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Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:21pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:
Everything is spiritual In this country. Smh undecided


OP, it is spirit husband from the marine kingdom that is preventing guys from dating or getting married to them.
Ode.


You think it's a joke abi. Smh. Lol


When ereach your turn, you go confirm am. No worry
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:22pm On Dec 13, 2019
DeeMain:
While OP might sound overly simplistic and superstitious, he is not totally out of order. Remember:

E= Mc2

Everything is energy.

If you agree with the above, then you should agree with this:

Everything is spirit.

Every behaviour or ability or capability or lack thereof has a spirit behind it, good or bad.

Bad energy, bad spirit. Good energy, good spirit. Seductive energy, seductive spirit.

Before you criticize this or the OP, pause and think.

Pause and think what? undecided

OP said they should do 7days fasting. undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:24pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


Pause and think what? undecided

OP said they should do 7days fasting. undecided


Yes fasting is the Panacea
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:28pm On Dec 13, 2019
Classyuniquebae:
Seriously guys, I'm one of those who does not believe in all these spiritual ish but about what the OP posted, I have a friend who experiences this and I have no goddamn explaination for it because to me , she has it all.... From a hot body shaped like an hour glass to being descent to being calm, collected , intelligent , madly talented but just can't keep a man .



In-between , she was my Coursemate and at a point in time , I had to house her when she had an accommodation problem for a period of one year .


We didn't for one day have a single misunderstanding as ladies ...( you know how girls can get when they live together ) She has an amazing character for real and hardly gets angry . Her maturity trips me but yet all men that come across her wants her for just her body and cuz of that she is still single till date !

They don't even wana get to know her !!! Each time we trekk to school , you see cars pulling up to talk to her ... Every day guys yet ....



So I think OP has a point .... It could be spiritual .

Some even go to the extent of asking her how much she wants for school and stuffs ...just to come spend a night in their place....
So...
Someone not being able to have a stable relationship now means it's spiritual? .... undecided
Come which secondary school did you attend?
You just wasted your time there.
And I'm sure you're a graduate. undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:30pm On Dec 13, 2019
healthserve:



Yes fasting is the Panacea. When things go awry I go as far as 21 days. On an issue that was so serious and involved lives I did four months this year

Next time you're having issues in your life, do 1year fasting. At least that will cover up for all the problems that are yet to come.
Yeye undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:34pm On Dec 13, 2019
healthserve:



You think it's a joke abi. Smh. Lol


When ereach your turn, you go confirm am. No worry

I swear I'm not joking. grin
That's why I'm on 2 years prayer and fasting like this.
Can't let any harm come near me. grin
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:34pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


Next time you're having issues in your life, do 1year fasting. At least that will cover up for all the problems that are yet to come.
Yeye undecided


Your turn go come. You all unbelievers talk this same way until destruction falls upon you. So I'm unperturbed. I've heard worse than this
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:36pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


I swear I'm not joking. grin
That's why I'm on 2 years prayer and fasting like this.
Can't let any harm come near me. grin

Na so. You've not seen ladies that over 20 men passed none bothered to say marriage
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:40pm On Dec 13, 2019
healthserve:



Your turn go come. You all unbelievers talk this same way until destruction falls upon you. So I'm unperturbed. I've heard worse than this

So you expect destruction to fall upon me before your point can be proven? Very Christian like.
Smdh. undecided
What of believers that destruction has been their portion, what do you have to say about that?
Your head must have lost multiple nuts... undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:41pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


So you expect destruction to fall upon me before your point can be proven? Very Christian like.
Smdh. undecided
What of believers that destruction has been their portion, what do you have to say about that?
Your head must have lost multiple nuts... undecided


Your existence is inconsequential to me talkless of wishing any shii. Your turn go come simple. Everyone always has issues to deal with, it's just that it's turn by turn. Your turn go come. Bye
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by DeeMain(m): 8:44pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


Pause and think what? undecided

OP said they should do 7days fasting. undecided


I already critiqued his write up by accepting it's overly simplistic and superstitious. '7 days fasting' is overly simplistic and religious.

