pansophist:
I can marry a woman that subscribe to the dictionary definition of feminism, you know, a true egalitarian. Think about the true feminist women out there in the field helping other women, women such as Ngozi Chimamanda.

Though, if by feminist, you mean the ones screaming about toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, your modern third wave intersectional nut head, that has fully digested the leftist nonsense of perpetual victimhood, those ones that sees oppression everywhere and believe women cant be sexist, then hell no, I'll rather masturbate with engine oil than even date, not to talk of marrying one.

I want a peaceful life, not a woman that will interpret simple cooking for the family as oppression and unpaid household labour lol. Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife (proverb 21.9).

TheRedpillguy:

You can not be a ferminist then not subscribe to ferminist ideas.
Anyways its like asking a Nigerian spy wea the army keeps the armory. Defntly they will have no idea

OladimejiRufai:


Sorry but I think you should think this through.

If you marry a feminist, then you are marrying her along with her cause.

Because it is her philosophy or values she believes in that will influence her relationship with you and your kids and how she will play her part as a wife in the house.

So they are inseparable - the person and the cause!

CreepyBlackpool:
Depends on the kinda feminist.

Chimamanda kinda feminist, Bleep No!!!!

white people kinda feminist, hell yeah!!

Nairaland feminists, NO!!!!!

Twitter online feminist that are still subservient to dick offline, maybe yes

NiCurious:


Respected OladimejiRufai, I understand the point you are making, that a woman's values influence her relationships, and are (one hopes) inseparable from her--"the personal is the political" and all that--but the other person was pointing out that people create a philosophy...the philosophy is not self-creating, nor does it create people, as you know. Feminism is not one unique set of principles.

Some versions of feminism are egalitarian. Others seem to be the monstrous imaginings of insecure men. And there are different shades in between; probably as many variations, as there are women claiming to be feminists. Any given version is the product of the person holding a particular set of values...feminism is not a prepackaged product off the shop shelf. OP would have done well to define the kind he was talking about, though his responders have helped with their own definitions.

OladimejiRufai:


thanks for your input and your efforts to correct and educate me.

But why would you be putting respected before my name?

Dimples0303:


Okay. I didn't get the memo about killing babies though... You're a joke and if you really had anything intelligent to add then you would've done it by now...

pocohantas:
You are more obsessed with them than they are with you, tbh. Do they even want to marry you?I bet the answer is NO.

Everyone should find his/her type.

The Naija girls that break your hearts and make guys whine online are not the supposed feminist. Deal with those ones first.

You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry.

TheRedpillguy:

I ll take a goat any day. And please stop insulting goats please. You are making it look like ferminist are above goat or something. Goats don't kill babies

pocohantas:
You are more obsessed with them than they are with you, tbh. Do they even want to marry you?I bet the answer is NO.

Everyone should find his/her type.

The Naija girls that break your hearts and make guys whine online are not the supposed feminist. Deal with those ones first.

You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry.

pocohantas:


Anybody that kills a baby is a murderer. You should be reporting such a person to the police, not asking if they can be married.

But it you are talking gendercide, then it might please you to know that the girl child has been the greatest victim of that, OVERTLY and COVERTLY. Asians, Chinese and Indians to be very specific, carried out the systematic killing of female fetuses, all to secure male offsprings for their lineages. This was as a result of the one child policy or cultural system. They did't stop till they started suffering huge gender gap. That is why you see hôrny Indian men raping and assaulting the few available women they have, for a problem they created themselves.

My point? Only a mad person would suggest the killing of a child owing to his gender, born or unborn (as in this case).

TheRedpillguy:

Yes i dont know this, do you have a link I can go to and read more about this? Or books you can recommend? But you know the Asian guys we're not planning on killing all the females all over the world, and definitely not out of hate. reporting a person that kills a child to the police yeah sure thing. But fermistst are not dumb, they actually laid out their agenda and lobby for laws that will protect them. You know reduce the male population to a controllable 10% and since women control reproduction, they just kill the child in disguise of abortion and it will be legal.
So do I hate feminists? Yes yes yes, i despise them. They are out to get me. They hate my gender.
Do I hate educated women. No, I will gladly die for those.
I am not really religious but I am just hoping that just maybe their is a God, this hope gives me comfort knowing that all this ferminist will burn in hell forever and forever for all enternity.

pocohantas:


There is no way some women online can convince women world over (including those in extremely conservative societies) to start killing their unborn sons. I am also surprised this question is coming up- I always saw guys here claim feminist do not exist in reality. What changed?

