Blu03: I remember stalking a classmate i had a crush on. It was so hard to talk to him. My hands would shake and my palms were sweaty. It was a scary thing
pocohantas: Most times a guy does like that, he is new in the game, an introvert or he is chyking a girl he considers out of his league.
I have one trying to chyke me, yet he is calling me "Ma" He will send message, then delete it. I feel so much pity for him. The girl didn't have to be rude though. Just politely dismiss him if you are not interested. Except if the need to apply force arises.
OP, this ya story just make me scatter laugh for here sha See ehn, almost every guy pass through this phase at a point in life including myself. I remember how i used to cram lines too those days chai! See ehn, you don't just stop a lady and ask "Can we be friends?". It's totally wrong. I can swear the lady was expecting you to say something reasonable the moment she stopped for you. Next time, try and be more creative. You can stop a lady by simply saying "Hi", "Hello" etc. And next thing to come outta ya mouth should be, things like, "How you doing today" then go further and tell her ya name i.e "I'm xoxoxo how about you please?". Then ask her if she lives in that neighborhood cos yoi haven't really been seeing her around. Then you go further and tell her you'll like to be friends if she wouldn't mind then ask for her digits. Bid her farewell and go ya separate ways. Remember to wear a soft smile while doing all of these and be confident too.
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I wouldn't say you face looks familiar it obvious we just meeting for the first time, my name is daniel btw, and ur?
Nice low cut btw, in as much as I will so love to know more about this pretty girl, I actually came to get something with a friend.
How about I get you digit.. To catch you up later!
Abetterperson: The first time I woo a guy I liked I was 15
The boy was dark and kinda my type even though I am young I know teen love is a stupid love so I first didn't want to tell him. I saw he was getting close to one girl in my area and even though am far more beautiful than she is, she is more out spoken than me which I know he loves I felt insecure about her so I decided to tell the boy my feelings. one night called the boy to meet me in one store in my area and I told the guy my feeling for him the guy laughed and told me that am like a sister to him
I swear e pain me
he and the other girl are now dating but is okays sha
DrDax: My first experience taught me to respect myself.
Beautiful girl, the stuff of wet-dreams, I was only 20.
We met at a movie rehearsal, and discovered she lived quite close to me.
So, we became friendly-strangers, the type that greet each other, say "how are you", and engage in short small talks.
After monitoring this lady for months and gathering info from friends and neighbors, I decided to approach,
Shout out to my cousin, my coach. lol
So there I was wobbling and fumbling, and wondering what I had got myself into while she just kept smiling and shaking her head.
"what say you?" and the classic response "I'll think about it"
Well, the following week was her birthday and I had emptied my piggy bank to get her the most expensive perfume I could find as well as a classy birthday card to buttress my point.
On D-Day, I got into my sunday best, sprayed some of my cousin's perfume, shined my shoe till I could see my reflection on it, and mustered all remaining confidence, and yes a little prayer before stepping to her house around 4pm.
Please picture this nervous wreck, holding a gift pack, and knocking on his prospect's gate while muttering to Cupid to please shoot his arrow into her heart and make my day. Infact, cupid told me she would jump right into my arms on seeing me.
Well the mum appeared on the balcony, took one look at me, and joined two and two together. She peered back into the house and called her daughter, "you have another visitor oooooo. Hmmmmmmm"
To cut a long story short, the girl of my "wet-dreams" came sauntering out in all her innocent beauty with some handsome tall dude. They both walked right past me into a car parked across the street.
And while walking towards the car, she uttered the sentence that would change my life forever.
She said, "give the package to my mum", and they zoomed off.
There I was standing at the gate like Charlie Chaplin feeling like an idiot, and her mum at the balcony trying unsuccessfully not to laugh out loud.
I just felt like sharing my first experience trying to woo a girl, it was like hell tho... so funny
Each time I remember this event it always make me to wonder if it was normal or maybe I wasn't bold. Some times ago I was on my way to visit a friend when I came in contact with this edo girl, she was so pretty that I kept on staring at her forgetting that i'm supposed to cross to the other side of the road cos where I stood was a very busy Junction.
I dismissed the idea of visiting my guy and followed her closely. I wanted to know her street, that was mission accomplished as I was able to get exactly where her house was and asked some dudes for few information about her.
