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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Michelle55(f): 8:13pm On Dec 28, 2019
weyreypey:

Seems you learnt well from your mom...
You must be terribly daft and brainless to have typed that rubbish.. If you weren't sooo miserable and irresponsible,you would have noticed the hint of sarcasm in my statement.
Don't ever mention me again, I really don't have spare time and energy for your kind...
Have a nice life!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by swedbase(m): 8:13pm On Dec 28, 2019
xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

I am different and i'm looking for a good wife
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Longman8: 8:15pm On Dec 28, 2019
We can break any thing and fix it back, but we can fix d trust that someone has for us if it is broken. I believe u were carried away by d pleasure, oblivious of wat it may cause u. My bro just ask for forgive, though it will be hard for her to easily accept bcus it hurt.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Midas01: 8:15pm On Dec 28, 2019
Cheating is only physical. You can't see a person's emotions so fvck that shiitt.
Roroapple:
say Wetin happen u self go land for jail so what does it profit u some women Sha boo must be trying cos cheat most tym don't mean till u f**ck the person

What happened to emotional cheating
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by superlanny(m): 8:15pm On Dec 28, 2019
Born2Breed:
Just few days and you could not leash your pipi.

People like you can't be trusted. Well let your fellow cheaters advice you.
dont take it personal na, something must kill a man.....and a woman too. We all mess up, he deserves a chance abeg.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by DADAYO5: 8:16pm On Dec 28, 2019
Give it time. Dont call her yet. Ask yourself if she deserves it. Try to forgive yourself. Summon courage and reach her. Tender a sincere apology,if she insists let her be untill she can come out of that shell,if she doesnt come to terms with you,move on and take this as a big lesson. .
enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by nanceeleecious(f): 8:16pm On Dec 28, 2019
Ariza:
I went through your profile and saw this.
https://www.nairaland.com/5452092/gf-cheated-me

Honestly you could have walked out of your relationship since the trust is gone than put yourself all through this stress and disgrace. You never saw her the way you used to and even though you tried to patch things up, the crack was there.
However, going down with a woman you met within hours is very cheap!

Weh done Sir! PI
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Numerouno94(m): 8:16pm On Dec 28, 2019
Op, i dey fear u i swear.
U mean u met a lady in d morning nd b4 evening u put her ontop bed. Chai. Fear no catch u?
In as much as i don't support guys to stay hooked to one girl in d name of luv,dis ur own bad oo. I can neva slip wit a lady i met dat same day. U no fear 4 ur life?
Ur a confirmed brostitute.
Guys if u must cheat atleast cheat wit class nd respect.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Typhoonsbane: 8:17pm On Dec 28, 2019
You fvcked up big time son,just apologize ,I'm sure she's on nairaland reading this right now.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by deltateam: 8:17pm On Dec 28, 2019
danietohbadt:




You never shee shometin! With one app called "inmessage", you can meet a girl in 5 minutes and bed her in another 5 minutes.

That's olosho now. Don't make it sound like the average girl tin.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by biggz82: 8:18pm On Dec 28, 2019
Jux dey wasn't you, in Shaggy's voice
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by superlanny(m): 8:18pm On Dec 28, 2019
Michelle55:

You must be terribly daft and brainless to have typed that rubbish.. If you weren't sooo miserable and irresponsible,you would have noticed the hint of sarcasm in my statement.
Don't ever mention me again, I really don't have spare time and energy for your kind...
Have a nice life!!
learn to ignore people, and learn to report those who insult you, when you say your own, don't let them get you all tensed up and then you'll get a ban. Have a nice night.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by placeofallure(f): 8:18pm On Dec 28, 2019
enshi:


Thank you ... I deserve even worse than that..
Pls how do you think I can fix this

Send her number and details, I can talk to her

Modified

On second thought, how do I ascertain you're truly sorry? That's unverifiable I guess.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Dadlakeside: 8:19pm On Dec 28, 2019
daddytime:
Shiit happens...

Na beg plus more begs and true repentance from a contrite heart you need. If she fails to forgive, you need to let her be and move on with the knowledge that you ruined it all by yourself.

Should she forgive and decide to get on with you, a huge dent would have been made on the fabric of trust in your relationship which would take years to fix and regain back.

E don happen to me, my gbola shrink sharp sharp as I begin to speak French, Dutch, English, and Arabic all at the same time.

Not nice an experience.

Everytime I scrolls through the comments and see your moniker, I always brace myself for even more intriguing thoughts than the original post... Amazing.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by OgbeniSamm(m): 8:20pm On Dec 28, 2019
Lamanii22:
Or your gf never travelled? Anyone would be mad at that moment.. If you caught her too would you forgive her? Anyway, try and send her a text...

Omo eleh, I know we’ve never met but for some reason I thought you needed to be reminded of how dope you are.

Can I have your attention pls?
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by culf: 8:20pm On Dec 28, 2019
xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.


Amen o.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by romeorailss: 8:20pm On Dec 28, 2019
favoryte33:
lol,OP,i'm trying to imagine d look in your face when your gf called you out. That your babe didn't travel to anywhere jor. you have been scammed.

