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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:49pm On Dec 09, 2019
I tried this for 6 years because she told me she was a virgin at the time.
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by meobizy(f): 8:50pm On Dec 09, 2019
We haven’t reached page 10 yet? Nairalanders are disappointing me.
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Emmyefe1: 8:51pm On Dec 09, 2019
Ask her if her dad is a Ghanaian?
olabolaji:
Now baby? what you got on Nigerian men?
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by EvenBlogger: 8:51pm On Dec 09, 2019
ePoster:
Honest replies.
Abeg , I Must say oooo , Instead of Reading Latest Nigeria News i prefer listening to Good Top Naija Songs Biko ooooo


How long have you been celibate? why did you choose the lifestyle? and how easy has it been so far?
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Sunnyobums: 8:52pm On Dec 09, 2019
pocohantas:


Hahahaha. You even try grin
Poco the topic says, how long have you been celibate, oya out with it, I want to know yours

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by DenreleDave(m): 8:54pm On Dec 09, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
As per God? Don't ever quote me again. See my comment, nigga face front.


I quote u again.. Do ur favorite worse
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by DenreleDave(m): 8:54pm On Dec 09, 2019
Sunnyobums:

Poco the topic says, how long have you been celibate, oya out with it, I want to know yours


Pocohantas or pocahontas??

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Sunnyobums: 9:00pm On Dec 09, 2019
DenreleDave:


Pocohantas or pocahontas??
han or hon as far as poco dey am, na she, we only have one poco on nairaland.
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 9:01pm On Dec 09, 2019
I'm a 40-year-old fully functional male. And I've been celebate for...40 years. Yes, 40 years.
It sprung from a promise I made God when I was about 9.
Back then, I struck a deal with the Almighty. I promised Him that if He saw me through a crisis I was experiencing...I would have sex only with the woman I would marry.
As always, God kept His end of the deal...and for 40 years I have been keeping mine...as I look forward to finding my soulmate.
It's been one difficult journey...navigating our sex-steeped world...but every time I'm tempted to stray...God's supernatural Grace is always there to strengthen me and keep me going.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by MisterALEX(m): 9:02pm On Dec 09, 2019
You're very correct bro. I became celibate last year October, and I can categorically tell you that it's not been easy. But the blessings that come with it far outweigh the stress.. I'll continue this way till the right woman comes my path.
Biodun1929:
I've been celibate for 2 weeks and 5 days now... Wednesday will make it 3 weeks.

Reason why I decided to do so? I met a girl on Nairaland a few weeks ago...we went on a date, we were feeling ourselves. She told me she likes me, I like her...but to go all the way na wahala. She said she was and has been celibate all her life. She started telling me about the benefits of being celibate...spiritual benefits ... especially for a man when it comes to being successful in life.

She is a likeable person, and the more she talked about it, the more I wanted to try it out. Of cos I knew about these benefits from being a vast reader of esoteric books in the past, but my sexual drive/libido is just out of this world. Anyway, I decided to try it out.

The first week was hell. Using social media doesn't make it easy ...boobs and ass everywhere. I just pesisted. It wasn't easy at all. I think I went into mini depression around day 10 sef. It was just so crazy. But I just had the mind of going at least two weeks. Around day 12, the urges decreased.

Benefits I Have Noticed

*More focus

*Unexpected Blessings (I swear, one guy asked me to send him my account number because I said something nice about his status. He sent me 5k. You might say that is not much, but it has never freaking happened to me before.)

*You start to look at females more than just sex objects. Now I can pass a well endowed girl on the streets without even ogling her. I can't explain it, but there is some level of power that comes with that.

Some other benefits I can't think of right now. I have decided to take it all the way to 6 weeks. I know there are some people that have been celibate for years and would look at this as nothing. But we are all different...my sexual urge is something else, and I don't want it to, like a volcano, erupt in a way I wouldn't want.
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Annie001: 9:07pm On Dec 09, 2019
Randy100:
will you keep quiet. Back to the topic, I decided to be a celibate on sunday feb 10 2019. I arranged one girl that I just met through a friend come my room, while other was in church service, I was busy sweating ontop of this girl. The life changing moment came when I ejaculated only to see that my condom has scattered. The vagina fluid has soaked inside and at that moment I became jittery cos my guy had already warned me that the girl is wayward and she may be probably HIV positive. I turned to God for forgiveness and prayed throughout the night. In the morning I rushed to hospital (teaching hospital) to demand for PEP and in total I spend 3thousand naira to get the drug but I didn't mind. I started taking the drug which the side effect was terrible, the nauseating effect of the drug is second to none but I didn't mind. On thursday 14 feb 2019 I woke up to notice that urinating is as if I am urinating hot water. It was burning my penis. I went for test and it was Gono and I was given Rocephin injection and it vanished. After 6months I went for HIV test and the stupid guy doing the test said I should enter room with him, my soul left my body and this stupid guy kept saying that I should practice safe sex and I should buy my personal clipper. He later handed the result and I was negative to both Hiv 1 and 2. Since feb 10 till now I am still a celibate, don't kill yourself because of mere 15mins enjoyment.
Lmao
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Biodun1929(m): 9:07pm On Dec 09, 2019
MisterALEX:
You're very correct bro. I became celibate last year October, and I can categorically tell you that it's not been easy. But the blessings that come with it far outweigh the stress.. I'll continue this way till the right woman comes my path.

