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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by osamz007: 10:16pm On Mar 11, 2020
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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by thorpido(m): 10:16pm On Mar 11, 2020
Go back to your father.Tell him all you have been through and let him know you are not going back.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by gcon21: 10:16pm On Mar 11, 2020
Run if u ha to.
Safe a life
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by money121(m): 10:16pm On Mar 11, 2020
Ok
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by israelmao(m): 10:17pm On Mar 11, 2020
When host begins to shows the rotten portion of a tuber of yam to his visitor,the visitor should be sensitive enough that is one of the signs that he has overstayed his welcome.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by moderatedguy: 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2020
donbachi:
Yes...run come my house.
U might be arrested for kidnap oo be careful
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by ednut1(m): 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2020
Another fake story

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Mar 11, 2020
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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by TechCapon(m): 10:20pm On Mar 11, 2020
Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me
if you have where to go just go and never look back. It's your life that's at stake here
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by styless(f): 10:20pm On Mar 11, 2020
na dem

My advise is that you leave as fast as you can. People are not what they seem.

Especially all these people hiding in the title of religion to commit evil.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Lastmankc(m): 10:22pm On Mar 11, 2020
lordlek:

My dear , please just endure whatever she slash at you not everything in this life is rosy as you think.

"You will be a-better-person than her daughter"
Just pray for things to turn out good for your father
You wicked pass that aunty.She should endure till she kill her.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Enskynelson(m): 10:22pm On Mar 11, 2020
Before you run, go and give TESTIMONY in her church.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by AfroKnight: 10:24pm On Mar 11, 2020
ednut1:
Another fake story

Exactly.

She has not replied one person since. Just post lie for people to be commenting and fighting over.

OP come tell us another lie.

How can a sink bring out maggots? Haba! Does that mean they have not washed plates in 5 days? Is it possible? So no cooking in 5 days? No eating? This your lie is too stupîd.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 11, 2020
Mizwisdom:
Ordinary insult? something you can be humming tunes in your heart while she's talking without her hearing it? you better get a hold of yourself. Find out what her plans are for your future. If your Father can't afford to feed you, you better relax and endure for now don't go and fall into wrong hands o, it's better than servicing 10 men in one day, be wise
Yur wise o! hmm so NL got ladies like u.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 11, 2020
Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me
and you still have a phone to post this

All this fab stories sef..
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by jeff1607(m): 10:25pm On Mar 11, 2020
When I first saw the part she refused doing the dishes wen she just got thereI just stopped reading.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by gift2xl: 10:26pm On Mar 11, 2020
Every training be it good or bad, is useful in life.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by kuverah(f): 10:27pm On Mar 11, 2020
Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me
That's Nigerian mentality for you "everyone thinks she is good person because she is pastor wife". What is even keeping you in that house? My friend go back to your father's house. This is slavery in the 21 century.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by WriterX(m): 10:27pm On Mar 11, 2020
Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me


bruh I understand the matter been there , this your own is nothing compared to what I have been through my guy , it was one can to my mom that changed it all , she told me " study and then get the hell out "

na I keep calm oh , took it all in ,got my papers and today I am done oh and out , if I tell you my own my guy u go cry tears give me lol ur own story na practical for where my own be but I learnt a lot shall , from the boy who thought Mommy is always going to be there to carter for all needs to the guy who has seen and experienced life in its hardest times , proud of it ,I got a certificate out and I know my kids won't go through what I went through, just time my friend.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Enculer2: 10:28pm On Mar 11, 2020
Stay there until they kill you and use you for church rituals. Mumu.

Sacrifice your head for them you hear.

Nairaland is not to place for advice.

Men, should stop breeding if they cannot cater for their kids.

Men learn.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by safarigirl(f): 10:28pm On Mar 11, 2020
Lastmankc:
You wicked pass that aunty.She should endure till she kill her.
Nigerians are always quick to support abuse, because most of them come from abusive homes

The entire country is filled with victims of abuse, so, they think abuse is normal, that is why that LordKO person is accusing someone of having bad character simply because she wants to be treated like a human being. A country filled with messed up people, that is why government officials and every other wimp with a sniff of power, is quick to abuse them and dehumanize them, and nothing happens in the country.

