pappy2000:



i mentioned this to her loving sister but she insist that the wedding should continue that things will get better.

pappy2000:
i wish i am still single the truth is that i explained everything to her and i told her how much i earn now i am pay 45% loan on the car, should i cancel the wedding or i continue

odedele:
Go & do court wedding biko,it won't cost u up to 10k

Gaspardd:
Bro, it could have been worse. Atleast she isnt trying to poison u yet, stab u in ur slp or trying to hire sn to kill u.
So rejoice bro and give thanks.
And again she not letting you to settle for less is a good thing in my opinion. Well that might be a stupid comment but then always look at the bright side of things

AwkaetitiBabe:
Calm ur nerves. It's the pregnancy that is stressing her out. Take a chill pill, life ain't that serious

pappy2000:
I need to start this write up that i met this lady early this year and i had another lady who from my analysis is not so much in love with me so when i finally met this lady, she was everything i desire in a woman, so we started dating and from dating i went to see her sister in Abuja then from Abuja i went to kogi to meet her parent.

I met her family late June 2019. So I work in a blue chip company with a salary of little more than 100k so but i realized the salary won't make me live my dream life so i took a loan from gtbank to buy a car and use for e hailing.

My fiancee was so much supportive that she on her own decided to add like 200k fund so i bought a toyota matix.

So when I gave out the car the people i gave it to were all misbehaving so i decided that i will drive the car, she was so cool and nice that she will do everything at my beck n call.

Now when i went to meet her sister in Abuja her sister insists that we should pick a date meanwhile in may when we were marking her birthday, she told me how sad she was due to the fact that she was marking her birthday and she is getting younger so i promise her then that we will marry this year. I told her in Novermber so we finally settle for a date and the sister spent her money.

Unfortunately for me things were not as i planned in the uber biz, i need a few repair here and then. Now we got days left to wedding and she has been very irrational. She is pregnant for me, each time she visits me, i will beg her, na the cry and cry. How I truly want a happy home.

fireback:
she's not letting him settle for less by telling him to sell his uber car and buy okada... what type of advice is that?

realoscar84:
The moment they are pregnant, they come with this sense of entitlement as if one should worship them. Little wonder no suitor was ready to settle down with her before u came along. She was the same person being scared of agein without being married, now she is pregnant and want to be dictating to you. She is toxic, it's better you cancel the marriage now before she send you to your early grave. How can she be so desperate for colourful wedding, knowing ur financial status. Pls which side of kogi is she from cuz I'm equally from Kogi. They always want to show the entire community n their peer that they are getting married, so all caution should be thrown to the wind to make it one in town wedding ceremony. Op, leave now while u still can, if not she will kill you.

pappy2000:




I am crying daily. there is nothing wrong in trying business,even if one fails,she got an excellent family her sister even told me she is willing to borrow me money when i told her she said i am an idiot.

statusquoante:


@bolded
Godliness with contentment is great gain - the Holy Bible.
How dare you quit your job to do uber And you took a loan
You are the architect of your misfortune!
Sorry!! I hope you get yourself again.

pappy2000:
i wish i am still single the truth is that i explained everything to her and i told her how much i earn now i am pay 45% loan on the car, should i cancel the wedding or i continue

pappy2000:
some people are not getting the full story i am an orphan, secondly i am still working

pappy2000:
her sister bought an echolack bag and she said she will willing to relieve me of all the burden of the things i need to buy for the wedding list, she insit that i should go and buy mine that its not proper for me to take her sisters bag, I have donated 70k for the cost of the wedding but her sister and family have done a lot

pappy2000:
her sister bought an echolack bag and she said she will willing to relieve me of all the burden of the things i need to buy for the wedding list, she insit that i should go and buy mine that its not proper for me to take her sisters bag, I have donated 70k for the cost of the wedding but her sister and family have done a lot

Kbs468:


I don't think it's necessarily the pregnancy though.

Imagine a 34 years old lady planning for marriage.

Imagine her number of friends and how she must have boasted

Remember she is from KOGI and speaking from experience with a particular tribe there

And in 2 weeks time, Bobo (pappy2000) is saying there's no money and pleading for her understanding.

Calling him not Man enough because she claims he hasn't done enough that is required

AngryIgboMan:
For those who have not yet seen through the shenanigans of the OP, be you aware this is an SOB STORY meant to win sympathy and scam people of there money.


The op is being smart by half thats why he is knowingly typing in bad English to win pity. Go through his story well and use Nigerian sense to follow him.. This story was meant to win him pity and make people donate money for him.


I CAN ASSURE YOU 100% that this nigger right here is a SCAMMER and FRAUDSTER.

Duru009:
I will advice you to QUIT now before its too late.

Be a real man, take that decision now and you don't need to consult anybody for that.

24kmagic:
Are we talking about Kogi state girl here or someone whose parents just live in Kogi?

Cos if that girl is from Kogi state, just back off! I'm yet to see one good girl from Kogi state and I've seen many. Only go ahead with this wedding if you're also from Kogi state, if not....

Kogi state? God forbid