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Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Macdove02(m): 6:46pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
StandUpGuy247:This is just ME 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by RealTrump: 6:46pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Faysuze: An average Nigerian guy is under a lot of pressure to "make it" especially from 27 years. If things are not working out, he might take it on d gf. He might see her as a hindrance... because his brain is beginning to work more than his heart. I guarantee u, he likes u n still miss u, but he Just needs to spend his mental energy on something else. I don't believe he didn't like u but d country really puts guys especially under a lot of pressure. This might not be a representation of your ex, but I am pretty sure it it 8 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by dinodesmond(m): 6:47pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
DieuDonee: Continue dey give her wrong advice o. Someone should change for her and she should never change for that person? She never see person wey she go love wholeheartedly without stress. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Joshuazedd(m): 6:49pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
make a post like this next time. Make the girl break up with him for just same reason and see if people will not call her olosho that found a guy with money 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by stubbornman(m): 6:50pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai: You're a very selfish and terrible person.... you lost a very good man. Some of you lack emotional communication skills and yet blame it on being an introvert.... do you know what an introvert means .... introverts are always happy and free to express themselves when they're around people they love. .infact they could be the most craziest people at that moment!!! you lack self-esteem and you should work on yourself!!! 12 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 6:51pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
favoryte33: Sometimes u pple think relationship is all about the emotional nonsense u call love but what u fail to understand is that no genuine relationship is built on just love. Can two walk together except they agree? Everything about relationship is compatibility. I don't like extrovert girls nd de guy in question doesn't flow well with introverts so u can't pin de blame on him. God wired him that way. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by LordIsaac(m): 6:51pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Many have said my mind on this. To answer your question, however, I honestly feel you pushed him away. There was one like you who resorted to saying I ought to have given her more time... When I studied her deeply, I was irritated by this narcissistic streak of hers in the name of introvert (I am an introvert too) and walked away in just 3 months. Yes, I wasn't prepared to waste two years or more before quitting as I knew it was an attitudinal flaw. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Guys like us we love attention oh. We also love a girl who's amenable to our manipulative tactics. The type we could hurt in the worst possible way this minute and still guilt trip them into getting down on their knees to apologise the next. If she's lucky we might just let the Johnson out the fly and have her choke on it. Her salty tears pouring down to meet her saliva. It be dripping till our oats pops. With the relationship dynamics restored, only then is all truly forgiven... My point is; No guy wants a girl he just can't get through to. You're way too in control of your emotions and that's the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by darlenese(f): 6:54pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
TwoBottles: na wah oo, with all that knowledge she is dishing out she couldn't even keep her own man. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Alwaysachick: 6:54pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
stubbornman: Forget that no trace of unfaithfulness part. You will be shocked how some guys can cover their cheating tracks and lie until caught red handed. He is ready to switch to the side chick, let him be. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Neoteny(m): 6:57pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai: I'm available and open for business 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Pavarottii(m): 6:59pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
TheEnygma:Thank God u know u r insensitive... Grow up 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Lugianostar(m): 7:00pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ask OBJ or better still IBB? |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by stubbornman(m): 7:01pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: See ehn it shit happens but what's more important is respect and loyalty in a relationship... we all have cheated while in a relationship ,we didn't get caught doesn't mean we are badass .... ability to respect your partner and keep your track clean that's also the greater part of love.... The girl just has Ego, the "I don't wanna give him all the attention" kinda..... Seriously I'm the kinda guy if I call you 3 times and you don't return my calls ,that's the end of Solomon grandy 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Offpoint: 7:02pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude:You type too much nonsense, are you from Egypt? 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by YorubaAmaka(m): 7:02pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
hmmm Ndi love, umunwanyi na love bu Kwa 5&6 Love gba kwa oku |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by OLAuoc: 7:03pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
It's not your fault. You both were just not compatible. It's not your fault that you are that way it's in you can't change it. If he really was your man he should have understood. But don't worry you'll find the right guy for you, who'll even love you for being that way. 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by stubbornman(m): 7:04pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
