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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Ghostnick: 3:52pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
1Sharon:let me knw wen u wil like me to start the lifting ok? Cal on me anytime any where i dey 4 u. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Born2Freak:If only you had closed your mouth, we wouldn't have known that you lack the very basic ability to comprehend simple facts. Ishilove doesn't even know who the hell you're talking about and she's been on this forum for 9 years. Maybe because she jokingly called him crush in a few random comments, you don go carry am for head. Una no dey tire to nag on top wetin no concern una? 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Ishilove: 4:02pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
computergeek:He is a troll who takes delight in displaying amazing stupidity. Meatloaf is a musician who trended in 80s. I had a crush him when I was a teenager, and THAT is what the empty headed troll is yapping about. Silly, huh? Pay the gnome no mind, sis. I am used to his infantile shenanigans. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Born2Freak(f): 4:07pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
computergeek: Lol.....it is clear that you are in her category of unintelligent people trying to act smart. Madam computergeek, how do you know that she jokingly called meatloaf her crush? Do you just pull things out of your behind or are you a mind reader? Please, Meatloaf is a musician. Crush as they come. Furthermore, I have been on nairaland almost as long as ishilove and during that time, I learnt for a fact that she does not know much about international politics. Only for her to come here and claim that she was lecturing her ex on international affairs. Think of me as the anti-bullshite detector. Have a nice day. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ishilove:Wait ooo... Meatloaf the singer of "It's all coming back to me now." I love that song na, though I don't like the guy's brand of music in general. I thought he was talking about some random person with a meatloaf moniker on this forum. People dey try like this to keep tabs on you shaa 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Born2Freak(f): 4:09pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ishilove: You were a teenager in the 80s? Mama di mama. Old cargo! 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by mrpaedo(m): 4:09pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ishilove:Ishilove,still thesame short woman with a short temper Yes...I am short infact I am just slightly taller than aki and pawpaw but do you want to know something?I eventually figured out this relationship thingy between men and women and all i do now is win!...win!!...win!!!.My female options continue to expand exponentially as I grow older while you cuddle your pillow at night in place of your imaginary 6ft2 man 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Born2Freak(f): 4:11pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
computergeek: I just have a good memory. By the way, I'm a real sapiosexual. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by mrpaedo(m): 4:14pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Born2Freak:Baba I got this memo many years ago 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Ishilove: 4:15pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
computergeek:Hahahaha! The same MeatLoaf o. The one and only You see how stupid he is? That one is keeping tabs because he has no life outside the internet. This is the only place that gives purpose to his meaningless existence, so the bile you see in his posts are a projection of his acute self loathing. I took some users' advice here and started ignoring him a long time ago. I only respond to his yapping when I have some free time on my hands and feel like adding colour to his life. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Born2Freak(f): 4:18pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ishilove: You have spent 9 years on nairaland. The same nairaland where you were disgraced and sacked as a mod. The same nairaland that your facebook info was leaked by some guys. You keep coming back to fight trolls. And somehow, I am the one without a life? Lol Madam sapiosexual! 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Born2Freak(f): 4:20pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
mrpaedo: I thought I was the only one who noticed her imaginary man. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Eye-opening thread. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by mrphysics(m): 4:42pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Preshy561:Same. Anything for me this Christmas? Anything for broke boys? |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Preshy561(f): 5:06pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
mrphysics: Yeah, the Blessings from above. Though you aren't broke. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: Have you ever been reasonable asides throwin trantrums av you ever created any intellectual post ursef, a profile comparism shows d tosyne guy is more impactful than yu've ever been here ... does academic grades really determine our achievement on d outside , frm zuckerberg to gates, dangote, soyinka which one had a uni. 1st class degree. do yu knw hw many 1st class & prof. work under these men poco you're so full of yursef yet you work under a man, i am challenging you creat that intellectual topic n lets see if my guys won't beat you ladies hands down. miseducation challenge stil up, i can see no lady as been able to creat a sensible female version, the ones that even tried are "nobody" by moniker 2day bring up d topics 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
[/quote ] I wanted: -Tall -Italian half-caste with very yellow skin -Gorgeous shoulder-length jet-black hair - Eight packs -Catholic like me -Tech savvy like me - Extremely intelligent -Smiling and cheerful - stinkingly rich -God-fearing (ever lady's list features this, even the atheists ) - Cool-tempered - light brown eyes - full red lips (lol, I was literally dreaming for a man doll) -Amazing in za oza room And all the other regular stuff like loving, romantic, funny, caring, gentle, kind, and so on. Yimnu, no be like that ooo... By the time I hit 21 - 22, me was not doing again . I just wanted someone with whom I shared a strong attraction. A decent man who had a good head on his shoulders, a steady source of income and ambition. When my list became reasonable and meaningful, I guess I found one who checked out . Guess what? I married that "big head". He had some of the qualities on my first list shaa, like he's Catholic and tech savvy, tall and intelligent. But uncle is not Italian, he has brown skin and he does not like smiling . ********************** It's different when a woman decides that she does not want to get married. Marriage is not for everyone and society needs to evolve to a time when it stops shaming single ladies. However, some who may really want to be married are getting held up by the unrealistic qualities they seek in a life partner. It's your life, sure, but only Jesus is perfect Nne. Chase attraction and compatibility and quit looking for perfection. This doesn't mean you should settle for the first shit-head that comes your way or over-lowering your standards, but let's try not to chase a reflection of our 8-year-old imaginations. So ladies, what changed about your own list? Even if you're not married yet, give us your evolved status . ... Pocohantas, Ishilove and Bukatyne - The three musketeers . Come and get the party started here. My babes from the Diary section, Pateffy, Tiffany07, MelaninQueen, Henriettttta, Luckygurl, Hermionegranger, Bloomingbud, Peacefulhome, y'all get in here! [/quote] Interesting read!!!Your choices,I applaud them but is it a naija thing that the desired preferences are often lowered ?!coz almost everyone does.I'm a happily married man with children and I think children for my generation were born in the 80s til now are what makes it difficult.We were told we can have everything but that's not true.Something we pinch ourselves out of. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Twoclans: Interesting read!!!Good sex is indeed a treasure and can be addictive. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by SensualMan1(m): 6:21pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:But u r married naa... A contract marriage to a GreatResearcher. You wish all these in ur dream/next world? I only pray u do not kill that man GreatResearcher and run away with his properties only to start living ur dreamland. No wonder u made him go off NL. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by pocohantas(f): 6:25pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Jagajaga boy 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by QuintessentialW: 6:37pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
smeag0l: Thank you for giving her such a heartfelt, candid advice. God bless you. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
tosyne2much: You knw the funnily thing about poco .. are inner most desire is to find a man on NL, the day guys here wil see her picture or what she looks like is the day d few ones sliding into her DM will realised she not worth more than an average gurl next door, her mouth is so much bigger than her tit & ass, ....never take dem serious. 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by pocohantas(f): 6:44pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
"the day guys here wil see her picture or what she looks like is the day d few ones sliding into her DM will realised she not worth more than an average gurl next door" This one no kuku get sense. Have I ever claimed to be more than the girl next door? I always say it, I am THE GIRL NEXT DOOR. 6 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by QuintessentialW: 6:56pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Asour: Are you single? Can we get married already? |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by QuintessentialW: 7:08pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Godsfavour78: You cracked me up, man! |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Born2Freak(f): 7:11pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: Madam. I'm feeling you |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
SensualMan1: |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
ericsmith:Have you seen her before? |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ariza:Inside life. Things are really happening on this forum |
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