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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by nadia808: 6:59pm On Feb 24, 2020
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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Evercurious(f): 7:00pm On Feb 24, 2020
tsdarkside:


i tell you....what he did was completly wrong....
and dont forget other ladies are watching too....

if you can threat their kind like this because of a simple no,then you are not marriage material....

Hmmm.are you for real? Woman go.control you well.well. I don see am finish

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by jaxxy(m): 7:01pm On Feb 24, 2020
nick50:
sex is a two way thing..nobody is doing the other a favor ..na sweet me sweet u

It shud be bt that Depends on the dynamics of the relationship I think. Lol
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Evercurious(f): 7:03pm On Feb 24, 2020
Sofia01:

Why would you do that to someone you love?

Error. Its someone that takes you for granted.. Invariably calling you a MUMU

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by KenModi(m): 7:03pm On Feb 24, 2020
Romanoff:
All those things doesn't take away the rejection now.

He sthould have stated his mission before buying those things na so if she's not in line with his plan, she'd not take the gifts.

Yes as if you were there when they started dating

He should have written it on paper with black or blue pen and she would sign and he would sign too, in the presence of two witnesses.

State mission kee you dia!! As if she is a child. If you don’t have the intention of committing to a guy, then don’t accept his gifts and always object when he wants to spend on you.

All these thieves and hoes!!

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by bumi10(m): 7:06pm On Feb 24, 2020
Oboy


Women get mind die


She fit be say she don marry o or she get another fiance come the fool this guy.
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by luminouz(m): 7:18pm On Feb 24, 2020
tsdarkside:


i tell you....what he did was completly wrong....
and dont forget other ladies are watching too....

if you can threat their kind like this because of a simple no,then you are not marriage material....

Jesu...what kind of sìmp are you?


The stuff may be scripted though grin
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Oovi5(f): 7:23pm On Feb 24, 2020
Salatavor:
just saw your picture, my penis is saying hi. grin

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by luminouz(m): 7:26pm On Feb 24, 2020
Evercurious:


Hmmm.are you for real? Woman go.control you well.well. I don see am finish

I'm sure you're not a lady...most Naija babes no dey reason like u oh...your comments on this thread surprised me


Who are u gangan? grin


N.B: dont mind the men who were yakking in support of that girl...na beta cucks(SIMPs) full NL na..dem want likes using alternates so women go say dem be nice guys grin

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 24, 2020
AfroKnight:
She had the audacity to collect his gifts and tell him no? The truth is the guy owns those items. If she has any dignity she would reject the gifts of a man she cannot settle down with.

He didn’t do anything wrong.

If you can reject him publicly then you can refund in public too.

Hmm
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Goalnaldo(m): 7:41pm On Feb 24, 2020
[quote author=Oovi5 post=86924996][/quote] see as I dey laff here grin
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Nobody: 7:42pm On Feb 24, 2020
luminouz:



Lol...I like what he did though.

Naah...

There's no point embarrassing the girl.

The babe is even doing him a favour sef.

A girl whose loyalty can be bought will say yes.

Then another guy will buy her a car and she'll dump you.

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by luminouz(m): 7:51pm On Feb 24, 2020
FrLukas:


Naah...

There's no point embarrassing the girl.

The babe is even doing him a favour sef.

A girl whose loyalty can be bought will say yes.

Then another guy will buy her a car and she'll dump you.

But the girl can embarasss him and get away with it?

Thats the whole point na. What's good for the Goose is good for the gander.

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by OChimex: 8:02pm On Feb 24, 2020
AfroKnight:
She had the audacity to collect his gifts and tell him no? The truth is the guy owns those items. If she has any dignity she would reject the gifts of a man she cannot settle down with.

He didn’t do anything wrong.

If you can reject him publicly then you can refund in public too.

What about sex the girl gave him?... Those sexs have already paid for the shoes and food.
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Nobody: 8:04pm On Feb 24, 2020
luminouz:


But the girl can embarasss him and get away with it?

Thats the whole point na. What's good for the Goose is good for the gander.

How can you be dating a girl for years or months and you don't know whether she wants to marry you or not?

I always laugh at guys who make a public spectacle of themselves and get shamed in the end.

You been dating a girl and you can't tell if she'll accept your ring or not?

If you aren't 100% sure, what's wrong with proposing in private?

Truth is, the girl may even be interested in marrying him but may be an introvert and hates that kind of public display. Panic attack may make her say no and walk away.

