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Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Bigblessed: 12:53pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Marri-age!!! Huuuuum. Personal cross o! Patience+wisdom. No money to complete already fixed wedding (even if it's marriage blessing without takeaway), but there will be money for divorce after wedding (who's still loosing). Bro, wisdom, I said wisdom. Don't always say 'yes' just to please people (no matter who). Wisdom bro because your baby here is at stake. If you don't take care of him now as a father, you will definitely take care of him in his step father's house as a runaway father. Choose one. Marriage has different stages, i learnt, so patient+wisdom. Praying that your's will pass this stage and usher you into the peace you desire. Note- next time, if the pressure becomes much, kindly inform the person to go ahead and borrow or take loan in his name only. That you will gradually repay him as your income is coming. pappy2000: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Camelo: 12:54pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Sorry to ask your wife to be is she Rakiya Asabe Halilu.If so run for ur dear life.... |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by R0manGreen: 12:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: hian....this lady will kill you and still move on to be fvcking another man....this one pass pregnancy related hormones abeg. accept the child but man that lady aint your wife....run while you still can. if care is not taken...your BP go rise o...better go and check your BP for hospital...your mental health and balance is of utmost importance. never allow any lady put you under undue pressure 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Brightgem(f): 12:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
OP me I dnt understand this post o! Sounding all frustrated. That court wedding you've done eh! Hmm, plus she's pregnant. Just run away, dissappear. But be sending money for upkeep, till that wedding day pass. You can't just divorce somebody like that na. While away be talking sense into her head! Running might be silly, so man up and tell these people to postpone the wedding till u get your affairs right. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Nobody: 1:02pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: pappy2000, I don't know you but I'll advice you as if you're my own brother. please don't marry her. she is toxic and emotionally abusing you. she will not change. she does not love you or care about you. she only likes what you can do for her which is to marry her, have a society wedding to please the community, give her the Mrs title and children. You're dispensable. If she could get another man to give her these things, she'll toss you aside. As she's older and suitors are few, she decided to settle for you. Please the signs are all there. Your plan to divorce her after marrying her is your intuition telling you to back off. Why are you so afraid to stand up to her? Don't be afraid. There's nothing to fear but fear itself. Be courageous. Years from now, you'll thank yourself for the decision you made today. Please don't marry her. She's a bad woman who doesn't love you. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Nobody: 1:03pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Suspend the marriage And for now ....simple 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by madridsta007(m): 1:05pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: Do not commit suicide because of a woman. It is better you suspend or call off a marriage than take to suicide. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Emma1Oj(m): 1:05pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000:Why planning to invest money on something you kn dip within that you don't want and won't gives you joy? why? please oga if truly you don't want her, pls divorce her now before the marriage. when she born collect your pikky from her. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Rubbiish(m): 1:07pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
urose93:Never lost o Op is an indecisive man & it is what has been responsible for all his mishaps. How will someone proceed with a wedding, wasting funds and resources that is not available, only to divorce after wedding. Lol 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Emma1Oj(m): 1:08pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
idesylvester:there's nothing a counsellor can do to convert an unrepentant nagging wife. no matter what d counsellor says she will com home and do worst. He shld end it now instead to waste his money. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Emma1Oj(m): 1:11pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000:oga cancel it |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Kbs468(m): 1:13pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Yes he said so but you know when women are desperate for something, In this case marriage, they become very uncontrollable and probably she doesn't want the marriage to even be postponed |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by mountex(f): 1:22pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: My dear, don't force yourself into getting married to her. all this while things were good, she didnt behave rudely to you until now that things are bad that is a red flag that if its get worse in the marriage for instance she will not have any option but frustrate u or to leave you and go. in fact, i see this as a test God is opening your eyes to this, don't make mistake slow down on the wedding allow her to give birth and see how it goes from there. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by LyfeJennings(m): 1:23pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Skmoda360: U that U are not wicked Give him Ur advice Women don't stay with struggling men It might be happening but I never see am |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by urose93(f): 1:26pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Exactly why I was lost. Hmm, is really pathetic. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by midnighter(f): 1:32pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
