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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by SoNature(m): 10:31pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
FrLukas: I think we tend to hype sex Many girls out there don't really enjoy it for one reason or another Those are the kinds of girls who don't fancy big things 9 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by pocohantas(f): 10:31pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Neither does not being one guarantee a stable marriage. I find this topic as ridiculous as people telling me to marry a man that doesn’t have good money because money doesn’t guarantee a good marriage. Please choose your own battles o. Virgin or no-virgin. If both parties have sense, they’ll achieve considerable success. 28 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Adeagbo77: 10:32pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Vega100:It's a matter of choice or available lady within your reach. Whether virgin or non-virgin the best thing that can happen to a man is to get a good well-mannered and cultured wife. If that's complemented with a nice and responsible husband, the marriage will be an enviable one. All the same, there's nothing as sweet as marrying a virgin with qualities of a good wife. Any time, any day that man would continue to cherish her. I am talking from experience. When I met my wife as virgin, I gave her special gifts and bought a big ram for her father. Ladies don't be deceived, you would be more appreciated by your husband if you marry as virgin. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by walexy06(m): 10:34pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Me that want to marry a virgin, am I even a virgin? Please no need to live double standard life.. Let virgins go for virgins n others as dey please. One thing I know is, all virgins are ugly, I am a living example. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:34pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
@op. With all due respect, people like you tend to miss the point entirely. Like I told someone earlier on another thread, think of it this way; a degree in a profession (think engineering, architecture, accounting, medicine) does not guarantee that the holder will be an outstanding professional. He could be good or he could be lousy at his profession; it all depends on other factors. However, lacking a degree in his profession most certainly guarantees that he won't be good at that profession. Likewise, virginity on its own does not guarantee a stable marriage; true, but lack of it almost certainly guarantees an unstable marriage. Just as a degree is the basic requirement when presenting your cv for a job application, virginity should be the basic requirement for marriage. Our forefathers knew what they were doing when they used to celebrate the stained white cloth on the marriage night. They weren't doing it for fun. 25 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by okpalaAnambra: 10:35pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
utenwuson:Arrant nonsense...Neither does whoring about guarantee good home..but a virgin does 9 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by BadBradley: 10:35pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Vega100:prolly a dumb thread from an insecure OP trying to do covert social engineering to promote retired hoes 18 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by walexy06(m): 10:36pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
utenwuson:If you no off you wicked. The woman no go fit close her mouth.. I am a virgin yen yen yen yen yen |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by okpalaAnambra: 10:36pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
emkz:That's if only the prostitutes are always good and virgins always bad as u guys generalize 7 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Munzy14(m): 10:36pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Korllami007: 7 Likes
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 10:37pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Korllami007:Guy, your brain is intact. 12 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ramon212: 10:37pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Did your friend meet him when he already had a job(doing well) ? |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ksstroud: 10:38pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Baseless and rubbish post... 11 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
So much kids on this forum,reducing a woman's morality to between her legs.. When you comment they will say you have a lose kitten if you are a lady and a Simp if you are a guy...lol 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ksstroud: 10:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Korllami007: Where you dey make I dash you 2Chilled bottles of your brand with Nkwobi... Don't mind the pointless post... 8 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by NextD18: 10:39pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
What an interesting thread! Comments here gives me hope that men are getting wiser. Keep the comments coming! I'm highly impressed! 24 Likes
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by samtinx(m): 10:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
SoNature:I believe in all the paternity and the "DNA saga, that men have been falling victims to,off lately have never come from marrying a virgin. 10 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Munzy14(m): 10:40pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Exactly... from the story the lady is a virgin, but character might be her case.. 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by samtinx(m): 10:43pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
ImaIma1:Yes they do sweetheart,and that's why premarital sex is not encouraged at all, from where I come from and what we believe 9 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 10:44pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
ALABACONNECT: Lol. After pointing out that Tokunbo is not as good as new, you come advertise your Tokunbo TVs, ACs and soundsystems. Oga you be bad marketer o. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by angelfallz(m): 10:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
unmask:How many virgins have you met? 8 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Seunallly: 10:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
pocohantas: 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by bisoye11(m): 10:45pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
To swear for this op just dey hungry me..infact, why come online to air your devilish opinion. The reason for majority of broken home now is because of infidelity,if a virgin can't keep a home ,what guarantee a non virgin been better? Infidelity is a sin and a curse to this generation and this applies to both gender. 11 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by fullblast(m): 10:46pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Marriage is all about crisis management. Are you a good crisis manager? That should be the topmost requirement before delving into such serious Union. Virginity has nothing to do with it. Just like the op, I'm not promoting promiscuity. Way back in school, I know a lady who kept her virginity but loves anal s3x and 69 position. Is this one a Vee? Lol! But She's married now. At least I know something the husband will never know. I just pity those that have fetish for Vees. You can't be certain that it's tested or untested Ok. Lol! Experience, they say, is the best. Most of the outgoing ladies end up marrying the best husband materials. Remember, I didn't say ALL of them. My advice: Build up yourself in all ramifications. Do not stick to handouts only because life is a jig-saw puzzle. Prove most things (DO IT YOURSELF). This will earn u firsthand experience. Hence you become a better crisis Manager to EASILY overcome the twists and bends in life. 4 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by angelfallz(m): 10:46pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Dpharisee:I swear my mind went in that direction too. 9 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by bukatyne(f): 10:47pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
unmask: And adventure & social unawkwardness can't be learnt? I agree with the OP that Virginity doesn't guarantee good marriage: lack of doesn't either. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by angelfallz(m): 10:48pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Ayoswit:Compatibility is what you're looking for. However, for me I'll be looking for a lady I'm compatible with among virgins. 19 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by samtinx(m): 10:50pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
iswallker:next time you try to quote/correct me, please make sure you, might have read through and understand the topic and my own personal opinion which is expressed in the comments section.And if you don't understand my opinion keep on reading it until you get there. |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by 02Kebreal(m): 10:50pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by NextD18: 10:50pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
angelfallz:Smart! 16 Likes
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by angelfallz(m): 10:50pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Long and short of your story. The best type of woman to marry is a virgin that you're compatible with. 13 Likes |
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