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Asked a friend who is the deputy senate president she didn't know, told her he stole the Mace sometime as a clue, still didn't know..
Was shocked, she got angry, buh she can gist all other dumb randoms... Some are still sound tho.

sassysure:
So many ladies out there like this. They don't live and breath social media.

That is very good to hear!!!
Hope still dey

The other day, I was discussing with a girl few houses away from mine. I see her as decent cause I don't see guys around her and she always go to church. She told me there's a man proposing marriage to her and she doesn't like him( I know the man cause I've met him once in her house) but she will eat his money. I told her that's wrong. She said that's the first time she will eat a man's money in her life. Can you imagine? All of them are just the same expecially in extorting money joor.

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

I am a guy but i can boldly say that your sentiment is absolutely spot on....if I must shorten it down to one word, it would be: BRILLIANT...threads like yours remind me of why i still appreciate Nairaland...Kudos

Skepticus:
Odin forbids!

I'll rather die single. No jokes

I hope you do. If u ever marry any Nigerian girl, then forget it, you are a shame to your manhood

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

Tell this to the girls/ladies..


Allah did not create the female child to be slave to the male...ITS WHAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE , U CAN OFFER ...I CANT BE THE ONE TO BE TELLING YOU WHAT ALLAH HAS BLESSED YOU WITH. you must discover yourself... And if after discovering yourself , you feel exposing your boobs , butt, coming to my house to wash, cook , hanging out and get your holes drilled to the maximum level is only what you can offer, SO BE IT... I also have my fish to fry.

She is one of those being discussed. So mentally lazy that she couldn't read the interesting write-up by OP.

Although I don't agree with the OP but at least she was able to marshal some thoughts together although they shift responsibility which is what black folk excel at.

Most Black Americans are busy blaming whites for all their problems while Tyler Perry has built the largest film studio.

Nobody is coming to save you so do something with your life!

Lemon12:
lol, this one did not even read the post.

Hahahahah, talks like this sef are so unproductive, because whether y'all like it or not you stuck with the Nigerian ladies y'all bad mouth so much and I pray they don't disappoint you.

Well take the money the guys have to offer off the table and watch em looking like lost puppies since we generalising it now.
Rubbish and ingredient!!!
Oshisko Nigeria limited

Goalnaldo:
The other day, I was discussing with a girl few houses away from mine. I see her as decent cause I don't see guys around her and she always go to church. She told me there's a man proposing marriage to her and she doesn't like him( I know the man cause I've met him once in her house) but she will eat his money. I told her that's wrong. She said that's the first time she will eat a man's money in her life. Can you imagine? All of them are just the same expecially in extorting money joor.

hello Gonaldo, remember me?..you have a point but I believe that men have a hand in the behavior of women......men directly encourage women to behave the way they do...most(not necessarily all) of the time, what guys want in a relationship is sex and they are willing to go to any length to acquire it. A woman then cannot be blamed completely for taking advantage of those men...

I totally agree that women offer nothing in relationship other than sex, but in marriage it is not so...

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

You are spot on! There's this girl I should have settled down with cos we have come a long way.

She's just the average Nigerian girl, brings nothing to the table and to make matters worst she's not proven that she merits the OND she holds.

I have dated a guy that all he offered me was his dick. I recharged his phone, gave him money for haircut, offering, bought him cloths shoes, and celebrated him on his birthdays and other stuffs. But received nothing but his dick. Most guys too only want sex in relationships. Refuse him sex and watch how the relationship goes. My former boyfriend broke up with me after I stopped giving him sex telling me he can't be begging me the time. This is the same guy that for the 2 years I dated him never bought me anything or gave me any meaning thing. Remove money from relationship, what do guys offer if not dick?

Shashar:
Why you too dey lie, eeh

I'm not lieing. This guy has approached me on different occasions I still turn him down, he has approached almost all the girls in my lodge including my roomie. You know yourselves

UndauntedYOCA:
I'm trying my best o, I'm a corper, I do home lesson and also waybill things such as yams to the west to have them sold for me. I was going to plant about 100 suckers but I heard it's too late so I've got to wait till February when it starts to rain, I would also love to buy rams from the north and have them reared in the west but no one to look after them so I've got to save enough money first to buil d a good shed for the rams and maybe two cows ( everything might cost me 200-250k), once I've saved enough money I'll do just that and from the proceeds I'd love to plant cocoa and some other things. I want to do more but I no fit do pass my power for now. BTW he writes better than I do that's why I helped him look for some sites ( he's really good at what he does) but truth is he's too busy for himself and that's why I'm willing to wait but we must never be too busy to progress.

