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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Originalsly: 3:23pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: Hmmm.... I learn something new today! The girl has been showing her true colours..... can you change the stripes of a tiger? Move on bro. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: Uncle you're the problem here, you don't tell a girl who is going through so much cuz of a pregnancy you're responsible for to just suck it up and bear the shame. Like it or not people will talk and it won't be you they'll be pointing accusing fingers at. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga:Even Sigmund Freud will not be able to solve anger problems in some ladies!! Don't try to medicalize this trait in her... All she need is someone crazier than her . Someone that can send shiver down her spine with more craze.. That is the type of guy that should marry her ... You are not that guy OP.. Japa, Japa..... 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Jim99: 3:30pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
eni4real: God bless you for this. I know of a friend who had the same issue with his wife. Today he's late, he died from HBP. I learnt my lesson from him Violence is the only answer. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:31pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Jim99:You too bruh |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by woleabayo(f): 3:32pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
i will advice you to just cut off the relationship now that its still good i did not pray for your untimely death brother she might wake up in the night one day and do something stupid or nasty . for the sake of the unborn baby just let your people no your reason and tell them you are collecting the baby but not the mother ... i rule against abortion too |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by iLegendd(m): 3:32pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: Thanks for clearing the air. I was really upset at first after reading it. This is the reason I never make women my girlfriends. They stay in the friend zone and work on themselves as I observe their behaviors. See the chat below. That is how you treat women. Don't take nonsense. When they put you on suspense, warn them. When they cheat, dump them. When they insult you or your parents, dump them. When they demand money, warn them and dump them. The white/Asian women I have been with don't demand even a cent, so Nigerian women should take their time with the way they demand. They should only demand when they meet nice guys or stupid richmen, not people like us wey know whatsup. And the greatest of all, let them stay in the friend zone forever until you have money or ready to finally settle down. I have lots of women in my friendzone and I'm happily single with no single relationship issues. You people that commit to relationships are the ones who always put yourself in trouble. Women love a mysterious guy they chase to trap, but he never yields. The day he yields, the chase stops and they lose the spark and start cheating and getting angry at everything. Men need to understand women physically and psychologically if they want a lasting relationship or marriage. Failure to do this, you'll cry at last or become depressed from the way they'll torment you. I like women and I'll never want anyone to harm them, but I'll always tell everyone the truth as usual and the truth is: women are mini-Devils and they love to torment men. For a man to stand, you must first of all be a real man and learn how these mini-Devils operate. Just the same way a pastor takes his time to learn how the real Devil operates by reading the Bible regularly. Can you tell me one pastor who has NEVER read the Bible since he was born, but has been on pulpit preaching the word of God from year to year as he quotes Bible verses? None. This is to say, for you to understand mini-Devils, you need to read Alpha Male Relationship Bibles. If you can't read, you can't pass. A lot of men ignore the basics/fundamental and head straight to the details and this is why they usually fail in money making, financial management, and relationship management. As I always say, there are 3 essential skills all men MUST learn or suffer and they are 1. How to handle women skill 2. How to make money skill 3. How to manage money skill Let me drop my pen before I end up writing a long reply because I have a lot to say, but don't want to say it yet. Look at the chat I had yesterday below and you'll see the authority and leadership in it as she begs to know where she stands which I'll never tell her. 5 Likes
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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Orubebe01: 3:33pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Shibaraba:
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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Victoronah1: 3:33pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Davash222:people that marry others out of pity are usually rich and have future ambition. Just look at the ops post, unemployed and staying at home and he can't even do anything about it yet the modafacka want to give birth to a child to come to this country and drink garri with groundnut. 6 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:38pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ardar: Even before the pregnancy she has been ruthless and anger driven I know anger of pregnancy from anger of stupidity don't defend her can u advise ur brother to marry a lady that insults ur parent and inflct bite wounds and slap u cos shes preggy |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: I should not defend her but I should defend you? When they say use protection while fvcking, una no go hear. Abort now, no. Now you've been caged with pregnancy and looking for who will defend you. She was behaving like that before the pregnancy yet you still stuck with her, you are still at fault here. If na me, I for don japa since. I can't deal. 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:47pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ardar: I dont need your defense I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:49pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: Stop aggravating her, sometimes you need to compromise knowing fully well that she's volatile. Endure o, after all you saw the signs earlier. