| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by AkhereOkaka(m): 5:51pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
daddytime:
Huh?
You miss road?  Thanks, kindly show me the way, would have expected you to come up with more potent argument, than making such comment |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by IprintMONEY: 5:52pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
OgaBuhari:
You've said it all bro.
Also let's not believe a one sided story.
It's good we also hear from the man's story so we would be unbiased on our judgements.
let her summon her husband to this thread so he could create a thread on it and also relay to us his own narration exactly. i am sure the story will change if she does that. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 5:54pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
OgaBuhari:
you're a hoe, I really pity your kids who will emulate from you.
You're a disgrace to womanhood.
like do u think he'll be pained cos you left? NEVER! And hey don't fool yourself that any man would need you again.
You're an over used property and you're what we refer to in computer village as "Second Hand"
Nonsense @Kindheartedd please don't feel insulted by this one. He's just a lowlife boy who stakes 500 hundred Naira on bet9ja every Sunday the goes to Sports section to pray he wins big. He lost last week and is broke this week He also has a habit of attacking successful women or well educated ones on this website. Check my comments over the last 3 days and you will see I've been tracking him ever since he crossed me. Stay strong and let nothing bring you down. You have suffered enough. If you do not help yourself no one will. Cheers! 2 Likes |
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| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by HowDareU: 5:59pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Take a deep breath, relax and calm your nerves: you are hurt. I know he verbally abused and constantly demean you. However, I see revenge on the horizon. You are in emotional pain and it is getting the better part of you. Let me share a similar story of my aunt. When my aunt got married some years ago, her husband was doing well, with a good paying job. My aunt on the other hand, was an O level holder and very naive and young too. The husband began to abuse her physically and emotionally. He would taunt her to no end, calling her demeaning names. Meanwhile, the husband too wasn't a graduate but was lucky to be working for a multinational. Fast forward years later. She sponsored herself through school and got a job as well. The husband eventually lost his job. My aunt vow to avenge what the husband did to her: that she did until he passed on last year. the children never forgave her till this day. Is that the legacy you want to leave behind for your children? Think about it. www.securitymattersafrica.com 1 Like |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by healthserve(m): 5:59pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Kindheartedd:
I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.
I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.
My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.
I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.
He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.
I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.
My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.
He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.
When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.
I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.
I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.
He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.
I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.
I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.
Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.
Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!
Where do you ladies meet these kinds of men.. |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 6:00pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
IprintMONEY:
lol easy bro, i know her story get k leg but no bash am like that lol. this thing will have been resolved easily but she is choosing to run. i can bet you she has a guy outside that is luring her. OgaBuhari is a young psycho who bets 500 hundred Naira each week on Man U over in the sports betting section. He lost last week and is broke today. His specialty is attacking women. Is he your friend? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by PrinceMajestic: 6:00pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Perfect example of an unnecessarily pompous woman who refuse to be loyal to her husband becus she earns something. What is wrong if her husbands opts to do same job with her? Woman be submissive n loyal to your husband and let him fvck d hell out of u wherever n whenever nd treat hm wit love n respect that you hav consistently denied hm bcus u earn income bigger than his. U re even getting support frm evil nairalanders, what a shame? The man doesn't even melt out domestic violence on you, he just wants full respect and submission from u, that he deserves. So dnt steal his offsprings(u have no right) else u are a kidnapper nd dnt move, beg him in a sexy thong panty without any other thing on ur body n make him fvck d hell out of u but neva obey the evil nairalanders advicing u otherwise cus they only want to locate u where u are nd start fvcking you. Trust me ma 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by OgaBuhari: 6:00pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Bigcowhorn:
@Kindheartedd please don't feel insulted by this one. He's just a lowlife boy who stakes 500 hundred Naira on bet9ja every Sunday the goes to Sports section to pray he wins big. He lost last week and is broke this week
He also has a habit of attacking successful women or well educated ones on this website. Check my comments over the last 3 days and you will see I've been tracking him.
Stay strung and let nothing bring you down. You have suffered enough. If you do not help yourself no one will.
