Eleru gbe eru e.Na ur load wa gbe.

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

smiliyB:
Maybe prayer is what you both need. She's not a bad person but always finding herself not able to control her anger. With prayer and anger management class, I guess everything will be alright.

Anger management class? MADEA 101?

Diligentnigga:


Very observative.. This plan is in motion already,,she once cried knowing fully well she needed help

I plan on staying away from her for days if not weeks.. And it will really take a strong man to deal with those kind of women and as soon as her head is cool,, she will go see a therapist or counsellor

What is her date of birth and what is yours. i want to do an astrology compatibility on the both of you
NB any other person who writes me for this test you must drop money into my zenith akant. i no get time

orunmila144:
What is her date of birth and what is yours. i want to do an astrology compatibility on the both of you
NB any other person who writes me for this test you must drop money into my zenith akant. i no get time

March 30th mine
December 15th hers

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

You dnt av a means to take care of a child and you went and impregnated her?? First offense...

Second offense which will be future action you will take.....


Imagine marrying her nw how will she behave??

Less stubborn or more stubborn....

1StopRudeness:


Don’t shout, respect, speak softly, worship her, even lick her feet because she was born in December....

Lol. I know what I'm saying. I've dealt with saggis, my brother is one, my cousin also. But my cousin is a female, hers is less. So I know what I'm saying.

bro why you come hold her phone when u no that u never pay her bride price ? na you make her angry .even thought you love her how can you be so sure the pregnancy is yours?
anyway you better iron things out with her and take her to her mummy if they like you they will help you get a better job.i wander why poor people like to give girl belle first before they look for work .

person no get work preeq de hard na wa o..

bad business prolly?

duchaB:


Anger management class? MADEA 101?

I don't really know what to tell Op nah...let him try and be there for the girl. You already taken her most precious gift, who do he want to pass her to nah. At least op will be proud of one thing shall...

duchaB:


Lol..na horoscope u dey use analyse the sister matter now .
Hahaha... U try..
Saggies are naturally angry..... I hear you..
But your advise to him, I think is a good one.

Aside horoscope, I know some sagis and it's an inherent trait, especially when they feel disrespected. Op has disrespected her in lots of ways.

proclinician:


Oga ur imes or obatala no de cum again?

I feel your painbro, a woman can make life difficult for any man. All I will advise you is to try and get your act together. Once you do that, she will respect you naturally

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

you are a big fool ,she use to insult your parent and you still move ahead to impregnate her rubbish

@op you haven't done much concerning her weakness, try and help her out. Then see it'll work or not. One thing I know for sure, prayer can change many things. Love is a verb(action is needed).

Diligentnigga:


March 30th mine
December 15th hers

Oh, you're Aries? Lol. The proud man met his match and now he is scared. Better stick to her, una fit unaself.

See what you brought upon yourself bro, you knew her with aggressive and nagging attitude in fact you are aware she fight your mom and your siblings yet you went ahead d with the relationship till she got pregnant, you really made mistakes bro I won't lie

Diligentnigga:


March 30th mine
December 15th hers

i need the year of birth too so i can pull up your natal chart and look at your spiritual programs and hers

Diligentnigga:


Thanks Daddy ☺
She loves me though never cheated on me infact shes caring, neat, she cooks well but her only problem in life in anger and her anger can do stupid things

Shes intelligent and smart too,, i fell in love for the intelligence and not really cos shes preety cos i have dated gurls preetier than her

Shes 21 though

U be mumu and big fool...until she stabbed you to death abi?

You are seeing the signs already..yet u are talking about intelligent

Last week, a lady stabbed her man to death.
It's a trending news on Instagram..do you remember the pdp former chairman son that was stabbed in Abuja by his wife? Same age bracket with your wife..
Since u dont value your life, do you want your mother to cry? And will nurture your baby?

Wise up and be a man..take a walk and support your child when she finally deliver.

Almunjid:


Western Astrology is a joke, Indian astrology/numerology is more accurate and precise.

Well, I don't know about that. I'm talking from my observations.

