Riele:


I ask again .
Protection in what area ?

iLegendd:


You're right. Smart men offer nothing — until she's officially a wife, then he offers her everything. Stupid men try to offer everything during courtship in exchange for sex. I just pity these stupid men — I really do.

LINTUNE:
i really dont know how to explain

donMIG:
Orgasms Money Happiness Love Complements Protection Respect!

Riele:


Lmao .

I pity them too .

iLegendd:

I got you on your left ball — if you have any. #YouWon'tUndertand.

Riele:


You're right .
I don't understand .

iLegendd:


It's good to be confused at times — it's what led Bobrisky to switch gender.

I noticed you like sweet trouble. Come to my shop let's discuss — I sell it in wholesale.

Before I go, have you considered swapping gender? Or you love the p**** you have?

Riele:


Lol .
I'm a female .

iLegendd:


I know.

But why is your "period" always "shifted" from your word? Is there anything you're hiding from me? If no, then I have a surprise package for you. Though, I don't know if you can handle it.

Talk to you later.

niaralandtopuser:
Sanitary pads, toiletries, cream , panties

iLegendd:


I know.

But why is your "period" always "shifted" from your word? Is there anything you're hiding from me? If no, then I have a surprise package for you. Though, I don't know if you can handle it.

Talk to you later.

oxiide22:
I swear he's a guy

Nigg3369:
we really don't know what "it" is unless shown proof

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not a woman-child that we should be responsible for.

oxiide22:
you're not a real nigga

Nigg3369:
that is very true

Riele:


A woman can offer most of the listed .

donMIG:

"Most" Not all

Riele:


MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then

.

Originalsly:


Leaving out money or anything related to money. Security.... a woman is wired to feel secure when a man is around. E.g... man and woman sleeping in the same house.. different rooms... blackout.. 2 a.m... a strange scratching and growling sound in the backyard... is she going to investigate?... or dash over to the man's room and disturb him? Companionship.... doesn't matter what a woman's mouth be saying.... at the end of the day they be dying to be wrapped up in a man's arms.... man doesn't have to say a word. Women are wired that way.Attention and compliments... from men.... it is a must. Lack of it leads to frustration and low self esteem. Is any of these related to money? Do you not crave for any of these...all of these?

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not a woman-child that we should be responsible for.

Riele:


So a woman can't provide attention , compliment and companionship in a relationship ?

They ain't related to sex either

.

Originalsly:


Yes she can.... but a man doesn't need attention... a woman does. Give a man too much attention.... he would believe you too possessive. Give him too much compliments he begins feel uneasy....begins to suspect you. Companionship... yes...during his down time... when he is recharging.... and when fully charged.... honey you know it feels sooo good being alone with you...but I got to go do something....I'll be right back. When he comes back... is to recharge again. Shared companionship....men are naturally very sharing and distributors of the needs of women...none related to money. Don't you know guys like this?

Riele:


Lol

A man doesn't need attention?

And you think women don't feel uneasy with too much compliments?

NiCurious:


Excellent. Both men and women should have higher expectations of each other, than a lot of what I've been seeing.

That said...if a woman is on her own feet financially, we return to the question...what does a man provide her in marriage?
Could it be companionship? Intellectual stimulation? Complementary skills? A listening ear? (Aside that whole parenting thing--talking about what the woman herself gains from marriage.) Can she not get these things without marrying? Is she guaranteed these things if she marries? Only if she chooses well.

Riele:


You're frustrated .

I ask a general question about men and you had to drag this down to NIGERIAN WOMEN ,even went as far as insulting your mother .

At the end of it all , you didn't answer the question .

pansophist:


Women have a higher perception of danger. Where a man feels perfectly safe, a woman may not feel safe, the presence of a man is sufficient to create a balance and make her feel safe. If a woman wants a kid, it is only a man that can impregnate her, and potentially provide for her and her kids if he is responsible.

Men by nature have a soft spot for women and women know this first hand. Men generally will sacrifice himself to make a woman feel comfortable, eg giving her his jacket when she feels cold, or even taking a bullet for her. A single google search will reveal thousands of men have been taking bullets and losing their lives for the women they love, so far, I have not seen the opposite.

Humans evolved to be social beings, no matter the material riches, popularity and social class, companionship triumph above all, we can see it with our female celebrities for example. Humans need each other, and more so for women, who need men for emotional safety and in some cases, balance out the chaotic nature of the feminine with rationality and order.

Women want to feel loved, desired and chosen, and if one can see the value of a man past his wallet, it won't be difficult to find out the importance of a man in a woman's life, and what he brings into the relationship.

Need I say more?

NiCurious:


Thank you for your well-considered reply. We are both talking in generalizations, of course--not all women are chaotic in nature, and not all men will take a bullet for a woman--but heaven forbid that we put that to the test in the first place.

Other than not coming home to an empty house, can we agree that a man might serve as a flywheel to stabilize the energies in a woman's life? But the same may well be said in reverse.