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Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:21am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ganjafama: I thought I was the only one who noticed that she is agitated or angry I just pray we don't end up dating such a person or even marrying them 5 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:23am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Show me a lady that you don't spend money on and she loves u just like that ,,,,, If u have a sister like dat I don't mind putting a ring on her middle finger today ,,... 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:25am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Pavore9: My brother that man wife don move ahead,, See runz girl na runz girl ,,it's just a matter of time before she goes back to business ,, 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by naijaseeker: 3:29am On Feb 17, 2020 |
We4all: Seriously ? Please, these things happen. You assumed he didn't help her out before she left . The lady is very bad but these things happen . He should be strong. Moral is be careful who you marry 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:30am On Feb 17, 2020 |
proclinician: These are the type of ladies some kids have as mother ,and at old age they start avoiding them ,,,before u know it they will start laying courses on the kid's life ,,,,I kw day pity woman oooo,,,,fuvk them 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:31am On Feb 17, 2020 |
nahzyla:Are you trying to say these things don't happen? 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:34am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Arsenate: Till the world ends that's the last song I will ever play ,,,hisssssss |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by larryking540: 3:36am On Feb 17, 2020 |
greenmonk: Yeah ,,winners and redeem church no day finish with anointing oil to spray on the guys food as holy love portion ,,,, 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by jaxxy(m): 3:56am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: People with low moral values are people with moral values period. Nobody is ment to be anybody's lifetime paycheck in the name of marriage. The only woman that has businesses getting married or worth marrying is a woman of virtue. Sm women hv no business with marriage they Shud stick to sugar daddies. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Chinnnex(m): 4:01am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Sense will not kee you bro!!!!! One of the most reasonable comment so far Acidosis: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Quaddafi29: 4:03am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Leave it or take it, marriage is a dangerous venture. I have ceased advising any body to delve into it particularly with the kind of commercialised ladies we have now. Get your kid or kids somehow and move on. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 4:03am On Feb 17, 2020 |
CharlesCLloyd: I am not a fool. You're the demented one. Go and seek for therapy before you die of depression. slowpoke. 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 4:04am On Feb 17, 2020 |
chubbyswit: I talk from observation. I'm a human being who have lived and seen. I've seen how guys treat the beautiful, average, and ugly. 6 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 4:05am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Deepthoughts: Wasn't referring to myself oga. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by BlongTrendies(f): 4:10am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Hisduchess:Which lies o. Life happens and shit happens. Mine is an example. My mom left my dad when i was 2 years and she was 3 months. He singlehandedly took care of us without remarrying. We are in our 30's now and both married with kids. He is still single. I dont joke with the old man. It was tough. My experience has taught me how to be a great mother and wife. At 18, i went looking for her. She is living her wayward life and not ready to be my mom. She doesnt want to get involved. She has 3 grandchildren. She still doesnt want to get involved. It is well. Many people think my mom is dead. My 3 kids dont know her. Each time i have babies, i always look for who to care for me and my babies in the first 3 weeks. I wonder how a woman will go through pregnancy for 9 months, pass through labour or delivery and post natal stress and you end up dumping the kids. Just because you want to live a free life of adultery and prostitution. . It beats me really. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by ScotMisile: 4:14am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra:Chaiii, they've destroyed this one's heart 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Juliearth(f): 4:36am On Feb 17, 2020 |
chubbyswit: Awwww! All these well wishes for me? I only stated the obvious, but thanks anyways. Amen to your prayers and I wish you the same. 5 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Thunderblasts(m): 4:52am On Feb 17, 2020 |
We4all:When you get married, you can abandon your kids you hear? It's safer to be irresponsible as a Dad than a mum. Those kids will hate you beyond life as a mother when you abandon them. You know why? You as the woman should have been their last hope of survival. You carried them for 9 months and created a bond that shouldn't ever be broken. They didn't suck their father's breasts looking into his eyes all day. They didn't bond that much with him. Am talking from experience here via a relation. Try it and see what those kids will do to you when you try coming back at old age. The kids can forgive their Dad if he tries such but may never forgive their mum completely! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Thunderblasts(m): 4:57am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra:Yeah like your mum was stupid to raise a bloody you!!! Now look at her efforts wasted by raising a bloody brain female!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by kakaG: 4:57am On Feb 17, 2020 |
