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People av to learn how to " run away " from violent and abusive partners.. Physical assault in a relationship is d quickest way to die.

Ewooo.... So after the beating and embarassment you still can't read tye writing on the wall that that man is not fit to cohabit with a human being and you're here asking what you do?
Go back, let him kill you, then in the spirit world you understand better what you should have done earlier.

Its like the man sabi the thing weweh coa thats the only reason a woman will stick to a.monstrous man even to the detriment of her own life.
Abokor Ku.

franchasng:
Hahahaha, I have nothing to say my brother lol, the guy is half mad and the girl is helpless, sighs





The only thing that scares me when I read all these type of stories is having a female child, imagine my daughter a princess, daddy's precious jewel, precious one being treated like this in the name of dating or even marriage, God abeg oh

bring up your daughter in the way of the lord... She will have wisdom... Read proverb 1verse 7..

You want to sign your death warrant abi. Please cut all ties with him even his mum and his sister. Leave him with no trace of you. Love yourself before loving anyone

AdorableSapphir:
Ewooo.... So after the beating and embarassment you still can't read tye writing on the wall that that man is not fit to cohabit with a human being and you're here asking what you do?
Go back, let him kill you, then in the spirit world you understand better what you should have done earlier.

Its like the man sabi the thing weweh coa thats the only reason a woman will stick to a.monstrous man even to the detriment of her own life.
Abokor Ku.

hahahaha

Hardebaryor:
You want to sign your death warrant abi. Please cut all ties with him even his mum and his sister. Leave him with no trace of you. Love yourself before loving anyone

Ok thank you,I've heard you

Beatswim:
bring up your daughter in the way of the lord... She will have wisdom... Read proverb 1verse 7..

Not always true! Some girls who later turn to slay queens were raised from the most decent and strict homes, I am a living witness.

It's only a dog that goes back to its vommit. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. You will be making the greatest mistake of your life if you go back to him. Cheating is in his blood.

Nice story.......... U should channel that talent into writing script for money not for attention

foolish girl like you is what I pray not to have as a girl child. you're considering going back to him because he said he will commit suicide. is it not better for him to commit suicide than to commit murder.

fireback:
foolish girl like you is what I pray not to have as a girl child. you're considering going back to him because he said he will commit suicide. is it not better for him to commit suicide than to commit murder.

Hahahaha suicide over murder. Lol

SlimyJ:
I'm 24 years,I met him 2018 through a friend of mine and we started a relationship,he introduced me to his family and friends and we were good together,his family all loves me most especially his elder sister who already took me as her own Blood,I even do visit her from time to time and she can't do without checking on me always..
it all started October 2018 when he was chatting and fell asleep not locking up his phone then I decided to check into his inbox,I saw one contacts saved with a guy's name,I wanted to stroll down till my finger mistakenly opened the chat,he had actually saved a female's name with a male name ,I read through all their conversations and it was the same method he usually chat me with that he do also use to chat with the lady,the lady even knows me that she referred to me in one of her messages.. "is your witch already sleeping?,and he said yes"..,my temperature became so hot that I woke him up from sleep immediately to explain himself,he never denied,he said he met her during a friend's birthday and he slept with her once ,I told him to choose between her and myself,we were on it till day break and I left for my place,two days later he sent me a screenshot of his text to her and a voice message to proved he already broke up with her and we were good again..
few months later(Early Thursday morning)his sister called me that she had be trying to reach his number to tell him that his mother will be coming around to see him but his number wasn't going through, I've also been trying to reach him also but it was switched off,she said I should please take my own key to the house and wait for his mom so that she won't stay outside the apartment,she said the woman is already on her way (he lives in an estate). I took my bath put on something light ,took my own key and rushed down to his place,on getting there I was surprised that the door wasn't locked ,I didn't bother to knock the door, I just went straight to the room , opened the door and I found this guy fucking another woman without condom early in the morning,he was surprised to see me ,his preeq went down instantly ,I was really shocked,my blood became so cold that for 3 minutes there was no word coming from my opened mouth,the lady managed to use the bedsheet to cover herself up and the guy has wore himself a boxer,I later found a statement "did you intentionally switched off your phone cause of one night stand bitch while your mom is on the way coming?" he replied me with a dumb answer that didn't they teach me at home to knock before entering into another person's house? this statement arouse my anger and i called him a bastard ,then he landed a heavy slap on my face which I retaliated immediately,then the real match began as he brought out a bent and beat the hell out of me, stripped me naked and pushed me out of the house while the girl was sitting on the bed watching free Cinema,i was really ashamed of myself that I should have turned back and go to my house and spare myself that disgrace,I don't know what to do or where to go with my naked body (only bra and pant remained) then he opened the door and started throwing out all my belongings in the house at me,I was happy that at least I will have something to put on,I wept and I left the place with everything,his family doesn't stop calling and begging ,he later came to my place in the evening with his friends and apologized,I forgave him ,after few days he messaged me that I should give him space cause he was ashamed of how he treated me,he said he can't withstand seeing my face anymore,and I granted his request, we broke up April last year ,though carried his sister along all through and it doesn't affect the relationship between his family , friends and I .
Now he has been coming around begging, telling lot of people to beg me that he will commit sucide if I don't come back , that he has realized his mistakes,I'm really confused cause I don't know what could have ran over him.. please help..