Nice.
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Annie001: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2019
anochuko01:
In my late 20s, never had sex, and haven't been in a relationship for the past eight years....
Weird
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by nwamabo247(m): 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2019
me i no follow for such topic got injure at 16. Plz help save a helpless soul.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8L28FnFjo1M
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:10pm On Dec 09, 2019
Over a two years nw because I left the country and sleeping with foreigners ain't my thing just don't fancy it
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by donkossy(m): 9:11pm On Dec 09, 2019
Riele:
All my life !
Why ? - Nigerian men ain't worth it .
Ewu
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by CaptainMitch: 9:14pm On Dec 09, 2019
Send me dollars dear
Thegeneralqueen:
Over a two years nw because I left the country and sleeping with foreigners ain't my thing just don't fancy it
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:14pm On Dec 09, 2019
gypsey:
Cellibate? why in the hell would anyone want or choose to be cellibate?

I have Already had sex with Nearly 150 women in my life time, Some of them i cannot even remember their faces or names.
See you soon in UK Spain no gree release my papers them say till next April embarassed
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by NuclearReactor: 9:19pm On Dec 09, 2019
Goalnaldo:
As a strong S.U member back then in sec school, I told God to take away anything that will hinder me from serving him faithfully including girls. I had sex last year for the first time at the age of mahrez number. I had a few times more but I ain't seeing any fun in it. Never really fondled breasts before. I wish it's by holiness someone can become rich, na me and otedola them for dey the same class cheesy cheesy
Also an SU member, the kind of standard that group helps you to attain ehhnn, infact once you go to SU, people just expect you to act better, So why did you break your celibacy??
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by omotowo2: 9:20pm On Dec 09, 2019
slimnick:
two months again, after one yeye calabar boy dicknity shifted my womb and was hitting my kidney, ��� I rada sell my kidney dan allow sumbori spoil it for me
i am sure you still love that boy to do it harder next time because of what? Because na so ladies like am
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:22pm On Dec 09, 2019
CaptainMitch:
Send me dollars dear
Lol Chief that's why I haven't being constant here it's because of it remember I told Martin last two years that I'm processing my Visa you forgot how lively I'm that year cheesy the cold here dey enter bones embarassed
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Goalnaldo(m): 9:22pm On Dec 09, 2019
NuclearReactor:

Also an SU member, the kind of standard that group helps you to attain ehhnn, infact once you go to SU, people just expect you to act better, So why did you break your celibacy??
couldn't bear it anymore cry
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by omotowo2: 9:24pm On Dec 09, 2019
ibkayee:
2 days, man it's been tough
that means dog ate your placenta
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Nnamebuka: 9:26pm On Dec 09, 2019
Gofwane:
I work as a mechanical engineer in a factory. Oboyyeh na 8am to 6pm from mondays to fridays and most times, saturday and sundays.

By the time I close, man don tire. Na to go drink beer sleep remaingrin

...and fap yourself to sleep (you don't have to omit that). It's a familiar terrane bro..

You can't continue this way man. You are short-changing your happiness for tomorrow today.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by poweredcom(m): 9:27pm On Dec 09, 2019
I can't stay with out sex I ave benged so man babes ehnnn all of these gals r all oloshos jare

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by drezzyx(m): 9:27pm On Dec 09, 2019
gypsey:
Cellibate? why in the hell would anyone want or choose to be cellibate?

I have Already had sex with Nearly 150 women in my life time, Some of them i cannot even remember their faces or names.
For this my son you will be sitting close to the devil in hell, thus saith the Lord .

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by NuclearReactor: 9:28pm On Dec 09, 2019
Goalnaldo:
couldn't bear it anymore cry
Well, just know that even if you screw up, God is still waiting open arms to receive you, He has NO INTENTION to condemn you, and when you go to him be honest, he'll help you develop a "customized" strategy to remain celibate!!
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by candyguyofficia(m): 9:30pm On Dec 09, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Was celibate for over two years uninterruptedly.

At Shiloh the year before the journey began, I told God to strike me dead if I voluntarily had sex with a man who wasn’t my husband! LOOL. Fear of my own swear didn’t allow me try shit.

When I was ready to undo my celibacy, I went back to tell God to let me have sex. That I’ve kept to two years bargain.

Really ehn... God is merciful!
It's not funny ooh as it involves God but you way too funny. It cracked me up
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by bikerboy1(m): 9:31pm On Dec 09, 2019
Gofwane:
I work as a mechanical engineer in a factory. Oboyyeh na 8am to 6pm from mondays to fridays and most times, saturday and sundays.

By the time I close, man don tire. Na to go drink beer sleep remain grin

I hope to pay you bro.

That's a good chunk of your life that is passing by
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 09, 2019
drezzyx:
For this my son you will be sitting close to the devil in hell, thus saith the Lord .
The devil doesn't exist the lord doesn't exist either, they are all fairytales.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 09, 2019
Thegeneralqueen:
See you soon in UK Spain no gree release my papers them say till next April embarassed
No wahala! i dey wait, So did the UK allow you?

If spain no gree you don't be too sure about the UK.
Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 09, 2019
Thegeneralqueen:
Over a two years nw because I left the country and sleeping with foreigners ain't my thing just don't fancy it
which foreigners did you slept with? Dirty Smelly Arabs?

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