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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 8:13am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Marvieduke:God bless you jareh, don't mind all these pretenders forming women activist online but in real life, they know they offer nothing to men, NOTHING as in NOTHING!!!! Yet they will be pretending and telling wicked lies online 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:14am On Nov 20, 2019 |
safarigirl: Very simple babe. I met one who kept asking for my account number, I wonder how much he could possibly send. 10k, maybe 20... then start disturbing my life with talks of how he fed me. All he kept harassing me with was mani, mani, mani!! Yet he wanted me to fix his modafuckeen disorganised life. I jump and pass. When there are responsible men out there. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 8:15am On Nov 20, 2019 |
NiCurious: This is one of the few comments that have caught my attention here. Most of the guys here are yapping things related to money. If a woman can treat herself and offer herself the world, then what does the man really have to offer? I also like the conclusion.... A baby girl has to choose well for herself. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by biddostandard: 8:15am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Riele:cant you see alot of your fellow lady avoiding this thread,stop making a fool out of yourself |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:15am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by selemo: 8:15am On Nov 20, 2019 |
pocohantas:No say all black men you have met not the white dudes... |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by safarigirl(f): 8:16am On Nov 20, 2019 |
dazzlingd: The society believes the woman must be married, and a woman with a career and without a marriage, is incomplete. You cannot have it all, if you find a woman with a career, a man like you will probably be too scared to approach her because you will automatically think her arrogant and not 'submissive' It is when women try to be submissive that you find them depending on men, if a woman does not depend on a man, a lot of men feel useless to her. As for me, I cannot relate to anything you have said and I will not agree with you for lack of relatability. 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by nellyelitz(m): 8:16am On Nov 20, 2019 |
NaijaOlosho:...marketers everywhere you go! 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Tarabye: 8:17am On Nov 20, 2019 |
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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by nellyelitz(m): 8:17am On Nov 20, 2019 |
NaijaOlosho:...marketers everywhere you go!! 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 8:18am On Nov 20, 2019 |
jaxxy: Hahahahaha! |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Listar(m): 8:18am On Nov 20, 2019 |
safarigirl: No, I disagree with you! What I see in that write-up is an intellect and purposeful write-up. In as much as it is not not conventional, it's creative. Have you wonder how these words; it's kinda, ain't aren't, wanna ... come-about? Comprehending them isn't for primary school students or you wanna tell me you are still in primary school struggling to read ABCD 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 8:18am On Nov 20, 2019 |
bluefilm:The whole world know that majority of Nigerian ladies offer nothing to their men. Remove money, gifts, favor, and help, 99% of Nigerian ladies will never agree to date any man. The only reason most Nigerian ladies go into a relationship is to have a man that will be spending money on them at will and on demand, to be getting free gifts (phones, cars, house rent, house, free vacation, etc), remove all these things, and 99% of Nigerian ladies; rich or poor will never go into a relationship with any man, truth is bitter 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by dazzlingd(m): 8:20am On Nov 20, 2019 |
pocohantas: The question if they are on the majority shouldn't have been asked...Obviously, they are on the majority because that's the norm here in Africa. It's in their DNA, it's a cultural thing..painful truth. I haven't thrown any accusation at you here..yet u accuse me of sub standard associations.... Sorry, it's difficult here to meet such girls, very rare. And we really hope the situation can change because I'm not ready to settle for less... By the way, all these online chest beating doesn't proof anything... I could predict your type, I've met girls who appear so confident and intelligent but once u get a little closer into them, they reset to factory setting of the typical "African leach" who have nothing to offer other than sex and demand. I don't know u, but if I get to, I won't be surprised u may not be any different 10 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by dazzlingd(m): 8:21am On Nov 20, 2019 |
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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by lamalang(m): 8:24am On Nov 20, 2019 |
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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by dazzlingd(m): 8:24am On Nov 20, 2019 |
safarigirl: You just related and I'm glad u did...everything u just explained is responsible for the prevalence of dependent women offering nothing other than sex and demand |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by safarigirl(f): 8:26am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Listar:LOL Go and write a job application like that and see if you get the job. Perhaps those responsible for recruiting are all in primary school |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Angeldada55(m): 8:26am On Nov 20, 2019 |