The aunty that is abusing her is a fool, how do you abuse the person cooking your meals? If That girl decides to poison their food and run away, all of them will die and nothing will happen. She has already accused her of being the spawn of a witch, after all

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by LegendaryLover(m): 10:28pm On Mar 11, 2020
suffer there quietly o jare. or go back home.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by NWANICHODE: 10:29pm On Mar 11, 2020
Since you still have the time and data to type something here, it means your aunt is doing well. Lazy Nigerian youth.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by franchasng: 10:30pm On Mar 11, 2020
Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me
The bitter truth is 99.99% of Nigerian women are like your Aunt as soon as they get married!


You that is complaining this will do worst tomorrow when you get married too.


It is a genetic trait in most Nigerian and black women that showcases its face once they marry and feel comfortable.

Majority of Nigerian women and most black women are mostly born selfish, but their selfishness and wickedness are overlooked when they are single, but once they marry and settle down, their selfishness and wickedness starts to manifest....


The only reason women are coping in this life and living in peace with one another is men! Remove men from the world, and women, black women especially will burn down the world in few minutes!!


Their badness, wickedness, selfishness and inhumane to other people's children and those below them economically/financially varies from one woman to another, based on how comfortable she feels she and her husband is.


My point is, all Nigerian and black women are wicked to other people's children, especially after they get married....so endure or relocate back to your father's house and go there and suffer it till light shines on you, but never expect any positive change from your Aunt because it is the norm with 99.99% Nigerian married women; they maltreat other people's children in their care, especially those they believe they are economically and financially better off or those dependent on them.....the only people Nigerian married women treat well are:

1.) Their husband - if he is bringing in enough money and comfort to the family
2.) Their children - these ones are the number 1
3.) Their parents
4.) Their sugar boys - the boys that service their rusted engine shocked shocked



So take heart, I have heard worst stories of how Nigerian married women treat their wards and maids and helps...its horrible, only God will reward them all....if the husband dare intervene, they accuse him of sleeping with the girl or planning to sleep with her.....which makes most Nigerian men helpless in this situation angry angry

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Martinez39s(m): 10:30pm On Mar 11, 2020
You shouldn't have told your aunt that you can't wash the plate. Life is not bread and butter, and you can't expect a woman (even a man) to treat you the same way she will treat her own children. Do anything they ask you to do and don't complain.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by safarigirl(f): 10:31pm On Mar 11, 2020
AfroKnight:


Exactly.

She has not replied one person since. Just post lie for people to be commenting and fighting over.

OP come tell us another lie.

How can a sink bring out maggots? Haba! Does that mean they have not washed plates in 5 days? Is it possible? So no cooking in 5 days? No eating? This your lie is too stupîd.
LOL, let me not tell you what I saw when I went to my married uncle's house some days ago

There are people who don't eat in their houses, yes, they will enter car and drive to a restaurant and eat there, dem no go touch one plate.

It is very possible, I believe that one die.

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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Ivebeenbanned(f): 10:31pm On Mar 11, 2020
Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me
Fake ass story. First of all, women don't say "am" instead of "I'm". Secondly, only naija men expect cooking and cleaning to be an only woman's chore. You've started dragging the woman, the husband no dey the dirty house too. Get a hobby, nigga undecided
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 10:31pm On Mar 11, 2020
The road to ur destiny isn't always smooth nd straightforward. It's always rough, narrow nd muddy. Stay there and acquire character that will sustain ur future. No man that runs away from hardwork can prosper in life.
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Chiedoziepius: 10:32pm On Mar 11, 2020
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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by LegendaryLover(m): 10:32pm On Mar 11, 2020
or come suck my preeq over here. so i can fill ur mouth with my hot cum. rubbish

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