DaddyNimo:
girls tell me something, how do you Bleep people you don't have feelings for? you're a hoe simple. I wish I know your guy to tell him a hoe he's about to Wed..

Like I don't get it.... It's so easy for them.... Atleast for guys there is still an atom of feelings which is LUST.

Hoe

AXYZ:


Apt

It's better she confesses to him and allow him take his decisions, instead of living every day in fear. You never can tell when his friend may want to 'deal' with you.

As it is, it's better he even leaves you, although painfully than be at the whims and caprices of his friend. Look for a way to tell him.

Lucyliz

Exactly. Let him choose whether he can handle it or not instead of deceiving him.

It's more annoying when people trap you by withholding information and keep lying to you as if you're stupid.

And your heart will jumping every time his phone rings, haba! Is marriage supposed to be served in a state of self-reproach like a life sentence

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

This is me here your fiance friend.
Just forget about the wedding because me n my friend cannot be eating from the same pot.
No matter the circumstances since my i don chop you and it's not rape.
My sister just forget it because any gist period we go always yarn about it and E won't b able to take it.
Is either you go now or later because he'll eventually get to know.
Thanks you and don't call me because I won't pick too.

vincentjk:
I personally think the guy wants to let you know before going ahead to tell your fiance.

Real men see themselves as brothers not just friends and would never have an affair with each other's woman(it's against "the bro code". Pick his call and reason with him before it's too late because he feels he has betrayed his own brother.


After all most people do this esp when the said person looks better than their partner and would only realise after it has been done. Don't say i didn't warn you

Worst advise so far. Guy, lack of sense will kee you.

poster this film go sweet o, biko what is the name make i go buy am LINUS!

fabuloz1:

My dear, heed to this advice! He has said it all
My dear, heed to this advice! He has said it all

Thank you

[quote author=Riele post=84281161]Aunty .

You shouldn't be feeling guilty in any way .

Don't tell your fiancee and if you try coming into an agreement with the "friend" , he might try to frame you up . Just saying !

The past is in the past anyways .

***
They'll come here calling you names like hoe etc

This is now they wreck homes. All you are thinking about is now...common sense and the need to support your fellow woman will not make you realise that in future that guy will bring it up, that's if he doesn't do it b4 the wedding sef...the husband is already suspecting so whatever his friend tells him he is most likely to believe as he will claim he too noticed some funny behaviour from her. It's better he hears it from her now than from his friend. If he will end the marriage he will and she will lose, true. But if he marries her and he hears later or worse still he hears from the friend b4 the marriage she will be worse off cos it will be divorce or a lifetime of misery...

Think with your head and with the future in mind b4 u rush to support women just because you are a woman...she did wrong somehow but you are not even thinking of the man...it's just how she will get away with doing rubbish in spite of the fact that's it's almost out in the open.
Anyway most girls no even get sense sef hence your need to support her since u can do what she did

Tell your fiance before the ex-lover tells him.
Did you consider that the guy could have seen your picture before and deliberately met with you.

Sparro:

Worst advise so far. Guy, lack of sense will kee you.

Then advice her your own let see

Okacha malu

I can bet my left ball that this guy wasn't the only guy u slept with in between that brief period of quarrel, for all we dont know over here in sambisa, u can't count them all on your 10fingers, even with toes being in assistance.

Anyway, all you need to do I come out clean with your guy and tell him the truth.

Just tell him "his friend was one of THEM".

Even if he leaves u, he would forever respect you.

And that respect would surely pay up in the future, if not immediately.

Shii happens.. Though this lady did very badly. If na me seriously from my mind I'll forgive her. But that was wrong... Damn wrong.

Umu nwanyi.. Chai

Crazy girls. Just be ready to be servicing two of them because if you deny him the puna, he go talk. Men na men

I strongly advice u be bold and tell ur fiance about it as what would be,would be.it is better he know about it now than later wen u guys eventually marry coz certainly it must come out someday.U having an agreement with the guy might make him start blackmailing u or probably indulge in more sex with him .If ur fiance leaves u be strong and move on coz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

jaxxy:
If she tells the bf it will ruin not only her relationship bt the bfs frndship with his frnd. If they can completely put it behind them and move on that wud be perfect for everyone. No contact or discussion.

Bt the frnd will have to stop being close to her bf and give the couple sm space. It’s just a sad coincidence. There is no way u can say it and it will turn out good cos it’s his frnd. Damn

Yes now, let the relationship be ruined if that's what it takes.

She can't keep worrying and crying for the rest of her life and plus it's not fair to keep it from him and start the marriage based one lie.

How will his friend suddenly begin to move away from his friend just because of her? You can't control what other people do, especially when you don't even know them and they don't owe you anything.

vincentjk:


Then advice her your own let see

Okacha malu

Oga, go and search every morg to see if lack of sense has not kee you already. Guy, you are hollow up there..