My post stated where I agreed with him.
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:51pm On Dec 13, 2019
healthserve:



Your existence is inconsequential to me talkless of wishing any shii. Your turn go come simple. Everyone always has issues to deal with, it's just that it's turn by turn. Your turn go come. Bye

Your turn hasn't come yet?
Mr man answer for yourself, hasn't your turn come yet? grin abi e Don pass? grin


Man, this is life, no one is exempted from having problems, no matter who you are.
Everyone surely has a degree of difficulty or challenges he/she is facing, including you who's telling someone that destruction would befall him. undecided
I don't really get your point. undecided
You think because you pray and fast, life would go smoothly for you while others suffer?
You must be high. undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:52pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


Your turn hasn't come yet?
Mr man answer for yourself, hasn't your turn come yet? grin abi e Don pass? grin


Man, this is life, no one is exempted from having problems, no matter who you are.
Everyone surely has a degree of difficulty or challenges he/she is facing, including you who's telling someone that destruction would befall him. undecided
I don't really get your point. undecided
You think because you pray and fast, life would go smoothly for you while others suffer?
You must be high. undecided

I dey on business lane bro. Some oda time. Enjoy. wink
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 8:54pm On Dec 13, 2019
healthserve:


I dey on business lane bro. Some oda time. Enjoy. wink

undecided The usual.
When you have no point to prove.
Anyways Goodluck. undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by healthserve(m): 8:55pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


undecided The usual.
When you have no point to prove.
Anyways Goodluck. undecided


Kids. You no see me dey chat with person about trucks abi. I have nothing to prove to you abeg. Enjoy yourself
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 9:00pm On Dec 13, 2019
healthserve:



Kids. You no see me dey chat with person about trucks abi. I have nothing to prove to you abeg. Enjoy yourself

Who are you calling a kid? undecided
What's my business with who you're chatting?
I made a point and you said destruction would befall me and I'm trying to understand the hogwash you wrote and you're telling me about business, what's my business? undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2019
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kingxsamz:

So...
Someone not being able to have a stable relationship now means it's spiritual? .... undecided
Come which secondary school did you attend?
You just wasted your time there.
And I'm sure you're a graduate.

I'm glad you were sure that I'm a graduate but I'm sure you failed both secondary and probably passed out with a pass CERT from the UNI cuz you can't simply seem to understand simple sentences.

Don't quote me next time. It's my opinion based on a personal experience, you are free to state yours without quoting me with your frustrated life .
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by GrossPrice: 9:45pm On Dec 13, 2019
Angelfrost:
A lot of them overlook good marital prospects early in life due to nothing short of vanity.

This is where it all begins.

No girl can claim; at ages between 19 - 23 - she did not receive at least 2 "I want to marry you's" from men.

And at that age, it is rarely men who are starting out in life asking "this question". It is often men who are made, or already on the way to the top. These men a looking for young wives - in agreement with the age-old adage "catch them young".

Alas, they say our tits are bouncy, skin is luscious and derriere as soft as cotton - Mr. A is too short, and Mr. B is 35 years old even Mr. C with the permanent staff at CNL has crooked teeth, and please don't even mention Mr. D .. he is Calabar ; they eat 404!

They keep doing this over and over again! - many ignore parents and mothers, well married sisters and aunts.

Few are lucky, the retain their chastity; the majority, however, from school boyfriends to street boyfriends, to handsome boyfriends, to rich boyfriends to no sex till marriage. This is when they are between 27 and 30.

However, when they see a young girl 19 - 23 bitting the bullet and getting hitched young. They turn into activists and start advising young girls on the importance of "finding yourself" or "exploring the world" before marriage.

I will continue to say this to anyone who cares to listen. It is only in a woman's youth, does share have the rare opportunity to select a husband.. Once your in your mid 20's your value begins to depreciate geometrically. A woman's youth is her only guarantee to "select a husband". Selecting a husband is very important.

Like they say "the worst time to eat is when you are hungry".

NB: This is the definition of "select": carefully choose as being the best or most suitable.

When you select your "choose", "accept", "take" but you do not discard, or disapprove nor do you declare "unfit".
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by abbatoir(m): 9:57pm On Dec 13, 2019
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That's what they called Loose .
Bravo
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 10:42pm On Dec 13, 2019
Classyuniquebae:
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I'm glad you were sure that I'm a graduate but I'm sure you failed both secondary and probably passed out with a pass CERT from the UNI cuz you can't simply seem to understand simple sentences.