he can't stop,he will never stop.u know hanging is the price of people who kill their husbands.move on.

Let go of him Pls. Dont marry him. .marriage is bigger than the pictures you see while yu court.

If yu marry him, u might become his punching bag(he had launched it already so he already lost his respect for you. Yes he will cheat serially.

He is a confused man!

People change, you can go back to him.
No go quote me when he whoop your behind again.. Someone that tore your clothes in front of a random babe. Guess the D is worth it.

SlimyJ:
I later regretted the action cause i could have saved myself from the drama

My only issue is him beating u in front of another girl ,thereby making you look cheap.

My advice is Don't settle for less.

Petyprincess:
Just listen to the question you still asking? Someone that cheated on you,embarrassed you nd beat you in front of his concubine nd you still asking if you should get back together? I am really mad right nw just that i wnt insult you because you kinda still have feelings for this dude if not you won't be here asking this annoying question!!
The truth is your boyfriend will never change,a cheater will be a cheat,a lady beater will always be a lady beater no matter how he tries to hide it. Please don't settle for less!! Now that you still seeing these signs you should take your leave sharply b4 getting married nd will make it difficult to leave!! Trust me abusive marriage is not something i wish any lady to go through!!

God bless you. I have a daughter and I can't even imaging this kind of thing happening to her with a boyfriend. Please the op should just follow this advice and forger the boy. Cuz it only a boy that will beat a lady.

Escodeb:
Young lady, move on with your life. He is a serial cheater and a woman beater, can you cope with that for the rest of your life?


Ignore his suicide threat, he is trying to manipulate you.

You are right bro.. The suicide threat is just to get sympathy and have u back. And I can bet it that once he have u back he will still cheat and beat u big time. Just delete is case from your life and move on.

franchasng:
its not even about the cheating, you can imagine the guts, the rudeness, his wickedness to another man's daughter, honestly I am begging God not to allow me be in a situation that my daughter is being treated this way by one useless boy abi guy, because I don't trust what I would do honestly.


I myself I know that I am not a saint, I maybe bad in some areas but I have never touched anybody to talk talk of beating a lady I profess love (fake or real) to or a lady I had the emotion to have sex with, God forbid. Nothing can make me do such, I have several ways to pay back a stubborn partner without touching you.


Only foolish, crude, poverty stricken, classless, useless men beat women!!

Any male that beat a female doesn't deserve to be call a man.. They are call boys.

Okpa042:
Men are scum.

Not all men.

Real talk

fireback:
foolish girl like you is what I pray not to have as a girl child. you're considering going back to him because he said he will commit suicide. is it not better for him to commit suicide than to commit murder.

