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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Reelmii: 10:48pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
cococandy:and her father will blame buhari |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Dreyton36: 10:48pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
I understand your problem perfectly When I was younger i lived with my step sister She's the eldest though, She was very nice before I came to her house , immediately I came into her house she turned something else , I'll be the one to dispose her urine everyone morning, which is inside a lil plastic cuz she can't go out at night to pee At first I thought it was all about trying to get me trained buy I was already trained well I'll report to my mom but she will tell me to ignore and just focus , she'll even support her , but deep down she knew I was right on my complaints She wouldn't allow me to learn any hand work after school , i go to a govt school so nothing like fees I dare not near her pot of food , I'll eat only when she's home , and i dare not say I'm not ok Not until one day when her friend came visiting, she now asked her who the cute boy was , "she said I'm her houseboy " mofo oo She never knew i heard it I finally made a decision to learn a handwork after school hours which was fashion designing, when she found out she was very angry about it and even stopped talking or replying my greetings Mehn i no care ooo, i continued Until one day she came home from work , i greeted her good evening ma'am , someone i use to happily call my sister o She told me never to greet her again in my entire life Base on norse level I packed my things and left her house jejely She said I'll never amount to nothing Right now I own two cars , Honda baby boy and a camry tiny light and flying anywhere I wanna. Go The story is deeper but I'll end it here Thanks to God for not shaming us � 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Ishilove: 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
franchasng:Interesting point of view. Are your female relatives, your wife included non-Nigerians? I am assuming your answer is yes, so you must be speaking from the experience garnered from watching your female relatives maltreat other people's kids, right? 4 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
OceanOfJoy:That guy sounds archaic there's no need wasting your strength. 2 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by RulerIAm(m): 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
LordKO:That guy is right oh. Na nonsense u de talk aswear. 2 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by lamalang(m): 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Just take you Aunty as a sandpaper, she willl rub you hard but at the end of the day you will come out smooth and clean and she will be worn out. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by AfroKnight: 10:49pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
safarigirl: A stranger in the sense that she just joined the home. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by LordKO(m): 10:50pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Oluwasaeon: Bumpkin. It didn't occur to you that the person he abused could senior his parents. Now direct your further mention(s) to your fellow bumpkins. Politeness begets respect. 2 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by alexmakaay(m): 10:51pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Immediately I saw I female moniker, I gave up reading the post. Na normal thing.. it's rare to see 2 women ( no matter the age difference) live peacefully together. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by nopoverty(m): 10:51pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
It is disgusting that after ,,2 weeks in the month of March, February salary is yet to be be paid to university workers even though they have registered with ippis |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by electronic(m): 10:51pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Japa! |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
You were wrong for not helping sha. But if the story is true you had better leave, this is why I don't go to my grandparents house wicked so called granny of mine would start insulting my mom, even though my mom is not the best but still I can't stand that trash I promised never to step foot in her house again. Do the same my dear and by the way can't your father take care of you? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Butoneday2(m): 10:51pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Run and don't look back |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by vivypretty(f): 10:52pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
LordKO:I totally disagree sir. There is a reason first impression matters. The aunt made a wrong impression by literally forcing the girl to clean a very dirty sink on her first day in her house, like she was a slave. The girl equally made a wrong impression which wasn't her fault because she was seeing the aunt in the same sweet way she used to see her perhaps when she comes visiting her father, hence her outright refusal to do the work. But the aunt wouldn't have any of it because she had already planned to turn the girl into a slave from the on set. And we all know it's only a matter of time before slaves rebel. 3 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Businext: 10:52pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: I'm not directing this question to you per se But how many people support NGOs in terms of finance and manpower? We often see them as holders of donations and funds from international bodies, donor agencies and the likes. But as I've been volunteering for a number of them over these years I've come to know that they lack a lot, And these lacks make them not to function optimally. I remember I got money from someone I didn't want, instead of rejecting it, I sent it direct to the account of an NGO I knew needed money then. It's good to support your church oh, But do you know many NGOs are much more in need of finance, volunteers and other manpower. How can an NGO help this girl now? Where will they shelter her? Who'll counsel her and follow up on her? Who can liaise with her, her father and step-aunty? Please help can come from within us here in Nigeria, let's stop stretching our necks to outsiders and foreigners to send money to us and NGOs as though we as a whole nation we are a charity case. We can raise funds here Support an NGO today. I can suggest a very few- Angie Epilepsy Foundation Red Cross Rotary Club Salvation Army SAVAN Girl Child Initiative Heart for the Young Foundation Moses Adekoyejo Majekodunmi Foundation TLF AIESEC Nigeria Cerebral Palsy Nigeria And many others. Put your money and time to good use, you don't know, you or a loved one may need the help of an NGO soon #WeSupportNGOsWithIntegrity #JoinAnNGO #SayNoToWickedRelations 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by ngwababe(f): 10:52pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: Mizwisdom, psychological trauma is an ordinary insult to you? SMH 5 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by peacettw: 10:53pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
