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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Spain007(m): 9:21am On Nov 20, 2019
pansophist:


Women have a higher perception of danger. Where a man feels perfectly safe, a woman may not feel safe, the presence of a man is sufficient to create a balance and make her feel safe. If a woman wants a kid, it is only a man that can impregnate her, and potentially provide for her and her kids if he is responsible.

Men by nature have a soft spot for women and women know this first hand. Men generally will sacrifice himself to make a woman feel comfortable, eg giving her his jacket when she feels cold, or even taking a bullet for her. A single google search will reveal thousands of men have been taking bullets and losing their lives for the women they love, so far, I have not seen the opposite.

Humans evolved to be social beings, no matter the material riches, popularity and social class, companionship triumph above all, we can see it with our female celebrities for example. Humans need each other, and more so for women, who need men for emotional safety and in some cases, balance out the chaotic nature of the feminine with rationality and order.

Women want to feel loved, desired and chosen, and if one can see the value of a man past his wallet, it won't be difficult to find out the importance of a man in a woman's life, and what he brings into the relationship.

Need I say more?


if one can see the value of a man past his wallet, it won't be difficult to find out the importance of a man in a woman's life, and what he brings into the relationship.

That's the KEY WORD..

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by odisman: 9:22am On Nov 20, 2019
NaijaOlosho:
Men have nothing to offer than 10minutes dicks

For sex dem no get strength

I make men enjoy sex.

You can't have me and then don't come back for me.

Run to Jesus as fast as your leg can carry you. Unless, men will destroy u patapata.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 9:27am On Nov 20, 2019
I find the responses on this thread funny and tomorrow same people tell us how their mothers did everything and held the fort in their homes.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by gordonsluv(m): 9:27am On Nov 20, 2019
pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, workhorse, and now, are treating women as an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, Afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not a woman-child that we should be responsible for.

Sister moderator read this comment na... so that you go respond... lol..
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by JayPeeOham(m): 9:28am On Nov 20, 2019
The only place you can find true answers to your question is THE BIBLE!!....Take your time and read the book of Genesis-after the fall of Man.

Goodluck on your research!!
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by odisman: 9:28am On Nov 20, 2019
EternalBeing:
Haven't you seen that effort of well-meaning good people to make World politics better is becoming futile? You still want to build your eternal hope on this decaying Wolrd?! Accept JESUS Christ and follow His Way of immortality before it becomes too late.

A brother asked on another thread, that should he marry a girl that cheated on him when they had a brief break up? Most girls in this Generation would call her mumu for confessing the truth to you, so why can't you see that she is far better than most out there? You still want to go on endless searching spree?!

Demons have taken many Giants of Faith down by ever wispering to them that they are missing something sweet when they are not having sex, it's a big lie programmed by evil-controlled media since our birth. Also, the dependency on sense of feeling made us not to realize how powerful being Holy makes us become. If you know these Truths, you shall avoid lust(at thought level, long before it could manifest into reality) as you would never stand in front of a high speeding Trailer. Click and read this secret you should know before it becomes too late:
https://www.nairaland.com/5508005/erroneous-expectation-caused-many-lose

And the most important thing that Christians need to know about Sex: https://www.nairaland.com/5234204/why-most-christians-dont-capacity#79155152:
I can relate to this. Accepting Jesus is the way out from sexual pervasion.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:28am On Nov 20, 2019
ireneidiva:

Cuppy that has a foundation, ladies that have NGOs even in Nigeria here? Madam speak for yourself. Women have helped me, men have too. And I've helped too. You are another person that should change her circle.
NGO cheesy cheesy cheesy



So you don't know that NGO is the next crude oil bloc grin grin


They open NGO to get international donations for their pockets while they use a meager part of the donation to buy food and hire photographer to snap vulnerable people and share online to attract more donors to keep enlarging their pockets, pls you need to be enlightened about these stuffs.


