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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Midas01: 6:23pm On Dec 29, 2019
Your advice is also very meaningless so learn to make meaningful contributions before dragging someone.
lovat:
You are advising him to own a house before settling down? His salary is 50k today and to own a house he will need to work for the next twenty years without doing any expenses.


Are you not the Tata abi Pikin that her thread graced Fp? Stop giving kids advice because other people are trying to learn something meaningful
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Dec 29, 2019
Charlynega:
Sorry to say but hustle more. Earning 50k is not enough for you to take care of yourself and your girlfriend, coupled with rent, clothes and food.
you should have ask where he is staying . not everyone is staying in those big cities. my best friend got married just yesterday with a 60k salary

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by tiger2080: 6:28pm On Dec 29, 2019
@op from ur write up 50k they catch you for body.boy go huzzle.you even merge with somebody to rent a room you come dey find wife.huzzle make u no suffer with woman.if u no getoney to pay the woman bills later na gbege for you go regret hat is the real truth take or leave when you huzzle them go fleet around you like honey bee you pick any with good character of ur choice to settle down with an discharge the rest. who quote me for telling this boy the truth should hug transformer.
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by guru90: 6:28pm On Dec 29, 2019
Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.



This is Life True talk...

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by TruthSpeaker: 6:30pm On Dec 29, 2019
At 25, it’s not like you are too young for that. What seem to be an issue is the 50K a month salary. I don’t know where you live, because that will determine a lot the cost of living. You might be lucky to find a young lady of your status ready to hustle with you to build a wealthy family in the future.

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by DexterousOne(m): 6:31pm On Dec 29, 2019
OgenemaroKessy:
My friend, it's a sign of responsibility and maturity that you think this way, some folks in their forties hardly reason, it all depend ofn what you want, like I for example, I wanted to marry at 25, but Amaka disappointed me and I have to find Inakeme, which took another two and half years, it has nothing to do with your salary, once your a hardworking man, and you believe yourself, Nwanne your good to go. I sealed � my deal at 27 and at 32 Nwanne I muchara Nwa, now am fully into my profession and hustle. The earlier the better. That's the only decision that I took in my twenties that am proud of. �

Your son is handsome

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by madjune(m): 6:31pm On Dec 29, 2019
Jamb question.

It's all relative and depends on location.
For example, if you live in Ilorin, Ilesha or Ajaokuta; never ever dream of having a fiance or fiancee.

Period.
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by AuwalYusuf812(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2019
To me.


At Any age you find ur life partner, jus carry On with her
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Kennydoc(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?
Having a fiancee means you're planning to get married soon. If you know you're not going to be ready for marriage within the next 2 or 3 years, I don't think you should be looking for a fiancee.

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by ofejibest(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:


Can you throw kmore lights on this

You can grow with some girls(those dt are well cultured) while some girls out there are looking for ready made. With d later type of girls , u will die in penury even if u earn 500k per month. They are slay mama's. Managing and building a formidable future with their fiance is never an option for them. Their own is to spend everything that comes there way.

My brother shine your eye ooo.

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by bukkielee(m): 6:34pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?
Hustle for money and also hustle for a good girlfriend that will turn fiancee.

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Riele(f): 6:34pm On Dec 29, 2019
Cutehector:
hey 16year old girl, dont be uncouth online

But I can be uncouth offline ?

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Greatdre(m): 6:34pm On Dec 29, 2019
lilmax:
Anyone can have a girlfriend


It all depends on the kind of girl you find
God bless you bro for this your comment

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by BlaqKeyz: 6:35pm On Dec 29, 2019
Hv a fiancee when u're sure ur finances can help u build d family of ur dream.
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Riele(f): 6:35pm On Dec 29, 2019
Fash20:

16yr old go and sit down

Care to provide a seat for me ?
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Cutehector(m): 6:35pm On Dec 29, 2019
Riele:


But I can be uncouth offline ?
I have no business with that, but here, you should learn not to type words that are offensive and vulgar.

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Riele(f): 6:37pm On Dec 29, 2019
vicben27:
own a house indeed. naso them dey take own a house, all this small children wey manage get Android phone, writing trash.

When I type own a house I meant rent one that he doesn't share with a friend .

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Lovelies1: 6:37pm On Dec 29, 2019
Check my profile picture on how 50k salary can help you get a land

Most youth with vigour strength do check my profile picture and see how to start somewhere today
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Riele(f): 6:38pm On Dec 29, 2019
Cutehector:
I have no business with that, but here, you should learn not to type words that are offensive and vulgar.

Lol .

My words are not vulgar .

It's just the way you read them .
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Cutehector(m): 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2019
Riele:


Lol .

My words are not vulgar .

It's just the way you read them .
a child who is not ready to learn will never grow. Peace

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Riele(f): 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2019
Midas01:
What's this redpill y'all keep talking about?

Ask ubunja and co .
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by KIDfurniture(m): 6:40pm On Dec 29, 2019
50k a good girl will exhaust it on her hair only in one day. Be wise .


Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Akuruoulo(m): 6:41pm On Dec 29, 2019
Riele:
grin
Fiancee or girlfriend ?
GIRLFIANCEE
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:41pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old aguy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

you can not talk fiancee, when you dont have a girl or relationship

financee means a girl you have engage to marry meaning by western tradition you have put a ring on her promosing to marry her

by most african tradition it means both you have introduced each other's respective families and ready to marry

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by yesloaded: 6:42pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?
Make more money before thinking about gals

You are not too over ripe at 25 bro although if you are financially stable nothing stop you from having a fiancee even getting married at 25 but money is very important!

50k is lots of money but believe me it's not enough

Wish you the best of luck

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Ikjosh04: 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:


Lol.everyone got their different orientation and opinions.
Thanks a lot.



Own a house does not mean build a house. Currently he is pairing with a colleague at work.
use your brain to reason before spilling out shit

@OP, your priority at this stage of your life is to:
1)Change Ur status quo financially
2Devlop yourself in all aspects so you can attract any woman of your choice
3)How to give back to your family (Parents and siblings

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by OnyesomJ(m): 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2019
Una wry Dey shout Hustle Oo
What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and losses it Soul
If you know say your hand don strong to handle such who am I to tell you not to...

And beside if you get plenty money to see true Love go hard because they will be after ur money Not the love there ...

I don talk my own

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Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by merits(m): 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?
no you're still very young to get fiancee.wait till you clock 50yrs.
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Akuruoulo(m): 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
Riele:

I meant he should have a house of his own maybe rent one .
He can't marry a woman into a house shared with a friend .
For your second question , Get some sense.
THANK GOD SAY U DON CLEAR THE AIR .
I FOR SHOT U IF SAY I GET GUN , AS SOON AS U TALK OWN A HOUSE
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Dumb question.

And u said you're a graduate.

Audio graduate. grin grin
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Neddyogu(m): 6:46pm On Dec 29, 2019
So if u get d fiancee abi finance now, and she wan visit, wetin u go tell ur roommate? U go tell am make he excuse una two or...? Ayam nor understanding.

Huncle leave woman matter now, attain more stability. Nigerian women diz days no get time for stori-stori.
Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?
op. The question you would ask yourself is, all these people telling you to make money, did their parents make the type of money they want you to make before they got married? Most of them are from very poor homes but still there is happiness. The key is happiness. Even a dirty man has another dirty woman admiring him. Find a woman and grow with her. Ask yourself where your parents condition still the same since the day you were born till now?, Of course no. They would have improved

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