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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by richieray: 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2019
It will be their loss eventually,Them no know say husband scarce.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by superability(m): 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..
Your yeye dey smell... Sorry to say...
U re not supposed to live with humans

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by MariaAngeles: 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2019
Be patient.

Just give them time, hopefully, they'll come around afterwards.
The most important thing is that you prove to them that you really love and care for their daughter.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Pavarottii(m): 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2019
Go with delegates from ur family to her family and assure them that u can take care of their daughter ... And if stays that way ... The girl will av to beat all odds and leave her family .

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Abfinest007(m): 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2019
The lord is ur strength

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by babatawa(m): 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

You no just get sense

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Niyi9002(m): 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2019
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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by LadySarah: 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

It will take only but a min to be confined to a wheelchair as he is and you will be disabled as he is;An injection gone wrong or an accident.

You teenage boys littered all over this forum seem to lack manners.serious manners.
You just graduated from the uni yet you lack character.What did you learn abt life then?


Yinka Ayefele isn't doing bad same as Asuquo Cobhams.They are disabled yet it didnt stop their dreams.

Grow up!

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Nobody: 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2019
Possibly same as others but creating an excuse
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Jodha(f): 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2019
amiibaby:
Both are important

Yes but the man has the final say... he's the head of the family...

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Lonestar124: 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2019
Look for another disable person like you maybe deaf and dumb lady, that will make a good pair..

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by magnum247: 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
Get her pregnant..... Thank me later

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Nobody: 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
Evey obstacles wagging war against you will give way for you in 2020 for a free flow of God's blessings in your life.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by superability(m): 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
lilwetdick:
what do you expect

people lets be realistic in this poor country we are

they are considering the fact that you will be a dependent instead of a provider

I dey look u with horoscope from Zaria

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Finchmgh: 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
Abeg nor disturb me with woman matter.
Person they reason better thing for mind, you they there they wahala person with woman issue

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by flokii: 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
Hmmm..

Watch how NL slay queens will avoid this thread like plague
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Akowemoon(m): 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

She has a greater role to play here. If she insist on living with u forever, no jupiter can stop u guys. Pls remember to pray coz spiritual n physical attack may involve... Best of luck man!

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by OgbanjeProphet: 6:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
Nna go and look for another girl. Don't feel sorry. There are many fishes in the ocean.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by WebSurfer(m): 6:24pm On Dec 31, 2019
empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?
What about some of us that have decided we might never marry ?

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

YOUR SURNAME MUST BE FOOOLISH!

IF THIS IS HOW YOUR FAMILY THINKS, THEN YOUR MOM AND DAD MUST BE ASSSHOLES.

YOUR SIBLINGS ARE ASSHOLES!

AND YOUR GENERATION UNBORN, IF CARE IS NOT TAKEN, WOULD BE ASSHOLES LIKE YOU ARE

WHAT AN ABSOLUTE MEDIEVAL ORANGUTAN!

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by sonofanarchy(m): 6:24pm On Dec 31, 2019
Let's see a picture of you#no offense
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by BlackSeptember: 6:24pm On Dec 31, 2019
Jodha:
This is really sad....Have yhu met her parents one on one...? If No ..I think yhu should meet them and show them yhur "ability" that yhu can take care of their daughter...and that yhu love each other so much...

If they're still adamant ..then I'm afraid there's nothing much yhu can do ..other than pray....if she's truly yhur wife...God should preserve her for yhu...

On the other hand yhur gf is a grown ass woman and the ball is totally in her court....She has to decide if she's ready to take a bold step like an adult and stick with it...
Her parents are not the one to marry her...neither are they going to stay in the marriage with her..

She's the one wearing the shoe and she should know where it's itching her from...

Just talk to her...Asin heart to heart...pray about it...and leave everything in God's hands...

If she's not yhur wife let her go...yhull find someone better...
You type like kid. Drop this useless writing style in 2019 biko

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by samcus(m): 6:24pm On Dec 31, 2019
so many wahala in this country
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Nobody: 6:25pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

I know say one craze person must comment.

Is he asking for your sis now or how to make it work between him and his babe?

You're just simply envious of the guys achievement cos you feel with your two legs you should be better than him but no, he's better off.
Please go easy on him, he's passing through a lot already.

Wicked soul.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by dayleke: 6:25pm On Dec 31, 2019
empirebosscrew:


I met her father. He didnt seem to have problems with me. It was after the meeting that I discovered her mother is the main issue to contend, who is not backing down on her stand. Well all i am doing for the lady is to encourage her and go for what she wants. Las las if we are meant to be together, nothing will stop it

I think the mom don't wanna be referred to as mama so and so whose daughter married so so n so.....

But in this time and age, she should wake up.
You are not on the street begging for your daily bread.

Just my thought tho.

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Jodha(f): 6:25pm On Dec 31, 2019
Kobicove:


If you can't get the mother on your side then you should forget the relationship

Issa lie

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Oovi5(f): 6:25pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by firo08(m): 6:26pm On Dec 31, 2019
So bad bro.
Better relationship await you in the incoming year 2020.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Hedonisco: 6:27pm On Dec 31, 2019
empirebosscrew:

What do we do?

Give her belle. Abi something do your prick?

Men are funny. Relationship and marriage are overrated. Doesn't matter whether you have a so-called disability or not.

Impregnate her and make her a baby mama if necessary.

Or impregnate someone else and do same thing.

Don't think you need to have a 'regular' relationship.

It's all in the head.
Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Lonestar124: 6:27pm On Dec 31, 2019
LadySarah:


It will take only but a min to be confined to a wheelchair as he is and you will be disabled as he is.An injection gone wrong or an accident.

You teenage boys littered all over this forum seem to lack manners.serious manners.

Yinka Ayefele isn't doing bad same as Asuquo Cobhams.

Grow up
Shut up....will you marry a disable or allow your daughter marry one?

So because he's a teeneger he should not speak on his opinion, what will happened if you "Miss maturity" ignore his comment instead of belittling him...

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Jodha(f): 6:27pm On Dec 31, 2019
BlackSeptember:
You type like kid. Drop this useless writing style in 2019 biko

My friend get lost....who are yhu to call me a kid.. and tell me how to type with the phone I bought with my own money...

Be like yhur head no they for house...

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Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by KingGBsky(m): 6:27pm On Dec 31, 2019
BigSarah:
Your only option is a mail order bride , yes you read right.... Leave the young lady only, the argument you are having is not only borne out of her parents pressure, but the psychological impact of having to live with a paralyzed man.
There's no fun in paralysis, I pray God makes you whole since there's nothing he can't do.

Why do I have the feeling that all you just typed are nonsense?? sad

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