ubunja:

They always think their GF is different.

Inside life

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

mad fellow why would u allow her to stay fallow don't u know the engine need greasing.

Developer

...bro your own is after marriage.
That bro is taking his own before marriage. Do you now prefer 2 of you taking her after marriage?

Besides is she not a LovePeddler again?

CasNova:
Sometimes, love comes with a lot of heartaches.

no b small ooo.....boyfriend galfriend na war

The last girl that did that to me regretted it, and she is still regretting it. Wise up guys.

Fake ass story.
Keke napep drivers don't have time for social media.
Market your redpill abi medicine for the unsuspecting mumus and find your way.

victorian:







Thats pure fallacy.

I'm a lady, my man is very nice and I love him,loyal to him 2 the moon and back.

So plz don't generalise.


Remember not all helpers we must have sex with or marry.

Op is the kind of helper that falls in the category of a kind friend or kind brother.

But trust me Op, you will be blessed for being kind and helpful.

it is better to help fellow m'en than help you guys.

Guy, you fall my hand big time. The very first day I start dating any girl, that means the pu*ssy will smell pepper. I am a real pu*ssy slayer.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

When de will tell u guys stop loving girls too much stop doing more for Dem you won't hear word now another man don bang ur gal and you never see pant you be mugu now so painful

Stop playing husband file when u have not married any girl in naija they are not trusted

Shame.to the wh.ore

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Bro you messed up you could have bleeped her to a point that even if she bleeped another man e no go pain too much now you are the biggest mugu here oh lord why did u give her all day luxury when u have not.maried her

Geminita1:
Fake ass story.

Keke napep drivers don't have time for social media.

Market your redpill abi medicine for the unsuspecting mumus and find your way.

Close mouth there wat do u mean

Do u think people operating Keke napep are illletrates or can't use the internet

bukatyne:


Why do people have no sex relationships when they still intend to have sex with others?

Is it not better to have the sex with the intended partner or truly abstain till the wedding night?

I don't get the logic anyways.

Because they believe such people are rear and should be kept for marriage/marriage material why they enjoy their own fantasy to the fullest secretly.
Also, they believe by sleeping with him, he would have gotten what he wants and sooner or later will stop giving them the necessary gifts, money or quit the relationship just the way most husbands are not really romantic after marriage because they feel relaxed and know the woman is going nowhere again.
Just like the way a guy will keep his virgin gf for marriage because she is a marriage material why destroying other ladies vj for his own fantasy.
It is a crazy and selfish world dear

It is rather unfortunate

people still fall for this charade. Na wa ooo. see real scam

Most girls that get hooked up in relationships just do it that moment to solve their immediate needs. While they are with you, they keep exploring alternatives. And when they get one, they are gone or cheat secretly.

You respect her too much.. .

She has no iota of respect for you..

You are just a provider, a God-sent!!

poweredcom:


Bro you messed up you could have bleeped her to a point that even if she bleeped another man e no go pain too much now you are the biggest mugu here oh lord why did u give her all day luxury when u have not.maried her




Close mouth there wat do u mean

Do u think people operating Keke napep are illletrates or can't use the internet

Lmao gullible lots

But u self, for this days weeee girls dee Bleep like dog. You did well ooo but is better you help your friend than woman that can discard you anytime .

ubunja:

They always think their GF is different.

E get one girl for unilorin here she get one mumu fiance for lag wey dey spendon her like crazy and unknown to the fiance tge girl dey knack nonsense all over ilorin. I just pity nice guys.

akdjr:
Did she call it a quit with you after having sex with the guy? If she didn't and you love her bro put that behind you and go ahead with your plans. But if she has found a new love I the guy she had sex with I will advice you to move on...My uncle who is seasoned womanizer once told me that irrespective of the number of times you sleep with a girl, the person who she eventually marry and had children for is the one who has achieve the greatest gift on Earth from a woman. d

pls run away from away from the person giving you this type of advice

victorian:








It's true.

I understand where u are coming from.

That's why I'm always reluctant accepting money favours from guys I know I won't date or marry.

If doling out money to me, means u want sex or marriage, and probably I don't find the guy attractive, no chemistry whatsoever. Then it's no use.
Keep your money.

I had an accident with my leg, last year. It was not healing after series of drugs and injections. A guy on my neighbourhood wanted to help me by bringing his own doctor to check my leg and he was ready to pay for everything, with continuous dressing of the wounds but on one condition. He's in love and wants to marry me.

But to me, I see him as a friend, I have no feelings at all for this guy. And I know he's a kind guy but unfortunately I don't see myself waking up everyday seeing his face first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Even when. He wanted to hug me, I felt repulsed. And he notice. Then he said look Vicky, I know I'm not a dashing handsome man and I know I'm not the ugliest man on earth, neither will I be the only man with an ugly face. But please I sincerely love you, lemme help you with this leg.

