Just tell her you were seduced and she was not around hence the reason u fell woefully,tell her it is just sex and u don't love the gal. By da way, is the gal as hot or hotter than ur galfriend?

Shugargal:
Most women are bisexual in nature, just forget the pretence. if the lady is beautiful, just forget it. I Don wine am finish.it will pain the guy because he will be expecting me to be mad but I will disappoint him by changing the topic. I can't kill myself.. lol.

The guy should consider himself lucky then cos na 3some just fall on am so

OP Answer this question genuinely then I will tell you what to do.

What would you do if you catch your girlfriend
pant down with another man ?

If it was the other way round it won't be so easy like we are painting it.You cheated on your girlfriend and you have no excuse even if it was your first time.Just give her sometime to get over it before you start ranting for forgiveness.

The way people reason is something else,some people are advising that he should accuse the lady of not travelling in the first, or didn't they read that the poster wasn't feeling well and the girlfriend felt she should rather be with the sick boyfriend?
Moreover for the girlfriend to use 'my love',means she's also probably in love with the guy,if not she would have ended the relationship there immediately.
Finally,you goofed because you chose to,you don't have any excuse,if you can convince her that you have repented genuinely and is remorseful, she MAY accept you back.

Michelle55:
If na me be the girl.. Otapiapia majestically loading.. No time to check time

say Wetin happen u self go land for jail so what does it profit u some women Sha boo must be trying cos cheat most tym don't mean till u f**ck the person

What happened to emotional cheating

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Sandra abi na Xendra.. But wait o. Take a look at this link which was posted by the op before this one. It turns out that his ex cheated on him before.



https://www.nairaland.com/5452092/gf-cheated-me

Men u fvck up wella, u deserve some punishment..
Just form Galadima for the main time, allow her do all the talking and actions.. no just reply her cos everything u say now na fuckup. She no go hear atall....

Las las if she love u sincerely, she go come ask u calmly why you fuckup, then you can tender manly apology.... then take her out n do some shopping.... afterall all dog dey chop shit, na one wey carry am for mouth we dey accuse..

It was pure set up and you failed. Most ladies can forgive, but cannot forget. She can never have any trust on your person for life even if she forgives you. Sorry you lost her.

shortgun:
Have no fear, u will be 2geda.
Call her and observe how she responds.
She's expecting ur call or some explanation right now.
If she doesn't take ur calls send her messages.
Tell her that the girl was just a fling...girls don't generally care about who u f*ck but who u r dating.

As the conversation goes on find
a way to put some of the blame on her

At d end nak her the make up nak.

U are mad i swear...............

Michelle55:
If na me be the girl.. Otapiapia majestically loading.. No time to check time

Life imprisonment will be majestically waiting for You

Reverse psychology doesn't work with people with a good self esteem who know what they want in life.

Secondly it doesn't work if you didn't love the person in the first place

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bleep her as in? Are you not a female?

@ OP, you bleeped up big time.I believe you have always been cheating on her. Be it as is now,your only remedy is to use reverse phycology on her.

Call her, apologize and finally tell her to forget about you,that you are not worthy of her love. Tell to go find another guy and watch her tell you that it has not gotten to that.Mind you this will only work if you act it well

Op,you are a brostitude Walahi.

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

Shaggy's song comes to mind, "it wasn't me".

The probability that yout relationship has ended is there but the more you delay in apologizing the more your GF thinks you are a cheat by nature.

Girls want to be begged, kneeled pleaded to. The urgency with which you plead proofs your regret.

The fact that you cheated may not count but the fact that you didn't apologize on time could count.

If I were you, I would have been begging since ground zero.

Like shaggy, it wasn't you.

You met her when u went to buy dog food n on ur first meeting you’re already bleeping her...Baba give me fmt abeg lol, but on a serious note just give her some time, meanwhile let her know how sorry you are, not just words but with actions too but don’t expect instant forgiveness because you’ve broken her trust and you know how hard it can be to redeem that trust back. Good luck!!!

Just deny everything. Tell her what she thought she saw was not what is. Women prefer denial than admission of guilt. They will tell you that's not true but it is.
Deny, deny, deny.
It wasn't me!

If you're bisexual just say so and stop with stupid generalisations that "most" women are bisexual in nature.
There is nothing that disgusts me more than bisexual stuff.

Shugargal:
Most women are bisexual in nature, just forget the pretence. if the lady is beautiful, just forget it. I Don wine am finish.it will pain the guy because he will be expecting me to be mad but I will disappoint him by changing the topic. I can't kill myself.. lol.

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

send her this text message"Hi, I'm no longer worthy to call you my love for l have wronged you,I wouldn't blame you for whatever actions you may take,but having search my conscience I felt it's better I move on,I shall always regard you highly,best wishes n good bye." then watch what she will do, if she try to get you back,thank her but make sure she wouldn't be holding that against you in future,if she chooses to move on then live goes on but learn from your mistake n make amends.

Midas01:
Reverse psychology doesn't work with people with a good self esteem who know what they want in life.

Secondly it doesn't work if you didn't love the person in the first place

.. You are right

Try explaining ursef well,nd don't stop telling her how sorry you are,altho things might not really be like it for sometime buh it wee surely come back to normal

And who told you that she no Bleep in the village? My own have off her phone. I sent someone to monitor n she was with someone. Me self d in d act. We die here

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

what advice do you want me to give you. You are a disappointment. You need to grow up don't do shit and come here they seek advice you won't get any. My advice to you is for you to amend your ways. Good day.

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Sister, do take a chill pill, shit happens. He might still be one of the very few good ones

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

say" it wasnt me" by

go and meet if you know where she stay or meet her best friend first, explain to the lady and you guys should visit her


this should have been your first move then you lobby for her attention through her weakness

Babara1994:

Please can we be friends? I'm scared of men. Please talk to me via what's app.

i want to tell you something (08030719957)

Lmao see tactics

beejay85:

Accuse ur girlfriend that she never travelled in the first place and stick to it to the end.....
If that doesn't work ....beg her

Do you know if she herself went to get bleeped ......well go beg her and Bleep her again and again

Ariza:
You don't have anything to fix young man.You are a cheat, a leopard never change it's spot.You claimed never to have cheated on her in one year and four months, lol you were counting months and it was only a matter of time before you did else you wouldn't have gone down with someone you met within hours.

Lose and cheap is what you are.

If I were the girl I won't return to the relationship but I'll forgive him.
Some people need to learn their lessons the hard way.

He should go back to working on his discipline.

enshi:


I just realized this though

Was the girl you cheated with worth it though...I mean was it the fvck of the century.??

I don’t regret any of my actions even if unfavorable outcomes happen...I look back and I’m like .....if I got the chance to replay that day again... ama Ride that azzz just as I did the first time I fvked up...that’s why I don’t do opportunitic, sàrèwà gbà sex


Move an man...don’t get me wrong, u did fvck up and deserve some scolding cos it sounds like were in a committed relationship...but that doesn’t make u a horrible person..don’t beat urself up... we all fvck up from time to time....just make sure ur fvck up was worth the stress and the consequences to follow...

Yinmu. Story for the gods dogs