Her name was favour, from then I started preparing to woo her after which I showed her to my friends secretly, trust niggars they started pushing me to confront her but the problem was how best to approach her and do the wooing tricks.
Two weeks later of cramming some lines and tricks, I wore better clothes with my neighbor's perfume. Minutes later I was standing at their street and it wasn't too long when she came out I guessed to buy something, I swear the more she approached was the more my heart beat increased, sweating profusely even it got to some extent that my legs wasn't steady anymore, so I pretended I didn't see her as she passed.
Oh my God, my urine was hot as I rushed to the gutter to ease myself I don't even know if removed smoke sef.. that one passed, months passed still I was not able to approach her.
One day I made up my mind to approach her. It was more like do or die, I wore my clothes dressed casually this time and memorized things again both how to greet her and all that, God made it easy as I saw her before I got to her street, she was walking and gisting with a female friend. I began to feel cold inside as I approached but I kept walking towards the due.. her friend stopped a bike and bade her good by so she turned and started walking to her street.
I quickly walked up to her and said Hi! She turned and stared directly into my eye.. Jesus I froze instantly, my people I said hi to this girl like four good times, every down thing I memorized had now flashed off, my head was empty in fact I regretted ever confronting her she stood for a while trying to figure out who I was cos the expression on her face showed it all, emm please can we be friends? That was what I heard myself say, immediately she heard that she hissed loudly and crossed to the other side of the road and walked away.. I swear I couldn't sleep that night..
Abeg my people is it that I don't have liver or its a normal thing in guys, but i see guys do wooing anyhow as if it was their calling... let's discuss about it..
DrDax: My first experience taught me to respect myself.
Beautiful girl, the stuff of wet-dreams, I was only 20.
We met at a movie rehearsal, and discovered she lived quite close to me.
So, we became friendly-strangers, the type that greet each other, say "how are you", and engage in short small talks.
After monitoring this lady for months and gathering info from friends and neighbors, I decided to approach,
Shout out to my cousin, my coach. lol
So there I was wobbling and fumbling, and wondering what I had got myself into while she just kept smiling and shaking her head.
"what say you?" and the classic response "I'll think about it"
Well, the following week was her birthday and I had emptied my piggy bank to get her the most expensive perfume I could find as well as a classy birthday card to buttress my point.
On D-Day, I got into my sunday best, sprayed some of my cousin's perfume, shined my shoe till I could see my reflection on it, and mustered all remaining confidence, and yes a little prayer before stepping to her house around 4pm.
Please picture this nervous wreck, holding a gift pack, and knocking on his prospect's gate while muttering to Cupid to please shoot his arrow into her heart and make my day. Infact, cupid told me she would jump right into my arms on seeing me.
Well the mum appeared on the balcony, took one look at me, and joined two and two together. She peered back into the house and called her daughter, "you have another visitor oooooo. Hmmmmmmm"
To cut a long story short, the girl of my "wet-dreams" came sauntering out in all her innocent beauty with some handsome tall dude. They both walked right past me into a car parked across the street.
And while walking towards the car, she uttered the sentence that would change my life forever.
She said, "give the package to my mum", and they zoomed off.
There I was standing at the gate like Charlie Chaplin feeling like an idiot, and her mum at the balcony trying unsuccessfully not to laugh out loud.
I remember my first attempt at wooing. It was in an SU camp. I told the girl's friend to call her friend ( both of them were classmates of my younger sister). Immediately I saw the girl coming, I ran inside the boy's hostel.
Abetterperson: The first time I woo a guy I liked I was 15
The boy was dark and kinda my type even though I am young I know teen love is a stupid love so I first didn't want to tell him. I saw he was getting close to one girl in my area and even though am far more beautiful than she is, she is more out spoken than me which I know he loves I felt insecure about her so I decided to tell the boy my feelings. one night called the boy to meet me in one store in my area and I told the guy my feeling for him the guy laughed and told me that am like a sister to him
I swear e pain me
he and the other girl are now dating but is okays sha
franchasng: Yeah some dudes are that lucky, and its mostly for quiet intelligent guys.
While growing up, I hated girls because of too many Biblical preachings my mother preached to me everyday. After family morning devotion my mom will then start a private class with me to teach me the things I will do and go to hell
Top on the list was girls...to the extent I saw any girl as Satan that will drag me to hell so I avoided girls like Ebola lol
And this my hatred for girls made girls to like me so much that many did their possible best to be my friend to no avail. Me that was as strict and serious always like Adolf Hitler the Reich
It was in my SS3 that I started admiring one chick secretly lol....but due to my reputation for not liking girls, I couldn't show her that I liked her but I always looked out to see her pass lol
So many schoolgirls tried their best to get me to be their friend to no avail.