My dear i pity you o Because it is your type that men love to use and dump.

See how you are taking NL guys seriously.

I did all this and she still bleeped another guy... more than once. Clear road abeg

anonymous1759:
...

Honestly majority of 9ja girls have zero communication skills. Their IQ is very Iow when you initiate a meaningful convo they see you as a jonzing man and make you feel like a Dumbo.

The only thing that fascinate an average 9ja girl is Food, fashion and money. Very few of them have sense.

When I was younger I marvel seeing handsome men marrying girls who are not that pretty but I understand better now that Brains is very important not just beauty. I'll rather go for a lady who's 50% beautiful, 75% intelligent and above than going for a Bimbo 100% beautiful and 0% sense.

The truth is that most beautiful girls are less intelligent and fool themselves.

Very correct

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits*

The title should be modified to indicate Nigerian women. Women in other cultures are generally very helpful to their partners.

Sukueponmalu:
Even though I don’t agree with that “women don’t have anything to offer apart from sex” thing.
I totally disagree with your assertion about engaging women in a intellectual/an intelligent discourse. These kind of discussions are boring to the average woman.
Trust me, I have tried it so many times.

lol....same here...Sometimes when you try to discuss something deep or intellectual with her, her face changes, and you will even wonder if there is something wrong with you.

franchasng:
ladies do it too, has it stopped guys from helping their girlfriends


Let's be honest, [b]majority of Nigerian ladies are selfish, stingy, greedy [/b]and covetous in nature, only very insignificant few are exception.


Nigerian women are mostly good to their children and parents; those are the people that enjoy their selfless love and care, but to men, they are brutal and offer nothing aside sex in return for money, favor, job, help, marriage, etc

So rrue they are self entitled and very stingy

rtdCivilservant:
So are u now saying women are Zombies that they give in to whatever the men ask from them? They give sex just because the men ask? Are u saying Women are this stupid? God forbid my sweet mother can never be as foolish as u described.

Our mothers are way better than the ladies now ...they can keep conversation with their husband go out to vote ,have political talks with people still go out to sell...
Pls look for another emotional blackmailing this one has failed

This is the kind of topic that gets to 13 pages and more. Any topic on female bashing or sex related issues.

And na guys wey love intellectual discussions dey comment pass.

Go to other enlightening sections and you won't see all these guys and girls there. It will be very hard for such thread to cross 3pages.

Now I understand why my senior friend said Nigerian youths are very dumb. He wasn't even being gender specific.

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

I swear just stupidly annoying.

Rasmega:
This wonderful piece was written by a wise man SEARCHING4LOVE

Over 90 percent of Nigerian ladies are so rude and manner-less. From my observation, i think it's best they are left to remain lonely and single for life if possible. Nigerian girls are very good pretenders in relationships and their real attitude will surface once you marry them. They are so mean and mostly irresponsible and won't hesitate to curse you out or call you names for voicing out your disgust about their promiscuous way of life. It's not surprising that female population are exceeding their male counterparts in this present world and due to this fact many ladies are desperate and will stop at nothing to lure gullible men into their fake love trap with the hope of trapping them with marital bondage.  

One amazing thing is the stupidity and pride Nigerian girls exhibit when they are still in the age bracket of (22-28) by playing hard to get on potential suitors just to give an impression of been a good girl even tho they are mostly who.res and prostitutes in disguise. They waste away their early years running after men for money and material gains and later turn desperadoes hunting for gullible men to marry their second hand pusssies. Most Nigerian girls are mostly insatiable. They are long throats and their money hungry nature will make Oliver twist look like a learner . They jump from dick to dick just to meet up with their over bloated needs and fake life that eludes their parents capabilities, they eat like glutton on a date ordering for what they wont dare spend their money on, and the worst part is their terrible hygiene. Many of them are smelly due to skin toning to appear fake, they can wear a pant and bra for 3days and their pusssy smells like pit toilet due to several banging and various semen deposits from different men. All these factors are responsible for the teaming population of desperate ladies who will stop at nothing to get their hands on a man after their terrible past comes haunting them.