This rings a bell... Cinder Ella anyone? 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Butoneday2(m): 10:53pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Butoneday2: |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by abiolert(m): 10:54pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
donbachi:Make you give am belle abi so we go come begin debate una matter here again 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Reelmii:You self ehn |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by LordKO(m): 10:54pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
TheChameleon: Don't mind her. She said it herself that she imperiously turned down her request - I don't hold brief for her aunt though. Knowing where and when to lose honourably is wisdom. 4 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by franchasng: 10:55pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
pocohantas:Lol, if you have been following my comments, you ought to have read some time ago when I said it here that when I was young, I always fought my mom because of how she talked to our help.....to the extent she will call me out personally sometimes and apologize that its just that the girl is stubborn....and I will also ask her that are we her kids not stubborn at times, why must the girl be entirely different, because she stays with someone who isn't her parents I can also remember praising my sister for treating her numerous helps like her daughters and sons......while majority of my brothers' wives treat theirs like slaves. As for my wife.....hmm.....I am not always around to be with her anyway, but because of this issue and to avoid it, I personally told her she won't have a maid but a nanny who will be coming to work from 8am - 6:30pm monday - sunday, and maybe whenever she is not going to be on call, she can give the woman off so that the woman can work Sundays that she maybe on call. See, I forewarned her about maltreating maids, helps, poor people and other people around while we were dating....she knew what I hate and love and know her boundaries. I can ignore anything, but I cannot condone my mother or sister or wife maltreating maids or house helps or domestic staffs or any less privilege person around me....my reaction alone will make you understand, God in heaven knows I am not saying this to appear good on Nairaland, but this issue has bothered me so much even while growing up that I wrote a full novel about it and even made effort to establish an organization to stop it which didn't work out. I maybe a sinner, I maybe an evil man in other areas, but I don't play with maltreating people, especially the poor and kids. You may not understand. And you lied cos even when I join in condemning Nigerian ladies' bad attitudes, I always state it that I can never marry any other race aside Nigerian.....I may disagree with Nigerian ladies on so many issues, but I prefer them when it comes to marriage, romance and the oza room 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Ausrichie: |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by odinga1of: 10:57pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529:How old are u? Did she have kids? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Rawtruth1: 10:59pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Light and darkness can never agree. Ask yourself where you belong |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by crafteck(m): 11:00pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
How old are you |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
[s] LordKO:[/s]Just shut up abeg, you've made zero sense. 6 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by LordKO(m): 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
vivypretty: I stated clearly that I don't hold brief for the said aunt - personally, I abhor subjugation in any guise. However, it's very imperative that we tell the girl truth here. Paragraph three of her submission says it all, just dissect and extrapolate it and you'll understand what transpired between them - just forget about every other thing she said. Knowing where and when to lose honourably is wisdom. 5 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Hmph, I can relate, I had no where to go so I stayed there till after secondary school, in your case you've got parents so it's either you go back home, endure and be happy or you stay back, endure and be sad. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by franchasng: 11:02pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Ishilove:My mom use to do that before I and my siblings helped and reset her brains and she changed drastically. My sister is an angel woman when it comes to treating maids, helps and others well....she scores 100% in that area, in fact, maids don't like to leave my sister's house for real...reason she has more than 5 of them; 1 in higher institution. I have married cousins (ladies) who are demons of course! I have a cousin too who is so cute, so classy but her character is 0 and this has kept her single till date while other less pretty cousins are happily married to wonderful men and living their dream life while the other cousin of mine is busy forming classy. no-nonsense lady at 36. So I am not exonerating my female relatives from this....I have observed this right from when I entered secondary school to date and I can tell you, majority of Nigerian women are bad when it comes to treating other people's children, maids, house helps and in-laws well. If you look around you, you will see clear evidences of what I am saying, its beyond our usual men-women disagreements on Nairaland, its the fact - most married Nigerian ladies maltreat their house helps, domestic staffs, poor people around them and in-laws |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Arsenate:Rightly said. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by LordKO(m): 11:03pm On Mar 11, 2020 |
Viking07: A typical bumpkin. Direct your further mention(s) to small-minded people like you. 1 Like |
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