Don't quote me next time. It's my opinion based on a personal experience, you are free to state yours without quoting me with your frustrated life .

Eyah... Don't be frustrated sister.
I didn't mean to be so harsh.
Just that your comment didn't pass off as someone who went through the school system.
Adios.
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 13, 2019
kingxsamz:


Eyah... Don't be frustrated sister.
I didn't mean to be so harsh.
Just that your comment didn't pass off as someone who went through the school system.
Adios.

Lol...I'm sorry but you made me laugh out loud . It's obvious you are an educated illiterate with s a very stinking poverty mentality cuz it's your type that emphasis on school like people's ability to express themselves and as well respect other people's opinion depends on school and even if you did , your UNI days are null as you still graduated with a backward mentality of not knowing that part of self confidence is accepting that people's opinions would definitely differ from yours and you should respect each persons opinion or logically give reasons why you don't agree with such in a civil manner .
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by kingxsamz(m): 12:10am On Dec 14, 2019
Classyuniquebae:


Lol...I'm sorry but you made me laugh out loud . It's obvious you are an educated illiterate with s a very stinking poverty mentality cuz it's your type that emphasis on school like people's ability to express themselves and as well respect other people's opinion depends on school and even if you did , your UNI days are null as you still graduated with a backward mentality of not knowing that part of self confidence is accepting that people's opinions would definitely differ from yours and you should respect each persons opinion or logically give reasons why you don't agree with such in a civil manner .



Lol, chill. grin
No need for insults nw.
Okay, sorry sister.

Please state and explain in details how a young lady being unable to get a husband or have a stable relationship with men is a spiritual problem.

I respect your opinion and I'll like to learn more.
Please answer like the intelligent human that you are. Thank you.
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by showafrica(m): 12:21am On Dec 14, 2019
lomprico:
not true, most times she does not give attention to the one that really wants to date her.

I know some of them... They think they will meet someone from lagos Abuja or abroad
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by Liposure: 6:31am On Dec 14, 2019
Dreaming to slip wit a girl has nuttin 2 do with spirituality.by nature, men R wired sexually.i cant B wit a girl n not be sexually attracted 2 her.i B eunuch?
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by Sunrise258: 7:55am On Dec 14, 2019
1) It happens to ladies who are exceptionally beautiful or have hot banging bodies. No man would want to date them but just have a taste of them because men believe all men would want to sleep with them even when they are married. Banging body ladies are prey for rich men. Example is Princess Shyngle the actress. She was always wondering why her body couldn't help her keep a man. She said they taste n run!

2) Others may be spiritual

3) Others may be due to unbearable turn off character or way of life.

Note: 1 n 2 are always the case.
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by abbatoir(m): 8:21am On Dec 14, 2019
Juliearth:
Is it spiritual? I think it has to do partly with the vibes the ladies give, their inability to trust their instincts, amongst other reasons, but definitely not spiritual.
That very instinct you mentioned is actually the meaning of spiritual... nothing else!
You develop it hence you develop spiritually...hence you have a guiding angel



Such is the secret of lady that got it right by making right such...as woman possess it abundantly by nature.. Trust me?
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by Juliearth(f): 8:37am On Dec 14, 2019
abbatoir:

That very instinct you mentioned is actually the meaning of spiritual... nothing else!
You develop it hence you develop spiritually...hence you have a guiding angel



Such is the secret of lady that got it right by making right such...as woman possess it abundantly by nature.. Trust me?



Spiritual? Well, if you call it so, its still fine by me...we can also finetune it to being the spirit of discernment.
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:14am On Dec 14, 2019
StacyO:
mmmmm
Any Problem??
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by abbatoir(m): 9:36am On Dec 14, 2019
Classyuniquebae:


Yes she is Igbo . From Anambra to be precise. I need her permission to do so and I don't know how she would feel if she finds out about this( I mean writing about her on this forum)

She might accuse me of terming her situation a spiritual one . Lol. Let me find a way around this first.
Trust me..a smart guy will take advantage of this vital information... you have exposed her personality... and that is against her especially from any guy here... unless with an average intelligent guy... Somehow.I know you before I make move hence have an edge...


