Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Oshey Mr Morris Chesnut, be looking for Mammy water and lose good woman.....

Seems like men have relationship issues more than women. Always one complain or advice, it’s well.

At a stage in your life you will know beauty is not what keep some men from cheating but character which include knowing how and when to talk, neatness, companionship etc

Op I wan ask you something, you handsome?

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

Is beauty really not what money can bring out?

I feel you are too poor that's why. A rich guy will give the girl all the necessary surgical prep and she will be more pretty than her ancestors.

You want to marry a beautiful lady whose beauty you didn't contribute to abi? Guess what, such ladies are either runs girls, too rich for you or already taken.

You have raw material, so grow it and own it. Why did you sleep with her if you knew she was not beautiful enough.

It's sad, she may be somewhere thinking you are worth shiiit

You know it's not really compulsory to get married oh.

Just make sure the person you are with is perfect for you.
and most importantly, that the person you are with feels you're perfect for them.

READ THAT AGAIN.


Anyway's I'll gladly handle your graphic design needs. Starting with your logo.
Send me a message today.

Beauty over intelligence any day bro! Leave her alone. Yep intelligence cannot take you any where but her beauty will push you to the limit and get you focused.

Thank heavens your look has brought you this far, intelligence is practically a facade, it is useless. But beauty can get you far.

Dump her! Tell her to stop calling you. Please end the relationship fast!
Beauty over intelligence any day.

Modified:

I'm only being sarcastic. For those quoting me out of ignorance

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

Something is seriously wrong with you. If you know that her beauty was an issue for you, why did you lead her on for so long? You have already wasted her time and ruined her life, but it's better to leave her than cheat on her.

Don't be surprised if you don't find a girl more beautiful than her, and even if you do, she won't care for you as much as this jilted girl did.

Please, leave her; let her soulmate find her. We have one life to live: stop wasting hers.

SMH.

What do men really want?

Spend some money on her bro...Hope you're handsome

my brother

go and buy a sex doll

because human beauty is never ending

you are just growing up.

you don't know anything about life

you are just a young man full with lustful desire. so you don't think love is that important.

love is not from physical beauty but your spiritual self

I will be glad to marry a ugly girl with a beautiful soul than to marry an anglic figure with a demon personality

not all glitter are gold

In life you can't have it all... Do you now want someone beautiful and without kindness in 'em... As a matter of fact, the girl can't be that bad.... Plus a lil make up would help.. Or does she have tribal marks? Can you please describe your own beautiful lol...

skylegend:
my brother

go and buy a sex doll

because human beauty is never ending

you are just growing up.

you don't know anything about life

you are just a young man full with lustful desire. so you don't think love is that important.

love is not from physical beauty but your spiritual self

I will be glad to marry a ugly girl with a beautiful soul than to marry an anglic figure with a demon personality

not all glitter are gold

Is gold*

slimjohn2k5:
At a stage in your life you will know beauty is not what keep some men from cheating but character which include knowing how and when to talk, neatness, companionship etc

Did you read to comprehend or you read to spew some redpills nonsense?

All these Alfa males self

Oga if beauty is that paramount to you, please don't marry the lady o. The fact is you will always hate that aspect of her, if you couldn't come to accept that part of her till now,you won't in the future unless your brain is reconfigured by some bad experience. Just let her go, it's not a must to marry a good woman over a beautiful woman, after all it is her face you will wake up to see every morning not her soul.


But I must tell you this sha, beauty fades.Good women too are very very very rare these days. Be wise.

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.

CsRockefeller:


Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.

Thanks, I appreciate

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

Post her picture first b4 I advise u

As a man, you should only expend energy on a woman you want.

All women will give you the same amount of stress, whether ugly or fine.

Do not marry out of pity, if you feel she is not beautiful enough for you then end the relationship now

Just bear in mind that beauty fades after sometime

Do whatever makes you happy but you can never EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT.

You can't have it all in one package. Even DStv packs stupid channels together for us to pay subscription. What do you need 120 TV channels for when all you need is just SuperSport 3, 5 & 7. Some people only need History Channel, NatGeo, other just need CNN, SkyNews, BBC whereas what some people like is just Telenovela (abi na telemondo sef).

If it's beauty you seek, go after beautiful ladies but have it at the back of your mind that BEAUTY is a vanity metric for marriage or long lasting relationship.

Beauty fades, that's why several makeup and beauty products flood the market. Every gal want to be beautiful, want to look gorgeous and want to turn heads.

There is no ugly girl, except she doesn't have the necessary cash to translate her dream beauty to reality. Have her visit a professional makeup artist or beauty salon where they make her a perfect her or recommend a perfect fit wig, makeup, clothes, bag and shoes.

You would see wonders and would never ever believe it was the same girl.

She wouldn't be beautiful forever, believe me. No normal human being is FOREVER YOUNG.

If you don't value all she can give and all you seek is beauty, stop wasting her time, energy and resources.

Stop pretending, stop faking your Happiness and stop giving her fake hopes about the future.

Broda, I can relate with everything you have written down and as odd as it might sound, "I will not advice you to marry this lady"
YES, Some people might criticise you for stating d obvious but at the same time na u knw where the shoe dey pain you. Forget self pity and dnt regret tomorrow.
If you marry dis bea tomorrow u no go everly regret ham.
YES u go really hurt d bae gidi gan but its beta u do it now than hurting her tomorrow.
finally, u messed up, you led are on and the reason for that is best known to you

CsRockefeller:


Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.

gud advice but at the same time , this guy in question wants something this lady can't give. in fact tomorrow it must and not will create more problems. I will surely blame him for leading d bae on but at thesame time , its beta now than regret tomorrow.

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

Op I challenge you to marry the most beautiful girl in the world and watch how that beauty will fade away after some years.........reading through your post I noticed your not really matured, just another teen struggling with hormonal issues, I promise you that as you get older your perception will greatly change but before then let me give you an assignment......

Go out on a Saturday, visit a couple of wedding venues (say atleast 15 to 20 venues) then come back and tell me what you noticed.

If you truly love her as you claim,you would look beyond her physical unattractiveness.but i understand the fact that you are a person that always dont like trying what your mind does not like.and for that reason i would say you should quit the relationship now becos you would never fail to be dissatisfied with her looks and thus you may be unhappy in future in that marriage. although you would hurt her so much and i dont know if you would be able to forgive urself.becos since you know shes not as beautiful as you want then why did you allow ur friendship to translate into sex and relationship? if i were you. i would marry her, becos beauty would fade with time. but the love and attributes of a virtuous woman would never fade.she may be a blessing to you in future and u may learn to appreciate her and her beauty more.but the best advice anyone can give to you now. is what i would give to you. and that is;"FOLLOW YOUR MIND"

I’ll admonish you to leave her


Pocohantas is available

I will not say anything until I see your picture .

If it's beauty you want then go for a beautiful lady but be aware that other men will be tempting her with cash so make sure you have a lot of money