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Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by DaddyGngeess(m): 11:44pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
My brother, what my eyes has seen since I open my hotel..abeg make we just leave that talk shall... everybody go die last last so no need stressing oneself over nothing 7 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by benratigan3(m): 11:44pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Jman06:most marry for the love ,but when their lover's love is lost? what next......? |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by dominique(f): 11:45pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
LadySarah: Don't mind them. For every one woman that abandon her kids, about 750 men does same and we don't create multiple topics to wail. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by chronique(m): 11:45pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Tsam96: I swear! Too many daft and stupid people on this forum. Every little thing, they turn it to a them vs us argument(both men and women guilty of this). They never calm down to understand properly before typing. They are always in a hurry to post a comment and when you check out their lives in the real world, they are full of mistakes here and there just cos they are not patient to analyze issues before forming an opinion. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by seunak2016: 11:46pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
elektra:so because children bear father names means what?apart from bearing father name ,let me tell you because you are kid, woman enjoy children more than father. the truth is before they give their father anything, they must have given their mother a lot. do your research on that and confirm. May God help all those father too. 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by BRATISLAVA: 11:47pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
SBL28: So it's not the man's responsibility to love his children? Just the wife's? Explain to us more the unimportance of fatherhood and yet it's demanding benefits from the world. Have you seen the number of children whose fathers abandoned them? If you did, you will know that fathers have a role in parenting. The excuses made for them are just that-excuses 5 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Deepthoughts: 11:49pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
elektra:lady mind you when things were good the man was responsible but things just went bad beyond his control, it's not that he never cared about his wife when I things were fine with him, don't tell me you are a fare whether character. lloyds: elektra:lady mind you when things were good the man was responsible but things just went bad beyond his control, it's not that he never cared about his wife when I things were fine with him, don't tell me you are a fare whether character.please how was your mother able to sponsor you when your father couldn't n they were married? 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by pacespot(m): 11:49pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Nothing surprises me in this world again because even my life is full of surprises. People take fun in castigating women in Africa a lot, but for every act of infidelity committed by a women, there is at least a man involved. Nigerian men are terrible at dealing with one another, they should fix this problem first before talking about their women. It is unlike this in advanced worlds, men tend to orchestrate and boss over every event around them even though there is a high level of protection over women in those countries. In the course of my years of working with White people, I've built a far better and more productive relationship with White men than their women, but reverse is the case in Nigeria. Women are even smoother to work with in Nigeria than men. Nigerian men should fix these fundamental problems they have rather than talking about women. 7 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by benratigan3(m): 11:49pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
implementing:you that have sense,what kind of a responsible man brings his kid to a brothel? e no get family? no this forum isn't fvcked up,you ARE FVCKED UP.did I exonerate the woman? I gave you assignment, define feminism? if you can't,keep off my mention 8 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 11:50pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
YungJo207: ayam telling you. how guys end up with this type of women is what i don't know! 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by abbey621(m): 11:51pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
NonEthniCITY: Savings encompases many things, don't just put your money in the bank but diversify. Investing in real estate, fixed deposit, stocks etc. The reason lots of white families survive even after a disaster is because they have the gift of foresight. Even when all else fails, purchase life insurance. May we never encounter hard times that would make our children sleep inside brothels....Amen! 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Unrated900(m): 11:55pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
OcVoice: Our ladies this days cannot emulate when the likes of iPhone 7 8 10 and Pro Max is around the corner and every ladies want to acquire Samsung water resistance Where-as our mothers then only send signals through bird to their husband. My brother my advise to people is that rich people don’t give birth more than 2 But the poor man always gives birth to 3 and 5 and 6 They will say every child comes to the world with what they will eat. Where-as they have failed like the lifeless man 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Deepthoughts: 11:57pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Nooil:Aunty continue you hear,go de follow alhaji you hear,safe journey!. 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Unrated900(m): 11:57pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Our ladies this days cannot emulate when the likes of iPhone 7 8 10 and Pro Max is around the corner and every ladies want to acquire Samsung water resistance Where-as our mothers then only send signals through bird to their husband. My brother my advise to people is that rich people don’t give birth more than 2 But the poor man always gives birth to 3 and 5 and 6 They will say every child comes to the world with what they will eat. Where-as they have failed like the lifeless man |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Bahddo(m): 11:57pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
