Bros if this story is true, please and please walk away from that relationship as soon as she gives birth. I am suffering from the same thing now.
As I am dropping msg here am already planning to go and see her father so as to tell them am not doing again.

I almost fell for a trap like this last year. Marriage was out of the options then, infact I told her to keep the child but auntie refused because we were both unemployed and she also said she cannot stand the shame. She did the abortion with her money but later came back with full war to retrieve the money she spent on it.. baba, use ur head o be wise. These days women kill more than men. I am of the suspicion that shekau is actually a woman disguised as a man

The[qLife author=Diligentnigga post=86717938]Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.[/quote]

Diligentnigga:


December 15

Haa, they are naturally angry people o. Their men own worse. But try treating her with respect. Don't shout at her, speak softly when talking to her and she will reason with you. Respect is the key word with saggitarus people.

Also try and upgrade by getting a job or learning a skill and earning with it. No woman likes a jobless man, not even old women.

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Bro my advice, if you accept the pregnant always have it at the back of your mind no way for marriage,
In short the Mother know what shes capable off so they want you to just carry away the burden for them,
You have your own life and destiny to fulfil. Don't let your matter end with a touching story
If you are alive thats when you can achieve something, a dead rat no fit piss inside garri

Op won't understand until he gets married. That spirit that is blocking your eyes from seeing these issues and clogging your ears from listening to all these advises will disappear on its own after wedding. At that point, you can't run away again. You fell in love with her because u met her in a particular geographical location. Change your location after she puts to bed and see if you won't move on with life. Anger is danger in disguise

Olalan:
You knew about her toxic personality yet you went ahead to get her pregnant, for two years you tolerated shit all in the name of love or probably her beauty boosted your ego among friends.
Do well to inform her family about her toxic behaviour and maybe take her to see a psychologist

Psychologist?? The guy doesn’t have a job....

The[qLife author=Diligentnigga post=86717938]Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.[/quote]the most dangerous thing after hellfire is a wrong marriage. Accidental pregnancy shouldn't lead to marriage. Repent from your sins and run for your dear life, its either she kills you when you get married or you kill her. Flee

Nooil:


Haa, they are naturally angry people o. Their men own worse. But try treating her with respect. Don't shout on her, speak softly when talking to her and she will reason with you. Respect is the key word with saggitarus people.

Also try and upgrade by getting a job or learning a skill and earning with it. No woman likes a jobless man, not even old women.

Don’t shout, respect, speak softly, worship her, even lick her feet because she was born in December....

Life na once better flee...no be her be first baby mama and no be her go be last.



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Nooil:


Haa, they are naturally angry people o. Their men own worse. But try treating her with respect. Don't shout on her, speak softly when talking to her and she will reason with you. Respect is the key word with saggitarus people.

Also try and upgrade by getting a job or learning a skill and earning with it. No woman likes a jobless man, not even old women.

Lol..na horoscope u dey use analyse the sister matter now .
Hahaha... U try..
Saggies are naturally angry..... I hear you..
But your advise to him, I think is a good one.

As her mum keeps encouraging you to continue with the relationship, let your mum too start preparing your funeral.

Y did u impregnate her in the first place? If u abandon her now that you've discovered that she's got bad temper, who will take care of the bastard? That's how u guys litter the country with morally bankrupt bastards that are now causing mayhem in the country because of poor upbringing.

Diligentnigga:


Thanks alot

Yes u are right shes preety and intelligent a 4pointer cgpa in school even at that

I have informed her family about this though
Her mum has always been d one advising me on how to treat her when shes angry that she knows her too

i shield some of her insults of my parents from my family so they won't hate her

don't fool by her brain, do you want to die? Run now.

When stabs you to death. Probably you will be regretting it from hell.

Run for your dear life

when you were planning to pump, you didn't come here to ask if it is good to pump someone that is toxic and have anger issue oo

biko, park well.

Diligentnigga:


Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

Those men that were murdered by their toxic wives must have also been told by their mothers in law to be a man and be calm.and understand the wives......until their wives stabbed them to death.

Bro, you will be making a life long mistake if you marry that girl. You won't be marrying the mother in law; you will be marrying the toxic girl.

How are u sure you are the father of her unborn baby..even if you are ,her charactter is abnormal and leave her to go her way and learn in a hard way. Never tolerate nonzensible fellow due to accidental pregnancy

Nooil:


Haa, they are naturally angry people o. Their men own worse. But try treating her with respect. Don't shout on her, speak softly when talking to her and she will reason with you. Respect is the key word with saggitarus people.

Also try and upgrade by getting a job or learning a skill and earning with it. No woman likes a jobless man, not even old women.