I know how you feel... wait I don't know how you feel I have only dated once lol but hey I know you're in a panic mode right now which is something I can relate to, I can imagine how restless you must be right now hopefully you get to read this and take an advice.


firstly don't let anyone get into your head saying all sort of trash about you dear you're human and I can assure you, we may even do worse if we find ourselves in your position.


secondly you are not guilty of anything, the relationship was off meaning you too went your separate ways and trust me the first two to three weeks of a break up is usually a bit messy, we do All kind of shit just to get away from the hurt it doesn't matter whose fault is it, it happens , it's a reason among many you could have slept with your guy's friend and even if that ain't the reason trust me when I tell you that you did nothing wrong.

thirdly you have to talk with your boyfriend's friend and for what it is worth because I don't know about this friend of his but I am human and a guy myself and we like to take advantage of situations please dear don't let any one take advantage of you I know you're at a desperate and confused stage right now but relax take a breath and tell yourself it's okay, talk to him find out what he wants if he hasn't told your man already then something is up and three things are involved here, one he wants to keep this a secret or he wants you to tell your man himself or he wants to take advantage of the situation which I fear the most but here is something you are not seeing he has alot to lose as you do if e tells your man the truth maybe you have more of the lose but definitely he too has a part of it.

four, it hard to see a relationship crumble sweety but trust me it's bitter and hurtful if you go into this union with such secret, this is not some random guy this is your man's friend , my only relationship of four and a half years came crashing because I couldnt tell the truth it came back to hurt me even when I thought it was all okay, don't let your man find out for himself, be brave, pray, be confident and reassure your self that you did nothing absolutely wrong and go talk with him, trust me part of the restlessness and desperation you are feeling now is because you are already anticipating what he would do if he knows the truth.

don't make a mistake now, I know what marriage and even been with the one you love means but no relationship can succeed truly without the truth remember this : YOU GUYS BROKE UP WHEN THIS HAPPENED ANY SENSIBLE GUY SHOULD AND WOULD UNDERSTAND this.


another thing I have up in my head is what if this again is some set up I mean do you think this is a coincidence, yes it can be but I want you to sit it out and think about it again what if something is wrong here with this whole drama you're in, your man can be playing a smart one with his friend too but then again I am just thinking out loud.

whatever your choice is I just want you to know you are not guilty of anything here and don't for any reason let anyone treat you like that.

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

I think i know this Movie..
The name of the move is, Broken Heart.
The guys later got to know and he eventually lose trust in the girl.
The movie dey interesting sha and na Nollyhood movie, i mean New Nolly

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

Whats the title of this movie please?

franchasng:
Till I leave this earth, I will keep visiting Nairaland if not for anything to hear raw stories and to know when someone is taking me for a fool or if I become Senator, to know when they are planning to unseat me.


Nairaland is the home of raw secret stories you can stay here and hear story about your life being told by an anonymous user

Most stories are fake to keep us busy.. If you know

Mood11:
We should help you to unsex?

Did you not do eeeeh aaaah when he was chuking you

You claim to be in love but small quarrel you rush go collect pritck for neighbouring state

MAD O!!!! LWKMD

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

Guy in question,should luck up jor

The truth of the matter is that act as if noting happen, and he will not even be able to tell your guy 100% assurance.

Once ti de nibe, will always de nibe.

Mind you the other guy asked for relationship but you rejected,if you dare go into any agreement with him my dear believe you me his Ts&Cs won't funny. you have think of how to ease your self whenever you guys are together. But to be more sincere with you,bear your cross and tell your fiance before his friend do the unthinkable. He must be angry with you for some period but will definitely calm down for good.

midnighter:


Ha! you must be a lawyer. In fact a barrister with LLM...see how you just turned the whole thing like you were turning ewa

I am a scientist ooo

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

don't ever mind the nonsense those people up there are saying,nobody holy pass. If you check their story they have done far more worst than you. Hypocrites everywhere. Now listen to me. You never knew they were friends when you had sex with him, so I see no reason to kill yourself over this,I don't even see it as a mistake to start with. Now you must not let the fear of the unknown lead you to depression.pick his call and hear what he has to say.becareful as he may record your conversation to blackmail you in the future. Good luck to you.

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

hey sweetie I know you are going through alot right now so please do read my advice up above I am not a relationship expert but I have emotions and feelings and I can understand how it feels at this crucial moment of your life.

there is something they say about pain

"by anticipating our pains , we hurt ourselves the more "

in truth you are hurting more than you are likely to once you get this off your mind so please no more tears, read my advice and if you want to talk just tag my comment.

Take your fake concocted story elsewhere jare.

U av no feelings 4 him but u opened ur legs for him. I think ur legs do av feelings 4 him. Women like u cnt even mourn their husbands for 1month b4 they start eating fresh bananas. My advice is for u to change ur orientation abt sex and relationship b4 going into marriage. I dnt think ure ready for marriage now. Be open to him, simple. Goodluck to you

. [quote author=Lucyliz post=84281090]Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.
It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.
We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

Sparro:

Oga, go and search every morg to see if lack of sense has not kee you already. Guy, you are hollow up there..

I'm a very savage person but out of respect (I know you're married) I won't talk back at you.

If you really mean I'm hollow upstairs by saying what i think then fine. I agree with you sir

Have a lovely day

i think say na only nollywood drama like this dy happen,

this story go sweet die, abeg, dy give us update as e dy go, we fit get one script from this one