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Jgoldie:
God knows I hate stingy men....if you are stingy while dating,you will definitely be stingy while married...


Oops what do I know

Stingy men How about you? Do you give freely?

Mindfulness:
My brother's wife is such a lady. Just an example.

Lucky him. . .

I've unfortunately not been so lucky in my quest for my better half

They act all nice at the beginning, but gradually thier clingy, possessive and noisy character begins to show. I can't STAND noisy ladies.

Triniti:
This is so true..I have a 39 year cousin always complaining to me of how so so of our relations came and was invading his space and privacy. I’m like, how do someone invade your privacy in semi detached 4 bedroom duplex? Dude is growing so strong in this single lifestyle

He straight?

When you work with expatriates that are not speaking English, you automatically use sign languages or you have translator dictionary to use!


Na unda apple tree, I sabi write A B C

Mac2016:
Is this an English word? Or are you a German?

There is one thing I have noticed about many people who claim to be in a relationship that may eventually lead to marriage.


They don't know what they want or how to go about it,how can you be dating and all you do go out to have fun,go to the beach, eateries,have sex and the circle continues.

You hardly see them sit together, and discuss on how to improve themselves, talk about the future or even plan things together.

No respect.

How do you expect that kind of relationship to lead to marriage even if it does it won't work.

Maski87:
Am sure he was cheating, my dad is 75 and still cheating

A legend you mean.

Jgoldie:
God knows I hate stingy men....if you are stingy while dating,you will definitely be stingy while married...


Oops what do I know

so what are you bringing to the table?
Instagram,Snapchat and filters

Mrpsly247:
If I die today i'd av lived a good life... I won't be a pathetic old man who clinged to the rail too long that he didn't learn how to swim... Most people create the problems they wish to live with and u have created urx.. I don't have a problem with u being single at 49 my problem is u attribute it to a lack of good women

bro, i know how old I am. Marriage is just nothing. Most things in marriage is bearing children.
What can you say to those that are over 40 married but divorced? Or talk about those that are married for long still no kids? Guy, use your tongue to count your teeth. My father got married at the age of 37, my eldest sister is 52 now. We are seven boys two girls. We are all living fine. I am an Igbo man. We don’t bring children into poverty.
My father is still alive. So I dey follow his footsteps. I know I will live above 100. Because we are naturally strong in my family.

meobizy:
Good. He should dust himself off and prepare for marriage number two. Life is too short to waste in an unhappy matrimony. At least that was three steady months of shining someone’s daughter’s congo on the regular.

Shows you're single.

na u b im spokesman abi?

Okoyiboz3:
Oga 4 Million, you money can't buy a Naija used Venza, so stop making noise.

Use your money to improve yourself and stop disturbing us here. They said you're broke, you're mentioning that you have 4M. I spent more than that on my reception and it was a very stupid thing I did.

So, your 4M is nothing, don't be satisfied with that and go hustle bro. Don't let anyone push you into being stupid wedding like I was pushed.

You now wey dey yarn your own dust who ask you? He said he has 4m and you now that nobody asked you said you spent 5M on wedding alone ,who ask you too now?? Stop being a Hypocrite!! You did exactly the same thing he did ,if he's trying to show he ain't broke your also doing the same!! Naija and it's oozing Hypocrisy!!

Funny how

I quite agree

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

tete7000:
Many people who married early too have problems with their marriage. The issue with marriages is something deeper than your analysis . It is about people's understanding of what marriage is. When you don't understand what you are going into, you lack the capacity to know what to do to stay in it. Proper definition of marriage, its purpose, its suitability or non-suitability for us helps us look for appropriate person that compliments ourselves. Until people stop dancing to social pressure and go into marriages on basis on strong understanding and conviction of what the institution of marriage is with inherent challenges, marriages will continue to have problem. Age, rather than being an impediment can help a man bring maturity into his marriage. From my own understanding, marriage is not for kids...

