She was busy transferring aggression to the taxi man, just because of "simple sit at the back". Damn! Follow the majority advice here, that's what I will say.

some guys sef..you ordered Taxi, what are you doing with the Taxi man in front, your position is at the back with her, all cuddled up and playfuu...but in her own way she didn't handle the situation well.

Ardar:



I see nothing wrong in asking your guy to sit with you.

Infact when you enter a cab or a taxi, the Passengers sit at the back living the front sit empty. Besides the guy is not coming down to "perch" beside her, it's just the two of them in the taxi.

Maybe she was a little rude to the taxi driver but selfish and childish she was not.

God blesss u my thought exactly

She felt insecure but why u go wan date babe wey no fit afford her own transport fare?

Simple and mature. I bet the way you handle it will make him feel guilty and sad.

RedCreme21:
sweetheart. She was petty and rude not only to the guy but the driver.
Little things matter, but a mature lady would have kept calm and talked with the guy. Thats wisdom.
She acted like a kid. Even i wouldnt do such. As a lady you learn to carry yourself with a good amount of pride. Not complain an entire day for such a trivial issue.

My bf once forgot our anniversary, rather than throw a tantrum, i took him aside and drew his attention to it. Simple!

Am sorry ,who exactly is this girl of yours ?sound like who exactly l know ,something is fishy ,...the tone ,the tone of which you texted she talked ,...

RedCreme21:
op im a lady. Leave that girl as fast as you can. She's a spoilt brat. Whats an hours drive for christ sake. She wanted things done her way and was nasty when you didnt oblige.
If i were you, as i got home, i'll jejely send breakup text. You pray for a girl with good character. Never settle for less.

cc phintohlar
See wetin a fellow woman like u write

phintohlar:
The babe even try follow you reach there cos if na me ehn, as you go sit down for front so i go just go back inside. The driver na ur uncle wey u go sit down with, no be money hin go collect? All this yeye guys dey here they call the girl names, wey be say una own girls dey slap una mama eye for house. Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone abeg.

mydear
I wonder

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

LOL, OP, you are somewhat wrong and aren't romantic either. Your girlfriend wanted to sit together with you so she can start feeling you right away but you turned her down. So, what do you really expect thereafter. You aren't a good boyfriend really. To add insult to injury, you were busy talking with the driver. You are a complete wussy. And so, she became arrogant, left you at the cinema and went back home. For me, it isn't a big deal.

Text her later and say you are really sorry. Period! Though, she's arrogant but it's okay once in a while.

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

dont see why men feel caged, she dey act any how please leave her wen d other guy thats is making her feel like a queen blank her she will. come running back, beside u did nothing wrong who wan even spend self, yeye

MEGA4BILLION:
Ogah calm down, your girlfriend is in a better position to tell you what you have done wrong. Give her some time, she will pick your call.

like is he begging her? Seriously? Someone you ought to delete her contact instantly. Where to you find such girls sef?

Wait o, you mean you actually gave her money from your pocket for her to get taxi home?
I wish you all the best sir.

ndidigood:
is not true
She truly love him but the guy clearly showed he is not into her

How For not staying at the back seat with her.... So your definition of love is when a guy revolves or perches on a girl.... A ride of some minutes now showed you he is not into her... If he isn't into her , do you think he will order uber for her or even take her to cinema... That kind of girl should be taken to mama put self... She no get class a spoiled brat... She feels entitled.. He made a mistake by calling her self... One thing about me I set standards when I'm in a relationship... You don't embarrass me as such and expect me to be lovey dovey anymore... That guy is a sissy nigga...that's why the girl acted like that... If he is a no nonsense guy she won't dare do such things... If I'm that guy even if we are back as couples I will still repeat that same thing....

chigoizie7:


You fucccked up nah, what do you expect her to do?

See all these people saying that she was rude. Yes, she was. But it would have been avoided too.

You made it clear that the date was for the both of you. You should have started her day great by joining her at the back seat.

See, me, when ever I am using a cab, I sit on the front , but this case is different, you should have sat with her, had some little chats with her while the driver minds his wheels. You even abandoned her to chat with the driver. Baba, you neglected her that little time she needed your attention.


Some will say that she is still a kid. But bros it takes a mature mind to date a mature lady.it is only mature people that see the needs to compromise at all times.


If you think she is a kid to act they way she did, it made the both of you kids, because you shouldn’t have acted the way you did. Relationships are not for kids bro.

relationships are not for kids, that's the exact reason he should stay away from this girl. I always tell my girl, if you have issues with me, confront me immediately, don't try this nonsense stuff with me.

