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Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 11, 2019 |
lyndaway: No girl is my responsibility. I'm only obligated to help when it's convenient for me. But does that justify asking an ex for money regularly? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Nobody: 11:57pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Hello, guys. Quick update please. I feel like sh*t right now. So earlier last week my girlfriend had a "parting" chat with the Ex. Today, they had a discussion where she was asking his help to connect her to a job. I joked I made turned wrong and we had an argument about her continuing with the same thing barely a week later. It so happened that she believes I have wrecked her chances of having that job. She's blaming me badly. And I wonder if it was right to interfere in a "job" conversation |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Kinson1886: 3:03pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Guy..try an stop it .., speaking from experience |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by ibkayee(f): 11:32pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
It’s a bit inappropriate lol |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Happyguy201: 11:35pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
why would you keep a broke girlfriend that needs help in the first place?? i wonder how guys behave like mumu these days 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by TYglobal: 11:42pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2: is she jobless? |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by dipson4u08(m): 11:45pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2: the question is how many guyz just give their ex money if not that they are dicktating them... unless she is giving u puna im sure u wont want to wast ur resources...... 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by colizee(m): 11:46pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
NGRsenate: Bro heed to these words from the dude above..... because consciously or unconsciously she's looking for a way to go back to her ex. Judging from your comments you actually give her more than enough money, then why does she go back to her ex for money. Be wise bro 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Quorax: 11:47pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2: End d relationship now. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
General0847:and that's how Atiku is also fucking ur own new girlfriend silly.....this is Nigeria everyone is bleeping somebody 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Ategberoson(m): 11:48pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Op sometimes you need to be bossy, how can you allow that in the first place, I mean allowing yr gf to be talking to her ex not talk of collecting gift from him don't you enjoy her pussy well that you want to be sharing with another man? guys you see why is safe to date someone you met virgin, the stress of worrying about a biitch whom her legs open before 18yrs doesn't worth it 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by invectives(m): 11:50pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
IceColdVeins:Chaiii wicked Nigga from The Matrix 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by fyneboi79(m): 11:50pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
IceColdVeins:Best advice Ever!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by joshboo(m): 11:51pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
lyndaway:Lmao which responsibility? Does he look like her father between most girls are insatiable give her the whole world she'll still ask for pluto. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by LocalNietzsche: 11:52pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2:She calls her ex for money. I don't want to assume things but that is a bad place for your relationship to be. If she is not satisfied by what she has and what you can give, please set yourself free. No matter how tempting it is, be careful. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Goldiano(m): 11:53pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2:you are so weak and porous in your defence...some girls are so daft...it is your responsibility to cut your marks 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by sharone21(f): 11:54pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2:Either she is greedy or you as her boyfriend isn't giving her tangible cash.....I hope you are telling us everything? Why does she prefer you to her ex-boyfriend or the guy is just so benevolent? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by aspirebig: 11:56pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Well, it depends. Some guys do help their ex financially even while in school, or support the girl when she is genuinely in need without any string attached. But MOST guys, like to use the opportunity to 'browse the website'. Recently, one ex came into town, the guy drove down to pick her from the airport to see someone in government house, from there, the guy dropped her off in a park, they actually spent less than two hours . From airport to government house, there, she wasted some time to see one of these 'Dishonourable polithiefcians' member before leaving. Both are happily married, nobody is talking of the 'oza room',because the way they met did not give room for such, secondly, they did not quarrel or end their relationship in bitterness. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by seyithug(m): 11:58pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
iamadonis2: This is a BIG SLAP on your face. No matter your financial situation, your babe must NOT be interacting with her ex, not to talk of CONSTANTLY requesting/getting money from him. And, you are aware and you allowed it. That's nonsense. You're selling yourself short.. How can you be in a relationship, and you are letting her pit pit you against her ex? Even if she has Genevieve's beauty, and Omolola's body, and she's as sweet as honey, it's not enough for you to tolerate such kind of undue competition from her ex. Being her ex means that guy can sleep her any time. Guy, wake up and stay sharp o. Dump her ass, let her go meet her ex or anyone else she wants. You'll be fine. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
if this is a true story, then you need to leave so if you marry her, will she still be collecting money from the guy? your 'gf' wants to eat her boyfriends cake and have your dick no can do. there is a maga in this triangle. if you cannot figure out who the maga is, then it is probbaly you |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by D1zion: 12:03am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Elevation:if she cannot change then you change! Simple. |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Duggedised12(f): 12:03am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2:The question here is have you really wrecked her chance to get a job because its her ex offering to help? you claim she is not your responsibility and you are only obligated to help her when its convenient for you , you claim she still collects money from her ex and you are angry about it? If you are not obligated to inconvenience yourself to help her but someone else feels obligated ,then why are you angry? I am sure if you were in the position of her ex you will never help,even now that you are even dating her you dont feel obligated to help her,maybe that is where the problem is, you cant wrap your head around why her ex will be helping her cos you cant do such. Her ex is about to help her with a job and your busybody carried you to interfere. The one opportunity she has to be independent you have interrupted, let me even ask you how many many times have you directed her to a job opening or vacancy?,so now judge yourself . Anyway ,i am also of the opinion you end the relationship,all this back and forth is exhausting. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by D1zion: 12:05am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2:hence she refuced to change, then you change. |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by nextstep(m): 12:09am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2: This is a tough one, but to be straight with you: You're only angry because you know. Suppose she was able to hide it from you? Many women do. Unless you're married to her, my brother, swallow that anger. I can't say she's right, nor can I say it's wrong to get help from an ex. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by seyithug(m): 12:15am On Oct 30, 2019 |
NGRsenate: You're absolutely correct |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Goldiano(m): 12:15am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Tonnyray:It is good to be *a man*, a real man won't be so weak and daft like this 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by zubinike(m): 12:16am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2: Extremely too far, before you knows. She would start visiting him in private places. If you are not comfortable with it, talk to her directly. Choose your peace of mind over trash. You need to step up your game to meet your woman's every want |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Nobody: 12:23am On Oct 30, 2019 |
Headlesschicken: Op is an immature individual 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by neutrotoba(m): 12:29am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2: He will get his pound of flesh |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by jaxxy(m): 12:35am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2: Stop competing like Ure buying her love, let’s her know Ure not comfortable with it and ur reason and if she wants to continue despite that pls allow her she’s free bt just zero ur mind she’s no longer a serious item to u, especially when u confirm she’s going to be having smtn to do with the guy when he’s in town. Just have ur fun and leave the sham relationship. Look for a more sensible gal. Who values her current relationship than her past one. Rubbish |
Re: Is It Proper That My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex? by Eaglefine(f): 12:42am On Oct 30, 2019 |
iamadonis2: Is her Ex married or single. If single, be careful that things might be going on between them. Try to caution her concerning the frequent help from her Ex. If she didn't heed to it; you just have to back off! To avoid comparing ur financial strength with her Ex. If u allow dat to continue... there's no doubt it will still occur during marriage. I urge you to look for a black goat while it is still daytime. We women can do and undo things... A friend of mine (a guy). His ex girl friend dump him for another man. She's married with kids. Yet she'll leave her lovely husband at Owerri to pay this guy a visit. Telling her husband she went to visit her parents. Hmmmmm! No fear of God, no respect for her husband. Guess what? She will land to this Guy (her Ex boyfriend's) house just for a F*ck and other goody packages. This has been one of the reasons why that guy is still single till date, b'cos he doesn't TRUST women for anything. How will you go to ur Ex house with ur cute looking baby. Ewwuuu! Women, let's always have a rethink of our actions. because " A tree doesn't die immediately after it fallen..." 1 Like |
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