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Nothing do you my good friend... Take your time and take vacation outside the country... Love and happiness awaits you ....Nigerian are......

What is poliomyelitis? Doctors in the hus

Jodha:
If the mother is the only issue...there shouldn't be much problems nah... She should focus more on totally convincing her father..

He's obviously the head of the family...and if he's ready to make a stand... it's a done deal...

Exactly if yhu guys are meant to be together nothing will stop it...but that doesn't mean yhu won't fight for eachother...

It's just an obstacle... it'll pass

Why can't you write properly?

Lonestar124:
Shut up....will you marry a disable or allow your daughter marry one?

So because he's a teeneger he should not speak on his opinion, what will happened if you "Miss maturity" ignore his comment instead of belittling him...

What will happen...if yhu too "Mr busy body" ...halt yhur swollen thumbs and mind yhur own business?

She didn't even belittle him enough..

Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.

And your analysis came from where? The rich also marries the poor... even though it’s based on minimal percentage. So take your freaking mind of such analysis

LadySarah:
It will take only but a min to be confined to a wheelchair as he is and you will be disabled as he is.An injection gone wrong or an accident.

You teenage boys littered all over this forum seem to lack manners.serious manners.
You just graduated from the uni yet you lack character.What did you learn abt life then?


Yinka Ayefele isn't doing bad same as Asuquo Cobhams.They are disabled

Grow up!

Very stupid elements. Just look at his insensitive comment on a delicate issue.

Jodha:
My friend get lost....who are yhu to call me a kid.. and tell me how to type with the phone I bought with my own money...

Be like yhur head no they for house...

You can't even communicate very well. You are a Lost cause.


You need a lot of growing up to do

stoo worrying. U aren't an object to be PITY cos U aren't in a PIT..Allloq those family to marry their daughter. .Hope sge won't be running from one pastor to imam for deliverance later wen she clock 45 +..That's why i like the white pipu..U'll find a God fearing lady in ur church/ mosque. Free those street girls

ranz321:
Why can't you write properly?

Ogah o

Jodha:
This is really sad....Have yhu met her parents one on one...? If No ..I think yhu should meet them and show them yhur "ability" that yhu can take care of their daughter...and that yhu love each other so much...

If they're still adamant ..then I'm afraid there's nothing much yhu can do ..other than pray....if she's truly yhur wife...God should preserve her for yhu...

On the other hand yhur gf is a grown ass woman and the ball is totally in her court....She has to decide if she's ready to take a bold step like an adult and stick with it...
Her parents are not the one to marry her...neither are they going to stay in the marriage with her..

She's the one wearing the shoe and she should know where it's itching her from...

Just talk to her...Asin heart to heart...pray about it...and leave everything in God's hands...

If she's not yhur wife let her go...yhull find someone better...

is this the way you and your is writen in Nigeria now?
just asking because of the way you use it constitently

Jodha:
This is really sad....Have yhu met her parents one on one...? If No ..I think yhu should meet them and show them yhur "ability" that yhu can take care of their daughter...and that yhu love each other so much...

If they're still adamant ..then I'm afraid there's nothing much yhu can do ..other than pray....if she's truly yhur wife...God should preserve her for yhu...

On the other hand yhur gf is a grown ass woman and the ball is totally in her court....She has to decide if she's ready to take a bold step like an adult and stick with it...
Her parents are not the one to marry her...neither are they going to stay in the marriage with her..

She's the one wearing the shoe and she should know where it's itching her from...

Just talk to her...Asin heart to heart...pray about it...and leave everything in God's hands...

If she's not yhur wife let her go...yhull find someone better...

Permit me to digress.

You write well but what is this issue with writing "yhu" and "yhur" instead of "you" and "your"? Please work on it before you take it to official correspondence...

DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

You are stupid and insensitive if u can say this to a fellow human

BlackSeptember:
You can't even communicate very well. You are a Lost cause.


You need a lot of growing up to do

I'm not gonna waste my emotions in this economy...

Swerve

KingGBsky:
Why do I have the feeling that all you just typed are nonsense??

Your reasoning spectrum is narrow

lilwetdick:
what do you expect

people lets be realistic in this poor country we are

they are considering the fact that you will be a dependent instead of a provider

Try to read for once. Can't you see that he's already a provider?

Go and see the parents and tell them there is no disabled man we only have disable mind....and u,dem daughter deeply love each other...and they wunt regret u,,,

Ask ur girl wat her parents love so u can buy when going...

ovieigho:
is this the way you and your is writen in Nigeria now?
just asking because of the way you use it constitently

Lool..... don't mind me...

empirebosscrew:
I met her father. He didnt seem to have problems with me. It was after the meeting that I discovered her mother is the main issue to contend, who is not backing down on her stand. Well all i am doing for the lady is to encourage her and go for what she wants. Las las if we are meant to be together, nothing will stop it

At the level of understanding and development and IQ Nigeria is right about now this would be the case. The sad reality is if you were in the parent's shoes you might as well do the same, Can I ask you a question? have you met a disabled girl b4 for a relationship?

Seun2019:
Permit me to digress.

You write well but what is this issue with writing "yhu" and "yhur" instead of "you" and "your"? Please work on it before you take it to official correspondence...

Do not worry ...it doesn't affect my writing in any way...

Don't stress yhurself...

DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

What kind of shallow minded attitude is this,where are ur manners for Christ sake?did the gentleman man op ask for shipisly and cowardly opinion? What is wrong with people in this country for heaven sake? Most u comment if you dont have any meaningful contribution to make.marry ur sister cuz he is way above her levels and did not ask you to give him...smugs

KingGBsky:
And your analysis came from where? The rich also marries the poor... even though it’s based on minimal percentage. So take your freaking mind of such analysis

list 5 rich who have gotten married to the poor and I'll list 100 of rich who married the rich.

erico2k2:
At the level of understanding and development and IQ Nigeria is right about now this would be the case. The sad reality is if you were in the parent's shoes you might as well do the same, Can I ask you a question? have you met a disabled girl b4 for a relationship?

All my association with people have always been with the able... right from infancy till date

Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.

You can't never be accepted by all

True talk... doesn't mean one cant attempt to clear their doubts and change the status quo

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

Simple solution : Might sound cruel...... Look for a lady with polio....... Equation balance..........

Jodha:
I'm not gonna waste my emotions in this economy...

Swerve

I'm only advising you because you are so taken with that writing style that you don't know it's affecting you.


Sorry if you felt bad but it's just an advice.


Happy new year in advance

Try give her belle una go marry last last

DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

Lol so much venom in the speech.... dem shaa no born you well to utter such if we were to meet cos we are no match in anything

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

Can you marry a disabled person or let your child marry one?

lilwetdick:
what do you expect

people lets be realistic in this poor country we are

they are considering the fact that you will be a dependent instead of a provider

Bruhhhhh.... I've been more of a blessing to those who come across me than a liability... dont rush into conclusions

Jodha:
If the mother is the only issue...there shouldn't be much problems nah... She should focus more on totally convincing her father..

He's obviously the head of the family...and if he's ready to make a stand... it's a done deal...

Exactly if yhu guys are meant to be together nothing will stop it...but that doesn't mean yhu won't fight for eachother...

It's just an obstacle... it'll pass

No issue if the mother isn't in support? If they go ahead without her consent, she will make their marriage hell in Earth.

sniperr007:
Can you marry a disabled person or let your child marry one?

Lol before nko..... for as long as he or she proves they are focused and dont see their condition as an obstacle... why not?

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

tell yourself truth, will you marry disabled