benratigan3: On the contrary. Obviously a woman that loves her children more wouldn't l leave her kids in such situation. I am not separated with my wife but I sure can tell you most homes break up mainly because of money and especially the wife that becomes disrespectful and unfaithful, eventually she leaves. I dont know how God has kept my home this long but somehow I know it is only because of him my kids still have a mum. For the married one here, observe when there's money how women (wives) sing and dance while carry out home chores vs when money no de God help 5 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by SoNature(m): 5:03am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra: When I see some ladies nowadays, I just know that marriage isn't what it used to be. When I read comments from you here, I pity that man you will end up with tomorrow. Please don't get married no matter how much you are pressured. I understand that guys are often obsessed with a lady's beauty without paying attention to her entrenched convictions and principles. I will leave you with the words of a man full of wise words: "A Man is never successful until he makes a good choice of a wife." I can tell: I don't need to meet you to know that any man you marry tomorrow is practically FINISHED May your type never cross the paths of people I know...Amen! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Trendishine: 5:04am On Feb 17, 2020 |
ikennamadu1:The girl, fountain watever, is shameless. Its gonna destroy her or anyone around her. If its what she is. I pity many gender war fighting girls on this forum. What men should learn is as you read thru many statements of many of them here, you now begin to know there is something fundamentally wrong with many of them these days. Then , as a mattar of fact, you would know what you would do to avoid or repel these set of teaming Jezebels you observe these days, especially on this forum or social media, no matter how they pretend in real life. A test or two will expose them. And once you sense, don't think twice in taking a very fast decision without looking back. Some girls these days are up to something...don't be deceived , they don't know where they are in a particular age, when its clear, the kind of shame then sef would not allow them say anything about where or what their stupidity had put them into. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by ignis: 5:13am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Abomination |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Trendishine: 5:25am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Mayor101010:I bet you |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Martinez39s(m): 5:25am On Feb 17, 2020 |
We4all:What a heartless woman you are. I am sure that if the genders were reversed and a man abandoned his wife and kids, you would victimise the women and call the man a dead beat and pig. 6 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by bigiyaro(m): 5:27am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Landnaira5:just wake up and face reality. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Ladycewhy(f): 5:29am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Arsenate:lol if we should take a cencus of cold hearted dead beat fathers I am sure you will be overwhelmed by the figures . You men just can't take what you dish. What else will you say again? Oh women are devils women are the reason the sun is too hot , women are the reason for Corona virus . Las Las una go dey alright,this is the modern world ,if you want to continue with the old dynamics ,go sit in the grave with your forefathers ,ain't no more slave and master relationship,what is good for the goose is good for the gander . Shey he will be the one to collect bride price in the future,well let him work for it now while they are young ,that "whole abandon kids come back when they are grown to reap where you did not sow and collect bride price" is so played out,I guess the lady wanted to change the narrative, 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by bigiyaro(m): 5:34am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Juliearth:this is not paranoia of any kind, its the real actual fact, it does not keep you from loving your wife or treating her right, infact this mental knowledge keeps your focus clear and straight. When wify misbehaves it doesn't depress nor hurt you, like the guy that hanged himself over a babe he sponsored to school that later jilted him. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by BreconHills(m): 5:49am On Feb 17, 2020 |
We4all: He is parenting. And nowhere does the piece say only a woman can parent. I think you are reading things into this that arent there. The wife probably left the children with the man precisely because she knows he will put his all into it. Women rarely abandon their children to their fate. She may have someone keeping tabs on the situation. What the writer is bemoaning is the womans departure from the home because of greener pastures. Lack of resources is no reason to leave a marriage -"thats why we take those vows! The man is doing ok. Where I suspect he is missing it is that he seems to be in stand by mode - probably waiting for some sort of reapproachment with his wife. My advice is to forget her, get on with his life and reconstitute his family team. There are tons of women who will come into this situation and do a lot better. He should stop feeling sorry for himself. He may have just dodged a bullet in old age. The idea that having had children condemns you to a life of loneliness is not true. 4 Likes |
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