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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by jmoore(m): 10:18pm On Mar 17, 2020
Neither does a borehole guarantee a stable marriage.

You said the husband was giving her hell. So what's the correlation with virginity and hellish husband?

I choose a virgin 1 million times over a non-virgin.

Those that use the phrase 'virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage' are usually borehole lovers.

You hardly see anyone saying 'non virgin doesn't guarantee successful marriage'. Your dislike for virgins would always show no matter how hard you try to mask it.
Nonsense!!

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by bonnyhope: 10:18pm On Mar 17, 2020
Where can you even find the virgins these days b4 you talk of marrying them

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ALABACONNECT(m): 10:18pm On Mar 17, 2020
This is like the difference between new and tokunbo. You could try both and get the difference

For your Tokunbo smart TVs, ACs and Soundsystems, check my signature

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:18pm On Mar 17, 2020
Choose your suffering jejely.. Marry virgin u go suffer marry olosho u go suffer. Choose to nor marry or raise family u go suffer, choose to marry raise family u go still suffer las las. All life is suffering.. Sense adapted 4rm the subtle art of not giving a fvck.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:18pm On Mar 17, 2020
This topic again??

Stop discrimination against Virgins!! Don't be a sexual debutist!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked undecided

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Akinbahm(m): 10:18pm On Mar 17, 2020
Lamanii22:
Can we say that "virginity" is an added factor coupled with good character...

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Kingspin(m): 10:19pm On Mar 17, 2020
Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala. grin grin

It's a food for thought.
That is why society rate good character both from man or woman as best possession.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Clyod: 10:20pm On Mar 17, 2020
I know of male virgins who got married to non-virgins.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Humphrizy(m): 10:20pm On Mar 17, 2020
ImaIma1:


Some ladies become oceans after that first week. After that you will go and look for another non-ocean. cheesy

The elasticity differs in different women.

Does it mean that Hooke's law can't be obeyed in dx case ? undecided
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Jman06(m): 10:20pm On Mar 17, 2020
Story for the gods!

Meanwhile, we know that virginity doesn't guarantee stable marriage but CHANCES are higher that marriage to a virgin lady would be more stable than that of an overused hoE.


Thank you

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by aluwong: 10:20pm On Mar 17, 2020
Well said and nicely put..... virginity is lost in one day......all the other factors you have to deal with for the rest of your life.
Really! D virginity lost in one day can as well be a bigger issue than ALL THE OTHER FACTORS PUT TOGETHER which u have to deal with all the rest of your life too shocked, depends on how u choose to see it.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by iswallker(m): 10:21pm On Mar 17, 2020
samtinx:
grin lastly no sister would encourage her brother to go for a non-virgin,and no mother would encourage her son to marry a non-virgin

