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Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pansophist(m): 11:43pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
I can marry a woman that subscribe to the dictionary definition of feminism, you know, a true egalitarian. Think about the true feminist women out there in the field helping other women, women such as Ngozi Chimamanda. Though, if by feminist, you mean the ones screaming about toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, your modern third wave intersectional nut head, that has fully digested the leftist nonsense of perpetual victimhood, those ones that sees oppression everywhere and believe women cant be sexist, then hell no, I'll rather masturbate with engine oil than even date, not to talk of marrying one. I want a peaceful life, not a woman that will interpret simple cooking for the family as oppression and unpaid household labour lol. Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife (proverb 21.9). 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Gerrard59(m): 12:27am On Nov 24, 2019 |
pansophist: Bwahahhahahaha! @Topic: No! With today's third wave feminism, I cannot stress myself to be friends with let alone date nor marry a feminist. I don't befriend people who love rights but detest responsibilities that come with those rights. I cannot date whiners who believe there's a gender pay gap or individuals who invoke gender bias in every discussion/topic/concept. Lastly, I implore any young Nigerian male to go through a potential female friend's social media accounts esp Twitter handle before taking the friendship to the next level. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by AfroKnight: 12:29am On Nov 24, 2019 |
I have dated one naija feminist before. I’d not marry one. Neither should you. Big mistake. Why? They are certainly not the most open minded people you’d meet. Not very agreeable characters. It’s the battle of the sexes everyday. Men do this men do that. Men are the reason for everything that affects these feminists negatively. Even when you try to understand their point of view, your masculinity gets in the way. They just can’t get past the fact that you represent the so-called subjugation, characteristic of “patriarchy”. This tiresome rhetoric becomes really irritating after a while. Also, you do not want a feminist to raise your son. Bad move. 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 12:50am On Nov 24, 2019 |
You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 12:59am On Nov 24, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: Okay. I didn't get the memo about killing babies though... You're a joke and if you really had anything intelligent to add then you would've done it by now... |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by NiCurious: 1:34am On Nov 24, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: Respected OladimejiRufai, I understand the point you are making, that a woman's values influence her relationships, and are (one hopes) inseparable from her--"the personal is the political" and all that--but the other person was pointing out that people create a philosophy...the philosophy is not self-creating, nor does it create people, as you know. Feminism is not one unique set of principles. Some versions of feminism are egalitarian. Others seem to be the monstrous imaginings of insecure men. And there are different shades in between; probably as many variations, as there are women claiming to be feminists. Any given version is the product of the person holding a particular set of values...feminism is not a prepackaged product off the shop shelf. OP would have done well to define the kind he was talking about, though his responders have helped with their own definitions. |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Ultimatesammie(m): 1:42am On Nov 24, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool: Looks like you haven't paid attention to white feminist before that's why. |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 2:05am On Nov 24, 2019 |
NiCurious: thanks for your input and your efforts to correct and educate me. But why would you be putting respected before my name? |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by NiCurious: 2:08am On Nov 24, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: Because I respect you, and have been awed by some of your recent posts! |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 7:43am On Nov 24, 2019 |
Dimples0303:Oh Back to the good old feminist shaming tactics. I previously sent pictures of fermistst literally telling ferminists to kill babies,(male) and you don't know that fermistst push and made abortion legal in some countries, is either you are a pathetic liar or a giant hypocrite. Eaither way their is no surprise there that is just typical feminist behavior. I guess facts and prove is not good enough. And just becouse you said memo doesnt makes you inteligent.