Diligentnigga:


Thanks Daddy ☺
She loves me though never cheated on me infact shes caring, neat, she cooks well but her only problem in life in anger and her anger can do stupid things

Shes intelligent and smart too,, i fell in love for the intelligence and not really cos shes preety cos i have dated gurls preetier than her

Shes 21 though

such girls no dey cheat, but u go hear am

If you listen to all this advice aside Olalan's advice then you are a fool.He made mention of taking her to see a psycolopsych and is the right thing to do since you claimed you love her.
You have courted for two consecutive years and you know all this yet you went ahead to pregnant her. What does it really show .
And yet you don't think that her condition most have triggered her anger more and the fact that she is still in school couped with you not fianacially balance.
I know some couples that whenever they are expecting a baby they will be fighting as if they are caused but after childbirth everything will go back to normal.
If you claim you love her then you have to help out cause she needs help , maybe seeing her as a normal person but she is not normal psychologically .

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

The problem is you.

you don't have a job, and u put her in the family way. She is simply frustrated. She might be in love with you, deep down she is frustrated about your condition.

If u have a stable job with income, she will run u PDA and flaunt u at any given moment.

oga go and get a job, brainstorm on little business or craft u can do to get someone's one naira legally everyday, pregnancy no be child's play, not to talk of when u guys are expecting another person to add up to the frustration.

I don't know how u guys reach a decision of bringing kids without stable income. It's naturally unfair to the unborn child.

Diligentnigga:


March 30th mine
December 15th hers

bros she is a fire sign sagittarius. women under this sign are warriors in past life and battle-axes in this life. you know when thy say a woman is a battle axe that means she is a balls breaker. you also are a fire sign so you too will have small temper but her temper and desire to break your balls surpasses the little anger you think you have. this one will kill you unless you submit wholeheartedly to her and be her bitch ( excuse my french )

XullySwt:

What's funny?

Who's cumming from ur own side?

Perhaps someone might have warned you about the relationship but love didn't let you see road clearly. Well, Daniel saw the writing on the wall and obeyed it. Sir, leave the girl cos the writing on the wall is too obvious to ignore.

bro u nor get money,u never get job,she never graduate,she nor get money,yet you got her pregnant,now you are complaning.
You forget say na Naija we dey and na Buhari dey rule.Bros na OYO for you oh...GO AND LEARN DISCIPLINE ,FORSIGHT AND PRATICAL WISDOM.OTHERWISE POVERTY IS AT THE DOOR KNOCKING HARD.

Dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall. Use your tongue to count your teeth.. Brother run for your life......

Nooil:


Oh, you're Aries? Lol. The proud man met his match and now he is scared. Better stick to her, una fit unaself.

You're not wrong about your comment about the saggitarian. You're spot on. I love Jen for friendships though. I hope you also consider that astrological compatibility doesn't necessarily mean personal compatibility though?


If you need spare hands for your gigs, reply my PM

am I too old fashion or what? the title should be my Ex after the insult to your parents
abeg let me go watch man u and chelsea

smiliyB:
I don't really know what to tell Op nah...let him try and be there for the girl. You already taken her most precious gift, who do he want to pass her to nah. At least op will be proud of one thing shall...

Yes.. I think it will be good for him not to abandon her at such a time. But he must also look out for the preservation of his own life. Remember she does stupid things when angry..
Let her not use uncontrollable anger to kill him..

Davash222:
No be every woman wey get belle for man dem marry.
Never marry such woman!
She's carrying your child, no doubt, but please don't marry that girl out of pity.
She'll be kind, caring and loving to you from now henceforth, but, please don't fall for all these gimmicks.
If you truly value your life, don't marry that girl!

Did u say no doubt

I feel your pains bro. My only advice for you is to MAKE MONEY so you can cater for your child and your baby mama. a nagging and arrogant wife will send any man to his early grave...

Diligentnigga:


March 30th mine
December 15th hers

You are both members of the same family- Fire element signs.
Saggies are usually good with air ppl like Gemini..
But this astrological compatibilities arent absolute..
Dead ppl get along with their fellow dead..
Its a matter of personality defects amd karma than astrology.