Cuppy was made ambassador of Save The Children UK to lure her father and friends into making donations for Save The Children, Cuppy doesn't have a dime of her own, its her dad's money....how much has she made from DJ, in fact she has spent much more than she has ever earned, trying so hard to hype her failed music career lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:29am On Nov 20, 2019
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Ivypresh(f): 9:30am On Nov 20, 2019
pansophist:
Women actually do not even offer sex. Women engage in an equal act of sex, but see it as if they are offering it to men, and this notion have been on for long that people think women offer sex.

true��
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:31am On Nov 20, 2019
bukatyne:
I find the responses on this thread funny and tomorrow same people tell us how their mothers did everything and held the fort in their homes.
Mothers of 1990 downward and few modern day ladies are exception.




There are few Nigerian ladies who are different, they are insignificantly few though, please also note that cool

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by donjon: 9:31am On Nov 20, 2019
Nairaland females have been trying very hard to justify their oloshoism these past few days, generally wailing upandan with nobody to answer them.
One of them that looks like mermaid even collected shopping complex and ran cheesy

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Meenabee(f): 9:31am On Nov 20, 2019
Take iced coke to wash off that bitterness in you. Lol..... Product of a failed relationship.
genq:



The nerve of you to ask such a stupid question!

Who doesn't know that the livelihood of 90% of Nigerian women is tied to a man in one way or the other.

Women = entitled, lazy pigs with nothing to offer than a rotten BOREHOLE in btw their legs.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 20, 2019
Nigg3369:
6 and 7 fall under 2
it's a lie oooo.

after giving them money, you buy gifts too and still take them out. They are all separate.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sundrus: 9:34am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
grin grin grin
i dey feel ur vibe wink
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 9:36am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
Mothers of 1990 downward and few modern day ladies are exception.




There are few Nigerian ladies who are different, they are insignificantly few though, please also note that cool

Nigerian ladies say the same thing about Nigerian men. Somehow, your partners always fall into this minority. You all are just deluding yourselves.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by ireneidiva(f): 9:36am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
NGO cheesy cheesy cheesy



So you don't know that NGO is the next crude oil bloc grin grin


They open NGO to get international donations for their pockets while they use a meager part of the donation to buy food and hire photographer to snap vulnerable people and share online to attract more donors to keep enlarging their pockets, pls you need to be enlightened about these stuffs.


Cuppy was made ambassador of Save The Children UK to lure her father and friends into making donations for Save The Children, Cuppy doesn't have a dime of her own, its her dad's money....how much has she made from DJ, in fact she has spent much more than she has ever earned, trying so hard to hype her failed music career lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
But she is giving out her dad's money right? How much of your dad's money have you given out?
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by DedeNkem: 9:38am On Nov 20, 2019
Whenever I see "women offer sex" I laugh hard because it is an ignorant comment!

Does it mean men enjoy sex more than women? No! Actually, women enjoy sex far more than men! Nigerian society made women to hide their sexuality.

In the wild, both male and female animals engage in sexual pursuit of the opposite sex.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:39am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Nigerian ladies say the same thing about Nigerian men. Somehow, your partners always fall into this minority. You all are just deluding yourselves.
Sis you know you are lying but continue grin grin




The whole world know that Nigerian men take care of their women, in fact, foreign ladies envy Nigerian ladies for this; reason foreign ladies rush Nigerian men because of how Nigerian men spend on their women while their women do nothing for them aside sex wink

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Lush100(m): 9:42am On Nov 20, 2019
no ma'am, no one forces a woman to marry, its wired in human nature to be loved by the opposite sex.

and no, i don't think men are scared of career women but when they see a wealthy one, they analyse that she is likely to be arrogant. and in most cases its likely she is or arrogant.(my wife told me this and she is a youth pastor).



safarigirl:


The society believes the woman must be married, and a woman with a career and without a marriage, is incomplete.

You cannot have it all, if you find a woman with a career, a man like you will probably be too scared to approach her because you will automatically think her arrogant and not 'submissive'

It is when women try to be submissive that you find them depending on men, if a woman does not depend on a man, a lot of men feel useless to her.