You can search online. Type in gendercide in China/India and it will give you related articles that called for foreign intervention.

Honestly, it doesn't even matter who you guys love or hate at this point. With the number of insults Nigerian women collect daily on this forum- I doubt there is much to be desired in this so called love. Lets all manage ourselves like that. We go dey alright...

CHoccolaTE:


@topic, many non feminists exist in Nigeria, very many in fact. That see men as alpha omega superior beings that should give them cash and protect and provide for them. Just dont complain when the girls start expecting you to live up to your "superior" role and take care of them.

Sterope:
That guy is paranoid.

Next in his paranoid list is how aliens plan to turn all humans into robots

pocohantas:


There is no way some women online can convince women world over (including those in extremely conservative societies) to start killing their unborn sons. I am also surprised this question is coming up- I always saw guys here claim feminist do not exist in reality. What changed?

You can search online. Type in gendercide in China/India and it will give you related articles that called for foreign intervention.

Honestly, it doesn't even matter who you guys love or hate at this point. With the number of insults Nigerian women collect daily on this forum- I doubt there is much to be desired in this so called love. Lets all manage ourselves like that. We go dey alright...

CreepyBlackpool:
Depends on the kinda feminist.

Chimamanda kinda feminist, Bleep No!!!!

white people kinda feminist, hell yeah!!

Nairaland feminists, NO!!!!!

Twitter online feminist that are still subservient to dick offline, maybe yes

pocohantas:


There is no way some women online can convince women world over (including those in extremely conservative societies) to start killing their unborn sons. I am also surprised this question is coming up- I always saw guys here claim feminist do not exist in reality. What changed?

You can search online. Type in gendercide in China/India and it will give you related articles that called for foreign intervention.

Honestly, it doesn't even matter who you guys love or hate at this point. With the number of insults Nigerian women collect daily on this forum- I doubt there is much to be desired in this so called love. Lets all manage ourselves like that. We go dey alright...

CHoccolaTE:


Leave them.

Tomorrow you will see different topics about how women are gold diggers and liabilities that want men to provide for them instead of doing co-breadwinner.
Is it not the same religion/society that taught women to be submissive that is also responsible for the gold digger mentality in many females? I dont know how a woman will see a man as superior (aka non feminist woman) and at the same time will be willing to hustle money to pay the guys bills or houserent or give him upkeep money etc

Anyway @topic, many non feminists exist in Nigeria, very many in fact. That see men as alpha omega superior beings that should give them cash and protect and provide for them. Just dont complain when the girls start expecting you to live up to your "superior" role and take care of them.

TheRedpillguy:

Oh Back to the good old feminist shaming tactics. I previously sent pictures of fermistst literally telling ferminists to kill babies,(male) and you don't know that fermistst push and made abortion legal in some countries, is either you are a pathetic liar or a giant hypocrite. Eaither way their is no surprise there that is just typical feminist behavior. I guess facts and prove is not good enough. And just becouse you said memo doesnt makes you inteligent.

TheRedpillguy:

Yep am with you on that love part. Love is a myth. (M saying this not cus sombody hurt me or cus am a virgin)
What changed? Their are reallife ferminist and are litsning to those online women you say nobody will litsen too, you can't tell me women in nigeria are ferminist becouse they saw it on the news or on sound city and mtvbase
Took a girl out lately, turn out she was a ferminist (damn) could v noticed the red flag earlia, the tattoo, nose ring, but you know? Too much hope in humanity, me thinking its just a lifestyle until she pulled out the biggest and the most giant red flag of all. I felt annoyed that how can I be so dumb to wait until she tells me she is the devil before I see it. So I just pretend to take a call, pay the bill, gave her money for transport becouse I was not going to drive the devil anywea. So yea they very much walking the earth.
Talk about litsning to people. The mgtow guys manage to convince millions of people to stay away from the very existence that makes them human(sexual desire) and not have children until they create artificial womb. So yeah you guys are litsning to what your overlords are saying. Its not like expect you to be walking around with a giant symbol that says "hey I kill male children before they are born" anyways you guys should always tell a guy that you are fermistst so that at least he can choose. Just like christians let you choose if you want to go to hell

4ckz:
I would neither date nor marry a feminist, and let's be practical, if we leave social media most men won't. Also most ladies aren't feminists off social media.