Cheers! asslicker! I'm sure you've even sent her a pm just to sound like a nice caring guy and be friendzoned without being truthful to yourself that u want to use her miserable and unfortunate marriage to prey on her. Unfortunately she got no pussy for you. Learn to be a hard man like me that spill out the bitter truth to this hoes. You need Ubunja and Redpill In your life little one 1 Like |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by kole88(m): 6:01pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
SIS, YES U GAT 2 LEAVE, U LOST UR MAIN HUBBY, BUT DONT GET A SECOND HUBBY, BEST OF LUCK |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by tunjilana: 6:01pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
I have read your initial story...firstly I believe both of you think you are putting in more work than the others...firstly your husband feels since he works 7 am to 9 pm everyday and pays most of the bills(if not all) then he should not be disturbed with anything else in the house....You also feel all the things you do domestically without any support is killing....secondly your husband doesnt see what you do as "work" maybe because the income is/was low or doesnt contribute meaningfully to home running....let me start with you, u need to learn to appreciate your husband and teach him hoe to apprrciate you...concentrate on running the home without him and let him focus on working and paying bills....dont keep asking him to wash his clothe by himself or help u do this and that...sort it between you and the maid....speak kind words and show love...he isnt your competition....let him come home to clean laundry and a decent home....As foe him he will gradually learn to appreciate your effort....right now all he seea is a woman who does little or nothing to alleviate the financial burden at home but yet want him to kill himself with domestics after working long hours during the week....when u understand his tot pattern, it will b easier for u to address the issue in a calm and loving way...And get him to support your dreams....That you went to a private school means nothing, stop filling your heart with unnecessary ego....partner him as much as possible and dont be going for competition....As for leaving him, rethink it very well, b sure u are done cos he may not take you back....Also weigh your options very well...lot of younger gals with no baggage are out there for u to compete with....I will suggest u try to understand your husband, know the exact role he wants you to play in the union and submit yourself to that. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 6:02pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
[s] OgaBuhari:
asslicker!
I'm sure you've even send her a pm just to sound like a nice caring guy and be friendzoned without being truthful to yourself that u want to use her miserable and unfortunate marriage to prey on her.
Unfortunately she got no pussy for you.
Learn to be a hard man on me that spill out the bitter truth to this hoes.
You need Ubunja and Redpill In your life little one [/s] You only behave like a man when there is a woman watching. You lack balls 1 Like 
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| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by EgunMogaji2: 6:03pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
The adults will be fine, my sympathy is for the children. 1 Like |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by OgaBuhari: 6:03pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
PrinceMajestic:
Perfect example of an unnecessarily pompous woman who refuse to be loyal to her husband becus she earns something. What is wrong if her husbands opts to do same job with her? Woman be submissive n loyal to your husband and let him fvck d hell out of u wherever n whenever nd treat hm wit love n respect that you hav consistently denied hm bcus u earn income bigger than his. U re even getting support frm evil nairalanders, what a shame? The man doesn't even melt out domestic violence on you, he just wants full respect and submission from u, that he deserves. So dnt steal his offsprings(u have no right) else u are a kidnapper nd dnt move, beg him in a sexy thong panty without any other thing on ur body n make him fvck d hell out of u but neva obey the evil nairalanders advicing u otherwise cus they only want to locate u where u are nd start fvcking you. Trust me ma you get brain bro! No mind these useless nairalanders that have insulted me cos I said I also needed ti hear from the man too rather than judging from a fake one sided story from a hoe 1 Like |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bejusttoall: 6:03pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Have your explore all options? In any case, please at least inform your parent about your movement. Best of luck |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Bigcowhorn: 6:04pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
OgaBuhari:
you get brain bro!
No mind these useless nairalanders that have insulted me cos I said I also needed ti hear from the man too rather than judging from a fake one sided story from a hoe They insulted you cos you are a he-olosho 1 Like |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by MedicH: 6:04pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Now is the time to call it quit and i think you should have done so long before now. He has no right to say or do any of these ugly things u said so it's beddy bye.
How come you didn't know all these before marriage? Beats my imagination.
If you married him out of love, now is the time to quit. There was never any love.
If yoy married him because of the money, now is the time to solely depend on yourself as a single mother.