Finally my first ever girlfriend (when I got into higher institution) indirectly wooed me, and what saved her was that I was already crushing on her secretly but my ego and hollier than thou attitude couldn't allow me approach her until she started getting close and we became bestie.
All throughout my time in campus, I can't remember wooing any chick; maybe 2 or 3 and I always succeeded but would lose interest after we exchange numbers so maybe after 2 calls I won't call again and some I won't even call once and its over.
The only time I shiverred trying to woo a girl was a day I tried to woo a white chick I saw at a mall lol few years after my NYSC I was shaking like someone suffering Parkinson
The Fears weren't normal again...e convert to hybrid fear nio...
The first time i wooed a lady she said those things don't move her that i shoukd make money
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Calling you ma Are you his boss at work or something?
You won't understand till you see his messages. At a point he returned with some courage and I knew his homeboys have given him morale.
Anyway, I ordered some kitchen utensils and he was the delivery man. I did ask him if he knows it is unethical to contact me, he said yes- but I was too nice to him. I just weak.
Lol! I believe you are a young chap, just continue to grow yourself in your job, work, school, you will later realise it's just a piece of cake. Don't memorise, just be honest with your feelings about her. The words will flow when you are honest with your feelings and don't over-expect. Let her know how special she is to you, you may not even ask for her number the first time. Just give her something to think about when she remembers you. You will get her number another time.... And when you finally get her, always remember how you trembled for her and never maltreat her.
o boy this is so funny,But i must confess,is not easy to woo girls,expecially if you are the shy type;but guy,ur lines are no follow,you no even ask the babe her name,you just jump to can we be friends,the Best way to approach a girl is to see her as a friend,you have known before,,and just be free with words,the goal is to Get her Digits,then the rest of the thing can be done on phone,Or on the alternative,Use facebook,that is why those social media dey exist
I just felt like sharing my first experience trying to woo a girl, it was like hell tho... so funny
Each time I remember this event it always make me to wonder if it was normal or maybe I wasn't bold. Some times ago I was on my way to visit a friend when I came in contact with this edo girl, she was so pretty that I kept on staring at her forgetting that i'm supposed to cross to the other side of the road cos where I stood was a very busy Junction.
I dismissed the idea of visiting my guy and followed her closely. I wanted to know her street, that was mission accomplished as I was able to get exactly where her house was and asked some dudes for few information about her.
Her name was favour, from then I started preparing to woo her after which I showed her to my friends secretly, trust niggars they started pushing me to confront her but the problem was how best to approach her and do the wooing tricks.
Two weeks later of cramming some lines and tricks, I wore better clothes with my neighbor's perfume. Minutes later I was standing at their street and it wasn't too long when she came out I guessed to buy something, I swear the more she approached was the more my heart beat increased, sweating profusely even it got to some extent that my legs wasn't steady anymore, so I pretended I didn't see her as she passed.
Oh my God, my urine was hot as I rushed to the gutter to ease myself I don't even know if removed smoke sef.. that one passed, months passed still I was not able to approach her.
One day I made up my mind to approach her. It was more like do or die, I wore my clothes dressed casually this time and memorized things again both how to greet her and all that, God made it easy as I saw her before I got to her street, she was walking and gisting with a female friend. I began to feel cold inside as I approached but I kept walking towards the due.. her friend stopped a bike and bade her good by so she turned and started walking to her street.
I quickly walked up to her and said Hi! She turned and stared directly into my eye.. Jesus I froze instantly, my people I said hi to this girl like four good times, every down thing I memorized had now flashed off, my head was empty in fact I regretted ever confronting her she stood for a while trying to figure out who I was cos the expression on her face showed it all, emm please can we be friends? That was what I heard myself say, immediately she heard that she hissed loudly and crossed to the other side of the road and walked away.. I swear I couldn't sleep that night..
Abeg my people is it that I don't have liver or its a normal thing in guys, but i see guys do wooing anyhow as if it was their calling... let's discuss about it..
Modified..
