| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nature8(m): 6:31am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?
Good evening nairalanders!
I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.
About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.
But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.
When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.
The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.
So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.
As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.
My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.
My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.
But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..
Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue.. |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by ednut1(m): 6:32am On Nov 12, 2019 |
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| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by okoh66(m): 6:33am On Nov 12, 2019 |
I have been in this position a long time ago... Send me a message on whats app on +2348030949381 I will call you on there too and discuss with you how to go about it. sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?
Good evening nairalanders!
I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.
About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.
But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.
When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.
The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.
So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.
As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.
My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.
My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.
But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..
Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue.. |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by steve11215(m): 6:34am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Madame' so long the guy knows all the trick no problem..... people must talk |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 6:35am On Nov 12, 2019 |
There is nothing much to do here. Whether her friend spreads lies or not, it shouldn't bother your sister if her man doesn't believe them. His responsibility right now is to stick up for her, and make sure to keep her from harm's way, because her friend seems malicious.
As things are, I believe the friendship has ended. In that case, your sister needs to be extremely careful, because a time will come, the lady might offer a make up proposal to your sister. I do not advise your sister to accept that proposal when it comes, but if she does, she's going to have to be very careful.
Lots of things are happening these days, among friends and families, so there's no hint of impossibility in this case, especially now that her real self has been exposed. You have to caution your sister to stay away from that girl as far as possible. 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Beatswim: 6:37am On Nov 12, 2019 |
This is a very sensitive matter and needed to be treated as such.. This marriage wants to start with a war and it wont augur well if that bitter lady decides to strike... Am just chipping in this so the couple will have rest of mind to face other things... The couple should invite two other elders with them to settle the matter with this so called lady.. Pacify her... And plead wt her to let this matter go and make her see reasons wt the couple... To build is not easy but to fall is really easy..but if the couple are both members of prayer warriors in their church oo... I tink they dont need to go through all that (smiles ).. That lady will always vent her failure and frustration on them both physically and spiritually if they dont heed to this.. I wish them a blissful conjugation ahead 1 Like |
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| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by latitidejavu: 6:42am On Nov 12, 2019 |
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| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 6:43am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Please make sure you have securities that day.. Ensure to give them her picture.. Recent pics oh because the heart of man is desperately wicked.. They should not bounce her back but the security people should keep her in one room till the event is over... Fear people they can do and undo 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Centcanada: 6:45am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Hey. I will not say nothing much here because we are all human and I see that no one is perfect. First and foremost, I will like to say big thanks to your sis and her courage and endurance all those years and to you and your sis too, let your family do nothing to this very young lady at all but confront her with prayer. If I say confront her with prayer, you know what I mean. You guys should put her in prayer because she is a Devil that came for a mission and he forgot to plan her matriononial life along line. Don't pity or beg her for anything but always put her in prayer for 30days and you will see the work of God at work. Once again, congratulations in advance on your sis. Wish them happy marriage life and God favour. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 6:47am On Nov 12, 2019 |
All these ladies on nnairaland cannot take it ooo...they are just saying she’s pained and bitter........no woman can take it happily when their friend wants to marry or date their ex.....
It’s not a nice parole.....weda he was a teacher or conductor before and now became poorer..
Which kind friend be that....the op is now trying to paint a picture to make it look like the sister’s friend is jealous cos th guy is richer...u don’t date ur friend’e ex.... |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by goshen26: 6:48am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?
Good evening nairalanders!
I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.
About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.
But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.
When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.
The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.
So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.
As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.
My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.
My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.
But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..
Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue.. I think I had similar issue of a female friend; During our days In school. They were four living in a lodge, different room. A brother A female (my friend and course mate) A female (their lodge mama) A female (the lady the brother was asking out) The brother asked the lady 3 out, but she refused cos the brother is gentle and more of slow poke. After some time the brother left her alone. Fast forward to after graduation; the brother asked my friend out and my friend decided to consult their then lodge mama. She advised not agree cos the other lady was already comsiderimg talking to the brother of their then yet to finish talk. My friend consulted me and I asked her to go ahead. Today they are married. 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by sisisioge: 6:49am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Chai! But the teacher was taking care of some of her bills nau...didn't she see the potential ni? Hmmm...some of these oil contract workers earn as much as 50k per day! Chai. 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Ginaz(f): 6:50am On Nov 12, 2019 |
stanliwiser:
Girls una funny o, how come she was able to check your chat logs? She took it I didn’t know , We were together on that fateful day. |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nwabaland(m): 6:51am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Lol, you try shaa but make it more real next time |
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| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by shogsman(m): 6:53am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Seun has to make signing up on this platform more complex,i understand his need for members but the number of teenage, uncouth, unfortunate fellows on this platform is too much.
My sister serve her a court order. 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by subcbouy: 6:56am On Nov 12, 2019 |
okoh66:
I have been in this position a long time ago... Send me a message on whats app on +2348030949381 I will call you on there too and discuss with you how to go about it.
So you are now Jaruma |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Progress62(m): 6:56am On Nov 12, 2019 |
If she make another desperate move, plss report the matter to the police, so that she will sign undertaking that if anything goes wrong, she will be held.... 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by fowlyansh181(m): 6:58am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
I've thought about locking her up, but my sis guy said we should ignore her, let's not go to that extent do exactly that, ignore her |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by hope4nigeria(m): 7:03am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
I'm married already. And it's no Nollywood story there is solution already, since the guy in question understand things from the right angle but advice your sister well, hope the love the guy had for wicked former girl was dead in him? Don't be surprise, he may still have that passion and love for the terrible girl. I'm speaking from experience. 3 Likes |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 7:03am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?
