Shegzy8:

You still blame men for your actions. Why can't women just be responsible for their actions for once without it been the man's fault.

Action and reaction are equal and opposite .... Newton's third law of motion...

There's a reason for everything...

Jodha:


My statistics are based on common knowledge and experience...the web will surely support my point...

Women are not slaves to their desires ...men are ...they totally lack control ... that's why most rape cases yhu see everywhere are MEN..

Women are coordinated and controlled being ....we have control over our bodies and won't do anything unless we want to...
Inability to say NO asin? Yhur points are not concrete and I don't get yhu at all...

I'm not saying women don't cheat...a very little few do...but it's not as bad as the case of men...

And remember that our society does not even support women to cheat at all....A woman that cheats is a LovePeddler and a lunatic...but men are always men and it's normal for them to cheat...
That's our society statuesque ...

you know nothing...yet. the wise will just condemn what the lady did and move on...not everything is supposed to be a gender war, no worries life eventually humbles us all.

You are exaggerating this I know.

Kingluqman:
Few hours nko? Some ladies can even cheat on their wedding night

The man took the right decision.
The bride should be grateful for the groom's light purnishment for her action.
If I am in that position, I will continue with the wedding, let her enjoy the opposite side of marriage for 356days, then sell her off for free to whoever needs her for whatever purpose.

frozen70:


You think so ❓

Yes I do

Khalidase83:
You are exaggerating this I know.

Like seriously, this is not exaggeration. I witnessed one, it happened with me. Just 2nites

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Jodha:


Is it by nairaland threads ?...
Only few women cheat ....women are not cheaters in nature..
Only few women are overly sexually active....

Men are sexual being and are never satisfied that's why they always cheat...
According to statistics 80 out of 100 men cheat...
For women only 30% out of 100 cheat..

Plus most women cheat because of the terrible experiences they've had from men..

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Women should understand that when a man cheats, it is natural. Reference it with our forefathers who married more that one because there must be a hole to pot the snooker ball.
In current time, it seems almost impossible for a man to get another wife and when he cheats u make noise. Are u okay at all.
When I marry and accidentally cheat and my wife makes some noise I will get a second wife to settle the issue. And when I cheat yet and get more noise, I will get more wives.
Are we more religious, wife and modernise than Isaac's mum and Samuel's mum? Those who read bible will know what I mean.

A man cheats u want to make it even.

U catch me! U go home
I catch u! U go home.

No yeye feminist should quote me.
Cheaters

After people are done buying and sewing AsoEbi at exorbitant amount....The wedding must hold o

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

Apart from the words of an obviously BIASED Narrator,where is the proof that he cheated?

quentin06:


Chai nawa for you, are the brother to the woman that was exposed, you sound pained , angry and frustrated.

When your sister was doing prostitution you didnt advise her that it would ruin her marriage.

Yeee e pain am

That man deserve better award....Me no go marry her ooo

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dangotesmummy:
the bride just unknowingly walked out of a disaster and instead of her to be celebrating and thanking God,she's Wailing.the man cheated on you too and you forgave him but when you did the same thing he wasn't ready to forgive you and the next thing is to be lamenting?


O puleaseee wipe your tears and thank God you didn't marry an unforgiving man that will be plotting to disgrace you on your day of celebration

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If this happens conversely, guys will be like, its normal for a guy to cheat.

the girl is wrong but he shouldn't have punished her in such a way, at least break up with her after finding out.

It's a wound that can never be heal.

He doesn't even know the kind of girl he will meet again.

Jodha:


See as yhu dey proudly generalize ....Asif men don't cheat...

Asif y'all are saints....

What about men that cheat?

how many wife ur grand father get,how many husband ur grand mother get.I think I have answered ur question

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

He's no hypocrite. Did the bride to be seek forgiveness after cheating? She deserves it. That's marriage under deceit.

But the supposed bride family must have collected bride price, and many goodies, so technically, they pay for raising a b*ch

Jodha:


My statistics are based on common knowledge and experience...the web will surely support my point...

Women are not slaves to their desires ...men are ...they totally lack control ... that's why most rape cases yhu see everywhere are MEN..