My only question to you is how old are you ? honestly I dunno why talking to random women makes you feel pressured or nervous.
stop seeing women as a question papers, some are easy to solve, while some are hard but then focus to solve the easy ones first,to gather enough knowledge in solving the next,go and work on your confidence, and watch all this drama fizzle out. just Don't forget to make � money
So you are the one that will tell me the difference between sexy mama and someone that sends all his messages with MA?
Good morning Ma. Hope your day is going well Ma? I called you MA, you didn't pick- seems you are angry with me MA?
Then he sends a voicenote, deletes it. "See, I am even afraid MA". How is that SEXY and how can that possibly get to my head? Pffffttt!
I asked him this and he said NOOOOOOOO MA. Then how the fck do you address me with so much MA and even Boss Lady?
You won't understand till you see his messages. At a point he returned with some courage and I knew his homeboys have given him morale.
Anyway, I ordered some kitchen utensils and he was the delivery man. I did ask him if he knows it is unethical to contact me, he said yes- but I was too nice to him. I just weak.
..u shouldnt give attention to such child in a man's body
to woo a girl is not easy but it's easy if you are extrovert type,it wasn't easy for me been an introvert but one thing was am use to been with girls i had only female siblings no brother and all my friends was females so it was easy for me to woo any girl as an introvert.all you need is courage and be prepared to entertain any funny stuff from her,but first starting a good conversation matters like telling her you looks familiar to me you can guess any location you know her from then she will tell you her true location or you use school,business,company if she looks like a sports lover you can key in to it.you can even talk politics or bad electricity just to get her attention next is her contact you can you it to bombard her phone with sweet love messages.don't look at her face or status and well built body go straight to whatever conversation you want to start with if she has a car you can ask her about how she cope driving it like Honda talk about it's problems.
I'm even about to make a nl babe my wife without wooing her
That's what I'm saying, you don't know what wooing really is, what you refer to basically as wooing is not basically wooing, there are different ways you can woo a woman, you can't marry a woman without you wooing her or she wooing you, one definitely has to happen
I just felt like sharing my first experience trying to woo a girl, it was like hell tho... so funny
Each time I remember this event it always make me to wonder if it was normal or maybe I wasn't bold. Some times ago I was on my way to visit a friend when I came in contact with this edo girl, she was so pretty that I kept on staring at her forgetting that i'm supposed to cross to the other side of the road cos where I stood was a very busy Junction.
I dismissed the idea of visiting my guy and followed her closely. I wanted to know her street, that was mission accomplished as I was able to get exactly where her house was and asked some dudes for few information about her.
Her name was favour, from then I started preparing to woo her after which I showed her to my friends secretly, trust niggars they started pushing me to confront her but the problem was how best to approach her and do the wooing tricks.
Two weeks later of cramming some lines and tricks, I wore better clothes with my neighbor's perfume. Minutes later I was standing at their street and it wasn't too long when she came out I guessed to buy something, I swear the more she approached was the more my heart beat increased, sweating profusely even it got to some extent that my legs wasn't steady anymore, so I pretended I didn't see her as she passed.
Oh my God, my urine was hot as I rushed to the gutter to ease myself I don't even know if removed smoke sef.. that one passed, months passed still I was not able to approach her.
One day I made up my mind to approach her. It was more like do or die, I wore my clothes dressed casually this time and memorized things again both how to greet her and all that, God made it easy as I saw her before I got to her street, she was walking and gisting with a female friend. I began to feel cold inside as I approached but I kept walking towards the due.. her friend stopped a bike and bade her good by so she turned and started walking to her street.
I quickly walked up to her and said Hi! She turned and stared directly into my eye.. Jesus I froze instantly, my people I said hi to this girl like four good times, every down thing I memorized had now flashed off, my head was empty in fact I regretted ever confronting her she stood for a while trying to figure out who I was cos the expression on her face showed it all, emm please can we be friends? That was what I heard myself say, immediately she heard that she hissed loudly and crossed to the other side of the road and walked away.. I swear I couldn't sleep that night..
Abeg my people is it that I don't have liver or its a normal thing in guys, but i see guys do wooing anyhow as if it was their calling... let's discuss about it..
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Op most girls form attitude offline. Now social media has made it easier for introverts like you to woo girls. There are millions of girls online.
By the time you ask 5 girls for friendship online. One must agree.
?? Na sugar mummy him dey find ni? Pls put him out of his misery o 