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Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 7:52am On Nov 24, 2019 |
pocohantas:I ll take a goat any day. And please stop insulting goats please. You are making it look like ferminist are above goat or something. Goats don't kill babies 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 8:17am On Nov 24, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: Anybody that kills a baby is a murderer. You should be reporting such a person to the police, not asking if they can be married. But it you are talking gendercide, then it might please you to know that the girl child has been the greatest victim of that, OVERTLY and COVERTLY. Asians, Chinese and Indians to be very specific, carried out the systematic killing of female fetuses, all to secure male offsprings for their lineages. This was as a result of the one child policy or cultural system. They did't stop till they started suffering huge gender gap. That is why you see hôrny Indian men raping and assaulting the few available women they have, for a problem they created themselves. My point? Only a mad person would suggest the killing of a child owing to his gender, born or unborn (as in this case). 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by CHoccolaTE: 8:37am On Nov 24, 2019 |
pocohantas: Leave them. Tomorrow you will see different topics about how women are gold diggers and liabilities that want men to provide for them instead of doing co-breadwinner. Is it not the same religion/society that taught women to be submissive that is also responsible for the gold digger mentality in many females? I dont know how a woman will see a man as superior (aka non feminist woman) and at the same time will be willing to hustle money to pay the guys bills or houserent or give him upkeep money etc Anyway @topic, many non feminists exist in Nigeria, very many in fact. That see men as alpha omega superior beings that should give them cash and protect and provide for them. Just dont complain when the girls start expecting you to live up to your "superior" role and take care of them. 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 8:43am On Nov 24, 2019 |
pocohantas:Yes i dont know this, do you have a link I can go to and read more about this? Or books you can recommend? But you know the Asian guys we're not planning on killing all the females all over the world, and definitely not out of hate. reporting a person that kills a child to the police yeah sure thing. But fermistst are not dumb, they actually laid out their agenda and lobby for laws that will protect them. You know reduce the male population to a controllable 10% and since women control reproduction, they just kill the child in disguise of abortion and it will be legal. So do I hate feminists? Yes yes yes, i despise them. They are out to get me. They hate my gender. Do I hate educated women. No, I will gladly die for those. I am not really religious but I am just hoping that just maybe their is a God, this hope gives me comfort knowing that all this ferminist will burn in hell forever and forever for all enternity. 1 Like
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Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 8:53am On Nov 24, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: There is no way some women online can convince women world over (including those in extremely conservative societies) to start killing their unborn sons. I am also surprised this question is coming up- I always saw guys here claim feminist do not exist in reality. What changed? You can search online. Type in gendercide in China/India and it will give you related articles that called for foreign intervention. Honestly, it doesn't even matter who you guys love or hate at this point. With the number of insults Nigerian women collect daily on this forum- I doubt there is much to be desired in this so called love. Lets all manage ourselves like that. We go dey alright... 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Sterope(f): 8:56am On Nov 24, 2019 |
That guy is paranoid. Next in his paranoid list is how aliens plan to turn all humans into robots pocohantas: 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 8:57am On Nov 24, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: I don't even get the obsession. Take the non-feminists off the market first. Marry those ones, don't cheat on them and tell them men are polygamous in nature, don't beat them for running their mouths, don't overstress them, help them out at home...don't insult them online/offline. In fact, lets stop seeing wailing threads from both parties in family section. Make these supposed feminists jealous. Lets see if I won't marry two alfa males at a time 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 8:58am On Nov 24, 2019 |
Sterope: They are always paranoid. Date people like that and you will spend your precious time trying to convince them you are different. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 9:02am On Nov 24, 2019 |
pocohantas: That doesn’t even include Indians who have gang rape as a tradition to punish stubborn women who don’t know their place. It happens to this day. I saw it play out in bandit queen, a movie about phoolan Devi, a female dacoit 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 9:21am On Nov 24, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool:you obviously have no idea what white feminists are. Look, an average Nigerian girl is better than an average western girl. They're all the same but at least Nigerian girls still have culture and society to keep them in check white girls don't have any of such. All feminists are the same. Some are just more stupid than the others 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 9:23am On Nov 24, 2019 |