As for me, I cannot relate to anything you have said and I will not agree with you for lack of relatability.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:43am On Nov 20, 2019
ireneidiva:

But she is giving out her dad's money right? How much of your dad's money have you given out?
You are now indirectly agreeing with the same thing that 99% of Nigerian women depend solely on men, directly or indirectly.....why can't she spend her mom's money


Why don't we hear Alakija's daughters sharing their mom's money too


You ladies should stop dragging this obvious truth and just work hard to improve and become valuable women to your respective men.

Stop arguing, just make a resolution from today that you will become a woman of value to any man you come across and not just a dependent leech who only collect collect and receive from men without offering any other thing to men aside sex, that's all guys here are asking for, is that too much to ask for

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 9:44am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
Sis you know you are lying but continue grin grin




The whole world know that Nigerian men take care of their women, in fact, foreign ladies envy Nigerian ladies for this; reason foreign ladies rush Nigerian men because of how Nigerian men spend on their women while their women do nothing for them aside sex wink

Are you a bot or something?

How does this relate to my post? Apart from money, that is not even there (in reality), what else? Is it not on this same NL we see guys advising girls to marry guys with potentials and leave money? How come, Nigerian men suddenly have so much money.

The contradictions are one too many.

It is futile trying to understand alfa males sha.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:44am On Nov 20, 2019
Lush100:
no ma'am, no one forces a woman to marry, its wired in human nature to be loved by the opposite sex.

and no, i don't think men are scared of career women but when they see a wealthy one, they analyse that she is likely to be arrogant. and in most cases its likely she is or arrogant.(my wife told me this and she is a youth pastor).



Preach it!!!!

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by nonix22(m): 9:45am On Nov 20, 2019
You must be a lawyer, or Psychologist?
Nice one Man
pansophist:
Women actually do not even offer sex. Women engage in an equal act of sex, but see it as if they are offering it to men, and this notion have been on for long that people think women offer sex.

Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sunnyobums(m): 9:48am On Nov 20, 2019
NaijaOlosho:
Men have nothing to offer than 10minutes dicks

For sex dem no get strength

I make men enjoy sex.

You can't have me and then don't come back for me.

We know
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 9:49am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:


You ladies should stop dragging this obvious truth and just work hard to improve and become valuable women to your respective men.

Stop arguing, just make a resolution from today that you will become a woman of value to any man

Men of value DO NOT have a problem finding the kind of woman they WANT/NEED. Otherwise his supposed value would be questionable.

This is not an Otedola, Elumelu or Dangote kind of problem. Water and oil do not mix. Riff raffs cannot find a way into their circle.

Maybe you all should advise yourselves to be men of value and leave leeches- because they will always exist. It balances the ecosystem.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:49am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Are you a bot or something?

How does this relate to my post? Apart from money, that is not even there (in reality), what else? Is it not on this same NL we see guys advising girls to marry guys with potentials and leave money? How come, Nigerian men suddenly have so much money.

The contradictions are one too many.

It is futile trying to understand alfa males sha.


Forget Nairaland, sometimes we here for fun of it....be real....I am sure you an Igbo lady and you do visit Igbo land during xmas, if they tell you that Nigerian guys are broke, would you agree


If you don't mind, I will be back around December, I can give you a treat and introduce you to guys so you understand that its not as you think.


Stop taking nairaland talks too serious....I know a guy here on this same nairaland who is close to the likes of E-money, an Igbo son from coal city, there are lots of them here.....I won't reveal his ID, but be guided, its not always as you read and think here....life is too tough out there, guys are funny, some guys you maybe seeing as nodowells here may be the opposite.....some experience I had here changed my orientation about the people here....most people active in politics and auto section are not dunces, most of those who engage in politics criticism remain anonymous here for some reasons so don't lie, you yourself know Nigerian guys are financially capable, I am sure you know it, you are just trying to be mischievous for reason I cannot fathom wink

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 20, 2019
SEALL:

pls, a link to this story
its in the list of my thread
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 9:52am On Nov 20, 2019
MOST NIGERIANS (MEN AND WOMEN) ARE BROKE!!!!!