...is that a question ? They *Offer heaven and earth* if you must know o. Abi, whose responsibility is it to provide *shelter* and *food* in the ( family ) house ? Or why do you think God made man the head of the family ? Iffa no talk now, e go be like say pesin no know anything... And some ladies go even swear say dia money no go reach dia hubby hand no matter wetin wan happen. Awon weyre gbogbo... " WE have agree " and accepted the responsibility since *inception* so no need to epp. Na man dey position woman ; if you new meet woman and she dey do one kind...just jeje go *factory reset* or download your own version of sense into her system #lobatan Cx na the one wey pesin *install* put you go meet there o and e fi no go well with you. Any loose ball ? Hit like if you think I'm a good player � 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:26am On Nov 20, 2019 |
ornicus: I am very particular about who I date or associate with. Right from my university days, guys always called me "proud" "arrogant", because I didn't see the need for majority of those relationships that were just sexfests. What the average Naija guy wields in a relationship is most times money and that money isn't even a lot (to me). The problem is, Nigerian girls are just too physically and mentally lazy to do better for themselves. Na why we dey see all this nonsense talk online. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 8:26am On Nov 20, 2019 |
pocohantas:99% of Nigerian men marry just to give birth to babies in wedlock, not that they expect anything from their so called wives because Nigerian men are used to Nigerian women's wickedness, selfishness, stinginess and heartlessness towards men who aren't their relative, so they aren't complaining, but for a Nigerian lady to have the stupid gut to come online to ask what men offer to women reeks of hypocrisy, and worst off is that fellow ladies who were supposed to honestly correct her are here supporting the foolish assumption that men don't offer anything to women, like WTF is that I can swear with anything you want, I have done so much for so many ladies who aren't my relative; have helped some travel out, get job, start a business, paid house rent, bought uncountable phones , bought a car of course to one and only one person.....and I have met lots of the so called ladies that can be classified as financially successful, working in top firms, yet they expect you to do everything for them......the truth is, 99% of Nigerian ladies are stingy!! Their money hardly circulate, even the rich ladies like Alakija and co, you can hardly hear they helped anybody aside their family members. I have lots of them even from my community, they do nothing to help the community, it is still we men that do all the community development projects. You black ladies should improve that's all we are saying, stop arguing blindly and defending a lost cause 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:27am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Still avoiding the question. In your quiet time, tell yourself the truth. dazzlingd: 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by safarigirl(f): 8:31am On Nov 20, 2019 |
dazzlingd:I still can't relate The sheet idea of expecting a man to pick up your bills is thankfully alien to me, because my mama was paying bills just as much, if not more than my dad. So, no, I don't relate. I know of the act, but it is not something I subscribe to. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by chinchonglee(m): 8:32am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Equal2DeTask:k Yeah... I ve moved on since. |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by donMIG(m): 8:32am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Riele: I for no mind ooo |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by JoffreyBeroth(m): 8:33am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Riele: Aunty just go and relax Men provide everything Women share everything 1 Like |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by safarigirl(f): 8:34am On Nov 20, 2019 |
pocohantas:this is one of my struggles I don't subscribe to the sexfest, I don't want the money, they can't understand either. The mere idea of a woman valuing sense over money is alien to a lot of Nigerian men. At this point, I am tired of it all 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Marvieduke(f): 8:35am On Nov 20, 2019 |
franchasng: God bless you too. What do I gain if I don't speak the truth. Na long throat and pride dey worry some ladies that is why they won't speak the truth. Sincerely some men offer the most in a relationship, Example: Our fathers, husbands, and brothers that is those that have loving and caring heart. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by HENRY940: 8:35am On Nov 20, 2019 |
franchasng: #real woman, ladies and gentlemen. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by mozona(m): 8:35am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Juell: lol |
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by izuch(m): 8:36am On Nov 20, 2019 |
pansophist: This is epic, I almost cried
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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by solofresh(m): 8:37am On Nov 20, 2019 |
[quote author=Thegamingorca post=84134967] Lol[/Why laughing? that the truth bro] |
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