Women are coordinated and controlled being ....we have control over our bodies and won't do anything unless we want to...
Inability to say NO asin? Yhur points are not concrete and I don't get yhu at all...

I'm not saying women don't cheat...a very little few do...but it's not as bad as the case of men...

And remember that our society does not even support women to cheat at all....A woman that cheats is a LovePeddler and a lunatic...but men are always men and it's normal for them to cheat...
That's our society statuesque ...

Madam please how does this relate to the actual topic

KingGBsky:


What do u mean by chop k? Just know what I said anyways... it will help you in your relationship life.

Yhu should also adhere to everything i said here ... it'll help yhu in yhur relationships..

The day yhu men put yhur ego aside and think things through logically.... everything will be better..

Serves her right!

Next time, when she starts a new relationship leading to marriage, she will slap any useless guy who will come around saying, do you know what your man is doing abroad? Do u honestly believe he's also faithful?

Jodha:


It's like yhu lack manner of approach ....yhu better not use those wrinkled thumbs to yhurs to type hogwash to me...

Yhu seemed pained ....yhu were cheated on right....?
If yhu were more of a gentleman and less of a rascal I'm sure wouldn't have cheated on yhu..

Take heart...

Lol...

Cheating comes into equation only if you are in a serious relationship that is leading both of you somewhere
I can't even take any girl seriously

I only have fun with them

DarkJeddi:
Where is the proof that he cheated?

At least he has his proof..

Her word is the proof..

The groom did the right thing. Although it is a norm for ladies now to cheat on their spouses and vice versa, such drastic action is not that bad. The lady's excuse is vain. Imagine what she will be doing behind the man when she has been legally married? This is one reason why two out of every four children in a family doesn't belong to the man. Mention DNA and watch wives faint.

benedictuyi:
The guy shouldn't have kept it this long. It shows childishness

Actions beats reactions,how and when the guy decides to react is his Prerogative..

REVENGE is a a Dish Best served COLD..

Is a 50-50....since dem both don cheat d lady should also accept d cancellation of wedding...... Simple...... These our 20century sef tire me

ehmmy11:

Thank God for your life sir... If ladies are not satisfied for what ever reason they should voice it abeg...

and each will go sperate ways..chikena I stead of playing this and that..she tells you am going to salon,can't trust her,tell u my friends birthday party. Can't trust the. If you need massive freedom. Or wanna cheat. Just say am not I terwsted. Some take it lightly. Some murder the so called lady and go scot free

dangotesmummy:
no! That's not my point.

My point is that marriage is about forgiveness.why is he acting like a saint when it's obvious that both of them aren't perfect.

I'm not saying both parties should go on a cheating spree to see who's the winner and looser but marriage comes with forgiveness.if your wife Can forgive you,why can't you forgive her? There'll be other times where you will offend each other so you just need to forgive ABI shey oribibe ni Ogun orififo ni

If you have a friend or sibling that offended you,won't you thrash it out and move on? How much more your wife

OK, I understand you.

But I don't agree. I think the relationship is better called off. The woman probably went into the illicit relationship with the mindset that she forgave her partner once and so expects to be forgiven on that score.

Cheating is not just anything that happens in a relationship. Argument, insults, can happen and be forgiven without me having any problem with it. But cheating is bad. If he forgives her, they would have it at the back of their minds that cheating should be forgiven and this would further encourage them to go on a cheating spree.

That the woman wants forgiveness simply because she forgave the man when he cheated shows that she feels she is entitled to his forgiveness. And that is bad. She would have gone into the marriage with that mentality. He will forgive me if I cheat because I forgave him when he cheated. That is a license to cheat.

No pictures, no Facebook post.. How true?

Jodha:


Her word is the proof..

Under the circumstances,her word is far from a proof..

Fastestmanalive:



Madam please how does this relate to the actual topic

Don't mind her

She cheats

I weep for her guy/hubby

Jodha:


Why do people cheat sef.... if yhure not comfortable with yhur partner....

Take a bow and leave nah....Shu o

"He cheated on her and she forgave him"
....yeye dey smell...

Men are just...

If you believe the part where she said that he cheated too...
Then you're solely mistaken...
That was just a defensive statement.
I assure you if that dude had cheated on her before he would never have done that.

Jodha:


Duties...

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