10 pages, Nigerians are great Una try o, me I can't understand a word this guy is saying |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by gerizzim: 1:38pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
LyfeJennings: sims ur a teenager. I don't think a marid rational adult will utter dis. it hz a bad taste |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by 123sophocles(m): 1:45pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Oga, never, I repeat, never abort that marriage. You have done the first part and she's already pregnant for you. The fact that she makes demands or acts somehow is normal. You love her and that's why you have come this far. You also have a beautiful baby coming on. Go on with the plans, just talk to her to take it a bit easy with you that everything is going to be OK. Keep looking for money and above all, TRUST GOD!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Ideenigeria: 1:46pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
The vendor posting this service is a scammer... I sent him money for data ad has since blocked me... Please beware. 1 Like
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Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Solidkay(m): 1:49pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: OP, are you being a fool at 40? Her sister my foot. Who's at the receiving end here? Who's hurting here? Your mental health you come first Mr man. Better not throw away your happiness and sanity all in the name of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by frozen70g(f): 2:21pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: At your age, you shouldn't be a push over Hold on for the marriage let's see if it what's the marriage Sir her down and tell her your disappointment in her and see if she too will say she us disappointed in you Be a man and face the delivery if her pregnancy Don't fail to let her know that your take home has a limit to what you guys can afford Some ladies expect men and marriage to be a rocket science Stop crying, real men don't cry If you cancel the wedding tell her you can't cope for now, use that period to evaluate the marriage But if she is from mogi state and Igbra to be precise, tread with caution because juju they go message for them |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by kid7soccer(m): 2:24pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: I have to be hash here, are you crazy. How can you let a woman turn ur life up side down to the point you are talking of suicide. Look U better man up. Women can pretend like hell. She really wanted you to propose and get her pregnant then she will draw out her claws. Marry her at your own Pearl. Just call it off. Or you might just die of heart break before your divorce. Be a man for Christ sake. Stop taking shit man 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by frozen70g(f): 2:24pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: Pls stop begging her, you are adding fuel to the burning flame Once you stop begging her, her madness will be under control 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by LyfeJennings(m): 2:26pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
gerizzim: Ur opinion is 101% Ur prerogative. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by kid7soccer(m): 2:31pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: You are a weak man, that why she dey use u shine. Oga tell her it over u can take her shit any more. Turn off your phone and go live your life. In marriage there will always be up and down, u don't need to spend your life with someone who will make you feel like nothing when thing are bad. This is a time she should support u. Infact she should push the wedding date to another time since your financially down. She is desperate for marriage don't you see that her family are ready to do everything so you can take away their problem. Oga receive sense, man up and don't give a sh*t |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by kid7soccer(m): 2:33pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
frozen70g:women like to take men that are nice for granted. The only way to teach them a lesson is to let them eat their trash |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by spiceadole: 2:45pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Beatswim: Its wrong enough to have sex before marriage Why having unprotected sex till it leads to pregnancy and forced rushed marriage? Christianity is a lifestyle..Not a religion. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by kid7soccer(m): 2:46pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: Why won't they borrow you money so that you can carry their problem away. Bros a woman called you idiot, and u are begging her, man u deserve better whopping. Once she said that you should have lock up your feeling and called of the marriage. Infact take your phone now text her and and her family and tell them it is over. At the end of the message you intend to send to her put this in capital letter "To H*ll with u and u sh*t, it over". Don't off you phone, let text messages roll insults will follow no jus answer ignore everyone that can reach u on that matter, go out of the house and enjoy your life. Do that for 2weeks she go humble if u till want to continue with the marriage, make sure you hardening up and she will humble |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Beatswim: 2:52pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Blackfriday:foundation in this so called marriage is a very faulty one.. It was based on that pregnancy solely.. I just gave an advice.. Its left for the op to follow his mind.. |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Beatswim: 2:59pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
kannymoore:if the foundation be bad... What can the righteous do? Be wise bro |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Simpleete: 3:04pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Blackfriday: Oil dey your head,you sabi something |
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