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Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Shegson12345(m): 11:32am On Nov 25, 2019
abi you won take style advertise your forex
Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .

Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Nobody: 11:44am On Nov 25, 2019
Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .
Lol, same thing shola did to wizkid.

In an interview, she said she found out she was pregnant after 5months. Lmao!
The girl wants ur baby by fire by force and will tell you when she knows she can no longer have a safe abortion. Its okay if it's a mistake and she tells you but this secretive-ness shows a manipulative and controlling mind. Once she succeeds she will try to manipulate you throughout ur relationship.

My advice to you is to bring it all out in the open NOW. To ur family and to her family. Let everyone be aware shes the one insistent on having the baby and u have no intention of being in a rltshp in future, even though u might support the baby. She will know ure serious and might even decide to have an abortion.
If u don't let anyone know now, she will lie and manipulate u & destroy ur future rltshps forever. That girl wants you in her life, dts her motivation.
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by nicelaw(m): 11:45am On Nov 25, 2019
hadduni:
Well op, you are really silly. You knew quite well for the past 2 years that you don't want her has a life partner yet you kept on digging her... Her pregnancy is your cross. You can't eat your cake and have it.
You are more concerned that you discovered that she has gone past are first trimester... She probably hid the pregnancy because she tot you will ask her to abort it.
The cross is for both of them please... After all both of them enjoyed the sex.. angry
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by nicelaw(m): 12:04pm On Nov 25, 2019
daddytime:
She doesn't see you as a life partner either, that's why she isn't telling you about the pregnancy.

You think say na only you get sense abi?
Funny.. grin
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Prechy08(m): 12:05pm On Nov 25, 2019
When will you grow up na.
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by ibechris(m): 12:11pm On Nov 25, 2019
Guy,am not doing bad either,but come teach me how to do forex.

Remember say whatever u sow u shall reap but God will judge u better.
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by sinceraconcept(m): 12:58pm On Nov 25, 2019
Ojizy1:
History of infidelity
Was she married before that she has history of infidelity? So many hoes today. My nigga,you bleeped up,why Bleep a hoe without protection? There are 2 types of girls in this world, 1. The sexually active ones you Bleep,chop your own and just dump 2. The young innocent good girls you get married to. But you went for number 1. unfortunately,you fall hand bro. She would later Bleep your friends, your driver, your houseboy, your gardener, etc and she will start doing family planning for your daughter at age 12 so that she can Bleep freely as she likes without fear of getting pregnant,she will make your daughter realise there is nothing wrong in premarital sex because she engaged in it as well..
A hoe is never gonna be the mother of my children by the grace of God,i want a wife my daughters will be able to look up to and not say "I'm gonna have sex before marriage because mummy had it before marriage too and she can't tell me nothing "
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by officialfestus(m): 1:54pm On Nov 25, 2019
Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .
abeg teach me the forex trading
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by dasparrow: 2:39pm On Nov 25, 2019
@Post
Why are you asking us for advice? Did you ask us for advice when you were having unprotected sex? Many of you are slaves to your own sexual desires. So much so, you don't mind putting yourself at risk at contracting STDs. I have no advice for you because you don't deserve one. Focus on your problem alone bloody fornicator!
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by moorevic(m): 3:40pm On Nov 25, 2019
otondo no be you get the baby.
BTW are you trying to advertise FOREX?
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by edunaragold(f): 4:38pm On Nov 25, 2019
U are funny o,na him u no used condom,any way she wan settled down ,if she insisted let her keep it,but make it clear she is on her own,pregnancy is something both party should agree on,if not u guys should not end up like this when another woman that u like will enter.

Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by CeterisXVII: 6:10pm On Nov 25, 2019
midnighter:
Yeah, he doesn't. What is your definition of "right"?

Marrying somebody you dislike because she is pregnant? Then when he comes back here for advice, we will still castigate him for bowing to pressure when his heart wasn't in the marriage from the beginning.

It's more important for him to take care of the baby and for them to be functioning parents than for him to marry her.