His gf has been suspecting him since and decided to find out with this trick cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Ariza: 8:21pm On Dec 28, 2019
kingkakaone:
If I were the girl I won't return to the relationship but I'll forgive him. Some people need to learn their lessons the hard way.
He should go back to working on his discipline.
Exactly!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Liposure(m): 8:21pm On Dec 28, 2019
Bola146:


Amen and me too, shameless man... Game up grin
bola! Wetin happen.u dey vex O
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Ilaje44(m): 8:22pm On Dec 28, 2019
enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
...

What do I do

You let her catch you!
Just say it wasn't you!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3s3vHFyybxk
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by swedbase(m): 8:23pm On Dec 28, 2019
Even if she forgives you she will never trust you again and you will continue cheating on her because the fear of being caught has disappeared from you eyes. This will surely reduces her love and positives attitudes towards you. She might even start to cheat on you from now.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Oyinlade07(m): 8:23pm On Dec 28, 2019
I know u love her...We all make mistake...A person without sin should cast the first stone......Tell her you know you have made a mistake but she should also know you have some good sides...Hold her close to urself and make ur voice shaken,ur eyes should also be red...Tell her you don't say she should not leave but she should understand we are all humans and it can happen to anybody.. Hold her close to yourself...She will be crying and If she's crying then ur prayer has been answered...Kiss her and you can still do something again...Thank me later
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by OgbeniSamm(m): 8:23pm On Dec 28, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bleep her as in? Are you not a female?

@ OP, you bleeped up big time.I believe you have always been cheating on her. Be it as is now,your only remedy is to use reverse phycology on her.

Call her, apologize and finally tell her to forget about you,that you are not worthy of her love. Tell to go find another guy and watch her tell you that it has not gotten to that.Mind you this will only work if you act it well

Op,you are a brostitude Walahi.


Nice one Prof
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Sam2310: 8:24pm On Dec 28, 2019
enshi:


Thank you ... I deserve even worse than that..
Pls how do you think I can fix this
fix?
If na u caught her, will u allow any form of fix.
i always say this, if Hell fire really exist and God decide to judge by relationships, Na Men go enter hell fire Pass.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Kenneygirl(f): 8:26pm On Dec 28, 2019
Na God catch you,God would keep exposing all you cheating asses

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Nobody: 8:26pm On Dec 28, 2019
romeorailss:


The word cheater does not exist


Your fellow cheats angry
Guy go sit don for some where..Na ITK dey worry u...FYI They are both correct which ever way you look at it.
Not every one adopts purely British English.
We also use American.
How does using Cheats sound in ur ears?!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Midas01: 8:26pm On Dec 28, 2019
And you think you have sense like this?

There are men who also like to watch their wives with other men. It doesn't mean they have sense.
tomdon:



What's all this bullshìt. Why do men sometimes behave like idiots. Will you die if she leaves you or what??
A girl was disturbing me and kept calling and texting me in the presence of my gf hence I had to let my gf in fully, i showed her all my conversation with the girl from inception, and convinced beyond reasonable doubt that I have no feelings for the said girl, she suggested I should just fùck the girl if she's disturbing me that much but strictly with condom.
It wasn't as if I needed my lady's advice cos I would've fùcked the girl if I liked her and heaven will not fall but heck I don't, and I even almost did it but I backed out.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by tunapawizzy: 8:27pm On Dec 28, 2019
Shugargal:
Most women are bisexual in nature, just forget the pretence. if the lady is beautiful, just forget it. I Don wine am finish.it will pain the guy because he will be expecting me to be mad but I will disappoint him by changing the topic. I can't kill myself.. lol.
BLOOD OF JESUS
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Jodha(f): 8:28pm On Dec 28, 2019
xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

No chill?

Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by cejaypriesty(m): 8:29pm On Dec 28, 2019
Shugargal:
Most women are bisexual in nature, just forget the pretence. if the lady is beautiful, just forget it. I Don wine am finish.it will pain the guy because he will be expecting me to be mad but I will disappoint him by changing the topic. I can't kill myself.. lol.
That's a fat lie.That you are bisexual or your groupie are bisexuals does not make most women Bi.Represent yourself not most women .
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by engrfaruq(m): 8:29pm On Dec 28, 2019
enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

Why are most of your topics about your girlfriend?

Well, if your previous topics are anything to go by, I think you said in one of the topics that the girl once cheated on you. So I think it's a 1 - 1 game
.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by nanceeleecious(f): 8:30pm On Dec 28, 2019
Vortex369:
Do not call her for like a week, and let her worry a lot about it.

Or wait for her call, then busy it.

Then afterwards, buy an amazing gift with an engagement ring and go to her and cry your hearts out. And tell the truth.


This is mind control. works all the time.

No bro, i kinda disagree with this. A week is too long. If you do that to me, your one week will become forever oh. And for the second part, about getting engagement ring.. No be movie you dey act oh. Grind the axe before even thinking about that. Like i will always say, different strokes for different folks. ✌️

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