Good evening nairalanders!
I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.
About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.
But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.
When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.
The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.
So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.
As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.
My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.
My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.
But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..
Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue.. Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman........ Your sister and her fiance should be very very careful the girl seems really desperate and can do something really drastic to harm your sister or her fiance. You guys should avoid her like a plague...... 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by marcushenry198(m): 7:08am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
I've thought about locking her up, but my sis guy said we should ignore her, let's not go to that extent Locking her is not nice the answer to a fool is silent so keep mute and she would hang her self in pain.... sometimes is better to keep silent than to talk |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by NoToPile: 7:08am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Life and its twists and turns.
Friend A met her husband at the wedding of friend B, she was the chief brides, she had a fiancee then, infact the dude came to the wedding what we didnt know was that dude was misbehaving.
Best man shot his shot Friend A agreed, they got married few months later, Friend B's married crashed in less than 2 years. Both husbands seem to still be friends but the female friends cant visit each other much because of the marriage crash. 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?
Good evening nairalanders!
I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.
About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.
But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.
When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.
The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.
So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.
As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.
My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.
My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.
But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..
Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue.. I'm too lazy to read this. Re-write it and make it shorter. |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by yusluvad(m): 7:18am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Your sister need to be careful, watchful, and mostly prayful. I wish her success. |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 7:21am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
I only need serious opinions Simple sturvs. Call the cops on her and have her arrested on the grounds of malicious claims and slander. When she sleeps in the cell for two days, she'll become a born-again Christian. 1 Like |
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| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
I've thought about locking her up, but my sis guy said we should ignore her, let's not go to that extent Don't ignore her. She's desperate. She may use acid to try and disfigure your sister oooooo. I have said my own. Harass her with soldiers sef if need be. Let her now that she should never come close to your family ever again. 1 Like |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 12, 2019 |
hope4nigeria:
there is solution already, since the guy in question understand things from the right angle but advice your sister well, hope the love the guy had for wicked former girl was dead in him? Don't be surprise, he may still have that passion and love for the terrible girl. I'm speaking from experience. True. That's the only thing the OP should be afraid of. He might be marrying her sister not because he loves her but to make the other girl jealous. |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 12, 2019 |
What I can say is that the op cooked up the story.. though it looks real for us to learn from it..
I will comments on the story for the sake of those who might have similar issue in their relationship....
Firstly, marriage is not for chicken-hearted person. So, before you go into it , do your due diligent or else ....
Obviously the first girl is not a wife material. Those kind of ladies cannot endure the heat in marriage.
these are kind of people that contribute to increase rate of divorce in our society.... When things like this happens, we spread out tentacles in ensuring we pick the right person..
For me, this kind of lady cant scale through.. because I will test her but for plenty and for penury to see her response....
God will help us |
| Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Raylight2(m): 7:30am On Nov 12, 2019 |
sweerychick:
Whose Fault Is It Anyway?
Good evening nairalanders!
I need serious opinions on this issue, as it has bothered me so much so I decided to bring it up here. It's about my younger sister and her girlfriend.
About 2 years ago my younger sis girlfriend met a guy that indicated interest in her, according to my sis her friend wasn't into this guy, in fact her friend was using him from the onset, my sis said that her friend told her that she doesn't like the guy at all because the guy according to her was a teacher in one private school and he isn't really what she wanted in a man.
But this guy loved her and my sis recounted one time the guy paid her tuition fees and gave her money for her project work. The guy was always there for her but her sis friend never liked him sometimes my younger sister will tell me that she should go for him she thought she was joking but little did she know that her girlfriend was serious.
When it was obvious she couldn't play the guy anymore, she had to confront the guy and told him face to face that they can't continue together, that she can't put up with him anymore and that he can have my younger sister as a friend since my sister is her roommate.
The guy was shattered and devastated, and it equally shattered my sister as well because my sister knew how much sacrifice the guy has made for her girlfriend. So the guy would meet my sister and start begging her to talk to her friend, and each time my sister tries to talk to her girlfriend to reconsider, she would turn it down.
So the guy gave up his efforts but maintained communications with my sister.
As time went by my sister and this guy became close, and they were good friends, so early February this year they guy got a contract job with Exxon mobile for 5 years at Akwa ibom, and he is now asking for my sister's hand in marriage. He's so serious that he has brought wine to my Father with his family members.
My sister told him let her put it in prayers. Because she's currently doing her NYSC.
Upon hearing the news of my sister and this guy, her silly girlfriend that rejected him because he was low, is now beefing my sister and telling the whole world that my sister snatched her boyfriend away from her. it was so bad that she even tried to re establish communication with this guy again.
My sister told me that her girlfriend sent a message to this guy and told him that my sister once had an abortion when she was in her 3rd year, and some stupid lies. But she said that the guy knew that her girlfriend was lying and decided to block her. This got my sister infuriated and me also but the guy begged us to let her go That she's just desperate.
But I'm really really really angry now because she has been spreading malicious lies about my younger sister. And my sister is planning her traditional wedding with this guy by January So please I need suggestions on how to deal with this issue because I don't see my sister at fault here, and I only see a wicked and desperate friend trying to cause wreck in someone's happiness..
Mods I really appreciate if this topic is on front page because it's a serious issue.. the guy shouldn't be silent. he should speak up about what happened between him and your sister's friend. that'll make things clear to everyone that she's being jealous |