Ardar:



I see nothing wrong in asking your guy to sit with you.

Infact when you enter a cab or a taxi, the Passengers sit at the back living the front sit empty. Besides the guy is not coming down to "perch" beside her, it's just the two of them in the taxi.

Maybe she was a little rude to the taxi driver but selfish and childish she was not.

To me personally, i cant handle babes dat are rude and cant control dere anger. Its understandable dat she got angry with her guy, but acting like dat, all rude and all is totally uncalled for. And d fact dat she is his fiancee means dat he is getting married to her. Trust me, a whole lot of times d hubby will make her angry, and if everytym she is agry she pull stunts like dis, trust me d marriage will be hell. But guy dont listen to people asking u to leave d babe just by hearin one story. Everybody have dere own bad days. U still d man, apologise to her even if u tink u right, buy flowers and gift, dis is a woman u tink is gud enough to be ur wife, a bad day shouldnt change dat. Sit down and question urself. Is she dat kind of person or is dis just a one time tin? If her temper has always been like dat den u should run but if not, do d needful

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

You fuccked up by not sitting with her at the back. So it seems but it was an opportunity for you to know that you were about getting married to time BOMB that could have bursted and destroy your life.
My advice... Leave her and move on. Because the way she behaved against the Taxi driver is how she will behave toward your parents, siblings, friends and even coworkers or staffers...

what do I even know?

Just observe and know if both of u are compatible and tolerant of each other. I can relate. All the best

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

What are you complaining for? God did you a solid favor showing you a glimpse of your future with her. He didn't confuse you with dreams or with shady prophets. Instead of doing thanks giving for the deliverance, you're asking what you did wrong.

Bros, on to the next one. Don't come and die before your time.

Kingsdave:


She lacks respect.... don't try calling her for now... she will realise her mistakes... if you try calling now... she will blame it all on you

Mist of these silly girls don't ever realize it when theybfo something wrong.

She’s not your girl, it’s just your turn....... Naira Marley

Ardar:
Why didn't you sit at the back with her despite her asking you to do so?

You were busy chit chatting with the taxi man leaving your girl alone.

I don't support her acting out like you claimed but you fvck up abeg.

You see little things like this no matter how inconsequential or negligible you think they are, are very much important to some people.

Just allow her time to cool off am sure she'll come around.

everybody should date their kind, she should go look for someone with same attitude as hers. Come to the back, I didn't ignore you are made a disdainful comment, even if you were offended, why not speak your mind when we highlighted from the car? I just dey vex abeg

How does not sitting besides her automatically license her to be rude and "stupid".... Even if you have the world underneth you feet, you dont talk to people that are old enough to father you like dat..... OP be wise. "Sense" can be sold in the market, neither can it be bought. You can marry a girl with any negativity but not a girl without "Common_Sense". Common sense is the brain builder of the home...

Nothing bad in she telling you how you wronged her and makes you apologize!. If she value and respect the relationship, she could have even let go of her "ego" and settle things we you guys get home... Relationship is for the matured minds eager to make certain compromise at some points for the sake of peace....

Happy Birthday

Ardar:



I see nothing wrong in asking your guy to sit with you.

Infact when you enter a cab or a taxi, the Passengers sit at the back living the front sit empty. Besides the guy is not coming down to "perch" beside her, it's just the two of them in the taxi.

Maybe she was a little rude to the taxi driver but selfish and childish she was not.

Avast:


Oga stop calling her. I hate guys disturbing themselves on girls matter.

chop knuckle

Crenzywilliams:

Mist of these silly girls don't ever realize it when theybfo something wrong.

They think the world revolves around boobs and pussy... The guy didn't do anything wrong... Not sitting with her isn't wrong... Everyone has a choice... His choice was to sit at the front

WowSweetGuy:
Please Help Me Judge. Did I Really Offend Her By Doing This?!

Excuse my grammatical blunders. I just feel like sharing this experience i had with my fiancee to be....

Yesterday being sunday, I decided to fix a movie and fun outing with my girl. I ordered a taxi from my base to her base to pick her up. She came looking fine and sweet to enjoy the sunday with...To cut the long story short to the main reason i'm posting this....

