreed to disagree. On the same thread you made another dig, I called you out. Anytime feminism is mentioned you reference our discussion and twist what I said.

Example of you twisting what I said; please quote here where I made that statement. So saying people should do what they want to do in their personal lives without shame is holding on to a stereotype?!! Where did I say men are to be financially responsible for ladies?

Jeez, I didn’t think I had to explain what a personal choice is, a choice you make that only affects you. Obviously in your examples each of those choices affects/limits/obstructs another individual’s liberty.

I never said stereotype and choice was synonymous. I have said this ad nauseum, and I hope this time around you finally get it and stop twisting my words. No gender should have a pre-defined role of the responsibility of footing bills, so men and women should not be shamed if/when they decide on which financial role they take in a relationship. E.G a man should not be shamed if he is financially dependent in a relationship.

I will when you stop harassing me for a comment I made since June!

DenreleDave:
As in ehn, I don't understand. You as a lady, u r broke, you no get job, your papa and mama still dey feed you. And you think you have the right to insult a broke guy that is still hustling or a guy that is as jobless as you.
I don't get, why should a broke girl insult a broke guy?
Why should an utterly useless jobless girl insult an utterly useless guy like her?

Na only man suppose work ni, aren't woman supposed to be hardworking too? Or are they waiting that a guy go hustle and come back, open her pussy for him and he drops money, that's all.

This thing they baffles me oooo,
Guys wetin una think for this matter
Ladies nko, is it fair?

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Smallboy01:


I'm not broke, but if I'm broke that shouldn't give u some much audacity to bash guys, whereas broke girls are the ones who end up being the sluts and whores on the street, using their body to fetch money with absolutely zero dignity, broke guys have the clear chance of getting freed, but I can can't say of the girls who have been drilled beneath their pucci and have been Involve in several abortions.
No lady shouldn't call any guy broke ass cos many are hustling out there and the broke girls are getting laid by the so called rich big boys .. U See the difference?.

#TeamVirgin
#Team Caucasian

Eww I hate 9ja girls! Tueh!

Smallboy01:


When she bashed the broke guys u didn't come out to protest, but when we insult her looks, y'all crawl out your caves to protest.

Michellekabod2:


you don't need to, save the explanation for yourself. A choice is a choice! Whoever have options,have choice as long off course it doesn't trample on others. An employer in a private company has the right to chose to make pay for a male worker higher,it's based on contract,...when ladies are at the losing end you define choices different from the way you will define choices when they are at the gaining end. If I chose to pay my workers 100k and for reasons known to me I make male 110k,you will not agree it's a good choice but if I choose to give only ladies two hours off their duty per week, you will applaud my choice!

funmisticqueen:
Did you read logobenz's replies? And those of some other people. If your reply to that comment is to attack my looks, then yes it must mean that the comment stung somewhere.

Michellekabod2:
you that was bashing non virgins,and now they bash broke guys you are pained

liberalchick:


It’s either you’ve not been paying attention or you’re being ignorant on purpose. I am actually a one trick pony on this forum when it comes to feminism lol my main issue has always been protecting the individual choice, I talk about it all the time. My definition of “choice” has always been the same it hasn’t changed. In a civil society, a “choice” that affects another the ability to choose will never stand. In your examples; a father that refuses to send a girl child to school has obstructed the child’s individual civil liberty; a right to education. The boss has impeded the female’s right to a fair wage. (You can switch the sexes, still applies)

We’ve been on this since June across three threads, I am not doing this with you again, of course you’re free to continue your shade, it’s your right. I just think it’s silly for two women that agree most of the time to be going back and forth about a nuanced view on feminism on a thread that another woman is being attacked for her looks.

What two grown consenting adults decide and chose how they handle finances in their relationship, doesn’t affect me or you.

McEphiks:



I care less about his comment. In fact, I still haven't read any meaningful comment on the asked question. Everyone, both male and female have decided to deviate from the question, and air their views on being a feminist or alpha male.

The plausible question "Why do broke and jobless ladies insult broke and jobless guys?" has been made implausible as a result of frustration towards the opposite sex.

As much as I'm concern if you're jobless, just shut the f#ck up and work. If you're doing averagely better too shut the bleep up and focus. No one has the right to call people names.