So they were asking if she's a virgin or not... Be uase I am nkt understanding.. undecided
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Seunallly: 10:22pm On Mar 17, 2020
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̷̷S̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷l̷̷o̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷i̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷p̷̷p̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷i̷̷r̷̷g̷̷i̷̷n̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷1̷̷1̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷g̷̷o̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷f̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷l̷̷i̷̷s̷̷s̷̷f̷̷u̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷u̷̷r̷̷n̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷s̷̷u̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷l̷̷l̷̷o̷̷w̷̷e̷̷d̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷p̷̷e̷̷n̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷t̷̷i̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷a̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷e̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷i̷̷d̷̷;̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷s̷̷s̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷i̷̷d̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷i̷̷v̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷o̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷h̷̷y̷̷s̷̷i̷̷c̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷m̷̷o̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷a̷̷r̷̷i̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷i̷̷r̷̷l̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷l̷̷a̷̷u̷̷n̷̷t̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷c̷̷e̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷S̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷q̷̷u̷̷i̷̷t̷̷e̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷T̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷i̷̷r̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷r̷̷e̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷g̷̷e̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷o̷̷u̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷n̷̷t̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷n̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷e̷̷n̷̷u̷̷i̷̷n̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷o̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷a̷̷d̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷m̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷e̷̷e̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷t̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷u̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷r̷̷e̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷m̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷j̷̷u̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷t̷̷u̷̷n̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷r̷̷o̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷s̷̷
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̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷s̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷p̷̷p̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷a̷̷r̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷5̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷d̷̷)̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷v̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷a̷̷r̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷y̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷c̷̷h̷̷o̷̷o̷̷l̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷t̷̷t̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷a̷̷r̷̷t̷̷i̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷t̷̷c̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷i̷̷r̷̷g̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷a̷̷c̷̷t̷̷u̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷i̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷o̷̷n̷̷a̷̷l̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷I̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷u̷̷r̷̷p̷̷r̷̷i̷̷s̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷i̷̷g̷̷h̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷l̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷v̷̷e̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷l̷̷f̷̷i̷̷s̷̷h̷̷)̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷M̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷o̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷L̷̷a̷̷d̷̷i̷̷e̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷a̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷a̷̷i̷̷n̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷g̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷r̷̷a̷̷l̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷a̷̷r̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷u̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷i̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷i̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷h̷̷o̷̷l̷̷d̷̷;̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷o̷̷r̷̷t̷̷r̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷s̷̷e̷̷l̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷u̷̷i̷̷t̷̷a̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷o̷̷u̷̷g̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷"̷̷w̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷l̷̷"̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷M̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷y̷̷n̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷c̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷m̷̷p̷̷l̷̷e̷̷x̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷a̷̷i̷̷l̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷t̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷o̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷k̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷a̷̷r̷̷i̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷c̷̷e̷̷t̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷i̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷x̷̷u̷̷a̷̷l̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷j̷̷u̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷)̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷o̷̷o̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷p̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷p̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷a̷̷r̷̷t̷̷n̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷s̷̷e̷̷l̷̷f̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷D̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷V̷̷i̷̷r̷̷g̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷i̷̷c̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷h̷̷o̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷u̷̷s̷̷b̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷e̷̷s̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷y̷̷w̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷u̷̷a̷̷r̷̷a̷̷n̷̷t̷̷e̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷o̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷f̷̷e̷̷c̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷(̷̷f̷̷a̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷)̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷a̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷p̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷h̷̷a̷̷p̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷i̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷f̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷i̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷a̷̷r̷̷i̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷c̷̷e̷̷t̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷i̷̷z̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷i̷̷z̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷o̷̷n̷̷a̷̷l̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷a̷̷r̷̷i̷̷s̷̷m̷̷a̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷i̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷n̷̷s̷̷i̷̷b̷̷i̷̷l̷̷i̷̷t̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷t̷̷c̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷k̷̷e̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷a̷̷g̷̷a̷̷c̷̷i̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷n̷̷e̷̷s̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷o̷̷o̷̷s̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷p̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷p̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷a̷̷r̷̷t̷̷n̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷n̷̷s̷̷i̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷m̷̷p̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷t̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷.̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷J̷̷u̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷o̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷g̷̷h̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷f̷̷u̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷i̷̷n̷̷d̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷u̷̷m̷̷i̷̷n̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷u̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷!̷̷!̷̷
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̷̷T̷̷h̷̷a̷̷n̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷v̷̷e̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷u̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷i̷̷m̷̷e̷̷.̷̷
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by SoNature(m): 10:23pm On Mar 17, 2020
FrLukas:
It promotes trust.

Besides, if the lady doesn't have any other dick to compare yours too, it's most likely she won't complain that yours is weeny.

She won't be missing her ex's dick.

And that's a good thing.

It's a two-way thing

Some ladies prefer the not-too-big ones

They would even break up with a guy because of the size

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Newnas(m): 10:24pm On Mar 17, 2020
Mrpsly247:
Choose your suffering jejely.. Marry virgin u go suffer marry olosho u go suffer. Choose to nor marry or raise family u go suffer, choose to marry raise family u go still suffer las las. All life is suffering.. Sense adapted 4rm the subtle art of not giving a fvck.