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Victoronah1: 3:50pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga:young man go and make money. Look at how you confidently come online and post that you're unemployed and about to have a baby. You should be ashamed of yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:52pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ardar: I actually didn't she was peaceful and calm for almost 6 month nd people that knew her confirmed this ,, we do quarel tho but am always the one with the anger issues then But u see that anger that will make u do stupid things thats where the problem is |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by makydebbie(f): 3:52pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Shibaraba: Same here. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:54pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Victoronah1: I am doing my best,iam not lazy, you just know the Nigeria we are now Plus we all make mistakes in life no one is perfect |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by jasman1: 3:58pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Wow! Today’s generation don’t mind breading bastards, even their parents could careless |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by smogia: 4:10pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Shibaraba:you are indeed a mad man i don laugh tire |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Kobicove(m): 4:40pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: You girlfriend threw a stone at you and your did nothing? Dem never born the woman wey go stone me and get away with it! 3 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 4:50pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
eni4real: Me, making money for girls ke? It just makes me feel happy with myself and when I am happy, I wanna have something to press. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Duru009(m): 4:53pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
If you marry that girl, you will be totally unhappy for the rest of your live.... Be warmed !! 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Elina123(f): 5:36pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Hmmm this is exactly the same issue with my man's ex. The girl is over controling, has anger issues and insults parents at her will. Thank God my man ran away after 3 years of endurance with her character. Well I am even thinking ur girlfriend is my man's ex with ur story Diligentnigga: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by LordKO(m): 5:43pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
@OP Citing your submissions, she has neither moral nor psychological nor intelligence deficiency; instead she has emotional deficiency (low emotional quotient). This means she can never help herself much, no amount of therapy/counselling can heal her completely, so bulk of the work is on your desk. You can bring the best out of her if you can effectively become tactically unassuming - and she'll forever remain loyal in particular and faithful in general to you. This is with the believe that both of you truly love each other/have altruistic interest towards each other as you stated. However, if you can't embrace the above, it'll be better you cut ties with her completely because acts of disingenuousness and/or imperiousness towards her will only make her condition worse and will put you in more danger in relating with her. And no matter what you do, eschew the idea of taking battle to her in her own coin, not because you're weaker than her, no, but because she doesn't act wittingly - remember emotional deficiency is different from psychological deficiency and she cannot match you physically. Either of you'll kill each other with weapon, should you decide to take to anger like her. As bad as her deficiency is, it's still better than moral and psychological deficiencies. You only need to master the art of handling her, provided you're certain that she loves you/has altruistic interest towards you and vice versa. Meanwhile, if she has more than emotional deficiency, that's if she has emotional deficiency in addition to either moral (this in particular) or psychological deficiency, then don't bother to make the sacrifice of managing/bettering her at all for the sake of your sanity in particular and life in general. 4 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Wtfork: 5:51pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
eni4real: Very hot one oh. Shey she don start with stones ( what nonsense ) |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by ednut1(m): 5:54pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
the one na doom |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by shiwex: 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: Start to dey pack your bags.......... |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Pay her off and take your child or leave her with the child. If you don't have money man you are a major fvck up. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by keleman992000(m): 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
`Bros i will advice you to check if that baby is yours. besides if you living with your parents then plan to move out. finally you said you are unemployed and you having a pregnant girl friend. hmmm go and hustle oooo. |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by donprinyo(m): 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Na hormone |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Great! But her pvsssy was not stubborn when you were pounding her, rasing her legs up and smashing her from behind. Her Pvssy wasn't stubborn when you were pouring all your Akamu inside. My brother, you bought what you wanted. Carry your cross. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Xisnin(m): 5:58pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Diligentnigga: I thought having a baby mama is a perfect thing to do and married people are the ones suffering? Since you are not married, why are you complaining? She thinks you have ruined her future. Some people are advising you not to marry her as if it will make any difference. Here is the bitter truth, whether you marry her or not is irrelevant. Unless you decide to forgo that baby, there is a big problem ahead of you. |
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