Hi Op,
I worked with National Agency for the Control of Aids
You can call this number “6222” it’s toll free on Mtn Airtel and 9mobile.
You will get all the information you need on HIV and they will also refer you to hospitals were you can get help and Antiretroviral drugs for free.

There is something called Prevention of Mother to child transmission (PMCT) meaning your children won’t be HIV + if your wife follows all instructions and treatment.


You if truly love your woman, you can marry her and you and your children will be negative.

If you need more info send a mail.

If indeed u truly love her, then marry her...its is test of love..what if you discover this after marirage? Or you are tje one infected Pls stay with her.... Let her go for delivrance at prayer city for 7days or if u are not biase go meet TB Joshua ...Believe me,, not all sickness/diseases are ordinary but Spiritual.....my prayers are with brother in this difficuit time ...

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

It may sound strange but is she someone that believes that there is no conflict between science and God; someone who believes that all wisdom including medicine is God given. This will ensure that no crockpot will encourage to go off her meds without telling you.

Secondly, is she conscientious, diligent and methodical I.e. she wont forget doctors appointments etc.

Thirdly when you project the future can you see her growing as a person knowledge, wisdom and skills wise? Will you be the same? Or is any of you likely to settle on the road and live out a life of mediocrity? Do you have a joint goal that excites and invigorates you?

Fourthly are you sure you love her or are you simply grateful.

If you can answer yes to these four questions then begin talking about the how and when. Remember there is no such thing as a perfect person or a perfect marriage. What you can have is perfect intentions. Some of the physically healthy women you see around have deep mental illness, some have deeply recessive or hidden issues they dont even know about yet. There is no safety anywhere other than the one that God gives. I have seen sickly people live till old age and I have seen the robustly health die suddenly. If a second with her is more precious than a year in a meaningless relationship then take next steps all four questions being affirmative.

Blessings in your journey.

I'm surprised o.
Guys saying "marry her, marry her"
But if person say "I love her but she's SS, can I marry her?"
Y'all be saying "no"

@op Bros, ask God for direction.

He can have unprotected sex with her, they can have children together. What they need to do is visit a hospital to learn how to manage and live a quality life despite HIV..

Finnese001:
Bro if you love her like you said, my advice is for you to marry her but don't have unprotected sex with her, adopt a baby with her and get her an apartment for them where you can always visit them. I hope she will understand.

Secondly, Marry another woman who you Will now live with and have your own kids.


Sign out.

HIV is different from SS

SS is fatal, HIV isn't.

She can carry her own HIV free biological children and deliver them. This is 2019, HIV is no longer scary.

Chi59:
I'm surprised o.
Guys saying "marry her, marry her"
But if person say "I love her but she's SS, can I marry her?"
Y'all be saying "no"

@op Bros, ask God for direction.

Sterope:
HIV is different from SS

SS is fatal, HIV isn't.

She can carry her own HIV free biological children and deliver them. This is 2019, HIV is no longer scary.

Hanty, ignorance is not bliss o.
Sorry ehn

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

You


Unfortunately I will advice you becareful so that you don't get infested with hiv. ...both of you can practice safe sex...use 3 condoms to protect your dick against and fluid contact...always wear glove whenever you wanna remove the condom. Ensure she keeps to her drugs and make her happy since she is the source of your happiness. If need be you guys can adopt children if you don't wanna marry another woman....Now that you are rich kindly extend helping hand to your brother here....ground no level now.....I go happy if you ask for my acct number cos there is love in sharing ....and our people say a beggar better pass thief...one love

UDOKABESTLUV:


Bro, show me some love please

What love?
Is it the one I have for my source of happiness.

Yes all of you here saying marry her marry her dont know what marriage is all about,it comes with a lot of ups and downs.

Marrying a woman woman with HIV is like knowing fully well that you will shot dead by her with your own gun and last bullet the day you make her vex.

I'll not touch her with a badge pole.

You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens.