You don't need to introduce me to guys, they will probably be blabbermouths like you amd that is a turnoff. I know where to find my kind of men and money isn't even the leading factor- SENSE is.

Good you know there are people of class here. Now do you think their problem is finding women of class to? Emphasis on CLASS, money ain't class.


franchasng:
Forget Nairaland, sometimes we here for fun of it....be real....I am sure you an Igbo lady and you do visit Igbo land during xmas, if they tell you that Nigerian guys are broke, would you agree


If you don't mind, I will be back around December, I can give you a treat and introduce you to guys so you understand that its not as you think.


Stop taking nairaland talks too serious....I know a guy here on this same nairaland who is close to the likes of E-money, an Igbo son from coal city, there are lots of them here.....I won't reveal his ID, but be guided, its not always as you read and think here....life is too tough out there, guys are funny, some guys you maybe seeing as nodowells here may be the opposite.....some experience I had here changed my orientation about the people here....most people active in politics and auto section are not dunces, most of those who engage in politics criticism remain anonymous here for some reasons so don't lie, you yourself know Nigerian guys are financially capable, I am sure you know it, you are just trying to be mischievous for reason I cannot fathom wink
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by ireneidiva(f): 9:53am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
You are now indirectly agreeing with the same thing that 99% of Nigerian women depend solely on men, directly or indirectly.....why can't she spend her mom's money


Why don't we hear Alakija's daughters sharing their mom's money too


You ladies should stop dragging this obvious truth and just work hard to improve and become valuable women to your respective men.

Stop arguing, just make a resolution from today that you will become a woman of value to any man you come across and not just a dependent leech who only collect collect and receive from men without offering any other thing to men aside sex, that's all guys here are asking for, is that too much to ask for
Madam your parents sent you to school right? Will you say it was only your dad that provided financially for you excluding your mom? Asides her dad's money, she is a dj and brand ambassador for pepsi. I'm sure that one pays. If you don't add value to the people around you, then you are the one that should change. I still stand with I know women who do things and women who have helped me. Change your circle! Bye!
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 9:54am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Men of value DO NOT have a problem finding the kind of woman they WANT/NEED. Otherwise his supposed value woukd be questionable.

This is not an Otedola, Elumelu or Dangote kind of problem. Water and oil do not mix. Riff raffs cannot find a way into their circle.

Maybe you all should advise yourselves to be men of value and leave leeches- because they will always exist. It balances the ecosystem.
You ladies keep sounding pained and personal.....Ned Nwoke is a man of value according to your classification cos he have lots of money, look at who he married, ordinary girl who doesn't even have up to a million naira....does that mean Ned is a rifraff, my sister stop sounding paranoid.....Nigerian men are usually focused on ladies' physical beauty, they don't usually care about her financial worth....its just gradually changing for the young guys, not the norm.




How much money does the lady Adams Oshiomhole married have

How much money does the small student Alaafin of Oyo married have

How much money does the small girl Imo State former deputy governor Mmadumere married have

Chioma that Davido is spoiling up and down is a billionaire right


Stop all these talk of men attract who they are bullcrap....men just go for any lady that entices them physically without considering her financial worth.....if Nigerian men start considering lady's financial worth, do you think 99% of Nigerian ladies who are usually broke will ever get a boyfriend or husband


Stop all these talk abeg and be real angry angry

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by akinjojo1234: 9:56am On Nov 20, 2019
donjon:
Nairaland females have been trying very hard to justify their oloshoism these past few days, generally wailing upandan with nobody to answer them.
One of them that looks like mermaid even collected shopping complex and ran cheesy

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin, cough, cough uyai--------cough cough grin grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sunnyobums(m): 9:57am On Nov 20, 2019
safarigirl:
This is untrue

A lion does nothing but sit at home and piss everywhere to mark territory, while the lionnesses hunt for food and bring the food home to the lion, the lionnesses also protect their cubs, if I know nothing else from Nat Geo, I know this one.
The line "piss everywhere got me" nne u dey mad oo, lol.

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