Most Nigerian girls can never be good wives because they are so materialistic and have no potentials to build a happy home. It has been observed that most men who married Nigerian girls end up in early graves due to facts and revelations emanating after years of marriage. Many Nigerian men are raising bastard kids in their homes courtesy of the informal prostitutes they call wives. If you want a peaceful marriage, i advise you to look out side the shores of Nigeria where mentalities are entirely different from these financial pest we parade as women in Nigeria. A foreign lady offers you true love with out deceit, Care, support, and understand the real meaning of been in a relationship. Hardly will you find a Nigerian lady who is ready to sacrifice her income to make your marriage expenses 50-50 even if she earns more than you do yet they scream gender equality while they expect men to carry all financial burdens. Our ladies here see relationship with a man as a poverty alleviation program and this is mostly the reason why a girl will have over 20 toasters on her Bbm and whatsapp deceiving them with fake love while she continues to milk them dry if they are weak and gullible . There are bad ladies every where but the poverty mentality Nigerian girls are raised with makes most of them turn parasites looking for the nearest host. Most of our girls here were deprived of so many things while growing up due to poverty hence they make up for their needs using their pusssy as a means to an end. The percentage of promiscuos and disloyal female partners in Nigeria is second to none.

Most Nigerian Girls will never love you for who you are even if you have a bright future and glaring potentials but what you have or possess at present and once that thing(money or material things) is no more, they quit you and look for the next comfort zone irrespective of the memories and number of years you spend together. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. It is better to marry from another clime than get involved in an eternal regret. May we find our heart desires and happiness.

Gbagam

Goalnaldo:
The other day, I was discussing with a girl few houses away from mine. I see her as decent cause I don't see guys around her and she always go to church. She told me there's a man proposing marriage to her and she doesn't like him( I know the man cause I've met him once in her house) but she will eat his money. I told her that's wrong. She said that's the first time she will eat a man's money in her life. Can you imagine? All of them are just the same expecially in extorting money joor.

Are you just knowing. These bitches all behave in the same way

chrismymen:
Apart from wearing make-ups and thinking of love and zee world, fashion, keep shape, I want my man to love man as God commanded. Let her use that time to develop her brains learn money skills respect, effective communication, relationship building, effective marriage skills, career goals and supportive team player.
This will her in achieving destiny

Forget oo some their own is to talk big but no moves to fulfil it sometimes when I look at the women around me I wish I was gay.

victorian:
Thank God I'm not in any relationship with any guy from nairaland.

80percent of guys here wailing every second what has women has to offer to a man is just sex!

Really? What do u guys want? A woman to be crediting your account every day.

Awon Ole!
Don't go and hustle work and be a man. Be waiting for woman to come feed u guys. Bloody gold diggers!
Smhhhh!

That's why I love igbo guys, u won't hear an igbo guy spew this rubbish!

They are not waiting for their women to come and credit their accounts.

Awon Ole jati jati! You guys are so shameless! God forbid!

*spits*

Na them I deh use get hope seh human race still have sensible people.

These Yoruba bloody lazy men are something else. Spits.

Samuels90:
Asked a friend who is the deputy senate president she didn't know, told her he stole the Mace sometime as a clue, still didn't know..
Was shocked, she got angry, buh she can gist all other dumb randoms... Some are still sound tho.

I won't lie I don't know the answer she. But she may be smart not just politically upright.

victorian:
Thank God I'm not in any relationship with any guy from nairaland.

80percent of guys here wailing every second what has women has to offer to a man is just sex!

Really? What do u guys want? A woman to be crediting your account every day.

Awon Ole!
Don't go and hustle work and be a man. Be waiting for woman to come feed u guys. Bloody gold diggers!
Smhhhh!

That's why I love igbo guys, u won't hear an igbo guy spew this rubbish!

They are not waiting for their women to come and credit their accounts.

Awon Ole jati jati! You guys are so shameless! God forbid!

*spits*

No wonder you're still single at 35. Na nemesis dey catch up with you oh

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

You look pained and feel unlucky. Probably from your past experience or cycle of friends. Apologies!! From we the lucky men with honest, supportive, and hardworking wives. We pray you receive sense. You want to start a war on what men also do during their leisure.....
Continue
Just passing through
Dislike women haters
Was brought up by ladies(Late Mum's Sisters)
School fees paid by them
Feeding done by them
Now doing Great with 3 lovely kids
Gender equality

Not looking for likes - Just saying my mind.

victorian:
You are not even ashamed of yourself

Depend on a girl to feed and credit your account.

Are u not shameless? Are u even meant to be called a man?

You are a wussy !

Shameless thing!

Spits!!!

See you see menopause oh

Chaiii...naija women. U put natgoewild, they prefer bbnija n at night dem go open legs. Ma fellow niggaz, wetin dey finish man no dey carry cutlass

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Women have many other things to offer than sex.



...but those things come with prices.


Oh well.

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