Edusouls:
The end of days is here live, the center can't hold anymore everything is going south, in 15 years from now divorce rate would be explosive, poverty explosive, crime explosive earth would gradually become uninhabitable

Ladycewhy:
For a 40 something year old man one would have expected that he would have ticked all the boxes before settling down.I don't know why the marriage crashed or who's fault it was ,but did he have to wait to grow white hair only to let it pack up in 3months? . Here i was thinking advanced bachelors were more emotionally and psychologically ready for marriage .

Ladycewhy:
the old guys na. Imagine a 40 plus bachelor,that one na advanced bachelor o.

Jgoldie:


stay on your lane mr. westernlove....
must you insult me?
why are you this pained because I stated my opinion
shows the kind of person you are.

Go about your relationships not spending shishi,let me do mine?

haba...

na that kind bucket dem go dey throw your way IJN.

TourismMan:


And the guy is always preaching, trying to win soul for God but I think he is someone with pride. Perhaps he was exerting pride in the house with the ex wife.

Incandescent:


Ignore the mediocre abeg.

Feeling cool with 400k per month forgetting that na person get the business wey dey pay am the 400k.

Mindfulness:


No, these things don't bother me but my mum hates it when I drag my feet and she has never lived alone in her life. From papa's house to her matrimonial house with kids following very soon after.

simplesearch:


Quitters don't ever win neither do they testify. You need to see yourself as been responsible for whatever ills that goes on in your home to fix it, what you need at this point is to quit been selfish and braze up yourself to become the man God wants you to be in your home and for your kids. If our parents had been quitting up and down at convenience don't you think our lives would have been filled with many bitter experiences. Don't seek for liberty at the expense of your due responsibility, People that always run from responsibility are never dependable.

Ladycewhy:
do you also get irritated when people drag their feet on the floor and make noise when walking? Or how they brush their teeth and gaggle water?

Chi59:

Many of the "advanced bachelors" are very unserious and unready. I mean guys in mid to late thirties. Some behave very childish. Damn

golddust6000:
bro, i know how old I am. Marriage is just nothing. Most things in marriage is bearing children.
What can you say to those that are over 40 married but divorced? Or talk about those that are married for long still no kids? Guy, use your tongue to count your teeth. My father got married at the age of 37, my eldest sister is 52 now. We are seven boys two girls. We are all living fine. I am an Igbo man. We don’t bring children into poverty.
My father is still alive. So I dey follow his footsteps. I know I will live above 100. Because we are naturally strong in my family.

Ladycewhy:
this thread opened my eyes to alot of things. I used to hold these advanced bachelors in high esteem in terms of experience and emotional maturity, but it seems that is not the case.

Sunnyobums:

I've been following your comments for a while and I can deduce that you are so full of pride, you brag a lot, you might have 50 Million in your account but you seem to be so immature and childish in thinking from your choice of words, calling someone's 4m small money, I even doubt you are rich as you say cos rich men don't brag nor show off their wealth or net worth in forums like this, be wise bro.

Chi59:

Babe no think am o. No be by age. If dem tell you say some of these foolish guys for nairaland are in their thirties, you go believe?

Ladycewhy:
i suspect uwaikpe abi dem dey call am is in his 40s sef

Westernlove:


Lol e pain am, Imagine she Is using Jesus to curse someone, Did Jesus cursed people when he was alive? Hypocrite bunch of people. Afterall you would claim you are a God fearing religious decent leech lol. It's been long I've seen someone so pained like this. I'm really laughing hard over here lol

dave4rella:


Oh shut up! You little brat and take advice

Been observing your comments
Mannerless cow

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

RisenPhoenix:

Hit a nerve?

Jgoldie:


WHATEVER BRO

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Triniti:
This is so true..I have a 39 year cousin always complaining to me of how so so of our relations came and was invading his space and privacy. I’m like, how do someone invade your privacy in semi detached 4 bedroom duplex? Dude is growing so strong in this single lifestyle

Jgoldie:



mannerless cow....lmao

you sound like my big brother

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Ladycewhy:
this thread opened my eyes to alot of things. I used to hold these advanced bachelors in high esteem in terms of experience and emotional maturity, but it seems that is not the case.

dancok:
correct guy, that's what my fear, am a yoruba guy, is common here they like to marry money or no money and this children will come into poverty, when ever they see u looking good they will say na marriage e remain o,

Ladycewhy:
lets start from 38.

Loners fine but the part where they get irritated by the presence of another person is where the issue is. Its this kind of people that will tell you to stop chewing food too loud,to walk less noticebly ,God help you if you belch in their presence they just don't want anything that indicates you are there,if possibly done even breathe heavily around them . I know what i am talking about, its not normal behavior.

pocohantas:


Pheew! I have OCD. I am particular about those things you mentioned. I have a way I do everything- even to cut onions. I have a way I cut for stew, omellettes, sauce...whatever. At work you will see me going upandan, arranging tables. Nobody send me o. I am that petty.

It took me some time to adjust, though it has never been like some guys here described. Never have I been irritated by a guest, but I try my best not to always have people over or sleep out. Yea, it is not a normal behaviour, I agree (at this point).

Asour:


No.
I certainly disagree with your point BUT your point is still vague one must at least know what you mean by "long" to put your theorem to the test.

I don't know what is responsible for divorces as most claim. But it is not hard to think of what gives any relationship (Business, Marriage etc.) a potential.
to last long. It's respect. Nothing more.

It's also known as not taking each party for granted.

Any other "age" story is anecdotal and may not be a strong enough framework to base any decisions of off.

America's Hollywood provides an ample enough sample size to examine any divorce related postulations and everyone would agree that for each divorce by a party (above 40) in Hollywood there are multiple divorces by parties (below 40).

Chi59:

Babe no think am o. No be by age. If dem tell you say some of these foolish guys for nairaland are in their thirties, you go believe?