Leverage on her intelligence if she has any, let her take you places with her wifey role and visit Dr Laser when the money comes...

HELLO DUDE, I UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN & MAYBE FRUSTRATION. MANY PEOPLE WILL BE LIKE PHYSICAL BEAUTY IS THE LEAST IMPORTANT THING ONE SHOULD GO FOR IN A WOMAN FOR A WIFE, THAT CARACTER IS PARAMOUNT. TO AN EXTENT IT IS CORRECT BECAUSE LIVING WITH THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WITH A BAD CARACTER WILL FRUSTRATE THE HELL OUT OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR FEAR OF HER NOT BEING FAITHFUL MIGHT GIVE YOU HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE. THE ISSUE OF HAVING THE URGE TO CHEAT ON HER IN THE FUTURE WITH A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS VERY NATURAL. IT IS NOT EVERY TIME THAT PEOPLE THAT CHEAT GO FOR A MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, MANY TIMES THEY SETTLE FOR SOMEONE WORSE. FOR THAT UNA NAIJA THERE ARE VERY MANY UGLY WOMEN, SO IF YOU THINK UGLY WOMEN DON’T DESERVE A HUSBAND THEN YOU ARE EXTREMELY CRUEL.
LET’S FACE REALITY, SOMETIMES NOT BEING BEAUTIFY MOTIVATES WOMEN TO BUILD A GOOD CARACTER TO COMPENSATE FOR THE SHORT FALL. WHILE VERY BEAUTIFUL NIGERIA WOMEN WILL FEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD AND ALWAYS BELIEVE THEY DESERVE THE RICHEST MAN ON EARTH. WELL, I’M MARRIED TO A VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WITH WONDERFUL CARACTER AND WE ALREADY HAVE TEEN KIDS. I NOR DEY NAIJA SHA AND THE LADY ISN’T NIGERIAN EITHER.
GOING AHEAD TO MARRY THIS GOOD CARACTER LOVE OF YOURS SEEMS TO MAKE MORE SENSE. MISS UNIVERSE WITH GOOD CARACTER AND WIFE MATERIAL IS VERY DIFFICULT TO COME BY. HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN A CLOSE LOOK AT THE MIRROR TO ASK YOURSELF HOW GREAT YOU LOOK? IF YOU NOR PASS THE MIRROR TEST, ARE YOU WEALTH ENOUGH TO COMPENSATE FOR THE SHORT FALL?
DO YOUR MIND SHA, DON’T LET PEOPLE INTIMIDATE YOU INTO DOING WHAT YOU MAY EVENTUALLY REGRET.

Mstick:
Seems like men have relationship issues more than women. Always one complain or advice, it’s well.

walai asin this 2020 dem swear for them with rubbish complaints.

Beautiful woman always useless in bed

At a time in a man's life he'll chose a woman who gives him peace of mind, who respects, love, care and cherish him over the one with a pretty face, so, I DON'T THINK YOU, Omoakin120 HAS ATTAINED THAT LEVEL. You go understand one day.

My father(may his soul rest in peace) once told me not to marry out of pity, beauty or riches because that marriage won't last but it didn't sink in well then, but now, i've understood what he meant then. Omoakin120, if you love your life, i mean YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE, don't make mistake that you'll live to regret for the rest of your life.

A word is a enough for the wise

I just sorry for the woman who's to marry this indecisive man

This guy lied he doesn't love her he just pity her good deeds. Don't marry based on pity

You mean beauty? What if your beautiful beauty had accident and lose party of her beautiful beauty? Beautiful can fade.....

This guy never learn lessons, if u have learn the kind I learn bro when u see a good woman u will learn to hold her and appreciate her,well I was in your shoes last two yrs ago,when the beautiful lady I will give my kidney for was a pretender and a bench warner to my life,I spent a lot even moved from one room to flats just to motivate her that I can take good care of her,but immediate she ender poly she quickly change ,thank God I went to yje village and they connected me to a good woman ,but I have learn to take this good woman as my flesh and bone ,I meet her so perfect and bro a good woman that I marry now is taken me to my promised land. Beauty fade and u spend more ,good woman u don't impressime them they impress u and u be in control.

OrestesDante:
Beauty over intelligence any day bro! Leave her alone. Yep intelligence cannot take you any where but her beauty will push you to the limit and get you focused.

Thank heavens your look has brought you this far, intelligence is practically a facade, it is useless. But beauty can get you far.

Dump her! Tell her to stop calling you. Please end the relationship fast!
Beauty over intelligence any day.

I bet you if you marry a beautiful Tiger,you will NOT see that her beauty..

tiana29:
You know she isn't that beautiful but you went ahead to date her, after eating free pu**y and its time to marry her, beauty comes to the picture. Stupid Bleep boy

Do u think he is eating free pussy, don't u think he might be spending heavily on the girl Abi..

Don't just judge things like dt..

If it was a lady dt dumped a guy, u feminist will not comment, u rather read than say Anytin

Afrikween:
walai asin this 2020 dem swear for them with rubbish complaints.

.. For your mind now you think or believe the said girl is as good as how op portrayed her? An ugly lady with a bad character is just like a devil,so she is showing all these good behaviours simply because of her looks. Stop saying men are complaining.

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

I take it you are being honest in this, so take the candid from me. BEAUTY IS OF TWO KINDS AND YOU ARE TO PRIORITIZE ONE OVER THE OTHER.