The idea of the whole feminists is based on power tussle, always looking for a way to favor their gender.

Call me old school, but I want a submissive partner, not one to struggle power with.

To the ones saying yes, it's your choice sha, but una eye go clear one day when your wife will stop cooking or taking care of the children and say that if she must do it, then you must do it as well.
What am I saying sef?
Anyone preparing to marry a feminist should prepare to do share all the chores equally, and you can only take 50% of decisions. Since your wife is only biological different from you, but you guys are socially equal.

pocohantas:
I never said people won't listen. I said they can never convince women all around the world to buy that. Thank God they are in developed countries, once they start doing it- the records will be there.

As for feminism in its true cause, the black man has to realise that- equal responsibilities or not, you can never subjugate a fellow human for too long. After all, globally the black man contributes little or nothing to development. But is the first to scream racism when he is flung to the bottom of the ladder. I guess it isn't easy losing persons you have naturally placed below you.

Go for people that share same values with you. Life will be a whole lot easier that way.


Nope I will have to disagree with the black man thing. And I will disagree with any negative thing you say about black people, we are awesome, we fathered all human species on earth, they should be giving us royalties for that. Remember that wwll that shaped modern civilization? Yes we fought and gave ourlifes in that. I guess the black ferminist wouldn't know becouse she was being oppressed to stay safe, watch Disney movies and take care of children,
I can tell you a good number of black men building rocket engines at NASA, u know for the exploration of space to find new homes for humanity incase the earth is not habitable anymore, you know no biggy
And some couple of black doctors who are the best in the world, but oh my God these are horrible people the save the life's of men too.
About choosing sombody of the same values, this can be hidden so can you feminist do us a favor and wear pink shirts or maybe carry a sign so that we can identify you? That will be very helpful
Over all you are by far, the smartest ferminist I have met on this platform, you didt actually loose your shit. Probably the most dangerous one too.
but here is what I want to know. In every relationship or gathering of human beings, there most be a leader and their is only one staringwheel so?

GeneralShepherd:


What is so bad in treating your partner as a complimentary equal? I don't understand. Will it kill you to help out at home?

I won't date a feminist but neither will I treat my partner like a subordinate. She is my wife

you this lady with big yansh
Where are you based sef?
I live in Singapore, wanna hang out?

pocohantas:
You are more obsessed with them than they are with you, tbh. Do they even want to marry you?I bet the answer is NO.

Everyone should find his/her type.

The Naija girls that break your hearts and make guys whine online are not the supposed feminist. Deal with those ones first.

You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry.

TheRedpillguy:

Nah treating your partner as a surbidinate is awful, its always better to watch a movie with your wife then she refiling the pop corn bawl, its cool to wash plates and cook for your wife and children, its cool to go on vacations and hang out in pool together. You should never ever cheat. That's y I advice people to stay away from marrige life if they can't handle it.
Why you are trying to be a grt dad to ur kids and love ur wife. U ferminist wife is looking for ways to undermine you, she is probably aborting al the male child and saying its miscarage, she is trying to starve u of sex, trying to control u through it, she is sleeping with other dudes cus fetmist don't think a woman belongs to man and she very well sleep with anyman if she wants too and yeah and leave you when the air condition is too cold too.

TheRedpillguy:

Took a girl out lately, turn out she was a ferminist (damn) could v noticed the red flag earlia, the tattoo, nose ring, but you know? Too much hope in humanity, me thinking its just a lifestyle until she pulled out the biggest and the most giant red flag of all. I felt annoyed that how can I be so dumb to wait until she tells me she is the devil before I see it. So I just pretend to take a call, pay the bill, gave her money for transport becouse I was not going to drive the devil anywea. So yea they very much walking the earth.

Michellekabod2:
did you mention ngozi chimamanda as egalitarian? Lol
She went to a catholic church wearing a Shirt that revealed quite much of her arms,the usher told her to put on a shoar,
she refused. She said the priest and the usher oppress women and she said the priest was misogynistic for the dress code laid out. She stubbornly walked into the church and she this is what we have to emulate-rebellion!