pocohantas:Yep am with you on that love part. Love is a myth. (M saying this not cus sombody hurt me or cus am a virgin) What changed? Their are reallife ferminist and are litsning to those online women you say nobody will litsen too, you can't tell me women in nigeria are ferminist becouse they saw it on the news or on sound city and mtvbase Took a girl out lately, turn out she was a ferminist (damn) could v noticed the red flag earlia, the tattoo, nose ring, but you know? Too much hope in humanity, me thinking its just a lifestyle until she pulled out the biggest and the most giant red flag of all. I felt annoyed that how can I be so dumb to wait until she tells me she is the devil before I see it. So I just pretend to take a call, pay the bill, gave her money for transport becouse I was not going to drive the devil anywea. So yea they very much walking the earth. Talk about litsning to people. The mgtow guys manage to convince millions of people to stay away from the very existence that makes them human(sexual desire) and not have children until they create artificial womb. So yeah you guys are litsning to what your overlords are saying. Its not like expect you to be walking around with a giant symbol that says "hey I kill male children before they are born" anyways you guys should always tell a guy that you are fermistst so that at least he can choose. Just like christians let you choose if you want to go to hell |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 10:11am On Nov 24, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE:I don't have a problem providing for a woman. A gold digger is someone who uses relationships or sexual desire of a man to extract resorces from him and only for that sole purpose. Yeah am starting a topic on how to spot gold diggers and use their game against them. Women or anybody for that matter that disrespect me, will be disrespected by me. Any woman or man that hits me, am going to defend my self and eliminate the threat. And since you ferminist belive that men are not worth respecting becouse they are men then. You are already in the disrespecting me zone. Respect me and I will respect you. In a relationship or any gathering of human beings, there most be a leader and their is only one staringwheel so? 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:12am On Nov 24, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: You're so cute... |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 10:15am On Nov 24, 2019 |
I never said people won't listen. I said they can never convince women all around the world to buy that. Thank God they are in developed countries, once they start doing it- the records will be there. As for feminism in its true cause, the black man has to realise that- equal responsibilities or not, you can never subjugate a fellow human for too long. After all, globally the black man contributes little or nothing to development. But is the first to scream racism when he is flung to the bottom of the ladder. I guess it isn't easy losing persons you have naturally placed below you. Go for people that share same values with you. Life will be a whole lot easier that way. TheRedpillguy: 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by GeneralShepherd(m): 10:19am On Nov 24, 2019 |
4ckz: What is so bad in treating your partner as a complimentary equal? I don't understand. Will it kill you to help out at home? I won't date a feminist but neither will I treat my partner like a subordinate. She is my wife 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 10:35am On Nov 24, 2019 |
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Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by TheRedpillguy: 10:49am On Nov 24, 2019 |
GeneralShepherd:Nah treating your partner as a surbidinate is awful, its always better to watch a movie with your wife then she refiling the pop corn bawl, its cool to wash plates and cook for your wife and children, its cool to go on vacations and hang out in pool together. You should never ever cheat. That's y I advice people to stay away from marrige life if they can't handle it. Why you are trying to be a grt dad to ur kids and love ur wife. U ferminist wife is looking for ways to undermine you, she is probably aborting al the male child and saying its miscarage, she is trying to starve u of sex, trying to control u through it, she is sleeping with other dudes cus fetmist don't think a woman belongs to man and she very well sleep with anyman if she wants too and yeah and leave you when the air condition is too cold too. Not to mention, anytime she does something you don't like and you complain. You are oppressing her. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Designerdollars: 10:49am On Nov 24, 2019 |
you this lady with big yansh Where are you based sef? I live in Singapore, wanna hang out? pocohantas: |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by GeneralShepherd(m): 10:51am On Nov 24, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: I agree that feminists are a plagued on the human society. I would neither date or marry one 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 24, 2019 |
dude,i have dated a feminist before and all the feminism was just textbook feminism, i even met her feminist friends and we argue about feminism anytime it is brought it....feminists are just like any woman, they love to have fun, funny enough some of these girls are good girls even virgins. at the end of the day, dick cures feminism, even though she was feminist she still depends on me for validation and advice plus pussy servicing. to end my case, i can date and even marry a feminist because i know for sure that most feminists are just textbook and theory feminist to enjoy dating a feminist, just be a man that is not scared to say his opinion. |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by Nobody: 10:55am On Nov 24, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: Please & please, stop giving us half gist. You didn't tell us the red flag she pulled. She wears a tattoo, nose ring, not really a feminist flag if you ask me, until you give us the gist So you payed the bill, gave her money for transport and what else did you do? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry Or Date A Feminist? by pocohantas(f): 11:02am On Nov 24, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: She knew the rules, she flouted them. She is the one that needs to have her head checked. |
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