Life is hard without money. Life is hard with money. Make everybody choose him own hardness.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Tripleoluwa(m): 10:24pm On Mar 17, 2020
A newly wedded couple around my neighborhood many years ago divorced a day after marriage, simple because the wife lied to be a virgin. But uncle discovered on wedding night that madam is not. Na there gobe start.

Uncle kept it on the low but madam wouldn't let him go to work as she would beg n block him from entering his car in the morning. Na there neighbors realize say this new couples dey quarrel o. Normally, people interfered; asked bro Nelson the 411 on the issue.

The painful thing for me is the babe na fine, matured lady. Such lie should be told to boyfriends not husband in the making. The nascent marriage ended a week after.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Jman06(m): 10:25pm On Mar 17, 2020
unmask:
I am not interested in marrying a virgin.....most are usually not adventurous and socially awkward.
Me I'm honestly interested in marrying a virgin.

I don't need any adventures in my marriage and my sociability can serve the two of us.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:25pm On Mar 17, 2020
SoNature:


It's a two-way thing

Some ladies prefer the not-too-big ones

They would even break up with a guy because of the size

Only if she's a virgin o.

If monster-sized dicks have turned her kini into an expressway, your dick might just feel like it's being thrown down a hallway any time you chook it inside.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Yusfunoble(m): 10:26pm On Mar 17, 2020
COVID - 19.
This virus � has infected 2 Doctors in Seattle and New Jersey . They are both on Ventilators. Both used all the Recommended precautions . 1 is a 47 year Old Emergency Room Physician and the other is a 77 yr Old Senior Attending Physician who was ironically in charge of preparing the Hospital Covid-19 response.
I will share a video I took yesterday when I returned to work in the USA ��. My arrival at Atlanta Airport was a shockertp me. The crowd at the Immigration was like 1/40 th of what it usually is. Nigerians were about 40 % of the people passing through immigration.Only 3 Airplanes arrived early in the Morning.Usually there are a whole lot more.We need to be very very very careful. Among the Arrivals with me was a Briton and a few Europeans who came through Lagos paid the e- Visa fee and Purchased a second ticket � to the USA Via Delta Airlines. I was alerted by this because with my Delta Airlines HVP status,I can see the sold seats and available seats when I book or rebook my flight which I did.Then there were a fair Number of available seats in all 3 sections.To my surprise there was a queue at the Delta Check in Counter, as I was checking in I asked the Delta Staff what was going on with so many new passengers.The Delta staff said “ A lot of passengers from Europe are flying to Nigeria to catch Delta flights to the USA. That is a serious lapse in our Security. That means that people from high COVID-19 areas are transiting through Lagos using the e- Visa loophole designed to ease buisness travel and raise foreign currency.
That is a ticking time bomb.
I hope someone on this forum can bring it to the appropriate authorities and put a stop to this untill we know where this virus is heading. I want to share a video I took so that people will know what we are dealing with. We in SWNigeria have to prepare as if the Virus COVID-19 � is already here and Nigeria ��has already lost an eminent Pathologist in Italy ��.
Parties are banned in many States in the USA, Schools are shut down, today Restaurants can only serve “ Take away Customers “, no sit down and order food. So we have to start shouting as SW Nigerians because if COVID-19 will do havoc in Nigeria, the SW of Nigeria is where it is most likely to start.
John Mabayoje MD
3/16/20
USA ��"

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by okpalaAnambra: 10:26pm On Mar 17, 2020
Neither does whoring about do

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by okpalaAnambra: 10:27pm On Mar 17, 2020
Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100
Neither does whoring about does

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by DozieInc(m): 10:27pm On Mar 17, 2020
Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100

MISGUIDED POST.

As if marrying a virgin was the cause of her marital challenges.
A virgin under same conditions holds an advantage over a non virgin any day.

The problems could be non of her fault. Imagine what a non virgin in same conditions would do...

