rtdCivilservant:

Is like I will not get married. I am so disappointed in virtually all our girls, the rate at which they Bleep these days is really alarming after someone else will now be paying bride price for an expired toto.

pls dont,As if they are fucking themselves.

Men with1k body count will call a lady with 5 a hoe.

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

Tell the rapist that you already reported the case, and the tape would serve as evidence to corroborate your story.

This one wont be like Busola Dakolo that has no evidence. Let him know he will be help accountable for it.

This hanty is not telling the whole truth. You said it was not consensual and you didn't report it? Where were your other friends when it happened?
How did the guy made it look consensual? Was the video edited?
Tell the truth already so that people can help you.

Am looking at a bet between your Ex and the guy you screwed.....you fell for it sis.

Pele

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

If it was rape, did you report it?
Casual sex is not love. Your guy does not love and you do not love her either. Love is defined in 2Cor 13:1-8 if you are a christian,check it out.
Tape is already leaked. Nothing can be done about it. It can be used against you in the future when you are financially successfully.
Now involve a lawyer and tell your parents.

A candid advice, if u can summon courage, ignore him, he is using your fear against u. If u don't have enough to get a lawyer, send a message to him that u ve got a lawyer involved in this, that ur lawyer awaits his actions. However, get the school authority/security involved likewise. Instill fear in him and be courageous, I bet u he is soft peddel in his threat. However, get a police or a military personnel involved too if u have any. I bet u, he will be the one to beg u and beg the culprit to delete the video clips as he knows what awaits him if he tries anything nasty. Thanks

OP I'm very sure, more than 20 guys has entered your gate the day you got drunk...... your life is ruined and your family would be disgrace if the long awaiting blue film finally leak out... your chance of getting married in future reduce to %1 out of %100

I will love to help...

DanXplore:
The truth is you are a very loose and wayward girl. Their is a very high correlation between waywardness and drunkeness. You would not have been "raped" if you stayed away from these.

the above makes no damn sense.... a rapist will rape a woman whether she is wayward or a drunk. yes it will be easier for them to rape drunk women, but as we all know that konji/evil is a bastard, these rapist would even rape innocent god fearing women.

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

haha sharp guy

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Mail me and i can do the case for you for free,but make sure everything you said was truth nothing but truth.

Talk to someone very close to you (as in family member, maybe ur mom or elder brother). Someone you have confidence in, someone who knows that if he or she tells someone else then he/she is equally exposing himself/herself. Then you both should go meet a lawyer or police that will handle the guy. Why I suggested you talk to someone else is because you said you don't have money, so the person can pay the bill. Also, a family member being aware can also give you protection. Good luck, but be careful next time.

You got drunk with men that have questionable character .

Young ladies don't get drunk around people you don't trust . Better still don't get drunk

You were raped you can't cheat on your boyfriend with consent. Use your brain

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

You are a student but get bleeped at school anyhow by boyfriend while your parents struggle to raise your school fees. This is the reason why guys don't love or value many girls again in Nigeria because valueless wayward girls have made us believe decent ones aren't decent too. the way Bollywood actors run after their love and show so much love to them in movies isn't in Nigeria again, how would I even marry a girl I've bleeped anyhow or someone else has bleeped anyhow before? I've got standard. Such girls can never be trusted again cos they would definitely cheat with driver, Hartman and husband's friends.These are the major causes of divorce and broken home in Nigeria today, when a man marries a wayward woman that has turned to housewife(abileko) even before getting married. I would rather Bleep your type anyhow, dump you after using you when it's time to get married and marry a young virgin girl fresh out of secondary school or higher institution

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

if what you are saying is true call me 08061384067

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

A demon came from roaming the earth for a meeting with fellow demons in hell fire. This demon expressed concern how he had disobeyed God and that God had issued a sentence against him.
Demons in hell fire sprang up in unison, "nothing de happen, we de your back kanpe"....
Only time will tell...

Clique if oloshos abi
Good info you disclosed there, I have a mental picture of your type
Who was holding phone in front of you when you two were fùcking. If it wasn't consensual why are you this scared? Be it consensual or not, let's see the video fes, it will show in the video.
But from the look of things your legs were wide open while you were moaning hoo haaa
All these wild girls. Drinking smoking fucking living their best life. I stan

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

idiat

Contact me
I will write a letter to him on ur behalf
For free

Pay some street assasins to assasinate him and the other guy.

Or legitimately notify his parents/sponsor/HOR & School security ASAP.

How old are you tho?
And going out to a birthday party and drinking alcohol to stupour as a lady speaks something about your personality.

You gotta quit that relationship, end the partying too often, know your limit when you take alcohol, always be vigilant when you drinking, one could put some Molly in your drink u take it, u turn a loyal Zombie to the guy(s).

After this, try to focus more on your education and career success.

Your welcome

HacheNoire:
How much is human life

He will still always use it to blackmail you

Meet contacts, His life you can take for less than 150k and silence him for life

Dont just leave traces.

Even Nairaland you posted it on is a trace already.

what...

Baba you took it to another level now, haba

pamelaayomide:
pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

message me on whatsapp

pamelaayomide:
That is what I have been thinking actually.
He have a hand in this.

He might not. He could have downloaded the video from an amateur porn site. The guy who videod it. Did it for the purpose of uploading to a porn site, I'm very sure. The question is where were the other 2 friends of yours. Your so called clique, I don't think you were taken advantage of. I think it was consensual pls say the truth. Having sex with someone else besides your bf doesn't make you a prostitute or loose woman. So long as you are not married to the man you don't owe him any faithfulness.

Tell him to release it and nothing will happen

midnighter:


what...

Baba you took it to another level now, haba

Truth is a bitter pill.

Report him to police that he is threatening you with sex tape and u suspected him to be part of the people that raped you.
They will ask him to write an undertaking not to do anything of such.
But the police will like to eat from what u are selling since it's not new again since school.

Get a human right lawyer and sue him for black mail. And also the other guy for taking undue advantage of your drunken state on video to have carnal knowledge of you.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

kay4kay:


Let me put the story like this

You had sex
It was recorded
You heard about the Babcock story
Fear of expulsion and shame


Please tell us the truth

gbam.... How can a rape look consensual while you were awake and drunk. No struggles abi? girls with half truth though!

It's unfortunate what happened to you but first my counsel is get a family member involved maybe (your parents, siblings, uncle, aunt) at least someone that understands you then get the police involved so that way you recover the recording.
Next time also be careful and stay around reasonable people.

Since you have such poor judgment and an itchy nether region, you deserve the consequences of your promiscuity. Rape my hairy ass.

pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

What the heck do you mean by dreaded cult member?
Don't you know the road to a nearest police station? Go to police and report and stop blabbing about cult. If the cult guys do something stupid and are arrested do you think you will go free? This is a simple matter and you are just trying to complicate things.

healthserve:


Not interested. ODAs can help. Since people have resorted to foolishness, ive promised to make innocent others pay for their foolishness. Shikena

Then shutup if you can't help!