If we had more details we could urge him to marry her, make the child legitimate and make it a traditional African Christian/Muslim family, but from the way he's sounding, that wouldn't be fruitful. He doesn't like her and she has already cheated on him before

It's not an ideal situation and I don't advocate for giving birth to kids out of wedlock, but I am more concerned for the welfare of that baby.
So when he was knacking her, he didn't dislike her then? Chai!
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by bluefilm: 6:15pm On Nov 25, 2019
hadduni:
Are you for real?
When the op was banging he should have realized she could get pregnant!
When the girl was banging the op back, it never crossed her mind that she could get pregnant and the guy may not want to get married because he's not yet ready?

These things go two ways, biko.

Stop making it look as if it is strictly one party's cross to bear.
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Bobrisky1: 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2019
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HacheNoire:
Use her for money rituals
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Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Bobrisky1: 7:44pm On Nov 25, 2019
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HacheNoire:
God bless your Mother.

He doesn't want to be a father because he is building a self contain in the village.
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Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by MaxwellAza: 1:34am On Nov 26, 2019
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Here is my number
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Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by MaxwellAza: 1:38am On Nov 26, 2019
I really want to learn it, I want you to teach me and I am willing to be your student even do it means paying I will
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by hectorswag(m): 1:52am On Nov 26, 2019
MrCork:
...is she lightskin? angry
LOL what concern skin color with dis matter abeg? Pls tell me cheesy
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by oblaak(m): 10:06pm On Nov 26, 2019
hadduni:
I wrote all in plain English whichever way you choose to interpret it is totally left to you. It's too early for unnecessary banter!
Your case is irredeemable.
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by hadduni(f): 10:40pm On Nov 26, 2019
oblaak:
Your case is irredeemable.
I think you have a critical issue... Over 600 people saw the message and liked it. its enough evidence thar they understood what I wrote. Please it will be ideal get off my mention!
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by midnighter(f): 10:47pm On Nov 26, 2019
CeterisXVII:
So when he was knacking her, he didn't dislike her then? Chai!
Apparently not, very irresponsible guy
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by oblaak(m): 8:55pm On Nov 27, 2019
hadduni:
I think you have a critical issue... Over 600 people saw the message and liked it. its enough evidence thar they understood what I wrote. Please it will be ideal get off my mention!
I’m only trying to help you. That’s what your kind would always say, that ‘so far it is understood by others, then it’s not really a problem’. Do away with that mentality baby girl. Try and get it right even if it’s understood by others or not.
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by hadduni(f): 10:40pm On Nov 27, 2019
oblaak:
I’m only trying to help you. That’s what your kind would always say, that ‘so far it is understood by others, then it’s not really a problem’. Do away with that mentality baby girl. Try and get it right even if it’s understood by others or not.
You're a critique... If only you know I don't speak Yoruba then you wouldn't have written that comment!
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by askino(m): 6:49pm On Dec 21, 2019
jimmyLd101:
What is this one saying ,you don't want to father any child, she's hidding the pregnancy for you but she called you and told you. Mr man you are confused
WHOEVER this is...please buy a brain..steal a brain ...borrow a brain ...just. get a working brain for now and read again ...fellas with working brain did. Justice to it...No be say make head heavy like dangote oil rig..if e no fiction na scrap and exhibit
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by askino(m): 9:09am On Dec 26, 2019
Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .
I hope. its not. same babe framing US both ...kindly tell me her age......tribe ....her occupation and where she is currently...cus your story. is exactly. my case...she is gentle. and nice..but she knew I don't. trust. her and once told her if she continues. in her shady. style..there will. be no future. for US
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by jesmond3945: 10:35pm On Jan 25, 2020
Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now, I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.

I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.

I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.

Guys please suggest what should I do .
i thought you said you bought a house from your 3 months earnings
Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by mechanics(m): 2:03pm On Jan 26, 2020
You shouldn't have enter her London when you know you are not ready to father a child, who do you expect will take care of the child now?
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