God bless you bro... Love u last statement. Is it not better for him to commit suicide than commit murder?...

greatbrian:
Nice story.......... U should channel that talent into writing script for money not for attention

you can at least link me up

dnawah:
he can't stop,he will never stop.u know hanging is the price of people who kill their husbands.move on.

deep

SlimyJ:
I'm 24 years,I met him 2018 through a friend of mine and we started a relationship,he introduced me to his family and friends and we were good together,his family all loves me most especially his elder sister who already took me as her own Blood,I even do visit her from time to time and she can't do without checking on me always..
it all started October 2018 when he was chatting and fell asleep not locking up his phone then I decided to check into his inbox,I saw one contacts saved with a guy's name,I wanted to stroll down till my finger mistakenly opened the chat,he had actually saved a female's name with a male name ,I read through all their conversations and it was the same method he usually chat me with that he do also use to chat with the lady,the lady even knows me that she referred to me in one of her messages.. "is your witch already sleeping?,and he said yes"..,my temperature became so hot that I woke him up from sleep immediately to explain himself,he never denied,he said he met her during a friend's birthday and he slept with her once ,I told him to choose between her and myself,we were on it till day break and I left for my place,two days later he sent me a screenshot of his text to her and a voice message to proved he already broke up with her and we were good again..
few months later(Early Thursday morning)his sister called me that she had be trying to reach his number to tell him that his mother will be coming around to see him but his number wasn't going through, I've also been trying to reach him also but it was switched off,she said I should please take my own key to the house and wait for his mom so that she won't stay outside the apartment,she said the woman is already on her way (he lives in an estate). I took my bath put on something light ,took my own key and rushed down to his place,on getting there I was surprised that the door wasn't locked ,I didn't bother to knock the door, I just went straight to the room , opened the door and I found this guy fucking another woman without condom early in the morning,he was surprised to see me ,his preeq went down instantly ,I was really shocked,my blood became so cold that for 3 minutes there was no word coming from my opened mouth,the lady managed to use the bedsheet to cover herself up and the guy has wore himself a boxer,I later found a statement "did you intentionally switched off your phone cause of one night stand bitch while your mom is on the way coming?" he replied me with a dumb answer that didn't they teach me at home to knock before entering into another person's house? this statement arouse my anger and i called him a bastard ,then he landed a heavy slap on my face which I retaliated immediately,then the real match began as he brought out a bent and beat the hell out of me, stripped me naked and pushed me out of the house while the girl was sitting on the bed watching free Cinema,i was really ashamed of myself that I should have turned back and go to my house and spare myself that disgrace,I don't know what to do or where to go with my naked body (only bra and pant remained) then he opened the door and started throwing out all my belongings in the house at me,I was happy that at least I will have something to put on,I wept and I left the place with everything,his family doesn't stop calling and begging ,he later came to my place in the evening with his friends and apologized,I forgave him ,after few days he messaged me that I should give him space cause he was ashamed of how he treated me,he said he can't withstand seeing my face anymore,and I granted his request, we broke up April last year ,though carried his sister along all through and it doesn't affect the relationship between his family , friends and I .
Now he has been coming around begging, telling lot of people to beg me that he will commit sucide if I don't come back , that he has realized his mistakes,I'm really confused cause I don't know what could have ran over him.. please help..

Me: just go back
op:back to where?
Me: I don't know

SlimyJ:
you can at least link me up

Just check ur profile now.. Nice stories.. But I suggest u open a blog and post all these creative story there. At least u will be getting some money from google ads.

SamjohnnyB:
Just check ur profile now.. Nice stories.. But I suggest u open a blog and post all these creative story there. At least u will be getting some money from google ads.

Anyways, i posted a real story of myself for advices..



Thanks to the person who moved the story to Facebook.

He agrees to another woman that u are a witch, he was fvcking another woman on the same bed u both lie, beat u up and tore ur clothes, worse off, he threw ur things out and all the while his bitttcch was watching and laughing.