Phenomenal16:
..hmmmm........eyaaahhhhhh
What do u want me to tell u now?
Am sorry for her.....but for u , follow ur heart....u know what's in ur mind ..just do it

Wise response.

merits:

We put it the way you put your penix insyd toto na

Lol you don't mean it but me I be virgin boy nah

This one is strong oo

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

no need to dump her. Just google "holisticlifecare ibadan" . You call them and don't hesitate to share the good news later here on NL. I'm not related to the company in any way before my orthodox professional friends here would take swipe at me. At least, 2 people I've sent to them are a living testimony today. The owner is a professor at UI who diversified into an alternative medicine. Good luck bro.

U are just being f polish

How can u love a HIV person to that extent

Anacondaprick:


How una dey Take input that green symbol

When you're using data mode you'll be able to add an emoji

jibrilELsudan:
HIV is just a status thing and not a death sentence, so go ahead and marry her.

Besides, if you have been fvcking her without insurance and shooting your hot cum in her mouth, you also do share the positive status. It's takes 6months from the time of infection for the virus to show in any lab test.


So go for another test in 6months then cum report back to us the outcum.

Depending on your immunity level. From 6 weeks, up to 3 months your status can be known.

Bros, HIV no longer pack the punch it use to have.

If you pull the top 10 list of global more deadly diseases, HIV/AID is not featured, but you will see Diarrhea, Diabetic, TB, etc.

In fact even among the very poor and in Africa that HIV affects the most due to lack of knowledge and lack of access to medicine; Diarrhea kills more people, more than AIDs and Malaria combined.

The thing with AIDS is, you have to know your status and get all the necessary information out there, access to google is even more than enough and that individual can live a fruitful life; can have kids; can marry and will not transmit the disease his/her spouse. Since, she know her status now, she is ahead of the curve and positioned to live a more fulfilling life than a good percentage of the rest of the population who don’t care to get tested and know their status.

Ask yourself if you will still marry her, if she had malaria or TB or Diabetic or Diarrhea?

tinubulagos952:
when and where??

My uncles wife is HIV positive but my uncle is negative. Recently they had a baby who is negative. They have been living as husband and wife since 2005. They only got to know about it two years ago after the wife failed sick. So it is possible is not a rocket science

nairalee:
Okay now it's very clear and obvious people are now cooking up relationship stories on nairaland to make the forum interesting.

My question is if Seun pays or just for likes and attention. If Seun is paying please I'm interested o. I'm a professional cock and bull story inventor.

me too I have Phd in roster and bull stories...


if seun was paying,i would have gotten a Benz by now with my roster and bull stories

As a Nurse/midwife, I have delivered alot of women with HIV whereas their spouses are Negative and aware,iam only against lying about status to your significant other.
If you love her,nothing is wrong with it,but you both will have to comply with rules.

tinubulagos952:
What love?
Is it the one I have for my source of happiness.

I'm a professional blogger, we need to talk bro

4ckz:
If you are ready to obey rules for the rest of your life, and also ensure that your wife obeys the same rules then go ahead.

There have been and are still families with a HIV positive spouse and while the other spouse and the children are all negative.

However she must have to stick to her medications, medical appointments, tests, because she should have it in mind that she is no longer looking after only her health, but that of yours as well.

At the end follow your heart.

I would marry a HIV positive woman if I think she is the one for me.

This is my beloved son.

Yes!

I’m very pleased with him.



Listen to him!

tinubulagos952:
when and where??

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tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

A medical doctor is suppose to have a better say on this

Collect her money and connections and RUN! She has laid her bed, let her lie on it; wetin consine agbero with overload?

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.


I don't know what to do.

Help me

Must every one we like become marriable? She may just be better of as a "benefactor" and nothing more!
HIV +, as far as I know you can marry her and not become infected too but have you considered to ask yourself mind throbbing questions: marriage should not be the reward for her help! You can do other things to help her!

Wow

Have the virus with her too. Its all love, HIV no dey scare men again.

Love is blind they say.. Your own dey see?