cococandy:
I blame your father

franchasng:
The bitter truth is 99.99% of Nigerian women are like your Aunt as soon as they get married!


You that is complaining this will do worst tomorrow when you get married too.


It is a genetic trait in most Nigerian and black women that showcases its face once they marry and feel comfortable.

Majority of Nigerian women and most black women are mostly born selfish, but their selfishness and wickedness are overlooked when they are single, but once they marry and settle down, their selfishness and wickedness starts to manifest....


The only reason women are coping in this life and living in peace with one another is men! Remove men from the world, and women, black women especially will burn down the world in few minutes!!


Their badness, wickedness, selfishness and inhumane to other people's children and those below them economically/financially varies from one woman to another, based on how comfortable she feels she and her husband is.


My point is, all Nigerian and black women are wicked to other people's children, especially after they get married....so endure or relocate back to your father's house and go there and suffer it till light shines on you, but never expect any positive change from your Aunt because it is the norm with 99.99% Nigerian married women; they maltreat other people's children in their care, especially those they believe they are economically and financially better off or those dependent on them.....the only people Nigerian married women treat well are:


So take heart, I have heard worst stories of how Nigerian married women treat their wards and maids and helps...its horrible, only God will reward them all....if the husband dare intervene, they accuse him of sleeping with the girl or planning to sleep with her.....which makes most Nigerian men helpless in this situation

OceanOfJoy:
I read her post and see a young girl (At least she can't be up to 23) depressed about what she's going through at her aunt's house. Where's the conceited attitude in her post?

LordKO:


Say hello to your lunatic parents and direct your further mention(s) to them.

Bumpkin.

safarigirl:


She's not a stranger, she's the help

Oluwasaeon:

State of this man. He just had to bring his parents into this... smh

LordKO:
You've a very bad character. Eschew conceit if you wish to progress in life. I don't care whether your aunt intentionally left her house dirty or not prior to your arrival there - I don't hold brief for her in anyway though - but the fact that you disobeyed her request to clean the house, out of conceit, says a lot about how bad your character is. Obedience is better than sacrifice hence more glorifying.

Citing your said conceited attitude a lone, I don't have any reason to believe that your aunt is evil as you've painted her - only her husband can make me to believe otherwise in this regard.

funmisticqueen2:
Mehn!! I am tempted to tell you to embarrass her in her church. But I haven't heard her side of the story

But running away is not your solution.

Is there any NGO who can help this girl?

Mizwisdom:
Ordinary insult? something you can be humming tunes in your heart while she's talking without her hearing it? you better get a hold of yourself. Find out what her plans are for your future. If your Father can't afford to feed you, you better relax and endure for now don't go and fall into wrong hands o, it's better than servicing 10 men in one day, be wise

Butoneday2:
Run and don't look back

donbachi:
Yes...run come my house.

Reelmii:
and her father will blame buhari

TheChameleon:
Excellent comment.


You can only imagine how she refused the order sef. Probably in a nasty manner.

If she wants where she can behave as she wishes, sorry she should have stayed in her dad's house

pocohantas:


This was how you deceived your fellow alfa males on this forum. Nigerian girls are olosho, no good girl in Nigeria, they are all parasitic.


Last last, you succeeded marrying the ONLY good woman in Nigeria- after your mother and sisters. Well done o. I will be waiting to read how your lovely wife is different, AS USUAL.

Ausrichie:

That guy sounds archaic there's no need wasting your strength.

Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

LordKO:


How you and me go take know say she be young adult as she no come tell us her age. And if she be young adult self na that one go vex me pass citing her conceited attitude. Whatever she has passed through afterward that incident is punishment proceeds of her first offense.

I don't still hold brief for the aunt

vivypretty:

I totally disagree sir.
There is a reason first impression matters.
The aunt made a wrong impression by literally forcing the girl to clean a very dirty sink on her first day in her house, like she was a slave.
The girl equally made a wrong impression which wasn't her fault because she was seeing the aunt in the same sweet way she used to see her perhaps when she comes visiting her father, hence her outright refusal to do the work.
But the aunt wouldn't have any of it because she had already planned to turn the girl into a slave from the on set.
And we all know it's only a matter of time before slaves rebel.

Ishilove:

Interesting point of view. Are your female relatives, your wife included non-Nigerians? I am assuming your answer is yes, so you must be speaking from the experience garnered from watching your female relatives maltreat other people's kids, right?

Arsenate:

This guy go just dey blow grammar everytime. Sometimes he makes sense, sometimes he sounds so dumb even with the big big English. This is one of the times you sound so dumb sir.

Rightly said.

Viking07:
[s][/s]Just shut up abeg, you've made zero sense.