I came out of the taxi from the FRONT SEAT gave her a hug and opened the back door for her then closed the door to go back to my normal position, She gave me a bad look from nowhere, i asked her what's wrong, she told me to come to the back, the driver could hear us clearly, i playfully told her baby don't worry we have all day together u are even gonna spend the night at my crib, i sat at d front and told the taxi to go to the cinema. During the trip to the cinema i had a little conversation with the taxi guy, from nowhere again my lady told the taxi guy in a rude voice 'please oga face your driving and stop shaking me driving into potholes anyhow abeg'...later on again she told the taxi man to totally put off the low radio station that was playing in the car, the last time he had a call and received it on Bluetooth o,she shouted then very rude telling the man please just drop that call. That's when i cautioned her to take it easy na.

We arrived at the cinema, she told me i should give her transport to go back home that she doesn't feel like staying out again...I tried to pet her,she just abandoned me took a taxi and went home. She has refused picking my calls since yesterday. Im busy at work weekdays,i dont really have time to go to her house.

Ladies/Gentlemen please where did i really go wrong

Ur babe is just upset with u cos u didn’t sit at the back and give her sm attention bt rather jisting with ur new found buddy the cab guy.

Shud she have thrown tantrums cos of that? Ideally No bt I don’t know exactly how she felt that day or if it’s just her rude character, this is what u will have to determine urself based on how U’ve seen her react and behave in different situations. For ur sake I hope she’s not rude and uncultured.

At the end of that day she felt slighted and decided to end the date. A total overreaction if I ask me bt like I said whilst u need to apologize for being abit insensitive she needs to also explain and apologize for her overboard reaction.

If she doesn’t apologize or show remorse don’t take that relationship seriously. It’s a warning and red flag.

Ardar:



I see nothing wrong in asking your guy to sit with you.

Infact when you enter a cab or a taxi, the Passengers sit at the back living the front sit empty. Besides the guy is not coming down to "perch" beside her, it's just the two of them in the taxi.

Maybe she was a little rude to the taxi driver but selfish and childish she was not.

she was selfish and very childish. We planned a date and you canceled it in front of the venue because I refused to sit at the back with you? What stupid reasoning is this?

Amma shout it out loud bru...dump her ass

Psoul:


First of all, have u bn noticing rude attitude from her before now?

If you have, then she lacks good manners. If she has not bn rude before now, probably she was pissed off by something u don't know and probably she wanted to share it wt u as u guys are on ur way to the cinema.
Your refusal to give that listening ear and probably a shoulder to draw strength from angered her more.

Come to think about it, what did u see in that front seat that will make u not to sit with ur girl at the back seat. Are u such a dry guy, devoid of romantic abilities. Hw can u tell her to manage ur absence when u can offer it and telling her she will have u all the night through. Wetin dat one come mean?

Oga go and upgrade ur romantic system. Na those tiny tiny romantic things dey make girls fall and wen u lack them a good girl will run away from u.

Sitting with her is not a big deal brother, its a ride, they have the entire day for themselves. Have you ever been on a date with someone that couldn't do away with her phone despite your attractiveness?
Baba, you fall my hand with this yarn wey you write so. Na una dey make all these girls feel say dem be demi-gods.
As long as you two love each other, this kind thing no suppose cause make she walk out on him. I dey very sure say the guy self go dey beg before him get the babe attention talk less of going on a date with him, that's like saying she did him a favour going out with him.

Are u being serious now bro. u come here asking questions with obvious answers.

I think ur fiancé should dump u if u didn't realise that u did everything wrong by not sitting with her in the back seat of the taxi.

wait, were u on a date with the cab driver or ur fiancé? u treated her in such manner, abandoned her in the back of the taxi to go seat and chat with the driver and u expected her not to be furious at u? u got what u deserved bro.

Just apologise to her and give sometime, she'll come around. fix a make up date with her. this time, seat in the back with her oga!

The guy bleeped up big time. Some guys are not just romantic. How do u explain that u rented a taxi to take both of u to the cinema and u sat in the front seat and left ur girl to be all by herself at the back seat. Common sense would have told u is wrong. Some ladies even when crossing the road with their guys and the guy did not hold their hands it's even an issue let alone the one u just mentioned. For the girl to have corrected u to come join her at the back is a plus to her and u would have taken correction from ur mistake immediately. But rather u chose to be egoistic and bossy. U don't do boss for ur woman. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

phintohlar:
The babe even try follow you reach there cos if na me ehn, as you go sit down for front so i go just go back inside. The driver na ur uncle wey u go sit down with, no be money hin go collect? All this yeye guys dey here they call the girl names, wey be say una own girls dey slap una mama eye for house. Let he who is without a sin be the first to cast the stone abeg.

.lady u are biased or your comment is irrational