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enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

If you try to do gra gra or ogboju, it will not go well. You were caught so no denying. And one more thing, don't lie. Tell her exactly how it happened. Lying or trying to embellish the details will not go in your favor. Your gf will do her own investigation on who that lady is and if you lie, she will find out.

Next thing na to beg with true forgiveness. If you can kneel down, swallow your price and kneel down. It will not make you less of a man if you kneel down. And repent of your ways and be determined not to do it again. Let her know your whereabouts from henceforth and give her full access to your phone.

You are not the first man that has been caught pants down with another woman and you won't be the last. It is how you handle it and the way forward that is the main goal. It has happened to me too.

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

We hear.na who police catch na be criminal

Give me da naked girl control.....

Babara1994:
Please can we be friends? I'm scared of men. Please talk to me via what's app.

Just see my type of babe.. I so much enjoy les. Like no tomorrow
Atleast you're sure she won't cheat on you with another man

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

relax don't call her she will call u.

Your help will come from the Lord who made heaven and earth�

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

This is while I have decided to remain single. Hmm are there sincere ladies ?

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

Of cos I can see your level of love for her,
Continue. May the spirit of the oza room be with you

enshi:
Pls guys help me —— What do I do

Nothing, yesterday she cheated and today you cheated, so you have both canceled each other’s betrayal out ... see your previous story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5455165/resolved-use-magu-gf

enshi:
Good day guys .. Again I am still on my break up / reconciliation track with my gf.

Recall that I found out yesterday that my gf cheated..

She has been calling and sending in text messages to say sorry and promises not to ever allow such happen..

To be candid I love her , so I told her that I can only forgive and take her back on one condition...

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Na ur type set follow sugar daddy sef. As if u don't have more than two boyfriend

enshi:
The girl doesn't know her .. They have never met.. And gf traveled as far as four states away

repent... And get married ASAP!


those who can't hold themselves should get married... according to the Bible

ikwedim:
And who told you that she no Bleep in the village? My own have off her phone. I sent someone to monitor n she was with someone. Me self d in d act. We die here

Correct man

carry ur cross abeg Notting to advice u here... ur a disgrace to manhood, hw can u see a girl in d morning and fu:k her in d afternoon, Na so u chip.

We the Yoruba Demons Association (YODA) and the Sweet Boys Association (SBA) hereby disown you. You gave broken the first rule of philanthrophering, do not get caught

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

No woman wants to share her man, so it is a common prayer amongst women.

Bro, why you con fail MCAN(Male cheaters association of Nigeria) [b][/b]

Preshy561:
Chineke Nna. You forgot to add osho free.

I hate it when guys lack self control, imagine getting down with someone he met within hours.These guys no just have value at all.

Community diick everywhere.

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

lmao

Copy and paste the story you just told us to her and wait for her response.

Michelle55:
If na me be the girl.. Otapiapia majestically loading.. No time to check time

Seems you learnt well from your mom...

Olalan:
I guess this is supposed to be a joke.......How do you meet a girl in the morning and lay with her by noon, no good girl should be with your kind

You never shee shometin! With one app called "inmessage", you can meet a girl in 5 minutes and bed her in another 5 minutes.

Born2Breed:
Just few days and you could not leash your pipi.

People like you can't be trusted. Well let your fellow cheaters advice you.

This actually got me laughing .

I hope you're not referring to guys as his fellow cheats?

You know it's a two way thing. Ladies cheat too.
Just on the men's side this time.

this is set up na. how can girl that travelled return on the day u wanna lash/

And men who invite strange women into their homes who they don't know from Adam haven't lost it?

kettle84:
Your ashawo nature no get part 2.

You saw a girl you never knew from Adam in the morning on your way to buy dog feed and the next hour she is in your bed ,haven been used by you. so many women have lost it.

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

She dey cheat for your back too only that you never catch am

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bleep her as in? Are you not a female?

@ OP, you bleeped up big time.I believe you have always been cheating on her. Be it as is now,your only remedy is to use reverse phycology on her.

Call her, apologize and finally tell her to forget about you,that you are not worthy of her love. Tell to go find another guy and watch her tell you that it has not gotten to that.Mind you this will only work if you act it well

Op,you are a brostitude Walahi.

Scope man . Twalee for you oooo

If I were your Gf? It's over completely over.

Cause I won't be able to trust you again, even if I wish I can.

So why stay in a relationship with someone I no longer trust.

Just kiss the relationship bye bye.

That's the end.

Born2Breed:
Just few days and you could not leash your pipi.

People like you can't be trusted. Well let your fellow cheaters advice you.

The word cheater does not exist


Your fellow cheats

The guy and girl committed the same offense. Don't be sexist.

belbon4grace:
The girl own tire person, you met a guy in the morning and in the evening you are already naked in his house. Nsido mbok. Guy deal with it.

You can love someone and still have sense. The bolded has sent many women to their early graves because society always pressured them to go back to their abusive partners who later beat them to death.

Cheating is never a mistake.

Azejellek:
You think you are sharp nigga but she show you the power of lady

Beg her.... accept the offense

If she really love you she definitely accept you back

Nobody above mistake

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

You are a nincomp.

We should clap for you because you haven't cheated for a year and four months, "Wow"!

See how you even recount am like say na testimony, lo and behold.

With this your mindset you are better castrated than to marry.

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

Visit her and apologise to her and promise her you won't do it again

She is badly hurt now but you have to carry your cross of apologising to her