Ridiculous post by OP

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Sweeetheart(m): 10:27pm On Mar 17, 2020
I can't marry non virgin, she won't enjoy the marriage with me. I think it's height of insanity to pay Bride price of a non virgins because bride price is a symbol of value and if your virginity is lost before then, abeg where is the value?


virginity guarantee happy home or not, it's the business of the Op impression. so because your friend had issue with her marriage means virginity doesn't guarantee happy marriage?


your friend husband look outside because your friend didn't up her game. perhaps she didn't have sex drive or dress seductive to her man. 88% of virgins are like that but as a man that's proud to marry brand new lady must see it as his responsibility to influence her emotions

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by AreaFada2: 10:27pm On Mar 17, 2020
ufotty2001:
That is how one told me that I most marry her before I will have se.x with her..
If na true virgin I nor mind.

The one wey dey vex me pass na those who call themselves secondary Virgin. Wtf. You got straffed by all manners and sizes of divks for good 10 years and suddenly start forming virgin. shocked

99% of the time they still straff other guys outside. But form virgin for the church brother who is courting them towards marriage.

At times the mumu brother only finds out that she's a community sperm reservoir when she suffers abortion complications and fighting for her life in hospital. grin

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ndcide(m): 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2020
Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100


Rubbish!!!!!!
This stupid thread is for your ilks. Whatever message you think you want to pass, can be passed without bringing virgins into the narrative.

It shows hollowness to try to admonition virgins who have decided to take a noble path, with a general idea that should apply to all.

Keeping your virginity is an icing on the cake, it's a crown to the head of anyone who successfully took that path.

Non virgins are not better than virgins.

Treat character and attitude issues on its own, don't bring virginity to it, especially if you don't respect it.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2020
Promiscuity before getting married doesn't guarantee a stable marriage either. Do what works for you

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Ademoore07(m): 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2020
ImaIma1:


Some ladies become oceans after that first week. After that you will go and look for another non-ocean. cheesy

The elasticity differs in different women.
Chaiii. Should we apply Hooke's law to the matter on ground?

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by LaExpert: 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2020
Please mention one thing that guarantees a stable marriage.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ibkayee(f): 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2020
I think people who make a conscious effort to keep their virginity and are able to do it are worth commending

As for the virgin hunters:

People aren’t one dimensional, being a virgin doesn’t automatically guarantee anything but not having first hand experience.

You can be a virgin and have a nasty attitude, dress ‘sexy’, etc and all those other attributes people who obsess over virgins think are mutually exclusive. You can also appear ‘modest’ and have multiple sexual partners lol

If you’re just looking for tighter vagina however and aren’t expecting her to come as a 50s housewife, you’re definitely the more realistic of the virgin hunters and are more likely to find what you’re looking for

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Onlyonebuhari: 10:29pm On Mar 17, 2020
If u marry a non virgin lady, then you are a goner. Virgin lady will make u be like a king and they will play with you. U will never satisfy a non virgin lady. I detest them with passion!
If u can't keep your virginity then u can safeguard your husband properties.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:30pm On Mar 17, 2020
Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100
Great! I think the most important thing is for both of them to be of good conduct, not each, involving God first is of utmost importance (don't come for me over this, I have the right to have my belief) and lastly, as much as some folks are clamouring for virgins have also never had sex then that's great. Marrying a virgin is wonderful, at least you know say nobody don dey there but it doesn't even guarantee a peaceful home, a virgin can also eventually cheat in the marriage. Those who aren't virgins should also be careful of how, when and with whom they have sex
I happen to know a guy who married a virgin, Nigga still relishes the first time he had sex and the girl he had sex with undecided. In all, being supportive, being each other's peace, being good listeners, ability not to keep grudge with one's spouse, resolve matters asap, build each other, not be violent in any form and not cheat dey important!!!

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Onlyonebuhari: 10:30pm On Mar 17, 2020
bonnyhope:
Where can you even find the virgins these days b4 you talk of marrying them

You aren't a Muslim that's why you are talking like this. Muslim women know the punishment for adultery is hell fire so they keep their chastity except a non religious ones. Am in love with two sisters and they are both virgins.

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