The guy na mumu.

I wonder what's wrong with guys these days.

That was how one went to kneel down and propose to his girl right in church during the wedding of another guy while the couple were on the altar, just about to be joined together.

Serious embarrassment for the guy and his girl when they were stopped by the pastor.

Collecting back shoes and food there even makes it worse for the guy.

I'm sure the girl will be thanking her lucky stars that she dodged a bullet.

Buying a pair of shoes and food to entice a girl to marry you?? Frankly I'd feel insulted too if I was the girl.

In other words, he's saying that the girl is worth a pair of shoes and a plate of food.

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by ise82(m): 8:07pm On Feb 24, 2020
Correct guy... Naija guys don Dey wake up small. Nice1. If I see this guy I will dash him something.
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Nobody: 8:10pm On Feb 24, 2020
OChimex:


What about sex the girl gave him?... Those sexs have already paid for the shoes and food.

Sex the girl gave him??

Why are u making sex sound like a bottle of coke?
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by lexxyrule(m): 8:10pm On Feb 24, 2020
IamPatriotic:
I won't watch the video, because the story could have been scripted. However, if it turns out to be true, I congratulate the lady for dodging "a weapon of mass destruction". A guy that would do that to his girlfriend is not worth being a "side hustle", let alone a husband.

You're not just been one-sided. I'm sure you're not in either of ds couple shoe.

Let's ask ourselves this questions. Yes the guy has temper, why was she digging him? You cant marry him, why wait till he proposes and not quit? She's freaking comfortable with his money but not his love? I say the guy is a scam and if I were to be the guy, though I might not act this way but I'll deal with her seriously

Kudos to the guy anyway, the shame goes bothways now
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by highbeakay(m): 8:19pm On Feb 24, 2020
OgbanjeProphet:
I stand firmly with that guy biko.

If you don't like him, don't accept his gifts.

If na me, I for collect the cloths join grin


Good bless you for us
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by highbeakay(m): 8:19pm On Feb 24, 2020
lexxyrule:


You're not just been one-sided. I'm sure you're not in either of ds couple shoe.

Let's ask ourselves this questions. Yes the guy has temper, why was she digging him? You cant marry him, why wait till he proposes and not quit? She's freaking comfortable with his money but not his love? I say the guy is a scam and if I were to be the guy, though I might not act this way but I'll deal with her seriously

Kudos to the guy anyway, the shame goes bothways now


God bless you my person
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Tonyfx: 8:20pm On Feb 24, 2020
Olalan:
The guy must be very hot tempered........can't even blame the lady for not accepting his proposal just maybe his actions behind closed doors is wack.
BTW who brought this public proposal thing to naija sef.......me see it as nonsense we copy oyibo proposal but can't copy the way they love each other deeply

What are you saying? If the guy wack behind closed doors why didn't she breakup with him instead of instead of deceiving him to continue eating his money.
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Organs(m): 8:25pm On Feb 24, 2020
supercase1:

U aren't getting it,if it were to be the girl will she have left the things for the guy? so it's not a matter of been rich or poor a girl can use a guy in different ways u may see it as nothing but she would see u as a maga(mumu) that's women for you.


Bros, you always judge from your own behaviour. Babe or the other person can do anyhow but how about you as a guy man? Now, i ask you, if your sister asks you if she should date this same guy, what will you advise her?
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by AfroKnight: 8:30pm On Feb 24, 2020
Exodora:
[s]

Who broke your heart , is time you move on guy. Marriage is not by force these are the major reasons we have divorce case.No need to compromise , if you can't cope with someone go straight instead of wasting their time and bringing up kids together just to separate at the end.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage[/s]


Mumu talk. Your assumption shows how shallow your reasoning is. A person doesn’t need to have a personal experience to have an opinion. The items belong to the buyer. It is poverty, greed and a disgusting sense of entitlement that prevents you from refusing gifts or refunding them.

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by ochiosa(m): 8:32pm On Feb 24, 2020
If there anything wrong with the man that thing should also be wrong with his money �. I love the way it ended both go home with public disgrace..
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by ochiosa(m): 8:33pm On Feb 24, 2020
If there anything wrong with the man that thing should also be wrong with his �. I love the way it ended both go home with public disgrace..
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by theManOfGod(m): 8:34pm On Feb 24, 2020
I like the lady. The young man's reaction sums up all she will suffer if their relationship ends up in marriage. The lady is not the problem, let our friend adjust himself

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Exodora: 8:42pm On Feb 24, 2020
AfroKnight:



Mumu talk. Your assumption shows how shallow your reasoning is. A person doesn’t need to have a personal experience to have an opinion. The items belong to the buyer. It is poverty, greed and a disgusting sense of entitlement that prevents you from refusing gifts or refunding them.