A wise man once said: WHAT IS THE HUMAN BEING IS NOT THE TALL OR SHORT, THE RUBUST OR THING, THE FAIR OF BLACK, THE FINE FACE NOR THE NON-FINE FACE OF WOMAN OR MAN AROUND, AS WE OBSERVE WITH THE EYES; WHAT REALLY IS THE HUMAN IN PEOPLE IS THE INNER BEING WHICH COMES OUT IN CHATACTERS, HABITS AND BEHAVIOURS.

SO, IF YOUR FRIEND'S UNFAKED/UNFEIGNED BEHAVIOURS AND GENERAL CHARACTER IS BEAUTIFUL, THEN SHE IS INFACT VERY BEAUTIFUL.

FORGET THE PHYSICAL LOOKS. OF COURSE YOU'RE AWARE PHYSICAL ENDOWMENTS AND LOOKS ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT AS INNER QUALITIES.

OK, take it rough: women with physical beauty are more likely to frustrate a man and render him unhappy in life than woman with inner beauty. Look around, you will discover that most men with BEAUTIFUL WIVES are unhappy, compared to the men whom you may see their wives average (let me use this term).


Chose what benefits you on the long run. Don't make a foolish decision and die of frustration from a pretty who will arrogantly tell you she should have chosen any of the other numerous men coming for her... Or you come back here in this forum to tell us how you get maltreated from a slay queen.

Goodluck to you!

DarkJeddi:
I bet you if you marry a beautiful Tiger,you will NOT see that her beauty..

.. All are tigers. So instead of you to marry an ugly tiger,why not marry a beautiful tiger? You can console yourself with her beauty.

Hmmmmmmmm, she na fine Dem dey chop for marriage now?

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

I think nairaland should open a fictional section for u guys

JONNYSPUTE:
.. All are tigers. So instead of you to marry an ugly tiger,why not marry a beautiful tiger? You can console yourself with her beauty.

Inner beauty or external beauty?

Well... I don't see any problems in you expressing your disapproval of her looks cos men are wired to go by what they see. Naturally attracted to looks. So it is not out of place to complain about her looks.
Since you're not 100% satisfied with her, I'll advise you let her be.

As a lady, I do ask guys, are you sure you like what you see? And if they say yes, I'll then relax and know that I'm wanted and and accepted. I don't know if others do it but i do to avoid all this kind of ops story. Also if a man is not fine to my taste, I no do. Period! You can't force people to do what their mind is not really down with.

OP, look for your spec and be happy. Don't listen to those saying fine does not determined successful marriage. Every marriages has its ups and downs, both ugly and beautiful couples. So go for your taste to save yourself future regrets.

The lord will deliver you

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

you can't have it all, some have a beautiful face but rotten inside. Some have a nice body but ugly or not so beautiful face etc but for you to say she is beautiful but not to the degree you want and may consequently cheat on her means you are the problem not her. You are looking for a trophy and not a wife sir. If you know she is good as you say spend on her and see it she will not be better than she is now. Some diet change can go a long way to beautify same as some extra skin or flesh does for some people. But if you are a cheat by nature even if you marry miss world you may still cheat on her. Beauty is only skin deep but the man on the inside is what you must look out for. Events can alter that beauty before you know it though no one prays for bad things to happen to anyone. My simple advice na im be dat

How sure are u that by marrying a beautiful lady she won't cheat on u

When it comes to wife/husband material u can never get what u want 100%, the beautiful one u are looking/admiring might not be caring or loving. My point is that they must be a compromise or u move on and later be

lexy2014:


Inner beauty or external beauty?

.. There's nothing like inner beauty for a human being.

gunners160:
Broda, I can relate with everything you have written down and as odd as it might sound, "I will not advice you to marry this lady"
YES, Some people might criticise you for stating d obvious but at the same time na u knw where the shoe dey pain you. Forget self pity and dnt regret tomorrow.
If you marry dis bea tomorrow u no go everly regret ham.
YES u go really hurt d bae gidi gan but its beta u do it now than hurting her tomorrow.
finally, u messed up, you led are on and the reason for that is best known to you

Read what you wrote again sir....

Brother please help your fellow brother.....
Let me have her number pls.....

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

See if you allow that beauty thing to land you in problem eh, ur eyes go clear.

There is no thing wrong about marrying a very pretty lady but the problem is that in Nigeria, 90% of them are idiots.

I used to be like you until I borrowed myself sense and ditch that fantasy.

My current girl is facially beautiful the way I want it but in terms of body, she is not up to it.

And she is very hardworking.

PLEASE can you share her contact with me? I have a cousin who will be more than willing to live happily ever after with her. I pity you! May be you don't know that beauty fades, a beautiful woman without character is uglier than the toad. Anyway, please don't forget to share her contact! BIKO!

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

na mumu de warry you.
first ...Are you handsome?
What if she is beautiful and loose the beauty to fire accident in the long run... will you fling her away?
MY ADVICE... IF SHE WILL GIVE YOU JOY IN THE LONG JOURNEY OF LIFE ,PLS GRAB HER CLOSE TO YOUR HEART

As far as she is God's image, I think she is beautiful. Moreso, her giving you her whole heart is what matter. A lot of ladies with beautiful faces out usually Bleep up.

Good luck.