Smallboy01:

Hey, I didn't bash any non virgin girl, expect you that provoked me and I decided to unleash my aggression on you, Moreover you're a disgusting feminist. Eww

Michellekabod2:

I don't see the need for the last paragraph because we agree on that.

Like seriously I had a good laugh when reading your first paragraph, is being sponsored to the university by your parent a right or privilege?lol.. my chest.
I do personally believe we have more things in common than our differences,we should utilise what we have in common than our differences....
We ought to unite against the cyber bullying and shaming on ladies on this forum

Too bad you are continents away if not I will really like to discuss what we share in common over coffee...

Let's agree to disagree, have your day as intended sis

Michellekabod2:
why do you lie? Chai




Gals will keep going for the rich dudes whilst broke ones like you will be ignored,hit your head on a tree

liberalchick:


You see why I say you like to state what I didn’t say? In most civilized societies a child has a right to education and it’s actually punishable. A child doesn’t attend a university. Obviously as an adult your parent doesn’t owe you sh!t.

Smallboy01:


So those girls that marry carpenter, shoe maker, tanker driver and co they have two heads abi? It's only on social media girls blab and brag, in my street, I get girls anytime not only me, there are many girls those who will go the rich, those who will go for the middle class and those who will go for the poor, Now stick that into your skull.

Michellekabod2:
that's it ,the example I stated was not just education but university education....

Anyway that aside,as you said we can't be debating feminism when a lady is shamed for her looks.. .

As regards to the bullying on this section,this is worrisome to me,I have tried calling guys to order and they talk of freedom of speech and that if we don't like here,we should exist the forum...the internet ain't safe for ladies anymore...about a week ago they slut shammed a gal that she deactivated her account...
How active are the moderators here?

Pettyprincess:

Lol laughing in Spanish 100k?
Money sent for my passport alone is more than 100k, not to talk of other expenses attached to travelling!!!
At least i know my bf is not broke
Can you spend more than 500k on your girl without demanding anything in return?thats what i refer to as real man!!! Not this one wailing on nairaland because of 2k

Sirvingeo:

Babe you have nothing . Rich people don't boast. This is an evidence that you are broke.

Pettyprincess:

Lol I'm not boasting I'm just stating the fact!!
I'm not extremely rich bt I'm not broke either hence the reason i dnt date broke guys!!!

Sirvingeo:

I am very certain you have nothing from your comment . Stop trying to feel among and be real.

Pettyprincess:

Oga believe whatever that makes you feel comfortable
I dnt have strength to argue!!!
Goodnight!!

Sirvingeo:

Who is arguing with you . I don't have your time . You that have no job claiming to be financially buoyant . Social media has really done more harm to youth .if you are not broke why are you pursuing white up an down . Babe shift , your gold digging is certified.

Michellekabod2:

You don't want broke gals to call broke guys broke,but you want non virgin males to call non virgin gals sluts? Lol

JONNYSPUTE:
.. I will say you are right if you re using NL as a yardstick. But in real life,it doesn't seem so.

JONNYSPUTE:
... Tell me with all honesty,ve you ever come across a true feminist in Nigeria? Don't tell me you

Arsenate:

It got to her? Good then. Mean people like her deserve to be unhappy.

Pettyprincess:

Lol I'm not boasting I'm just stating the fact!!
I'm not extremely rich bt I'm not broke either hence the reason i dnt date broke guys!!!

funmisticqueen:
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Also the last time someone toasted me was on my birthday on Tuesday, he is a captain in the army, but I don't do army men. Their future is uncertain.

I am tired of blocking numbers and dealing with stalkers.

I won't call you frustrated, just unworthy.

Pettyprincess:

Lol you sha want to continue getting my attention!!
For your information I'm studying nd also a makeup artist!! So i have my personal money that i gat from my handwork nd also got money from my bf so what's your point?
I will rather be a gold digger to plastic digger!!
Moreover why you so pained? Are you broke?
So me being with a white person mean I'm a gold digger? What of your brothers marrying their ancestors what will you call them?

Michellekabod2:

It's the same way non virgin guys sham and call non virgins gals hoes


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