Refund him ? Will he also refund her .Why do people like you think is only guys that spend during relationship.
Shallow my reasoning is ? You see I will not allow you walk through my mind with your dirty feet! Period !
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by luminouz(m): 8:44pm On Feb 24, 2020
FrLukas:


How can you be dating a girl for years or months and you don't know whether she wants to marry you or not?

I always laugh at guys who make a public spectacle of themselves and get shamed in the end.

You been dating a girl and you can't tell if she'll accept your ring or not?

If you aren't 100% sure, what's wrong with proposing in private?

Truth is, the girl may even be interested in marrying him but may be an introvert and hates that kind of public display. Panic attack may make her say no and walk away.

The guy na mumu.

I wonder what's wrong with guys these days.

That was how one went to kneel down and propose to his girl right in church during the wedding of another guy while the couple were on the altar, just about to be joined together.

Serious embarrassment for the guy and his girl when they were stopped by the pastor.

Collecting back shoes and food there even makes it worse for the guy.

I'm sure the girl will be thanking her lucky stars that she dodged a bullet.

Buying a pair of shoes and food to entice a girl to marry you?? Frankly I'd feel insulted too if I was the girl.

In other words, he's saying that the girl is worth a pair of shoes and a plate of food.
You keep missing the point bro....you keep supporting the girl and blaming the dude as if he was dating himself. Are u God to know if a girl really wants to marry u in her heart? Can't they pretend while eating your money and everything? You think a guy would wake up one day and just propose without seeing signs? Who does that?

Now,you shifted the narrative to the girl being an introvert, how in God's name does that stop her from saying yes? She is introverted,not dumb or deaf na. She never saw a future with him and that guy quickly recounted dome losses while shaming her in the process. Who collects shoes,wigs and other stuffs from a man she never intends to marry? Does it make sense to you?

Now the last part of your story that made me doubt if you're a man is the 'the girl dodged a bullet,just because he collected his shoes and food from her'... Did he buy the shoes on that day or why the enticement statement from you? Worse off,she collected shoes and ate the food of the guy she saw no future with. Who does that if not a gold digger? That u never blamed the girl at all in this scenario made me realise how weak your logic is. I see how other men use weak logic to support the girl and I was flabbergasted. Timaya collected the car he bought for empress njamah when they fought,so what else are u saying. For a girl to collect stuff from a guy, means they are on the same page, so what is now the issue with marriage. SHe disgraced him and he disgraced her. Simple.

I fully support the guy even though he made a mistake kneeling down and proposing in public.

The only thing you said that made sense to me was the public spectacle stuff. Never my thing,nor does kneeling down to marry a woman who becomes your responsibility. We are Africans and our culture ain't like the whites. Na copy copy dey kill cat wey see himself for mirror.

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 24, 2020
Sweeetheart:
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myopic thinking


have you been embarrassed in public before? now put yourself in that Guy's shoe!. he has nothing to loose with his actions


why eat and collect a man's gift if your loyalty lies with someone else. that babe might even have 5 guys yet you novice felt the guy should all get the blames

Have you ever thought for a moment it's not about loyalties? A lady committing herself to a man is a big deal. The least you can do as a man is to reassure her and make her feel secure.
What gift is he talking of? I can bet it's not up to 500k. What gift please? These kind of guys can't help their egos.
And to answer your question I didn't get embarrassed in public because I was there for my fiancee. She knew this man would be there for here and stand by her. It wasn't a public showy proposal and she said yes. We have been happy ever since.
I still maintain that she dodged a bullet, if the guy thinks he spent too much then he's a broke ass. He can come back when he's ready to be a man

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Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by LoveThemChubby(m): 8:50pm On Feb 24, 2020
ExAngel007:
that my girl...

I believe she don't want because something about the guy is not right
super story. So the same thing that told her not to want cannot tell her not to receive abi? undecided undecided
Re: Girlfriend Rejects His Proposal. He Collected The Shoes & Food He Bought For Her by Nobody: 8:57pm On Feb 24, 2020
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