foleskay: Omo ehn Which kind guys we get for this Nairaland sef !!! |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Offpoint: 7:05pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
stubbornman:You got the drill bro, they'll blame their selfishness on being introvertic. |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Alwaysachick: 7:07pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
stubbornman: You didn't read through properly. The only problem I saw on her part was a failed relationship she was afraid to admit. We girls are always guilty of such, we see all the signs but keep hoping things will change because we love. Meanwhile on the guys part, Solomon grandy has already been buried 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Ombre(m): 7:07pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Comment for the first time in a long while. Poster is seeming my kind of person. I'm less emotional, private, calculative, less expressive and value my space and me-time. It has been my undoing in my relationships making me come off as uncaring, bland and uninteresting. Difference is, I wasn't always like this, a big heartbreak changed the course of my emotional life for bad. I truly wish to return to who I was before, the cheerful, jolly, expressive, caring and extroverted me, but alas, the more I try, the more I break. I understand the poster, and I have no solutions either. I'd appreciate any help. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by akmath: 7:10pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
wizzynuru:Monitoring spirit 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by stubbornman(m): 7:10pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Offpoint: The thing dey vex me and people wey lack sense dey tell her to date her fellow introvert....how that kind relationship wan be sef, house go dull scara, No trip, no crazy moments no spice...omo forget it, it's gonna be one boring union!! the arrangement nah Always Extrovert -introvert or extrovert-extrovert nah very rare cases you go see introvert -introvert..... 6 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by greenguy: 7:10pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Distance played its part though... but he's too fast for you. It's a fact, we all can't be on the speed lane. You sound like my wife... I was just patient enough. So you didn't push him away. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Brunicekid(m): 7:12pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
TheEnygma:I read it, and i implore you to calm down and read it too. It will do you good. |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by akinszz: 7:13pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
wizzynuru:haha! Monitoring spirit you are a liar, you will not succeed upon my life. die by fire. Die,die,die,die |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by funkemary(f): 7:14pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Don't feel guilty about a thing. Relationship is not one sided so if he really loved you he'd have help change you for the better or better still love you for you 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Enwhen(m): 7:14pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai: Baby nothing is wrong with you , you are very fine , so many guys are out there looking for your type.... Distance and mostly your BF's social attitude with various girls which gave him many options which he feels her a more better option than u, and he picked one even before he told u that u people were not a match... Don't ever try it again, that u are fine with your BF socialising with female , why not male ??, ThereTis boundaries in every thing, u allowd him go beyond his boundry and he failed and betrayed your trust... So it was after 2years that he realised that you were not match ?... Please be strong, move on and forget about him...I cannot write off completely his coming back to beg u if he truly loves u deeply , because he may find something he also doesn't like about the new one too... Just move ahead , many guys want your type... don't pretend, don't change because u want to please a ccnfused man, U CANNOT PLEASE A MAN, be yourself , nobody can love you more than you love yourself ...look forward to a guy that loves u for who u are...forget the two years relationship please , it's not how far , but how well... There are many women today crying in marriage on daily basis, because, he will says he wants them to be A, when she changes to A, he will complain, and he will say he want her to belike B, when she changes to B, he also complains...human are generally insatiable...go for a guy who love u for who u are... Sis. pls , let him go forever, God has just saved u from a long time suffering and weeping in marriage... There are guys out there looking for your type, tell God to bring them to you, he is not yours...let him go...you are fine ,you are the best to many ... Don't allow one unstable and indecisive guy to bring you down with his stupid selfish reason...move on..YOU ARE VERY FINE... Notin do u nor...Na him fault...your trust was betrayed. 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by stubbornman(m): 7:15pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: I get your point but most ladies think the world will wait for them to love and get over it... Most relationship trust it's men doing 70% of the workout..... Ladies just sit there and wonder why he no longer calls often or takes her to the movies anymore etc.... When it gets boring for a guy it shows!!! only 10% of guys will call a lady for a meeting and explain the reason for there break-up....the guy respects her..... that kinda guy is rare (we are just 5 in the world with one getting married this Saturday, I was hoping you would choose me before I get taken) 7 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Kiezodumah(m): 7:17pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
djoe21: Chai !! Na wa o... Social media never fogets. People no get chill at all |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by DieuDonee(m): 7:18pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
dinodesmond:What I said was that she should not change for someone who's not willing to change for her 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Coldie(m): 7:22pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
I can date u if u have ur own money. I can even marry u |
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