I was holding back my laugh, as I winced in pains. I sighed and I replied : I cannot marry you. I'm sorry. If you want to help me with this leg, fine but don't expect marriage. He sighed and said he will still help.
His doctor checked my leg and prescribed some expensive drugs to take and dressing thrice a week until it heals. I calculated everything, the money was much. The next day I sent his nurse away And told him not to worry. Cause he's already calling me his wife. Which I don't want to even imagine, how much more to hear it from his lips.

Thank God I have my own money but it wasn't enough at that time , So my dearest Funmi came to my rescue, out of the blues to see me and footed most of the bills, without asking me for sex or marriage or anything. She's a female like me and she's no lesbian. But she paid for everything , even though she's a corper and a nairalander

So that's life. We can't have sex with all our helpers in life!

I feel you. You acted properly.
But ladies should not accept money from guys they cannot date. There is noting like helper but interests.

victorian:








It's true.

I understand where u are coming from.

That's why I'm always reluctant accepting money favours from guys I know I won't date or marry.

If doling out money to me, means u want sex or marriage, and probably I don't find the guy attractive, no chemistry whatsoever. Then it's no use.
Keep your money.

I had an accident with my leg, last year. It was not healing after series of drugs and injections. A guy on my neighbourhood wanted to help me by bringing his own doctor to check my leg and he was ready to pay for everything, with continuous dressing of the wounds but on one condition. He's in love and wants to marry me.

But to me, I see him as a friend, I have no feelings at all for this guy. And I know he's a kind guy but unfortunately I don't see myself waking up everyday seeing his face first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Even when. He wanted to hug me, I felt repulsed. And he notice. Then he said look Vicky, I know I'm not a dashing handsome man and I know I'm not the ugliest man on earth, neither will I be the only man with an ugly face. But please I sincerely love you, lemme help you with this leg.

I was holding back my laugh, as I winced in pains. I sighed and I replied : I cannot marry you. I'm sorry. If you want to help me with this leg, fine but don't expect marriage. He sighed and said he will still help.
His doctor checked my leg and prescribed some expensive drugs to take and dressing thrice a week until it heals. I calculated everything, the money was much. The next day I sent his nurse away And told him not to worry. Cause he's already calling me his wife. Which I don't want to even imagine, how much more to hear it from his lips.

Thank God I have my own money but it wasn't enough at that time , So my dearest Funmi came to my rescue, out of the blues to see me and footed most of the bills, without asking me for sex or marriage or anything. She's a female like me and she's no lesbian. But she paid for everything , even though she's a corper and a nairalander

So that's life. We can't have sex with all our helpers in life!

Yeah baby, it is true, but why always seek monetary from men u dont love and won't help if he is the in need

Firstorderwizard:


Did you make ur intentions known to her?
She's a woman and have feelings, you failed to ignite the attraction trigger by not touching her.
Maybe she sees you as just a friend/brother

chai bros you self worse pass the babe, read properly again and see all he did for the hoe not like he was even a rich dude..

victorian:







Thats pure fallacy.

I'm a lady, my man is very nice and I love him,loyal to him 2 the moon and back.

So plz don't generalise.


Remember not all helpers we must have sex with or marry.

Op is the kind of helper that falls in the category of a kind friend or kind brother.

But trust me Op, you will be blessed for being kind and helpful.

My brother that's one of the bitter pills good men swallow these days..... If I open mouth tell you my own experience ehhh.... Nairaland go explode

Nat404:
Not true. It's all about stupidity. This is particularly why I don't pity baby mama's.

Babymàmá's are actually better..... Less expensive.....

ubunja:
It is well. One more guy awakes.

Many more will wake up to the reality that love and trust are overrated... Sadly, most will be scarred first.

nedekid:

Learn your lesson and move on.
Never invest in any lady. Don't give more than peanuts except you are getting "something" in return.
See I had this lady working in my bar 10years ago. This guy working close by liked her alot. This lady was forming good girl and virgin for this guy but na last hoe. Guys were screwing her her for free or at most peanuts.
This girl started extorting this man bigtime. 15, 20k
The one that pained me pass was when she saw him comming and told her Co workers that her mugu was comming. Immediately the man came in she packaged herself as if she was sad. Told the guy some story. This guy went to atm and gave her 20k! Immediately he left see celebration.
I finanny had to codedly call and warn him when she gave him 50k bill about some family problem she fakely had.
Guys wise up.

Firstorderwizard:


This is harsh bro, I have been there before
Most people still buy this no sex till marriage shit but most times it back fires negatively.

Doesn't matter whether you have sex or abstain... A hoe will still be a hoe, just as a player won't be transformed to a faithful man by giving him your body.

You guys keep mixing things up... Most of you are poorly taught about life.

mechanics:
Difficult abi, that's if he still loves her, because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, who knows the next lady may be worse than this one.

Super lie!!!
Low self esteem mentality!! !

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

You are a fuull

Was this agreement imposed by you or she ? if by you, was it mutually agreed by both of you? if by she, then, I hate hypocrites!