Ganjafama:it's actually womanly. The true nature of women is to love their children and hate other people's children (to the point of extreme physical abuse). It usually starts with verbal abuse. She's just expressing her own hate for all kids that aren't hers. 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Unrated900(m): 12:00am On Feb 17, 2020 |
LadySarah: Curse is every man who cannot provide for his family 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Unrated900(m): 12:00am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Cursed is any man who cannot provide food for his family 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by BRATISLAVA: 12:01am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Koralords: Don't men abandon their families all the time? Why is it such a huge issue when women do it? Is it only men who can be irresponsible, enjoying life to reap the benefits when the children are grown, after their partner has struggled to do it alone? Why can't men take care of their children? Or are they simply sperm donors? 9 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 12:03am On Feb 17, 2020 |
taylor89:Your first point is very true. I always remind people that your spouse is the only family member you are not related to by blood. That’s why I laugh at people that carry marriage on their head like it’s the be all in life. No husband or wife can love you and have your interest at heart like your mother, father, siblings and your children. If doubt me then just wait till you hit rock bottom in this life like the man in this story and see who stands by you till the bitter end. Your wife or your blood relatives. Most marriages these days are for convenience and nothing more. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by implementing: 12:03am On Feb 17, 2020 |
benratigan3:you're the one who mentioned me in the first place idiot, you're just a lady hiding under man moniker, and if you're a man then I'm sorry for you bro, you go dey alright, now go and keep being the woman wrapper you are..you worthless piece of crap and don't mention me again cos I didn't mention you..shame People like you are the nuisance that constitutes the society today, stay off my mentions and don't quote me again cos na you start am All these small small boys in this forum cos you get free data Modified Looking at your profile self I know say you na woman wrapper cos you put your number up asking people to chat you hahaha Senseless piece of shyt 6 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Unrated900(m): 12:04am On Feb 17, 2020 |
chronique: You have forgotten to add that 60% of people who comments on Nairaland are teenagers Hence their typing and compositions are at the back f their brain. Op was only given an instance to what is happening and may be what is to happen if marriage comes into places for some Unprepared morons 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 12:07am On Feb 17, 2020 |
4xplore: evening newspaper is the appropriate term. old cargo?...well maybe it should serve as a synonym. 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Localsex: 12:09am On Feb 17, 2020 |
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Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by lloyds(m): 12:17am On Feb 17, 2020 |
benratigan3: Well, you honestly have a point. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Coolcalmcollect(m): 12:17am On Feb 17, 2020 |
taylor89:lol your parent and siblings love you bah, travel out first and be sending money home for them to help build yoy a house before you conclude on family love bro 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 12:18am On Feb 17, 2020 |
All women exhibit high level selfish traits. No woman is exempted, not even our mothers. This is the knowledge "game" takes advantage of. In game, we understand the affinity between women and men they consider valuable. So what do we do? We improve ourselves and keep improving ourselves in whatever way we can; we tell the women what they want to hear, not necessarily the truth. Women can't cope with the truth. crackkhaus: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Okwyjesus(m): 12:23am On Feb 17, 2020 |
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Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by wany(f): 12:23am On Feb 17, 2020 |
dominique:Puting up with a broke guy is the worst thing that can happen to any woman,his frustration is on you,toxic character,aggression,drunkenness need I mention more.hear the woman side make you fear fear. 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ganjafama: Lol by their language. RUN 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Starz825(m): 12:26am On Feb 17, 2020 |
benratigan3:Fine i realized I sometimes sound like I detest women and I'm quick to judge them....but nah...I am only against inhumane acts be it from a man or a woman |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by chiedozie198100: 12:26am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ganjafama: u nailed it "bloody kids"? anybody that ends up with a woman like that is finished. 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by chubbyswit(m): 12:29am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Juliearth:This comment of yours is oozing with wisdom, may God bless you and keep you seperated from these bunch of confused feminist women. Anything good your heart desires, God will grant them to you. 3 Likes |
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