Western Astrology is a joke, Indian astrology/numerology is more accurate and precise.

A lot of people see signs why dating, but d choose to ignore it and move on to marriage all in d name of idiomatic love. Na dem go still post for social media how der wife stab them. Marry better girls like us, una no go gree. Na d one wey go kill una, una dey run go meet. Mtcheeeewwwww

Diligentnigga:


I saw it ooo.
But people are always like she will change infact her mum likes me alot and she has even been d driving factor to me believing she will change

Marriage doesn't change people. Keep that in mind

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Shey u re seeing tonto dike and olakunle gist online?

What do you want us to tell you? You knew all her threats but you refused to let go of her. Whatever you think is good for you, do it. It is between you and God.

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Diligentnigga:


She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway

If you marry that kind of woman, you will be forced to become the kind of man you despise.

Girls like that deserve to be alone.

You think her mother likes you? Hahaha. You will soon understand.

Last warning. Whatever you do, don’t marry that girl. Don’t let her live in the same house with you.

You will understand when the baby arrives. I hope your eyes will be opened to see that she is not the kind of woman who would give a man the peace of mind that allows him to focus on things that will make him successful.

rawfact:


You're right. She won't really change by herself. You are the only one that can change her but that would make you a woman beater for sometime, and might end up quenching/draining the love, if there is real love between the both of you.

As hard as it is to say, some ladies need strong handling. This lady of yours is one of them. No two ways about it. Such a lady is not the type a man would pledge not to lay hands on. That pledge would be null and void in the face of stark reality except the relationship or marriage is dissolved. That is why such is better done by her dad, who can't be really be alleged for domestic violence or the relationship is ended if her dad can't do nothing.

But don't rush to conclusions because she is 21 (immature) and also pregnant (hormonal imbalance) but caution her with a very stern face and harsh tone never ever to repeat that shit (public disgrace/violence).

Meanwhile, stop being too caring for now so that above message can really sink in to her. Also be unavailable for weeks too. This is your way of slapping sense into her brain without lifting a finger. Whenever you come around, she will sheepishly be giving you more love, care and attention above the child in her womb.

Finally, in as much as your mum is obviously glad to receive a grandchild (maybe her first) and wouldn't mind being her spokesperson or influence over you, ensure you don't make yourself "mummy's boy". Be a man and ensure you accomplish each phase of what you are doing in your lady and never let her successfully manipulate you through your mum.

Very observative.. This plan is in motion already,,she once cried knowing fully well she needed help

I plan on staying away from her for days if not weeks.. And it will really take a strong man to deal with those kind of women and as soon as her head is cool,, she will go see a therapist or counsellor

Ogediluv:
A lot of people see signs why dating, but d choose to ignore it and move on to marriage all in d name of idiomatic love. Na dem go still post for social media how der wife stab them. Marry better girls like us, una no go gree. Na d one wey go kill una, una dey run go meet. Mtcheeeewwwww

Hahaha.... This cracked me up @ marry better girls like us..
Are u really this funny..

Stay with her till child birth after that please run for your life... To avoid d news headline final year students stab unemployed graduate....

Diligentnigga:


She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway

Do not continue with that union. It will never work out. Let her know your reasons, and also let your familynlnow. This is the time to call it suits. You should have done that though, before you guys even got pregnant, and you should have used protection too.

Diligentnigga:


Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

Dear bro,
The truth is simple that u actually know that this lady will destroy your life but u are having guilty conscience because of the baby involved. I will tell u that u are no use to your unborn baby dying prematurely by marrying that woman. She wont change rather will probably get worse cos during courtship women pretend so well so whatever bad character you are seeing is the pretence of the main bad character so imagine what her real bad character looks like.

The biggest pointer to a disaster is that the mom is shouting at her and packaging you to take her problem away from her by marrying a daughter she didnt train well. Bros look at the mama deeply and after a few enquiries u will see that the mom has the same character if not worse.

Dont run for your life.....fleeeeee for it. The way men have been brutally attacked and killed by women is so alarming but the saddest part is that so many have been
Poisoned, nagged, or even suffocated in their sleep while so many succumbed to death by their wives for so ma y years.

I don't wish you bad bro but if u marry this girl.........the future might be scary...

Also pray and ask God for direction but that babe get K and t leg at the same time.

Diligentnigga:


Lol iam, shes not a wayward lady, infact i brought her out of her shell and she lost her virginity to me

Her mum has been very supportive and infact has been a second mum to me,,you wont understand bro but all i need is a solution that will curb the anger issh... Thats her only problem in life.. No human is perfect sir

Maybe prayer is what you both need. She's not a bad person but always finding herself not able to control her anger. With prayer and anger management class, I guess everything will be alright.