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Whose Fault Is It Anyway?

Good evening nairalanders!

I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.

About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.

But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.

When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.

The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.

So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.

As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.

My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.

My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.

But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..

Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue..

This looks like a nollywood movie. ...


We know the sister is you...

But this is version of the story... It made you look innocent... can we hear her version please

What shall i pray

boiz2men:
This looks like a nollywood movie. ...


We know the sister is you...

But this is version of the story... It made you look innocent... can we hear her version please

I'm married already. And it's no Nollywood story

BlackCrainte:
Invite your sisters girl friend and use her for money rituals

I only need serious opinions

All of you that comment is all useless, brother you have nothing to worry about because the guy knows the truth and the girl won’t do anything, she is fighting a lose battle

your sister ex gf missed her opportunity, her time have passed.

anyway ignore her and her lies

just leave the jealous friend alone, let her rot in bitterness and anger, avoid her at all cost and dont confront her

focus on your sister traditional marriage and then white wedding.

if after all, if she comes for forgiveness, accept forgiveness and stay away from her.

Please you and your sister should ignore the fool and focus on her upcoming wedding. Your sisters friend is just a bitter woman.

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FuckBots:
See your brain. You lost it this morning

Why are you always seeing miserable things

Have you ever seen a sane and good thing

You need to check into a psychiatric and spiritual home

BlackCrainte:
Why are you always seeing miserable things

Have you ever seen a sane and good thing

You need to check into a psychiatric and spiritual home

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boiz2men:
This looks like a nollywood movie. ...


We know the sister is you...

But this is version of the story... It made you look innocent... can we hear her version please

You watch too much of Yoruba Film
My dear sister, ur young sister has my full support, her wedding is a success. Pls invite her over so she can die finally

JONNYSPUTE:
Please you and your sister should ignore the fool and focus on her upcoming wedding. Your sisters friend is just a bitter woman.

I thought as much.. but my anger is the lies she's spreading just to tarnish my sister's image

ojun50:
You watch too much of Yoruba Film
My dear sister, ur young sister has my full support, her wedding is a success. Pls invite her over so she can die finally

Invite her so she can do something terrible

Make sure that girl doesnt get access to the food oh

Just make sure she doesn't near that wedding

sweerychick:
I thought as much.. but my anger is the lies she's spreading just to tarnish my sister's image

.. Yes,she is supposed to be angry because its her lose but you and your sis should not let it bother you. For now listen to the said guy and focus on you sis upcoming wedding.She wants an already made guy so let her wait for her own.This should teach some ladies a lesson.

Block her number and ignore her totally. She's definitely a sore loser. You guys can threaten to lock her up if she continues with her nonsense.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Block her number and ignore her totally. She's definitely a sore loser. You guys can threaten to lock her up if she continues with her nonsense.

I've thought about locking her up, but my sis guy said we should ignore her, let's not go to that extent

extract your sis from that place, let her be careful and avoid "pls meet me at X let me apologize to you" from that friend cos women be loco these days

You don't have a problem

This is a case of you "One seem not to know the value of what he or she has until he or she lose(s) it "


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The guy never marry them, them don dey give am full headache already.

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They’ve come with stories again. Next thread, please!

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