This is good

GeoAfrikana:
Shows you're single.

how u take know?

golddust6000:
dont mind him, the 4million I was even saying is in my Nigerian account. What if if I come put my Norwagian kro account?
That guy is very poor, I know people like him.
4million in Nigeria of today can lift someone out of poverty very fast and change go remain.

that guy na student probably a hopeful Yahoo boy that's DREAMING OF cashing out BLOCK money na him make 4M be am like small money when he probably have not touched complete 500k of his own

Ganjafama:
Don't mind him. Before he realises, he would have become 50 plus. Then he'll start blaming his " village people" for preventing him from getting a wife.

getting a wife or not doesn’t add anything in someone’s life.

Okoyiboz3:
Stop typing like a poverty-stricken illiterate. Your guy in Owerri. No wonder 4M is big money to you.

Your guy can buy a Venza for 20 Naira if you like, it just shows you move with people like you who can only afford to buy problems thinking they are buying good stuff.

A single staff bus is X4 of your networth.

I've been following your comments for a while and I can deduce that you are so full of pride, you brag a lot, you might have 50 Million in your account but you seem to be so immature and childish in thinking from your choice of words, calling someone's 4m small money, I even doubt you are rich as you say cos rich men don't brag nor show off their wealth or net worth in forums like this, be wise bro.

monichannel:
If we check well now you fit no get up to 40k for account. Even 400million is not up to some people's wedding budget, whereas some people wedded with less than 200k this year.

You hang your bag according to your size.

Hang your bag within your reach.

Chukapage:
that guy na student probably a hopeful Yahoo boy that's DREAMING OF cashing out BLOCK money na him make 4M be am like small money when he probably have not touched complete 500k of his own

Haha my thought as well. I know them when I see them haha.

justmi1:
So 4m is money? Lol
How many baby food and diapers can that even buy.

Bros if 4M ain't money how much you sef get cash for bank?? all this una internet "wannabeism" no dey tire una??

Sunnyobums:
I've been following your comments for a while and I can deduce that you are so full of pride, you brag a lot, you might have 50 Million in your account but you seem to be so immature and childish in thinking from your choice of words, calling someone's 4m small money, I even doubt you are rich as you say cos rich men don't brag nor show off their wealth or net worth in forums like this, be wise bro.

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Is that all?

RisenPhoenix:
Even 36 is pushing it. 25-28 is just about ok. Anything less and a man is not financially or emotionally ready. Anything more and a man is getting too full of the single life and gradually developing 'marriage-destroying' habits that will be more and more difficult to stop the older he grows.

24-28 in the present Nigeria?

Okoyiboz3:
You are profoundly unintelligent and incurably dense.

You see how people are attacking you, that show your brain is microscopic!

Okoyiboz3:
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Is that all?

Oga keep quiet you are a nobody.

okomile:
Inpatient!

Is “impatience” and not inpatient

Inpatient refer to;
A patient who lives in hospital while under treatment.

cRobo:
And you are happy to announce it in disguise that you are helping?

with this post i have learnt alot
what is your headache on it

Jgoldie:
look at how 'advanced men' are bashing each other...

na 4million cause this bashing

let me grab my popcorn and coke...this is gonna be hilarious

GOD KNOWS IF I HAVE A MILLION NAIRA ....I WOULD DO WONDERS...

Dick-measuring contest of who is richer.

pocohantas:
I don't know why lots or guys here find it so hard to give themselves the same advice they give women with relationship issues.

They are here again to blame their singlehood on imaginary oloshos and untrained women. It is never them. Always the opposite sex. Always Naija men that or Naija women this.

All of you that claim to be the best thing after internet, but can't find good partners. I mean, all of you- MALE and FEMALE. You all should check yourselves biko. You are not the last of your kind, are you? Nawa!!

Poco poco

Okoyiboz3:
You are profoundly unintelligent and incurably dense.

shut you stinking toilet mouth!! You think sey na by English?? HYPOCRITE!! Ode! You showed off your fake ass ,he showed off what he's got too and you're all up hyperventilating everywhere when you did EXACTLY the same thing he did HYPOCRITE!

Sunnyobums:
Oga keep quiet you are a nobody.

If I am a nobody, then may you never be a nobody in your life.