Please take this as a guide for her:
As a student, she has a long way to go hence she should not appear desperate to date or marry... trust me, your friend is epitome of God gift the way you describe her... how I wish I knew her (abeg I get such ladies at fingers tip...so that's not my problem)
She should maintain a high level of discipline and strictness by resisting the overwhelming attention from this lusting animal... otherwise I can see her future doom..I am talking from experience girl...I understand the psychology of lady to a greater degree... You see, God don't make mistake especially by creating some special body and attributes for such a lady..ask yourself..who did urgly created lady offend?.... Naturally endowed lady is God gift to humanity and they were expected to respect that God gifts and not to succumb to Man pressure.. they have no excuse.

Above all, I assume she is financially independent..she should not expect to get financial help from Man.. else she has lost the battle from the onset


I rest my case!
Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by abbatoir(m): 10:08am On Dec 14, 2019
DonroxyII:
Attimes it is not as if the dudes ain't available but how many lady are ready to stay with a dude till he break through and for one successful all in all guy, there are like 200 ladies available for him and among the 200 ladies like 20 are first class well graded woman ... now he get confused on who to finally roll with .......

He is the only one you are seeing because he is d only one that fit the taste , but he has like other 19 girls that fit his taste and if you miss him, it will take eon time to nabbed another one like him while he will just move to the next graded girl !

The real problem with some ladies is taste and that "Cross-Qualities" they are looking for in a man .......Another problem is approach, how many ladies have the courage to beat the societal norms of toasting a guy that fit their taste .... You will wait for him to make d move , a move that he might never make .... e no easy !

The present society is not easy for most men to quickly breakthrough and some that breakthrough can not even add head or tail together ..... I.e. They don't have structure and they don't like being challenged .... if you ask a guy where do u see urself in five years, he fit vex for you ..... Change am for you .... simple question ... U will hear ur wahala too much, my exes don't ask me silly questions .... u be God ni


I used to say this, it is difficult for a woman of substance to get married these days because many guys around are fvckboys and most that are not fvckboys have fallen below the economic indices of well being .... They have the brain but the system keep fvcking them!


Those men that are above economic indices of well being and clearly defined in terms of:


moral Principle/Godliness:

Philosophy of Life:

Versatility:

Romantic:

Physical Appearance (Dark, Tall, Packed, Beards),

Career (Academic and Professional) and

Financially loaded .....

Your friend loves the above qualities , you love the above qualities and most graded ladies love the above qualities .....

Unfortunately, Such a man is fiercely competed for by ladies. Even when he is married .... He is a toast of highly graded ladies infact 10 ladies are ready to be his baby mama and make him their baby daddy .......

They don't want his money but his bloodlines grin ..... Even the married women in his office or neighbourhood are all salivating him because most of them don't get to enjoy such from their husband ....


Now, How many guys have such qualities ??

How many ladies want such qualities

and How many ladies are ready to wait for a guy to develop such qualities over time ......

I now read on Twitter, If he has potential but not yet made , Drop his a.ss ... na who potential help grin

Most ladies will manage what the society have to offer and if you don't wanna manage .... just stay unmarried ...

Every weekend Marriage occurs but how many happy homes do we have in Nigeria ..... Aisha Buhari self is not an Happy woman in her matrimonial home .... It was Mamman now na Garba Shehu grin

You seem to have high level of intelligence..u must be a street guy..

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Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by abbatoir(m): 10:12am On Dec 14, 2019
ACE1010:
Most women are ignorant about it, they just believe its a normal thing that men lust after their body

Trust me.. they derived satisfaction in that....a path to their doom!

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Re: When No One Wants To Date You, But Everyone Wants To Sleep With You by abbatoir(m): 10:21am On Dec 14, 2019
Davesaves:
Pls connect me to her.. Pls. If all this things u stated here are true.. pls I want to meet her. I'm for real

From the way this lady in question was described and the way you spoke.... assuming you are for real and ready to marry this lady... You are already enslaved to her because it takes a real Man to handle such a lady



I am afraid to say you are far from such bro

I am really sorry for being blunt bro.. Accept my apolo!ogy!

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