If you married him because every one is getting married, now is the time to call it off.
Local man is very toxic and can kill you.
Run.
Wish yourself luck. You will be needing lots of it. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by kole88(m): 6:06pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Kindheartedd:
I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.
I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.
My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.
I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.
He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.
I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.
My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.
He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.
When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.
I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.
I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.
He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.
I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.
I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.
Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.
Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!
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| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
After the man has built you from scratch you want to leave.
Leave
This is why I say never marry a woman from a troubled home. It runs in her blood. She wants to pass it to her children.
I know the other side of the story. 2 Likes |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by ZiriMane(m): 6:09pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
TheArchangel:
Christian I have no idea what that means in Nigeria, all I know is that she needs sex with pure climateric orgasms for initial overhauling of her quest for vengeance .
At least you should try to find out about it before giving advice to someone who categorically stated she is one. You should be fair with your words. Life isn't only about oneself, you should care to know more about others, because I think that's the basis for understanding not just dishing out information based on emotions and in disregard of the other's faith, ideology or principles. |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by daddytime(m): 6:09pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
AkhereOkaka:
Thanks, kindly show me the way, would have expected you to come up with more potent argument, than making such comment Got no word for you because you obviously missed your way for a fact. Check the first quote of me you made and slap yourself.... |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by YourTitties: 6:10pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Kindheartedd:
I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.
I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.
My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.
I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.
He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.
I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.
My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.
He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.
When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.
I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.
I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.
He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.
I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.
I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.
Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.
Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!
Not that you will read this. But if you want to leave I'd suggest you leave without the kids. Because to train a kid in school up to university level is not an easy task. I for sure have experienced it. My mother trained my siblings and I alone without the single contribution from my dad or his brothers. Today I'm a graduate n guess who is back in my life and I have to accept him for who he is? My dad. It will pain you more after training your kids alone then their father will come into the show and of course they will regard him unless they wanna answer a bastard. Best thing you should do and it is the easiest way out of this is you filing for a divorce. It's not hard to get one so that he too can take care of his kids as you too. Running away to a place where he won't find you makes you take all the responsibility yourself and believe me no matter your income level, it will shake you. Reconsider. If truly you are in an abusive relationship, file a divorce it's not sin, Bible supports it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by israelmao(m): 6:12pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Complaints abound where there is no true love.but before you bolt away ask yourself whether you truly love your children.I'm not saying you should remain in an unhappy relationship but I am also sure your husband has his own story to tell too,one swallow doesn't make a summer,that is,I can't base my judgement on one-sided argument or view. 2 Likes |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Karlifate: 6:16pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
EGO Problems. 2 Likes |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by Sanbuchi: 6:16pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
When I read some things, I just laugh and cry over them... 1 Like |
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| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by PrinceMajestic: 6:18pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
OgaBuhari:
you get brain bro!
No mind these useless nairalanders that have insulted me cos I said I also needed ti hear from the man too rather than judging from a fake one sided story from a hoe another man already fvcking the hoe that why she needs the most silly excuse to runaway nd finally have freedom to Bleep another penis. These hoes aint loyal! 2 Likes |
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| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by PrinceMajestic: 6:21pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Bigcowhorn:
[s][/s]
You only behave like a man when there is a woman watching. You lack balls
shut the hell up, you trying ways to get in her panty and ogabuhari disgraced you. We knw you alrdy PM her. Apologiset to ogabuhari for advicing u again fvckin another man's wife. Bad man, u need change 1 Like |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by ceeceeuwa: 6:21pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Kindheartedd:
I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.
I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.
My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.
I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.
He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.
I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.
My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.
He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.
When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.
I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.
I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.
He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.
I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.
I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.
Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.
Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!
So sorry about what you went through. And also what business do you do? Help a sister who is trying to be self sufficient. |
| Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by alfasexy: 6:21pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Your husband is right. Reading your epistle actually hurt my brain. Imagine if the guy had to hear epistles and whinning from you everyday why won't he go mad.
Maybe you are actually answering his prayers by moving away from him and letting him live a peaceful life and not die young. Afterall the christain doG works in mysterious ways ehn? 1 Like 1 Share |