Already, he sees u as a commodity that can be discarded. No iota of respect left. Maybe perhaps u nag him alot too. But in all, he disrespected womanhood.

My dear, if u dont have sense, go and get some at Sambisa forest.

La read la bend. See as epistle jampack like Oshodi molue

SlimyJ:
I'm 24 years,I met him 2018 through a friend of mine and we started a relationship,he introduced me to his family and friends and we were good together,his family all loves me most especially his elder sister who already took me as her own Blood,I even do visit her from time to time and she can't do without checking on me always..
it all started October 2018 when he was chatting and fell asleep not locking up his phone then I decided to check into his inbox,I saw one contacts saved with a guy's name,I wanted to stroll down till my finger mistakenly opened the chat,he had actually saved a female's name with a male name ,I read through all their conversations and it was the same method he usually chat me with that he do also use to chat with the lady,the lady even knows me that she referred to me in one of her messages.. "is your witch already sleeping?,and he said yes"..,my temperature became so hot that I woke him up from sleep immediately to explain himself,he never denied,he said he met her during a friend's birthday and he slept with her once ,I told him to choose between her and myself,we were on it till day break and I left for my place,two days later he sent me a screenshot of his text to her and a voice message to proved he already broke up with her and we were good again..
few months later(Early Thursday morning)his sister called me that she had be trying to reach his number to tell him that his mother will be coming around to see him but his number wasn't going through, I've also been trying to reach him also but it was switched off,she said I should please take my own key to the house and wait for his mom so that she won't stay outside the apartment,she said the woman is already on her way (he lives in an estate). I took my bath put on something light ,took my own key and rushed down to his place,on getting there I was surprised that the door wasn't locked ,I didn't bother to knock the door, I just went straight to the room , opened the door and I found this guy fucking another woman without condom early in the morning,he was surprised to see me ,his preeq went down instantly ,I was really shocked,my blood became so cold that for 3 minutes there was no word coming from my opened mouth,the lady managed to use the bedsheet to cover herself up and the guy has wore himself a boxer,I later found a statement "did you intentionally switched off your phone cause of one night stand bitch while your mom is on the way coming?" he replied me with a dumb answer that didn't they teach me at home to knock before entering into another person's house? this statement arouse my anger and i called him a bastard ,then he landed a heavy slap on my face which I retaliated immediately,then the real match began as he brought out a bent and beat the hell out of me, stripped me naked and pushed me out of the house while the girl was sitting on the bed watching free Cinema,i was really ashamed of myself that I should have turned back and go to my house and spare myself that disgrace,I don't know what to do or where to go with my naked body (only bra and pant remained) then he opened the door and started throwing out all my belongings in the house at me,I was happy that at least I will have something to put on,I wept and I left the place with everything,his family doesn't stop calling and begging ,he later came to my place in the evening with his friends and apologized,I forgave him ,after few days he messaged me that I should give him space cause he was ashamed of how he treated me,he said he can't withstand seeing my face anymore,and I granted his request, we broke up April last year ,though carried his sister along all through and it doesn't affect the relationship between his family , friends and I .
Now he has been coming around begging, telling lot of people to beg me that he will commit sucide if I don't come back , that he has realized his mistakes,I'm really confused cause I don't know what could have ran over him.. please help..

Are you mad...

Abi you were high when you wrote this if you are my daughter i will lock you up for this statement and i go shoot the idiot

gregyboy:
Are you mad...

Abi you were high when you wrote this if you are my daughter i will lock you up for this statement and i go shoot the idiot

please temper justice with mercy
no sir ,I'm not mad..

op pick up your phone send him a massage,tell him that you cant wait to attend his burial if he eventually commits suicide....what nonsense! after you caught him pant down he still have the effrontery to hit you?.....but wait ooo op you dey mad? why you go call am bastard for that kind early morning nah?

SlimyJ:
please temper justice with mercy
no sir ,I'm not mad..

Why the write up it unnecessary please

Why are you even considering the fact of going bsck to him at all or even writing about it,

If you dont want your case to be that of sandals run from such men